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starstruckloves · 3 days
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okay but, maybe you’re f/o isn’t really what people would describe as the “perfect partner” at first. maybe they don’t know how to comfort you or has some disagreements from you that makes things a little strained sometimes.
but the fact that you guys can sit down and talk about it is the good thing. it’s never an issue to sit down and really get into what’s bothering you before it blows out of proportion. they get better. you get better. and things change for the better.
sure they aren’t the perfect partner by society’s standards but you love each other and are working on yourselfs for the better of your relationship ♡
note: i am not talking about really awful/pr.oship situations !!!! i mean little things that may come up in a relationship. pr.oship this is not for you please respect that
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rose-greenhouse · 3 days
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for those who need to hear it,
your f/o is always there for you. they're there to listen to your struggles. they're there to give you comfort. they're there to give you a shoulder to lean on, to cry on; they're always there.
no matter what they're doing, no matter where they are, they will always stop to check up on you. they'll text, they'll call, they'll go out of their way just to see how you're doing.
so please... don't be down in the dumps. your f/o is always there for you to help lift you up. whether it's your romantic f/o, your platonic f/o, or your familial f/o, they'll always be there for you, always.
[no proship please and thank you]
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Your f/o will always see you as deserving of love, because you are. Even on days where you feel more insecure, even on days where you feel less worthy or deserving, they will always see you as enough. You will always deserve their love, their support, their affection, and care. You, as you are, will always be enough for your f/o.
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twilighthappiness · 3 days
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Imagine your f/o smiling endearingly at you whenever you laugh, calling it cute and trying to make you laugh just so they could hear it again <3
☁︎ proship/comship DNI ☁︎
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sanguineships · 3 days
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🌹 shoutout to hypersexual selfshippers. 🌹
• your f/o loves you, and they don’t define your based on sex.
• your f/o doesn’t think you’re disgusting or gross! they know it’s a trauma response & don’t shame your urges.
• any boundaries you set with your f/o will be listened to. they also know when to say no to you.
• hypersexuality is not a testimony to your personal morality.
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nimue-hidden-lake · 2 days
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Your f/o overhears you cough or sneeze, thus they suddenly grab you and roll you into a blanket. You tell them that it’s no big deal but they insist and thus you are trapped inside a warm blanket burrito for the day.
But of course they would not leave you there and let you cough to your own devices, until you are too exhausted or annoyed about your coughing. No, they will be there for you and help you get better.
May it be by tending to some of your needs like making you hot tea to drink or feeding you soup. Perhaps they even give you a cold, wet towel on your forehead if you have a fever, to help you feel more comfortable.
If your f/o is brave enough, maybe they even cuddle up to you, claiming that it will help you recover quicker. 
They will try everything they can to help you feel better. After all, you’d do the same for your f/o, wouldn't you?
Proship/Comship do not interact please!
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How about some positivity to combat all the bullshit stuff happening in my (and probably everyone else’s) life right now?
(Also I don’t really know how to make this all aesthetic and stuff but I think it does not matter bc I don’t wanna detract from my point anyways!!)
SHOUTOUT TO ALL THE SELFSHIPPERS WHO FEEL UNDERAPPRECIATED AND OVERLOOKED!!!
SHOUTOUT TO…
- selfshippers of color (ESPECIALLY black selfshippers, you shouldn’t have to put up with all the bullshit you have to deal with in the selfship community and other fandom spaces and your f/os would NOT stand for it, they would absolutely call anyone out on their racism)!!!
- mixed selfshippers of color as well (your f/os would love learning about all aspects of your heritage)!!
- transmasc selfshippers!!
- transfem selfshippers !!! (You gals also deal with so much bullshit and I want so much better for you and so do your f/os, they will ALWAYS hype you up for being the beautiful woman you are!)
- gay selfshippers!!!
- lesbian selfshippers !!
- bisexual, pansexual and other m-spec selfshipper s!!
- asexual, aromantic and aroace spectrum selfshippers !!!
- intersex selfshippers !!! (I see so little rep for you guys, I hope we can change that!! Your f/os would never ask you invasive questions without your consent and they would always support you against anyone who was weird to you about being intersex!)
- selfshippers whose f/os ‘don’t match’ their real life orientation (your real life identity is NOT invalidated by your attraction to fictional characters)!!
- queer selfshippers who don’t feel like typical and conventional labels fit for them!!
- physically disabled selfshippers!!!
- neurodivergent selfshippers (especially cluster B folks, the hatred I see directed at you is just awful and I desperately want people to stop acting like your flavor of neurodivergence has any effect on your morality. Your f/os wants to learn as much as your willing to share about your neurodivergent self and how to better accommodate you) !!
- selfshippers with intellectual disabilities !!
- selfshippers who don’t feel included in American and Eurocentric imagines, be they about physical features, seasons or cultural aspects!!!
- selfshippers who are ‘older’ (you are NEVER too old to selfship, it makes me so happy to see selfshippers past their 30s bc it reassures me that could be me!) !!
- selfshippers with fem f/os (so few imagines centered around fem f/os.. we need to change that)!!!
- fat selfshippers!!
- selfshippers with not ‘conventionally attractive’ features like acne, moles, stretch marks, self harm scars, etc (these are NOT ugly features but even if they were, you are still a person deserving of respect and kindness)!!!
- tall selfshippers who don’t feel included in most self insert imagines where the f/o is taller than the reader insert!!
- PLEASE PLEASE ADD MORE IN THE REBLOGS!!! If I forgot and didn’t include you or someone you care about, please reblog with that addition!! I want to see ALL of the amazing people the selfship community is comprised of!!!
PROSHIP/COMSHIP/‘NEUTRAL’ DNI
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SHOUTOUT TO:
proselfshippers
selfshippers who are kinky
selfshippers that imagine raping their f/os
selfshippers that imagine abusing their f/os
selfshippers that are related to their f/os
selfshippers who have an age gap with their f/os
all selfshippers who indentify as pro/comship
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sunflawyer · 3 days
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i wanted to renew my art taglist so!!
if you want to be added to my art taglist please interact with this post! reply, rb, like, anything! 💗
heres a little . wip i currently have jsjdjf 😭😭 ill keep some of my dearly beloved friends on the taglist but!! if you want to be added just interact please! (⁠^⁠∇⁠^⁠)⁠ノ⁠♪ thank youu!! 💗
p.s i like to draw little doodles for my mutuals too eehehe
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stoneshipper · 16 hours
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honestly, if we’re mutuals, consider me on your taglist. i want to see everything my mutuals make. if you don’t have a taglist but you want someone to see something, send it to me !!
same for ask games — if you reblog / post an ask game and you want questions for it, just dm me your post! you don’t even have to say anything. i’ll bombard you with asks any time !!
i simply want to engage with all my mutuals. i want to be your cheerleaders, i want to hear about your ships, i want it all. i promise i’ll never find it awkward if you just message me any time. even if you just wanna chat or gush ♡
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jeweledeyez-0 · 1 day
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Support group for selfshippers who have to deal with the constant whitewashing of their f/o….
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angellicmp3 · 2 days
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thinking about his hands… the veins… the hair on his forearms…
how i need to h*ld h*nds with him
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I'm really tired of people who share f/o's acting like they're better than those of us who don't. Selfshipping is extremely personal for a lot of people and there's nothing wrong with not wanting to see other people with a character that means that much to you.
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pinky-in-blankets · 2 days
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GUYS.
GUYS I HAD THE BIGGEST BRAIN EVER
LISTEN.
Listen. Okay?
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For those who participate- consider your preping for Artfight (or any competition, really.) And your just like getting ready and stuff and then you see it.
Your F/o comes to you and they're just. Standing there. Fidgeting with something in their hands. Avoiding eye contact. Your trying to figure out what is up with them. What's wrong???
Then they just.. Hold out a delicate laced Hankerchief out to you, their face and cheeks turning a soft tinted red as they fumble with their words, explaining how they read that whenever their beloved went off to compete in competitions, It was tradition to give them a trinket of their affection for good luck; A Hankercheif.
YOUR F/O. WENT THROUH THE TROUBLE OF FINDING ONE OF THOSE SO THEY COULD WISH YOU LUCK IN THE COMPETITION. WHO KNOWS HOW OR WHERE THEY GOT IT. THEY GOT IT FOR YOUU.
*screaming*
It doesn't even matter anymore if you win or loose this is going to be kept forever they are never getting this back again.
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Proship/Comship DNI.
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egonspenglershusband · 13 hours
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Honestly just imagine your f/o giving you a plushie of your favorite animal/creature
Pro/com.ship dni
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l0v3sickl0s3r · 1 day
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man i keep accidentally liking proship stuff and then catching myself 😭 PLEASE BE MINDFUL OF WHAT U LIKE/REBLOG/WHATEVER GUYZ THIS IS A REMINDER
proship anti obv >:[
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