So, my spouse has been exploring his gender lately; he also just built himself a new laptop. Today he told me that he in an attempt to process some genderfeels through metaphor, he made a post on a trans forum along the lines of: "I'm a lifelong Windows user and I think I'm pretty good at it. I want to find out what Linux has to offer but I'm afraid I wouldn't be any good at it. And how do you choose the right Linux distro, anyway? Do you have to try them all?"
The responses, he said, were a mix of useful advice about feeling out your gender and useful advice about choosing a Linux distro.
I love trans people so much
Edit 4/8, in case you don't see the reblogged additions -- my wife is now going by Eve!
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i want every trans kid out there to know there is hope, you will grow up and become a trans adult, you’ll be a trans elder someday and give hope to future trans kids, just keep on hanging on
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as a bisexual with a complicated gender identity, i just think that's so sexy and intellectual of me actually. if you are also a bisexual with a complicated gender identity just know we should be sharing a nomination for a nobel prize rn.
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i wish ppl didnt shit so hard on (transmasc) bottom surgery man. i feel like i wouldve looked into a metoidioplasty a lot sooner if i hadnt seen all of the negativity and stigma surrounding phallo and metoidioplasties. but as soon as i actually looked into it i realized it was something i want! extremely bad! and i feel like a lot of other transmascs would want bottom surgery if they actually knew more about different types and results
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I really genuinely deeply passionately need people to stop seeing mpreg as this gut-wrenching disgusting joke of a thing in general
But especially if you consider yourself a trans ally or even trans acceptor.
Trans men can and do get pregnant, this is not a vile joke, this is not a disgusting vomit inducing thing. This is just pregnancy, and the outrage, performative or not, that occurs when it is even mentioned in passing is fucking detrimental to masculine trans folks.
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specific pet peeve is when ppl talk about how xenogenders/neopronouns dont hurt anyone and their example is always something along the line of 'a 14 year old using neopronouns'. some of us are adults guys it just feels infantilizing when you always describe our group as made up of teenagers 😭😭😭
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Meepooh Wasita: Just a amazing transgender woman from Thailand wearing a smashing red dress! And her hair...OMG is absolutely perfect! Her makeup is perfect too.
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always interesting how the same people who when i was a girl insisted that shaving is a personal choice that no one should ever judge you for are now the very same people who, now that i’m not a girl, will fucking RANT about how i and other transmascs/men are gross and lazy for not shaving the neck beard
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the "woman and nonmen" crowd makes me so upset as a bigender person. some people will see my genderqueer womanhood and cheer me on right up until they realize that the genderqueer part of my identity does in fact come from my manhood
like i cant wrap my head around how a lot of other trans people dont see anything wrong with defining nonbinary identities with binary terms
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