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🥪🥪 THIS IS A REMINDER 🥪🥪
ANTIS DON'T GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOUR TRAUMA!!
Please don't disclose your trauma to Antis as a way to make them understand your point. STRANGERS AND ONLINE DEBATES ARE NOT WORTH YOUR SAFETY AND METAL HEALTH.
Antis don't care about your safety and your personal life from the get-go, they only care about themselves and the victims who AGREE WITH THEM. THAT'S NOT PEOPLE WHO DESERVE TO KNOW ABOUT YOUR TRAUMA!
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myfandomrealitea · 24 hours
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Is normalizing problematic stuff in fiction actually harmful to others in real life, or is that just something said to prevent further talk of such things?
The notion that fiction can in any way normalize "problematic stuff" is a discussionary roadblock in much the same way that the moment you try talking to certain people about certain things they whip out pedophilia as a trump card.
Its also why its actually so fucking important that from a young age we are given proper, well-rounded education and opportunities to exercise things like critical thinking, self-reflection and the ability to analyse what is in front of us to form our own conclusions instead of blindly following and believing whatever we see at first glance.
(Which applies to everything.)
Its also why its so important to separate things like creative appreciation and reality. Which we see in the whole anti vs proship debate all the time. We are supposed to observe fiction from the outside. We are not supposed to try to convert reality into fiction or exist in the real world as if we are in fiction.
Have you ever watched Hannibal and gone out to kill someone to turn them into a fancy European dish? Have you ever watched Game of Thrones and tried to fuck your sister?
Lolita is another prime example. The amount of people who didn't understand the actual point of Lolita and still don't is fucking staggering. Lolita is supposed to make you uncomfortable because you know its not right. You know its not normal. It doesn't romanticize or normalize pedophilia and older men going after young teenage girls. It does the opposite.
There are two types of people who believe or are susceptible to believing things they see in fiction are acceptable in real life; the uneducated and the mentally unstable.
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huntinglove · 3 days
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Shout-out to proselfshippers who's creations are overlooked!
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🧡 To those who's art and/or writing doesn't get a lot of notes, your F/Os are always proud of everything you come up with! They know that what really matters is that you're having fun and being yourself!
🎩 To those who create music, your F/Os find the melodies you come up with to be absolutely captivating! They know you put a lot of love and care into each note and they're always happy to listen to any songs you're willing to share with them!
🧡 To those who voice act, your F/Os find your skill to be absolutely mesmerizing and incredibly fun! They love to hear your impressions, it never fails to cheer them up after a long day!
🎩 To those who make fan games, your F/Os are always overjoyed to experience your stories! They'll be the first to offer to play any games you come up with, they're always proud of how all of it comes together as well!
🧡 To those who go in depth into theories, your F/Os love listening to your analysis and point of view! If you'd like, they'll even share their own perspective on what you tell them!
🎩 To those who pay attention to small details from your F/Os' source, your F/Os always appreciate everything you're able to remember about them, even what others would deem unimportant! You make them feel seen and loved like never before!
🧡 No matter what you're able to create, your contribution to fandom is just as important and welcome as everyone else! Sharing anything online takes courage and your F/Os will always be proud of you for doing it!
🎩 Don't let numbers determine your worth. Your talents, skills and creations are always meant to please you and you alone, don't make yourself seek other people's approval over your own joy and fun!
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Today we have a fandom anti being a literal monster. They're upset because an account on Twitter that reposts wacky tags from Ao3 called out someone for being pro-genocide. Specifically stating that this is 'weird' of them to do that. Like, way to tell the world you advocate for the murder of women, children, newborn babies and innocent civilians because you're an anti. The cognitive dissonance is insane with antis. They continue to prove that they're dangerous and violent people everyday.
The user's post in question.
The post they are responding to.
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yeru211 · 3 days
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kitties! 🐾💕
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it makes me mad upset to see antis who do vile things to people (proshippers or not) use 'BLM' & '🇵🇸🍉' in their handles/profiles. it's giving performative activism.
Fucking exactly this, it just makes me so pissed. It’s ironic.
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seventyone-71 · 1 day
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watching a tv show but doing this everytime someone commits a crime so everyone knows im not a criminal
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pro-sipper · 2 months
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"i want more media with zero drama, no tension, and zero problematic characters and i am not joking"
Great! Here are my recommendations:
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russetfur1128 · 9 months
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People seem to have forgotten that "proship" was the Fandom norm for the longest time.
Only, it wasn't called proship. It was called ship and let ship. Or minding your own buisness.
If someone had a ship you didn't like or thought was gross, you would avoid them. If they drew art or wrote stories you didn't agree with or like, you would ignore them.
There were tags like smut, whump, and angst to tell people about things they might not want to read. And then dead dove: do not eat for taboo subjects and especially gritty fic.
Then people started to ignore that. Younger fans started to bully people because they disagreed with shipping certain characters. Whether it be because it "wasn't canon", they thought it was gross, or they just didn't like it.
These people began calling themselves "anti-ship"
Pro-ship became a label to show that someone was against anti-ship.
Eventually, the anti-ship movement began to die down. So do you know what they did? They started accusing people. Of being pedophiles, groomers, rape supporters, and more. All because they wrote or drew things that these people didn't like.
They began claiming that THEY were the Fandom norm, and that these "proshippers" were the bad people. They started claiming that proship stood for "problematic shipping"
Due to this, the term "pro-ship" is often misconstrued as to what it means. Many people don't even KNOW what it means.
It means "anti-censorship".
It means that we support someone's right to produce art, no matter how gross, no matter how taboo, no matter how "problematic"
Because it's not hurting anyone.
If it's something you don't want to see? Block the person. Block the tag. Say in your bio that you don't like it. That's what they're FOR!
This was discussed in earlier days of fandom.
"I wonder why people would read a story in a genre they don't care for, then take the time to let the writer know that sure enough, they didn't care for it. That would be like me going to a restaurant, ordering a slice of cherry pie, then asking that the chef be brought out so I can say "I don't like cherry pie, and I didn't like yours either." To continue this analogy into its usual fannish outcome, the chef would say "Well gee, lady, why did you order it?" And I'd say, "Are you questioning my right to order cherry pie?"
-Unknown 2002
Except now, it would be like the person who didn't like the cherry pie and ordered it anyways then demanded that no restaurant serve cherry pie because it was poison. Not only is it a ridiculous request, it's blatantly untrue.
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hussyknee · 1 year
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Shout-out to the brazen AO3 smut crankers posting the nastiest, most unholy filth I can only save in private bookmarks. Y'all's cojones are solid brass. The international sexual deviant community thanks you for your service
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darci-tbh · 3 months
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everytime I see antis call themselves punk I lose hope in the internet again
I don't know how to say this but policing people's right to create and consume any fiction they want AND advocating for the corporal punishment of "thought criminals" cannot and will not ever be punk. shut up
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runs-red · 2 months
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Another big reason it's so hard to take anti-fiction arguments seriously is because I have reading comprehension, can read critically, and can enjoy fiction without having it radically change me.
I've never read any fiction with dark themes, no matter how sexualized, glorified, or whatever, that even began to make me think about condoning or supporting it in real life.
It's to the point where I'm genuinely confused by what point Antis is trying to make. Do they think that people are so brainless that they just support everything they read? of that somehow, if you read it enough, it just washes away all of your morals and core beliefs?
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myfandomrealitea · 24 hours
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I feel like antis only ACTUALLY care about victims if they fit their "perfect narrative" of what a hurt person "should be" and I'm quite frankly tired of it
CoughStrangerThingsfandomcough.
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huntinglove · 3 days
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Your F/O loves you unconditionally!
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🧡 They love you when you don't love yourself. They'll always do their best to help you see yourself through their eyes, how they see you as someone who's absolutely flawless and worthy of all the love and kindness in the world.
🎩 They love you when you make mistakes. Big or small, it doesn't matter to them, your F/Os will always back you up when things are hard, and they'll always forgive you for anything that may weigh in your chest, no matter what it may be.
🧡 They love you when you're afraid or hurt. Your F/Os will always make sure you have a safe space and a shoulder to cry on, regardless of what you may be going through. You can always count on them for advice and comfort, through thick and thin!
🎩 They love you when you can't see your own beauty. Your F/Os know that loving your own body can be hard sometimes, but that doesn't change the fact that you're always going to be perfect for them. They'll do their best to help you feel more confident and loved!
🧡 They love you when you can't get yourself to see the bright side of things. Your F/Os understands when your mental health flares up or when life is just too much to handle, and they don't judge you for your frustrations. They'll always make sure you have safe ways to express yourself and let out anything that's bothering you.
🎩 They love you when you don't have a lot of energy. Your F/Os will always remind you that you don't have to be productive or cheerful all the time. They'll personally make sure you're able to rest and take care of yourself whenever you need to recharge.
🧡 They love you when you can't be affectionate. Your F/O understands that sometimes you don't feel like being touched and they'll always respect that. Not being able to show them affection 24/7 has never and will never diminish their love for you in any way, shape or form.
🎩 Your F/Os love you no matter what, now and always. At your best or at your worst, their love for you is always growing and expanding in new ways, with each day they get to spend by your side!
🧡 Your F/Os are proud of you, each and every single day. Each step you take towards keeping yourself alive and doing what you can each day is an absolutely wonderful accomplishment in their eyes!
🎩 Your F/Os are grateful that you're alive. They couldn't dream of someone as amazing as you and they'll do everything they can to be right by your side until the end of time, through each passing day.
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xx-slug-xx · 6 months
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Ao3 authors, please learn to not insult people and be “morally superior” in the tags
Instead of tagging “noncon is gross” or “not noncon because that’s problematic”, for example, just put “enthusiastic consent” or “consensual sex” in the tags. It makes things a whole lot easier for people to filter and know what’s going on.
I really don’t care that you think noncon fics are bad or whatever, I (and many others) will be more likely to read your fic about two boys who are deeply in love if you aren’t an ass about your morals in fiction :/
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Call me a bad person all you want, but I'd rather write a thousand parent-child noncon shipfics than so much as consider telling a single, very real life person to harm themselves or others in any way, shape, or form.
Real life violence is gross. Guess I'm just fucked up that way, sorry lads.
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