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sea-of-yume · 1 day
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what's the best time of the day for you and your f/o(s)?
is it the soft blissful morning? where you first open your eyes to see your f/o by your side? or maybe it's when you guys first get ready to tackle the long day ahead. you and your f/o talk about how you're gonna take charge of the day and enjoy each other's company. or is it when you make breakfast together? the smiles you give to each other as you and your f/o sit and eat your favorite breakfast food with a drink of your choice.
is it the exciting and bustling afternoon? where you and your f/o, if they don't have anything to do, do daily chores such as grocery shopping or simply any mundane activities. or maybe you want to spend quality time with your f/o? go to the park for a walk or go to a small cafe to relax? the day is yours so go seize with them!
or is it the calm yes beautiful night? where either you or your f/o come back from a busy day and just need your love? hold them close as you sit in the living room and talk about your or their day. maybe prepare a small dinner for you to enjoy together before getting ready for bed. enjoy the sounds of the night as you snuggle close to your beloved as you feel and hear their heartbeat, lulling you to sleep in their arms.
every day with your f/o is special. enjoy every single day with them.
[proshippers, what are you doing here? go now.]
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voxkisser · 2 days
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Selfshippers who don't share their f/os and/or see their relationship as a real one I LOVE YOU!!
I feel like we don't get any representation in our own community or we get laughed at but you're all so valid!! I'm the same way
You're all so valid!! Your f/os love you 🫶
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Pr0sh1p DNI
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mydiluc · 2 days
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this is a safe space for people who do not like canon x canon ships involving their f/o. whether it makes you uncomfortable, jealous, you view the ship as platonic or familial or WHATEVER the reason. you’re valid and your f/o is all yours ♡
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THEY ADDED MHA TO NETFLIX LETS FREAKING GOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO
I CANT WAIT TO SEE MY BOYSSSSS
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sunflawyer · 4 months
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has anyone done this yet
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recovery-is-brutal · 2 months
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Shoutout to all my fellow selfshippers who were never chosen.
Shoutout to the people who were never explicitly invited, but who were told "of course you can come too". To the people whose presence was tolerated, but nobody ever seemed excited to see them. To the people who got talked over. Even when nobody noticed you leaving, you're worthy of love.
Shoutout to the "can I have your hot friend's number?" people, who only were present to make their good looking friend look even more appealing. Shoutout to the third wheels and wingmans. To the people who got the "kiss them! - ewww" treatment at Truth or Dare. To the people who got asked out as a joke.
Shoutout to the selfshippers who help with relationship issues despite craving a relationship themselves. Shoutout to the forever singles who have "resorted" to selfshipping because you convinced yourself that nobody would want you in real life. Shoutout to the insecure, jealous people with abandonment issues because you can't imagine anyone choosing you.
Your F/O chooses you. And they will continue to choose you.
They don't need a reason why. They love you. They love you for who you are, and they always will.
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raenyships · 4 months
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self shipping is amazing because i can have a terrible day, come home, get in bed and think about my f/o for a bit and my stress is suddenly lifted and i feel so much better. my imagination is healing my brain and that's beautiful.
if you're a self shipper you're awesome, and your f/o loves you
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gogolsbf · 12 days
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you are your f/o's first choice.
whenever you feel left, alone, or not seen they do feel and see you.
it doesn't matter what your looks, personality, or even your flaws are like because they'll love you for that and just for who you are as a whole person.
how could they never choose someone first in place who loves them so dearly? (they love you just as much back.)
you are special, and you deserve to be someone's first choice.
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bullfinch-lover · 28 days
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Shoutout to selfshippers with crooked teeth, yellow teeth, missing teeth, teeth with braces and dentures! Your f/o loves you even if your teeth aren't perfectly white and straight! Your f/o loves how your teeth look when you smile!
🦷🦷🦷
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Here’s a random assortment of self-ship and f/o related blinkies I made earlier:
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Feel free to use any of them if you’d like my lovelies! (˶ᵔᵕᵔ˶)
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(Pro/Comshippers fuck off! This post ain’t for you!)
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optimisticweather · 1 month
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my favorite part of selfshipping is dreamily sighing while a thought bubble containing a picture of my f/o surrounded by hearts appears over my head
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tidekissed · 2 months
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hey there women who selfship. I love you.
women of color who selfship—I love you.
trans women who selfship—I love you.
disabled women who selfship—I love you.
fat women who selfship—I love you.
women with mental illnesses who selfship—I love you.
wlw who selfship—I love you.
ace women who selfship—I love you.
aro women who selfship— I love you.
even if I didn’t shout you out specifically, women of selfship I love you so much. you’re all beautiful and wonderful and I hope you have a great day.
DO NOT INTERACT IF YOU LABEL YOURSELF AS "PROSHIP." I DO NOT WANT TO SEE YOUR CONTENT IN MY NOTIFS.
ALSO, THIS IS ABOUT WOMEN...DO NOT DERAIL.
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yoomtahsgf · 2 months
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!!!please no pr0/c0mship interaction, thank you!!!
SELFSHIPPERS WHO HAVE MEMORY ISSUES!!! selfshippers who forget what theyre doing in the middle of doing it, who forget things they were just told or even told multiple times before, who forget things they were supposed to do and end up getting done late or never getting done, who forget the same things multiple times, who forget things even about those they love most- ok you get what im saying!!! but consider!!!
~ your f/o(s) will reassure you that poor memory is NOTHING to feel guilty about!!!
~ if you need they'll remind you about special days like anniversaries, birthdays, etc. instead of expecting you to remember automatically and getting mad if you dont!!!
~ if you have plans together they'll remind you ON THAT DAY of what time and what you're doing if you need it!!!
~ if you have other specific things that you'd like them to remind you about, even daily, they'll be happy to oblige!!!
~ they'll absolutely defend you from people who say things like you dont remember because you dont care, or who think you're just lazy, or any other hurtful things about your memory!!!
~ when you're having a moment like you know you forgot something but just don't know what, they'll help you figure out if you did and what it is!!!
~ they'll tell you the same thing no matter how many times it takes you to remember it without getting mad, even if you never remember it on your own they'll remind you whenever you need!!!
~ if there are things you DON'T need reminders for and/or can remember on your own, they'll trust in your word instead of assuming you can't ever think for yourself!!!
YOU ARE WORTH YOUR F/O(S)' PATIENCE!!! YOU ARE WORTH THEIR UNDERSTANDING!!! YOU ARE WORTH THEIR LOVE!!! no matter how bad your memory can get, even not remembering people you know or places you've been or things you like or whatever, even if it's more severe than anything i can think of!!! you are so much more than poor memory and your memory issues have nothing to do with how much you care about things, and your f/o(s) absolutely understand that!!! you are more than worth it to them and they'll always be happy to reassure you of such!!! thank you for coming to my tedtalk!!!
!!!please no pr0/c0mship interaction, thank you!!!
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eating-plastic · 6 months
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I love being a self shipper, but you wanna know what else I love?
Being a self ship cheerleader.
I love seeing self shippers gush about their f/os and I just feel myself instantly becoming their supporter. Like “yes, you two are totally perfect for each other! You guys are the cutest couple I’ve ever seen! You’re both going on my otps list!” Or something along those lines. Self shippers just radiate such a contagious joy when they talk about their f/os
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the-selfship-corner · 1 month
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Selfship Vocabulary Guide!
Selfship: To ship yourself or a self-insert with a character, whether it be platonic, romantic, or familial.
Yume/Yumeship: A different word for selfship. Short for yumejoshi (feminine) or yumedanshi (masculine).
F/O or Fictional Other: A character that you ship yourself with.
S/i or Self-Insert: A character you created that represents yourself in the world of a series, movie, book, video game, etc. They usually (but not always) have similar personality and features to their creator.
Romantic F/Os: Fictional characters that you feel a strong romantic attraction to. You may imagine yourself being in a relationship with them.
Familial F/Os: Fictional characters that you feel are like your family. This could be characters you consider your parents, siblings, kids, etc.
Platonic F/Os: Fictional characters that you consider to be your friends or feel a platonic love towards.
OC x Canon: Shipping an original character such as a self insert with a canon character in their world.
Canon x Canon: Shipping two canon characters with each other. This may be canon in the story or not. Many selfshippers feel uncomfortable seeing their F/O in these ships.
Y/N or Your Name: Mostly used in fan fictions, it’s meant for you to insert your name into the story like a self-insert.
Comfort Character: A character that can bring somebody comfort without self inserting.
Doubles or shared: F/Os that you and another person may have that are the same character
Sharing NG: “Sharing Not Good” this person is uncomfortable with sharing their F/Os or interacting with people that have the same ones
Let me know if there’s any I missed/should add!
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crowtechs · 2 months
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"my f/o would never love me :(" WRONG!
your f/o looks at you and sees the stars in the sky; they see things that make them think of you; they will hold your hand when things get rough and share smoothies with you; they want to watch movies and tv shows with you, and then tease you about a character you are like only for you to go "no im not!!" they go out of their way to make you laugh and smile when no one else could; theyll sing you lullabies to help lull you to sleep if they must. they think you are wonderful inside and out.
( pr0ship/c0mship dni! this post is not for you ! )
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