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Always with Taemin🧡
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Happy Birthday Jiung!!!🖤🐹🖤
#jiung#p1harmony#01 line#choi jiung#what a cutie#our ace#best boy jiung#much love#HappyJiungDay#AllRounderJiungDay#100722
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based on the stories you’ve all been sending, this seemed appropriate lol
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“Other people have it worse—“ there are also other people who have it better and I’m sure those other people would meet both our stories with concern. Think about that before you say I need to be oppressed more to be valid
#aromantic#asexual#aro#ace#aroace#aro discourse#genuinely so weird that people in our own community want us to be oppressed more#That feels like the opposite of what we should want
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asexuality is not an inconvenience. it isn't a burden to change your conversation topics to avoid making a sex repulsed asexual feel uncomfortable or unsafe. it isn't about you if an asexual romantic or life partner does not want to have sex. it's none of your business if an asexual person has frequent sex, or makes money off of their body or sexuality. it's not an attempt to manipulate you when an asexual/aceflux person has fluctuating levels of sex favorability, neutrality and/or repulsion.
someone else's asexuality isn't about you, it is not inherently overstepping your boundaries. forcing the asexual person to cope or deal with things that make them uncomfortable or go against the way they want to live their lives is overstepping their boundaries, and people need to accept this.
#asexual#ace#lgbtqia#queer#lgbt#asexual spectrum#acespectrum#acespec#greyace#greysexual#grey asexual#demisexual#cupiosexual#aroace#aspec#aspectrum#our writing#aceflux
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good morning, asexual community! [the entirety of tumblr]
#good morning to EVERY TUMBLR USER EVER [hyperbole]#i love how every ace person flocks to tumblr. it’s our calling. our little hive where we spread our ace agenda#asexual#ace#ace pride#acespec#aspec#my meows
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Truly experiencing the opposite of a gay panic, the aro/ace dread, when I think somebody has a crush on me
#like I’m flattered but also makes me very uncomfortable#I totally borrowed aro ace dread from#@our-aroace-experience#aromantic#asexual#demiromantic#demisexual#graysexual#grayromantic#joke#but also true
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by @d3adlyb0i and me :)
#the fun part is watching our descent into madness#ace attorney#valentine's day#ace attorney valentines#phoenix wright#miles edgeworth#mia fey#maya fey#larry butz#dick gumshoe#ema skye#manfred von karma#franziska von karma#klavier gavin#apollo justice#will powers#trucy wright#beanix#godot#aa godot#simon blackquill#athena cykes#aa judge#.pyro#pyro.txt#memes#f slur cw#f slur#i know it's a day late but we were on a date the day before so you may have these now :)
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Aroace in a way that’s inseparable from relationship anarchy. Aroace in a “getting rid of the legal institution of marriage” way. Aroace in a “romantic/sexual attraction is irrelevant to me in the first place because I actively choose to deprioritize the romantic/sexual/nuclear family ideal of relationships in my life” way.
#our post#aro tag#aromantic#asexual#aroace#relationship anarchy#aro#ace#actually aromantic#actually asexual#actually aroace#anemone’s post
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he forgor
#aa4#im on an agst streak tonight i cant help it our klav is in co front#ace attorney#what trauma did he have who knows pick your poison#i think its scarier to leave it to your imagination#im just the concept artist#gavin brothers#kristoph gavin#klavier gavin#phoenix wright#aa4 fanart
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October 22-28 is Ace Week 2023, so I’d like to give a spotlight to some manga I have enjoyed that have also touched on asexuality.
I Want To Be A Wall by Honami Shirono
A 3 volume Josei manga about the lavender marriage between Gakurouta, a closeted gay man who pines for his childhood friend, and Yuriko, an aromantic, asexual BL fangirl.
She Loves To Cook, and She Loves To Eat by Sakaomi Yuzaki
An ongoing yuri Josei manga with a TV adaptation about two women who bond over food. The series recently introduced Yako, an asexual lesbian, and it’s possible that protagonist Nomoto may be on the ace spectrum as well.
Is Love The Answer? by Uta Isaki
A single volume josei manga about Chika, a young college student who has always considered herself an “alien” because she has no desire for romance or physical intimacy, but finds community with people like herself.
Our Dreams At Dusk: Shimanami Tasogare by Yuhki Kamatani
A 4 volume Seinen manga about a closeted gay boy who gets to know the patrons of a drop-in center who all turn out to be part of the LGBTQ community. Someone-san might be considered a deuteragonist of the story.
I’d also like to mention two yuri manga I haven’t finished yet- I have only read the first volume of both- but because of what others have said I know they feature asexual characters!
Catch These Hands! (murata)
Doughnuts Under a Crescent Moon (Shio Usui)
#asexual#ace week#aromantic#aroace#gay#mlm#wlw#seinen#josei#josei manga#gl#yuri#i want to be a wall#honami shirono#she loves to cook and she loves to eat#sakaomi yuzaki#is love the answer?#uta isaki#our dreams at dusk: shimanami tasogare#yuhki kamatani#catch these hands!#murata#doughnuts under a crescent moon#shio usui
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"asexual discourse" is so funny cause dude that's not discourse and it's never been discourse. it's not an argument and it's not a conversation bitches are just yelling at us unprompted and then making up people to get mad at 😭
#exclusionists will act like they're in the fucking trenches when they're posting#as if they're not taking the time to walk into someone else's community without provocation and start being nasty.#saw a post the other day that was saying smth aphobic and was like 'it's true and we should be allowed to say it'#babe nobody's Stopping you. you can say whatever the fuck you want.#thing is though that when you say shitty things. people don't typically like it <3#anyway die mad sorry that you fell for heteronormativity and amatonormativity and assume both to be the norm.#i'm gonna keep creating community with other queer people and you are more than welcome to go off and die alone <3#also if you're fr going into ace discourse in the year of our lord 2024. jesus fucking christ get a hobby#aromantic#aromanticism#arospec#aroace#aspec#talking#asexual#ace discourse#ace exclusion
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Today is the 6th of April, which is International Asexuality Day - so, shoutout to all the ace selfshippers out there!! I hope you all have a great day today ^-^
#heart of the void#selfshipping#selfshipping positivity#this post is okay to reblog if you want to#ace selfshipping#asexual selfshipping#are those tags people use I am not sure#I’m realising I’ve written this very.. distancedly? considering I am also ace ahaha#but it’s our day!!! =D
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hey, aro and/or ace people
garlic bread!!!
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Sometimes I feel normal and then I remember that Peeta is canonically the only person Katniss found truly attractive. And she married him.
#everlark#katniss everdeen#peeta mellark#they invented soulmatery#and also our girl is definitely demisexual argue with the wall#i could write a whole essay on how her attraction is informed by trauma but perhaps i should just write a fic instead#also. no. being traumatized doesn't make her any less ace-spec thank you <3
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someone not experiencing romantic attraction is not harmful. someone not wanting to be in relationships is not harmful. someone who does not want to have sex with others is not harmful. someone who does not experience sexual attraction but has sex is not harmful. someone who likes to date but doesn't want to cuddle and verbally express love is not harmful. someone who doesn't feel romantic love but enjoys making others happy in relationships is not harmful.
aromantic, asexual and other aspec experiences are not "bad" experiences, they are part of the gradient of ways in which all humans experience our complex social, romantic, familial, queerplatonic, and other relationships. someone is not harming others if they are choosing to engage, or not engage, in activities based around their individual needs in those relationships.
that is healthy, and to be embraced and celebrated, and above all else, we need to have our boundaries respected first and foremost, and not to be made to feel like we should change to benefit others.
#asexual#aromantic#lgbt#lgbtq#queer#aspec#aspectrum#aro#ace#greyromantic#greyro#greysexual#aromanticism#asexuality#our writing
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