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achillesreborn · 2 years

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here's to every trans masc who just had the "big haircut". you look amazing <3

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p4nishers · 9 months

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can we talk about how much queer and trans joy was this season? maggie and nina. they/them muriel, saraquel, beelzebub, even GOD. "you're a good lad" "im not actually, either". that one shopkeeper and his non binary spouse, played by a non binary actor. beelzebub and gabriel. shax, nina and maggie all thinking azi and crowley were together. also yes i'm gonna mention: crowley and aziraphale's kiss. it's just, i get that everyone's hurt and so am i but can we please focus on how beautiful this season was to us? we got so much and i'm so happy, despite the ending.

#i love queer people i love queer joy i love this show i love us sm #also crowley deliberately avoiding using 'mr' in the 1827 flashback cause she was SO CLEARLY presenting fem #this season was literally just queer people doing crazy shit for each other and im actually emotional over how accepted everyone was #in the show and how fucking easy it is to have queer and trans characters on screen and just let them be. im gonna ugly sob #good omens #good omens s2 #azicrow #good omens season 2 #good omens s2 spoilers #go s2 spoilers #go spoilers #go s2 #ineffable bureaucracy #ineffable spouses #i just realized god is actually they/she but that's cool af too #AND ELSBETH AND WEE MORAG TOO WOOOHOO GO SAPPHICS

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fiapple · 1 year

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as a bisexual with a complicated gender identity, i just think that's so sexy and intellectual of me actually. if you are also a bisexual with a complicated gender identity just know we should be sharing a nomination for a nobel prize rn.

#bisexuality #bisexual #trans tag #nonbinary #butch #femme #fem #agender #genderqueer #xenogender #genderless #genderfluid #bigender #lgbt+#bisexual positivity #gender #also hi amber this doesn't mean im less sorry about being annoying. it just means its also fun.#5k

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shrimpchipsss · 2 months

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every night

#with variations #but also every night by EXID for the vibes #they are together! do not separate!#intricate rituals #rule 63 #ive decided that this is trans #genderbend #lesbingqiu #fem!shen qingqiu #bingjie #luo binghe #shen qingqiu #sqq #lbh #bingqiu #scum villain #svsss #described #fem!luo binghe

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transmascissues · 10 months

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building off of this post, people love to say that “trans men want to keep going into in women’s spaces after they transition because they just want to have the best of both worlds!” but in my experience, there are four main reasons that a trans man might use a “women’s space” after they transition:

it’s an important resource that’s being arbitrarily gendered and we need to use it regardless of which gender is “supposed to” be using it.

it’s a public facility where we’d be significantly less safe in the men’s version and we have to choose our safety over our desire to not be misgendered.

it’s a social space that we’ve been in since before we transitioned and we don’t want to suddenly be cut off from our friends and support system.

the trans man in question is multigender and is also a woman, or maintains some other kind of connection to womanhood alongside their manhood.

do any of those sound like “evil men rubbing our dirty little hands together making plans for how we’re going to get male privilege without losing access to women’s spaces” to you? they sure don’t to me!

i think it’s pretty reasonable that we want to transition without losing the ability to access the resources we need, keep ourselves safe, keep up the relationships we’ve built, and express all facets of who we are. all of those are really, like, pretty basic parts of having good life and we shouldn’t be expected to give them up when we transition.

and honestly, if you claim to care about trans people, you should not be so attached to the gendering of these spaces that you’re willing to deny trans men those things for the sake of upholding gender restrictions. anyone who prioritizes the sanctity of gender segregated spaces over the safety, health, and well-being of trans men is a fucking transphobe. (yes, even if you’re trans yourself.)

and that’s what really gets me about all of this — the vehemence with which people are willing to defend those spaces being entirely and inflexibly gendered, despite how enforcement of gendered spaces has hurt trans people time and time again. gendered spaces have literally always been set up in ways that force trans people to break the rules; some trans men might break those rules in ways that don’t make sense to you, but that doesn’t mean it’s wrong for us to do so! it just means you might feel weird about it and that’s okay, discomfort won’t kill you.

“but using women’s spaces after transitioning to male defeats the purpose of transitioning! the whole point of transitioning is to be able to live as a man!”

and who are you to tell trans men what the point of our transitions should be? what if the purpose of us transitioning is just to live the happiest and most fulfilled life possible, and forcing ourselves into unsafe spaces or denying ourselves access to important resources or cutting ourselves off from important people in our lives or pushing down the more complex parts of our genders would “defeat the purpose of transitioning” for us? what if being able to go where cis men go is just one part of a much bigger journey, not the end goal?

if you really want to talk about “defeating the purpose,” let’s talk about how policing which gendered spaces trans men can access defeats the purpose of trying to stop cis people from policing which gendered spaces trans people can access, because it allows the policing of trans people in gendered spaces to continue in some form instead of eliminating it altogether. let’s talk about how using “evil men invading women’s spaces” rhetoric against trans men defeats the purpose of trying to stop cis people from using it against trans women, because it allows the rhetoric to continue in some form instead of eliminating it altogether.

the point of saying “let people decide which gendered space is right for them” isn’t to make sure everyone uses the one aligned with their “true gender,” it’s to let people do what’s best for them without punishing them for their choice. sometimes the best choice is one that seems wrong from the outside, and you need to learn to live with that.

i just think we as a community need to be more hostile toward people who think upholding the sanctity of a gendered space is more important than giving trans people the freedom to move through the world without being punished for existing in those gendered spaces. that kind of thinking is fucking dangerous and it’s weird as hell that some of y’all are so comfortable with it being directed at us.

moral of the story: stop giving so much of a shit about where a trans man decides to piss or see a doctor or hang out or whatever else. even if you think he doesn’t belong there, he probably has a good reason to be there anyway, and that reason is frankly none of your damn business.

#im SO tired of this bro #like just shut up why are you so worried about this #i promise the big bad trans men arent here to hurt you. were just living our fucking lives #our mere presence is not a threat to you any more than yours is a threat to us #and even if you dont give a shit about us. this thinking leaves the door wide open for transmisogyny to join the party #so like. if you wont shut up for our sake do it for the trans women&fems who also get fucked over in the end #transandrophobia #transandromisia #transmisandry #virilmisia #virilphobia #anti transmasculinity #transmascphobia #trans men #transmascs

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whaliiwatching · 7 months

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a rendezvous beyond

and a halfway closeup just bc im rlly happy with how the bg turned out lol

#spider man: across the spider verse #spider punk #spider noir #hobie brown #noirpunk #SPIDER LESBIANS!!!!!!!!!!#they are both trans by the way #rebluvio also draws lesbian noirpunk go check that out!!!#but ive been wanting to do my own fem designs for a while haha #then. finally. brown-spider gave me the perfect inspiration #FAT BUTCH TRANSFEM NOIR CANON (im lov her)#i wanted to keep hobie’s usual wicks but then she just looked like. regular hobie #she got her hair down for a date but yall better know its in a pineapple most of the time lol #i like the power move of not changing their names for genderswaps so they’re still hobie and peter #maybe short for something longer idk #anyway they are the wlw couple of all time #classy girls who kill fascists… like what more could you even want #theyre still also nerdy dorks tho its intrinsic to their characters #cw alcohol #i guess?? since theyre in a bar?? sure #spiderdykes

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s1llycilantro · 2 years

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Amy let tails borrow some of her old clothes!

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foryoupeko · 8 months

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drawn by @hajihiko

I would like to remind everyone the main point of this comic was that Fuyuhiko is a sweetie true yakuza boss who has the inherent desire to take care of people!

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doberbutts · 2 months

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Tera's trans fem and this block list is published by a self-identified "TME trans masc" to get rid of "transandrobros" and I feel like the whole "listen to trans women" thing gets tossed out the window when it comes to trans fems who disagree with them at this point 🤷‍♂️

#also what happened to the other trans fems and trans neutrals that've been involved in this conversation???#and why just Tera???

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yooniesim · 1 year

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transmasc cc masterlist

hi! after getting a few asks about it, I wanted to make a quick list of cc I use for my transmasc sims. I hope it’s useful! 💜

binders

edited ea binder by @ice-creamforbreakfast

accessory binders by @ratboysims

functional binder by @pigeonhome

functional binder recolor by @maxiematch

functional binder recolor by @standardheld

binders by @schmapple

accessory binders by @valhallansim

chest binder accessory by @sparrowcc

clothing

basic tee by @pigeonhome

vintage button up by @pigeonhome

suit by @pigeonhome

jerseys by @pigeonhome

crop top by @pigeonhome

hoodie/sweater/jumper by @pigeonhome

boxers by @pigeonhome

boxers accessory by @pigeonhome

boxers accessory (strap on version) by @glammoosecc

essentials collection (2 versions) by @nucrests

scars

top surgery scars by @ratboysims

top surgery scars by @mnlvlz-sims

top surgery scars by moody bagels

male trans scars by @cloudy-simmer

top surgery scars by @nihilisims

top surgery scars part 2 by @simreaper

top surgery scars by faaeish

top surgery adornments (tattoos) by faaeish

facial & body hair

all natural body hair by me

leg hair for fem frame by @mando-cc

fem frame body hair by @afternoonzephyr

facial hair for femme frame by @deelitefulsimmer

beards as skin details by @isaax-sims

facial hair by @goopsims

upper lip hair by @marigolde

bodies & skin details

necessity skinblend by me

body mesh by dumbaby (❗nsfw❗)

body details by wildguy (enabled for men by me) (❗nsfw❗)

body mesh & gender unlock by @simdulgencemods (❗nsfw❗)

presets & sliders

flat chest presets by @saruin

androgynous presets by @saruin

the tits sliders by @ssspringroll

neck slider by @luumia

mods

lgbtqia mod by lumpinou

cas breast & pregnancy option by maars

#ts4 #the sims 4 #ceci's stuff #sims 4 #masterlist #cc masterlist #sims cc masterlist #wcif #trans cc #ts4 lookbook #anything anyone has in addition is welcome #also if anyone has any cc ideas/requests for their trans boys im always happy to try #so just let me know #would like to get simdulgences meshes working a bit better with fem frame guys #so i might try that at some point

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biracy · 6 months

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I can't remember if I've posted abt this before but regardless: I'm sorry but I really and truly cannot get behind the idea that there is any wide-scale societal "pressure for trans men to be feminine" or "to be twinks" or whatever. You are either conflating a very small online community's beauty standard (usually some kind of transmasc pseudo-appropriation of "femboy" aesthetics, which yes, are often Bad and regressive and fetishized and etc.) with Mainstream Society, or confusing society not wanting trans men to transition with "wanting trans men to be feminine", which are certainly not the same thing. Ultimately if a cis person believes there is any validity to the concept of being trans (i.e. not a Posie Parker-esque "there's no such thing as a trans person" type), they are more likely to think that trans men should be like as masc and buff and hairy as possible or whatever bc that's what cis people think men look like and it's easier for a lot of people to recognize someone who Looks Masc as a man. It is difficult sometimes to see derision of trans guys who are Too Feminine and Not Hairy Enough or whatever (which is not always something someone has control over btw) as anything but "this is Skye who I think is a confused little girl because Skye does not pass" slightly restyled for 2023 "filthcore fagdykes" or whatever lol

#and btw 'twink' is not synonymous with 'skinny' that's not all it means i am so so so tired of seeing it used that way #i am also tired of like Positivity Posts for 'bears' needing to be based on derision of 'twinks'. get over that!#open mick night #lgbt #gender #god this is like that post where op is like It's sooooo hard being a trans girl who wants a vagina bc that's not the mainstream :pensive:#is it not? mainstream society decided women can have dicks? since when?#let men be masculine or whatever #sorry i know i've been talking abt this a lot lately but yknow it Is difficult. given the way i look and all that #like people keep saying that elliot page tweet was Actually About Body Type but like. is it? or is it about I Don't Think Elliot Page Passe #also tbh people say the same shit abt cis men. 'people are okay with Fem Queers(tm) but not Masc Queers(tm)' wow are they? since when?#and are the people telling men they're not allowed to be masculine in the room with us right now

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horse-head-farms · 4 months

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Cleo and her various t4t relationships

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cyellolemon · 26 days

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HAPPY TDOV i couldn't not post Olive my beloved <33

(he/him)

#As trans Olive is so important to me #ofc he's very much an indulgent self insert but a part of me i really gave him is the trans & homosexual identity #I put a lot of my struggle and frustration in him #You know all the shit that comes with being a trans man who is also fem/gnc and gay #Well it makes Olive a very important blorbo to me and the one i wanna post for today!#anyway don't you think he's pretty!!!! i love him sm <33 #trans people ily hope you had a nice day :)#trans day of visibility #trans artwork #my art #oc art #digital art #oc artist #Olive #tdov #tdov 2024

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shrimpchipsss · 2 months

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you should have raised a baby girl

#I SHOULD HAVE BEEN A BETTER SON #lesbingqiu #rule 63 #this can be trans or cis but also like. it's mcr mama......#genderbend #fem!shen qingqiu #fem!luo binghe #shen qingqiu #sqq #luo binghe #lbh #scum villain #svsss #described

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somdxr · 7 days

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Hello!! Umm would you draw a transfem she/he Gramble pretty please?

first bugsnax request YAYYY

i was a lil stumped on this at first, cause i wasn't exactly sure on how to exude her trans fem realness but my friend recommended that i drew her with a comically large pronoun pin as a joke and i was like.. hol on you're onto something... which led to this HELPPP

i know it's a lil doodle but i still hope you like it!

#i really need to draw gramble more #also changed her tail from the og ref to show off his. beaverness idk HELPP #somdxr draws #i think i had a asks tag but. i forgor #FDBJLDF #bugsnax #bugsnax fanart #gramble gigglefunny #also trans fem gramble is so real i did a hop and a skip when i saw this ask cause this is literally my hc for her too HELEPEL

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majimasleftasscheek · 1 year

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#been seeing a lotta stuff on twt about characters who are trans and not at all passing #and that is so SO important to me #passing has always been a hurdle for me in my flip floppity genderfluid space and it took me a long while to accept that I just don't #and that's okay #when I wanna be masc or fem no one can tell me I'm not enough for either #I am what I wanna be #also nishida's not being hurtful here on purpose btw #he just doesn't get it and it's important to acknowledge ppl learning and growing rather than only vilifying them #fucking novel in these tags lol #yakuza #ryu ga gotoku #majima goro #my art #goromi #nishida

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