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concealthefeelings · 2 years

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so many of you self-sabotaging fucks out there craving for someone to really truly love you, just to go and push away the one person that actually wants to give you all that. that’s not protecting anyone, that’s just a shitty choice you’re making. so go get your person, before you’re too late. this is your sign.

#love #pushing away #push and pull #love quotes #this is your sign #relationship #quotes #quote #mine #feels #melanchonic #breakup #letting go #moving on #unrequited love #self sabotage

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xashtray · 2 years

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I'm sorry, I'm so sorry. I wish this could stop. I wish I could reach out. I wish I could take your hands. I wish I could talk and listen. I wish I could function. I hate this and I hate myself for doing this. I really hate myself for being like this. I want this to stop, I do, I really do. But I'm so sorry, I have believed that I am better off alone. I have learnt my whole life that my loneliness is my only friend. That being alone means nobody hurts me and I hurt nobody. It's not that I thought you would hurt me, it's just I have been scared of everyone and everything for a long time. I'm scared of being left alone and abandoned and I believe that it's better if I walk away first. And that makes me being the one leaving, so it will hurt less for me. I'm sorry for not reaching out. I'm sorry for pushing you away. I'm sorry. I really am.

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nocturnal-desolation · 2 months

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Pro Tip: Not ignoring or pushing away the people you like/love helps a lot if you don't want them to leave you.

#pro tip #ignoring #pushing away #people #love #friendship #relationship #should be obvious but sadly isn't #thoughts

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its-all-coming-back-to-meme-now · 2 years

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#just a poet guy #distance #pushing away #introverted #self isolation #burden #war with myself #life quotes #love quotes #relationship quotes

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mental-health-advice · 1 year

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Any advice on reconnecting/reconciling with friends you've pushed away and/or been distant from after being more ill for a period of time? Thanks :)

Hey there,

I can really relate to this as I seem to be so good at pushing others away and especially when I am doing badly and really struggling with life.

I guess the best thing you can do to reconnect with those you have pushed away or become distant to is to just send them a txt message or email (or contact them how ever you feel most comfortable doing so) and just explain to them that you have been struggling and part of you struggling is that you push others away, sometimes without even noticing doing it. You do not have to go into details about your struggles or why you may have lost contact for a period of time but apologise to them and let them know that you can’t promise it won’t happen again but that you will try to stay in contact the future and just ask them to be patient with you and perhaps even send you a message now and again if contact suddenly stops asking if you’re OK or that they hope that all is well.

I cannot promise that all your friends will reply or wish contact to resume but at the very least you would have tried and done all you could have done to reconciliate the friendship with them. The reason why I have pointed this out is because I have been in a similar situation to you and not all friends have replied to my wish to reconnect. And although this may hurt a lot you have to remind yourself that you cannot make others be in contact if they do not want to be. Like maybe they have moved on in their lives but this does not mean that they would have forgotten you and all the great times you guys have spent together.

I really hope that this has helped a bit and please do not hesitate to let us know if we can help to support you in any other way!

I’m thinking of you and hope that you are going well!

Take care,

Lauren

#mha-lauren #advice #mental health #mental health advice #anonoymous #friends #pushing away #reconnecting

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inappropriate-feelings · 2 years

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I can only say thank you for pushing me away and letting me go. It brought me to much better places and people. I’m actually really happy now.

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kittenmeow4050 · 1 year

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#poetry #spilled words #aesthetic #pushing away #words of the broken

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x-selfcare · 2 years

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Why do I push people away even though I'm lonely?

#im dumb lol #lonely #pushing away #let me sleep

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triskelion-soda · 2 years

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NOTHINGS WRONG

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runawaymarbles · 2 months

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The thing I keep coming back to, with all the *gestures expansively* is that real life doesn't have peaceful epilogues.

Every single win has to be defended. Forever. I'm sorry. It sucks. The Nazis lost until they stopped losing. The US had abortion rights, and then 50 years later it didn't. Empires fall, and then they invade other countries again. Oppressive regimes are overthrown and replaced with other oppressive regimes. You will never finish the work etc etc etc. Which is why it's so fucking important to be able to acknowledge and celebrate progress, when it happens. The people who came before you didn't put in all that work for nothing, and you aren't, either. You can't save it all for the Ultimate Victory because there is never going to be an Ultimate Victory. There's no such thing as a time when everything is good, and ours shall not be the commune of Heaven.

#rambling #like by all means always push for more #but man you gotta be able to note the small victories too #and you have to be able to step away for a bit when you need to because there's never going to be an Ultimate End #op

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minyminymo · 17 days

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I realised today, I take everything too serious which is holding me back from experiencing and enjoying many things

#Too serious #Back #pushing away #enjoy #who am i

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xashtray · 2 years

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i want to beg people to never leave me, beg them to stay here with me no matter how fucked up i am. i want to show them my jealousy, my obsession, i want to scream and just go crazy when they don't give me enough attention. i want them to know that i need them so much. i need them to be here with me, for me. to love me, want me, to obsessed with me, to care about me, need me too. everything that makes me feel seen, wanted, loved, cared about, so i can feel good about myself. i want them to validate myself. it doesn't matter if they might only hurt me, if they just wanna use me, they just see me as a crazy stupid bitch. i don't care. i will do anything, i will be down on my knees, i will cry and beg, i will do any fucking thing just to make them stay, just to make them love me, just to make them see me.

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bet-on-me-13 · 25 days

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Vampire Misunderstanding

So! Danny got adopted by Bruce Wayne, but he doesn't know that Bruce is the Batman. He is just supernaturally oblivious to all things Batman related going on in the House.

But he does notice that Bruce leaves home a lot at night, that he doesn't like to go out in the day and often has his parties at night, and once or twice he's caught Bruce with a bit if blood still splattered on his cheek.

So he comes to the only plausible conclusion. Bruce is a Vampire.

He starts trying to hint at the fact that he knows, but doesn't want to just go out and say it. What if Bruce reacts negatively to him knowing? He's dealt with enough Supernatural Beings to know that they don't like other people (and especially other supernatural beings) intruding on their lives.

So Danny decided to subtly hint at it.

He started asking questions like "So hypothetically, how would you deal with having a Garlic Allergy in Gotham?" Or "So if you had very sensitive skin that could sunburn extremely easily, how much cloud cover would you need to go outside?" And "So what's your opinion on a High-Iron Diet?"

Basically just tossing out questions and trying to Guage Bruce's reaction.

He thinks he's doing a good job!

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Bruce is certain that he has adopted a Vampire.

Danny is a good kid, but he has a few oddities that are hard to ignore.

For one, his skin is constantly Ice Cold, but he never seens to be bothered by it. As if he was an Undead that didn't require Body Heat anymore.

He also seems to like Hanging out in the Graveyard outside, and when asked about it he says that he is comforted by the place. Just like the Vampires he has met in the past, who feel comfortable when surrounded by Death.

And of course the biggest reason for suspicion is the fact that Danny seems to be hinting at it to him.

He keeps asking stuff like "How would you deal with a Garlic Allergy in Gotham?", probably trying to hint that he is a Vampire who can't eat Garlic, or asking about easy to sunburn skin, saying that he is probably not a Daywalker.

Bruce hopes Danny will just come clean about it soon, he doesn't want to intrude upon the kid when he is so obviously nervous about how he will react.

#Dpxdc #Dp x dc #Dcxdp #Dc x dp #Danny Phantom #Dc #Dcu #Danny thinks Bruce is a Vampire #Bruce thinks Danny is a Vampire #Misunderstandings #Danny is nervous about it because he has a bad experience with Vampires (vlad)#Bruce is nervous because he doesn't want to push Danny away #The Fenton Parents are still alive #They just lost custody of Danny after a CPS worker stumbled upon Amity and had an aneurysm #Jazz is off to college #Though idk if she went to Gotham U or some other College in a safer part of the country #Coincidentally neither Danny or Bruce actually like Garlic #And they both like to stay indoors #And both of them have caught the other with drops of blood on their faces and/or clothes #Idk where the other Batkids are #Maybe Danny was the first kid adopted by Bruce in this timeline?#Or the others are just coincidentally not in thr house at the moment

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nat-20s · 1 year

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I'm not aromantic but I believe in their beliefs

#trying to push out amatonormativity from at least their little corners of the universe...they are So Right for that!!!!!#also i say im not aromantic but tbh honestly tbh im probably on the aro spectrum #'who were all of your childhood crushes! who was your first love that you definitely already had! how many times have you fallen in love!'#um. uh. well. you see. *knocks over a glass of water and runs away*

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gravitysoda · 26 days

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refusing an impossible wish and settling for one last game of chess.

#p5 #persona 5 #shuake #akeshu #p5r #persona 5 royal #goro akechi #akechi goro #ren amamiya #akira kurusu #joker #joker persona 5 #soda art #the artbook gave me brainrot and the strength to make a COMIC. extreme rarity for me #akechi in 3rd sem having a wish to play chess with joker in a world where theyre both happy and are able to lead normal lives is just...aug #but the fact of the matter is that he can't have that without sacrificing his free will and everything he stands for #so in this scenario i thought he could ask for a small microcosm of that wish #at least he gets another game with joker - even if he wants to play many more he'll settle for just one #they still can't play together without the baggage and without akechi feeling that he's burdening ren #but at least it's something. at least akechi gets to spend a little more time with him #and akechi makes a concerted effort to push ren away in the 3rd sem to avoid attachment #so this would be a “selfish”/vulnerable request on his part since it's something he wants but is sentimental #and will only make it harder for ren to lose him in the end #ANYWAY !!! they make me crazy <3

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ghost-bxrd · 28 days

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Prompt:

Dick Grayson is put on mandatory vacation by a concerned BPD and finds a plane ticket booked to Germany in his mail the next day.

(“I am concerned for you, master Richard,” Alfred says when he calls to tell him Bruce can shove his charity right up his- “please do indulge this old man and allow yourself a break?” He doesn’t deserve a break. He needs to keep working or he’s going to come apart at the seams just like Bruce and- “… okay, Alf. Okay.”)

And… it’s nice, Dick will admit. No looking over his shoulder every two seconds, no fear of missed calls, no vigilantes.

Only an idyllic landscape, the hustle and bustle of foreign cities, Jason-

Wait, JASON?

#jason is there on a training gig #neither planned on running into the other #pre red hood #pre identity reveal #dick thinks he’s hallucinating but then Jason pales and starts sprinting away and pushing people out of the way #jason and dick #and oh hell no if this is real—#if this is REAL #oh god please let it be real #jason todd #batfamily #dick grayson #batfam #red hood #Nightwing #prompts #robin

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