I’ve seen so many posts on here lately with people referring to their partner as “my butch” and my heart is literally fluttering from the mere thought of being referred to like that one day.
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i am tired of being nice with lesbophobes because maybe they don't know any better or are brainwashed or truly think they are doing the right thing or i don't know what else. i am tired of not saying anything to avoid dramas. if your god said homosexuality is bad well then fuck him and everyone who agrees with this shit. if you like dicks you're not a lesbian. if you have a dick you're not a lesbian. if you ever had a dick you're not a lesbian. "amab nb lesbians" aren't lesbians, they're just straight guys. bi and other mspec lesbians don't exist and are lesbophobic terms. either you are attracted exclusively to biological women while also being a biological woman or you're not and never will be a lesbian. if you decided to be a lesbian because of your political views then you're not a lesbian. if you ever had a crush on a guy you are not a lesbian. if you think lesbianism distances lesbians from womanhood and means we aren't normal women you're a piece of shit. if you think you can become a lesbian or stop being one you are a piece of shit. if you think lesbians just need to find the right man i hope your house will burn with you in it. call lesbians queer and you deserve to be punched. if you think lesbian sex is disgusting go fuck yourself. if you think lesbianism is problematic or sinful in anyway kill yourself. if you think lesbians just need to try dicks kill yourself. if you think lesbians can be attracted to men kill yourself. now you can cry and say i am oppressing you, i don't care. die mad about it
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I've seen this definition floating around and wanted to see other lesbians' opinions on it.
Feel free to leave your gender identity in the tags for extra data and any other thoughts you might have on this subject.
Reblogs are appreciated!
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God whenever non-lesbians give shit to nonbinary lesbians with complex or 'too masculine' (read: 'not woman lite™') genders and they say "grrrr that gender can't be lesbian grrrr" it's like bro...you don't Get it.
Whoever first said "lesbianism is as much of a gender identity as it is a sexuality" or whatever it was was so right. Being lesbian gives you such a unique experience societally, being so sexualized and so demonized at the same time, being excluded and invisible from many queer discussions, the contempt from both men and women...it absolutely affects your gender. Something something the gender binary inherently being heteronormative, something something its idea of womanhood is entirely based around men and breaking that is inherently gender noncomformity...
Even lesbians who otherwise identify as cis women feel like a different gender than straight girls at some level, but this stuff gets especially more intense for trans and non-binary lesbians because then societal transphobia and shit gets added to the mix.
So yeah, sometimes lesbians will dress masc. Sometimes they'll use he/him pronouns and masc terms. Sometimes they'll be bigender or pangender or genderfluid or demigender. Sometimes they might call themselves trans masc or transexual. Sometimes they'll refer to themselves as guys or men while still being absolutely non-binary and absolutely lesbian (fyi if you're fine with non-binary people referring to themselves as guys and can understand that they're still non-binary and not men, but aren't if that non-binary person is lesbian, you're a piece of shit <3 )
To say that a fundamental part of the lesbian experience somehow makes someone less of a lesbian or not one at all proves you know nothing about us. Lesbianism has been this way since before you were born, it's not gonna change for your bullshit exclusionism.
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(Colors picked from the nonbinary lesbian flag)
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“is that a ghost?”
“no honey, im pretty sure thats a lesbian”
(they/them)
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There's an appealing intimacy in being pulled roughly by the waist and kissed gently that I don't know how to explain
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could u possibly do fluttershy and this nonbinary lesbian flag? :3 , if possible of course !
The NON-BINARY LESBIAN flag color-picked from FLUTTERSHY [MLP]
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