"I'm sorry I vented and took up your time with my bullshit" ❌
feeds abandonment fears, implies having needs and being helped with them are wrong, makes it all about you
"Thank you for being patient with me through that, I appreciate that you took the time" ✅
shows your gratitude, affirms your affinity, no "using up" anybody's effort, makes it about you both as equals
"I'm sorry I dumped without checking consent first. I need to act respectfully and ask for your permission before I vent" ✅
"I'm sorry I said x, that was inappropriate of me to put on you" ✅
"Was it okay when I said x the way I did?" ✅
"Would you like to place a boundary around that?" ✅
"What could I do/say instead that's healthier for us both?" ✅
correct an actual wrong, seize due accountability, consider their rights as much as yours, make amends, work to correct missteps going forward
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Why am I such a fuck up?
All I ever do is fuck things up. My life, my friendships, any relationship I had in the past. Something is wrong with me, I'm a curse.
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that feel when your old comfort videos have clips like this in them and you have to reevaluate the last four years again
fuck wilbur soot and go support shubble
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theyd be okay if i killed myself theres so many people hat could take my place and be better than i ever could
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anons are off get your moment from somewhere else
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I feel like everything I say is a waste of peoples time.
~ Like nobody fucking cares what you have to say so shut your fucking mouth ~
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I’m just achievement hunting in Goat Simulator why da hale do i suddenly want to write a crackfic abt these ‘romancible’ characters?!?!
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Help
I feel so alone and so shit. I don’t deserve to be alive. I’m so fucking pathetic.
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I feel like a fat ugly burden who only spreads hurt and pain and I fucking hate myself so much
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I’ve been stealthily eating the green areas near the hole in golf courts(? I think they’re called courts) so that they may close and I’ll be able to eat raw venison in the overgrown plains once more.
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I feel I need to make friends... but I struggle cause I feel like a failure when it comes to friendship... I always ruin them or say something stupid....
Just so lonely and need some people to talk too. But scared to reach out.
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Hey guys, what do you do when you suck at absolutely everything, including all your hobbies? Asking for a friend.
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