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flowering-darkness · 6 days

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wishing all lesbian selfshippers a very happy Lesbian Visibility Week this week!!! ^-^

#I will probably make another post on the day itself (which is always the 26th of April)#but my friend let me know that this is a thing for the week that day falls in as well!!#heart of the void #selfshipping #selfshipping positivity #this post is okay to reblog if anyone wants to #just please be aware of my boundaries (e.g. by checking my carrd) before doing so

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singeryuri · 6 months

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Ykw quick shout-out to selfshippers who for any reason dislike the popular ships in whatever fandom their f/o is from. Shout-out to everyone who has to block a bunch of ship tags or who can't go into their f/o's tag without seeing some kind of ship art they dislike or feel uncomfortable with.

Your discomfort is fully valid and you know your f/os best! They adore you, no matter what the fandom says, even if there's a lot of people who say otherwise or ship them with other characters, I promise.

pro.shippers this doesn't apply to you, get out

#[🪼] talking #selfship #selfship positivity #selfshipping #selfshipper positivity #selfshipping community #selfship community #selfshipper #self shipper #self shipping #self ship #fictional other #selfshipping positivity #this totally wasn't brought into my mind by me remembering that mi.noha.ru and ru.ika.sa are some of the most popular ships in pj.sk what #do you mean. what. ehe.#but this also applies to soo much other stuff and fandoms and stuff. man.#but as i said uu obviously know best about your f/os alr? no matter what the fandom says. no matter what :]

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selfindulgentfandomstuff · 12 days

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How about some positivity to combat all the bullshit stuff happening in my (and probably everyone else’s) life right now?

(Also I don’t really know how to make this all aesthetic and stuff but I think it does not matter bc I don’t wanna detract from my point anyways!!)

SHOUTOUT TO ALL THE SELFSHIPPERS WHO FEEL UNDERAPPRECIATED AND OVERLOOKED!!!

SHOUTOUT TO…

- selfshippers of color (ESPECIALLY black selfshippers, you shouldn’t have to put up with all the bullshit you have to deal with in the selfship community and other fandom spaces and your f/os would NOT stand for it, they would absolutely call anyone out on their racism)!!!

- mixed selfshippers of color as well (your f/os would love learning about all aspects of your heritage)!!

- transmasc selfshippers!!

- transfem selfshippers !!! (You gals also deal with so much bullshit and I want so much better for you and so do your f/os, they will ALWAYS hype you up for being the beautiful woman you are!)

- gay selfshippers!!!

- lesbian selfshippers !!

- bisexual, pansexual and other m-spec selfshipper s!!

- asexual, aromantic and aroace spectrum selfshippers !!!

- intersex selfshippers !!! (I see so little rep for you guys, I hope we can change that!! Your f/os would never ask you invasive questions without your consent and they would always support you against anyone who was weird to you about being intersex!)

- selfshippers whose f/os ‘don’t match’ their real life orientation (your real life identity is NOT invalidated by your attraction to fictional characters)!!

- queer selfshippers who don’t feel like typical and conventional labels fit for them!!

- physically disabled selfshippers!!!

- neurodivergent selfshippers (especially cluster B folks, the hatred I see directed at you is just awful and I desperately want people to stop acting like your flavor of neurodivergence has any effect on your morality. Your f/os wants to learn as much as your willing to share about your neurodivergent self and how to better accommodate you) !!

- selfshippers with intellectual disabilities !!

- selfshippers who don’t feel included in American and Eurocentric imagines, be they about physical features, seasons or cultural aspects!!!

- selfshippers who are ‘older’ (you are NEVER too old to selfship, it makes me so happy to see selfshippers past their 30s bc it reassures me that could be me!) !!

- selfshippers with fem f/os (so few imagines centered around fem f/os.. we need to change that)!!!

- fat selfshippers!!

- selfshippers with not ‘conventionally attractive’ features like acne, moles, stretch marks, self harm scars, etc (these are NOT ugly features but even if they were, you are still a person deserving of respect and kindness)!!!

- tall selfshippers who don’t feel included in most self insert imagines where the f/o is taller than the reader insert!!

- PLEASE PLEASE ADD MORE IN THE REBLOGS!!! If I forgot and didn’t include you or someone you care about, please reblog with that addition!! I want to see ALL of the amazing people the selfship community is comprised of!!!

PROSHIP/COMSHIP/‘NEUTRAL’ DNI

#selfship #selfshipping #selfship positivity #selfshipping positivity #self ship #self ship positivity #selfship community #selfshipping community #self ship community #f/o community #I dearly hope I didn’t make anyone feel excluded if I did I promise it was not my intention!! I just am very mentally disorganized lately :

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kruxband · 8 months

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shoutout to aro, ace, and aroace selfshippers. we're the coolest and most awesome people ever btw 🫶🫶

[pro/comshippers DNI]

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killemwithkawaii · 3 months

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Dear depressed/ executive dysfunction-having/ etc. selfshipper,

Your f/o wants you to shower.

No, not because they think you're gross or smelly, but because they know you'll feel at least a little bit better once you're clean.

They won't judge you if its been longer than you'd like to admit since you last bathed.

They won't show revulsion when they see how unkempt your nails or hair or skin has become as a result of inadvertent neglect.

They won't shame you or think less of you for having difficulty with doing what 'should' be a basic, simple act of self-care. Your [f/o] understands that sometimes, 'easy' things can become difficult, for one or many reasons. They love you, and all they want is for you to be comfortable and healthy. A good shower will help you with both those things.

If [f/o]s gentle encourgement isn't enough to get you to tackle the task on your own, they're glad to help as much as you need them to- they'll turn on the water to your preferred temperature, help you undress, hold your hand to keep you steady when you step over the lip of the tub, wash your hair for you, gently scrub down wherever you're comfortable with them touching, make sure all the soap is rinsed off, gently dry you off with a fresh, soft towel, and help you get dressed in clean, sensory-friendly clothes....

"... there we go, [y/n].... it was hard at first, but it wasn't so bad once you got in, right? ... Good, I'm happy to hear that... You look like you're feeling better already..." 🚿💕

#k.e.w.k. writes #f/o imagines #f/o positivity #selfship imagines #selfshipping #fictional other #selfshipping positivity #tw mental illness #tw unsanitary #YES i wrote this for me and YES i feel so much better now that im squeaky clean 😩👌💯✨️✨️✨️✨️#so im posting it in hopes it will help someone else do the same 🫶🛀✨️#get scrubbin my stinky brethren [/gender neutral + affectionate] *mwah* proud of you~ 🧼✨️

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come-imagine-with-me · 5 months

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Brown-skinned selfship positivity

Applicable for f/os of all types (QP, Platonic, Romantic, Familial)!

Brown skinned selfshippers of any ethnic background and any shade/hue, please think of your f/os (of any type) marveling your ability to handle the sun better than they can if applicable- maybe they like to call you sweet things like "sunbeam" or "sunflower" :>!

Also think of them being mindful to help protect your skin by helping you apply sunblock bc melanin ≠ complete protection from the sun lol

#tex talks #poc selfship #bipoc selfship #f/os come do this challenge #selfship community #selfshipping community #self ship positivity #selfshipping positivity #imagine your fo #romantic f/o imagines #familial f/o imagines #imagine your f/o #platonic f/o imagines #imagine your queerplatonic f/o

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selfshipping-userboxes · 1 year

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[id: a light pink userbox with a pink border and pink text that reads “ this user loves their f/os and loves talking about them! ”. on the left is an image of a white heart with a pink background. /end id]

#soft userboxes #soft userbox #selfshipping userbox #f/o userbox #selfshipping community #selfshipping positivity

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chillyneon · 2 months

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I like that the ficto and selfship community has only continued to grow since ye olde days of internet.

I remember that fictosexual wasn't even a major term, so there wasn't much of a way to look for others. Hell I remember getting dogpiled a couple times for using the term because people assumed it was attention seeking. So I couldn't use the term and find any actual results for many years.

We all just kinda stood around thinking we were the only people like this, and maybe there's something severely wrong because no one else feels this way. Hell, even when asking my therapists they thought self shipping sounded like a wonderful thing for me and coping with trauma or stress. So being unable to find others like me was so frustrating because I just wanted to know I wasn't fuckin alone in my passion for fiction.

That was like, 20 years ago, the Internet has exploded since then. And now look, the community has grown so much, selfshipping is more common enough we can actually find content on a tag filled to the brim. We can fucking TALK about self shipping and being ficto and attracted to fictional characters. Hell, just able to say I'm fictosexual feels nicer than it did years back. Is everything perfect for us? No, people can still be douches and say mean things, but we have far more folks doing their best to spread the fun things about being ficto and self shipping.

It makes me smile that I can type in ficto or selfship and be witness to the gorgeous menagerie of people loving their F/Os or folks saying their fav things about self shipping. To see people going feral over their loves and gushing about every detail. Seeing folks finding themselves and exploring their ficto feelings, seeing people create things because they love their F/Os so goddamn much. It just makes me happy to see it. Things aren't perfect, but I'm glad we're all able to find that we're not alone.

You're not alone or weird for loving fictional characters, there's plenty more of us out there and you don't have to stop when you get older. It's not just a phase for many, it's how we are and how we love and you don't have to grow out of it. I'm in my goddamn 30s and the only thing that's changed about my selfshipping is I got even more F/Os to love from the past few decades.

It's just nice to be ficto knowing others are also out their loving and selfshipping with fictional favs. <333333

#selfship #self ship #selfshipping #self shipping #selfshipping positivity #reader insert #self insert #fictional other #ficto #fictosexual #s/i x f/o #SELFSHIPPING IS SO GREAT PLEASE AND THANK YOU #fictosexuality

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void-kissed · 1 year

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Today is the 31st of March, which is also the International Trans Day of Visibility - to all trans and nonbinary selfshippers, I’m wishing you a great day today ^-^

#a call from the void #selfshipping #selfshipping positivity #shoutout to my friend for making me aware that this was today!#once I read about what it was I wanted to make a post so I hope that this is alright

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morexlapis · 3 months

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Shout out to the POC selfshippers with POC f/os!

A lot of times when we talk about POC selfshippers, we always talk as if we only have white f/os.. which is very wrong..

• shout out to the POC selfshippers who f/o characters of the same race as them!

• shout out to the POC selfshippers who f/o characters of a different race!

• shout out to the POC selfshippers who f/o characters of the same race but of a different culture from their own!

• shout out to POC selfshippers who f/o other POC in general! Your f/os love you very much!

[ incest shippers please do not interact with this post ]

#arwa’s tea party! ☕️#selfship positivity #self ship positivity #selfshipping positivity #self shipping positivity

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satellite-of-self-love · 1 year

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🌸 It's okay to fixate on multiple F/Os at once 🌸

#f/o #fictional other #f/o positivity #self ship #self shipping #f/o stuff #selfship positivity #selfshipping positivity #f/o comfort #f/os

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flowering-darkness · 22 days

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Today is the 6th of April, which is International Asexuality Day - so, shoutout to all the ace selfshippers out there!! I hope you all have a great day today ^-^

#heart of the void #selfshipping #selfshipping positivity #this post is okay to reblog if you want to #ace selfshipping #asexual selfshipping #are those tags people use I am not sure #I’m realising I’ve written this very.. distancedly? considering I am also ace ahaha #but it’s our day!!! =D

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tiny-cloud-of-flowers · 7 months

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I have a question for everyone, if that’s alright:

What’s something that you’re proud of in your selfships, and why?

This is an opportunity for you to talk about it as much as you would like to, whether it’s one thing or several! Please feel free to gush about your achievements ‘til your heart’s content - I’d love to hear what people’s answers are ^-^

(Anyone is welcome to reblog this post if they want to, as long as my DNI is respected!)

#heart of the void #selfshipping #selfshipping positivity #..sort of?#reblog game #this post is okay for anyone to reblog as long as my DNI is respected!#if I may go first: I like to think I integrate my self-inserts into the story well and I’m proud of how much development a lot of them have #I enjoy developing self-inserts and figuring out how each one can fit into the story #and I also enjoy figuring out how my selfships fit into the overarching story of my F/Os’ sources as well #nobody has to interact with this post or give an answer to it if they don’t want to #but if you do want to then this is your opportunity to say as much as you want to ^-^ I’ll be eager to read it

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orchidshroomgardenselfships · 1 month

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Cw: Periods (wasn’t sure if I should put a content warning or not, but just in case, I suppose)

For my selfshippers who have That Time Of The Month, or That Occassional Time Of The Month, your f/o? They keep pain medication and a hot water bottle on them, or anything else that might help, nearby, or on them. They’re very very patient and understanding, knowing that you might be in pain, or might be fatigued, and they’re more than willing to help you if you need. If your f/o also has periods, they understand the struggle, and are willing to offer advice for what helps them during their periods, if you want it.

*Proship dni*

#Periods #orchid's flowerbed #selfship #Period talk #Cw: periods #selfshipping #selfshipping positivity #Selfship imagines #selfship imagines #Dni proship #Proship dni

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l0v3sickl0s3r · 3 months

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hey, u! yeah, u i got a question for u. when ur f/o is at a library and they pick up a book, do they go all the way to the other side of the building just to put it back where they found it or do they just set it on the nearest table or stack of books next to them?

proship dni >:(

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pro-fiction-spring-bonnie · 1 year

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I hope all pro-ship self-shippers have a wonderful F/O filled day!

#self ship #selfship #self shipping #selfshipping #self ship positivity #selfship positivity #self shipping positivity #selfshipping positivity #pro ship #proship #pro shipping #proshipping #pro ship positivity #proship positivity #pro shipping positivity #proshipping positivity #spring says

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