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asvospace · 14 days

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꒰୨୧◞ 。DAILY REMINDER ⠀.ᐟ

↪︎ ❀ LOVING YOURSELF HEALS YOUR LIFE & BY DOING SO, YOU NOURISH YOUR MIND, BODY & SOUL<3

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sk-lumen · 1 year

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"She's entering her villain era," they say…

So many girls out there finally learning boundaries, how to say no, choosing to invest in themselves instead of people pleasing - and be calling it their "villain era". I think it says a lot about the current state of society that we have to romanticize being seen as the villain in order to in some way embrace or validate ourselves in not being a doormat anymore. Because there's still a remnants of such behaviour being considered mean or taboo, when it is actually the healthiest to have.

Yes, there may be people that will antagonize you because you having standards means they can no longer take advantage or play games anymore. But that does not make you a villain for the world, it only makes you an antagonist in their story.

Your role in someone else's story does not define you.

#boundaries #selflove #selfcare #selfworth #villain era #discourse #instagram discourse #since it's more popular there from what i've observed #writings #essays

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sunandflame · 8 months

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Not a face reveal but...

I was at a manga store today with a friend and then I saw this banner of Yoriichi and I immediately ran towards him like a frigging fangirl. Hugged him and took a lot of selfies. I swear if you could see my face you would see that I was the happiest girl ever born in that moment. I was very close to kiss him.

Also what nobody sees, but I was wearing my Hanafuda earrings too :3

Also the following conversation is not made up:

Me: I should take this with me. Friend: You wanna steal it? Me: Yes *checks the exit* Friend: This thing is huge, how are you going to hide it? Me: Shit you are right, maybe I should ask them. Maybe they give it to me. Friend: Gurl... than it's not stealing... But what will your husband say? Me: He will just give me a deadpan look, knowing damn well what to expect from someone crazy like me.

#At the end I was not allowed to take him and I was sad to leave my other husband there Q_Q #but look at him #look how beautiful he is #I should share more pics of him with me but I dont wanna reveal my face #not because I think I am ugly #nope I know I am pretty (selflove bitches) but I don't feel comfortable sharing it on a huge platform where I don't know anyone personally #only my closest mutual get to see my face <3 #sunny talks ☀︎#yoriichi tsugikuni #demon slayer #kimetsu no yaiba

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spacehell69 · 8 months

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wtf alien yuri lol

#something possessed me #zazr #the art #hmm theres a few mistakes but i dont feel putting more effort into this #this ship is so goofy but whateveeer its fun selflove babe!!!

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dunmanticarchivistsmain · 6 months

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istg one more beautiful piece of writing inspired by my self indulgent doodling and im gonna explode into one million pieces on fire <3

Round 3 fired and away! For your latest art, I'm sure we will have a perfectly normal conversation about this (and secret life tomorrow once I've watched it). Not sure if I need to put warnings on this, somewhat heavy on the selfwhump in the first bit

When Scarlet Pearl rose from the crater of Scott's sacrifice, she was untouched by the violence, as though the carnage of the previous day had not occured. Mindlessly she set about collecting the detrius of the casualties, a half-remembered habit of tidying up. A battered diamond chestplate, a bloody sword, a splintered bow. All with no body to bury. Nonetheless, she piled it into individual chests and heaped a mound of dirt over each. Sticking a sign over these graves, she left an epitaph for their ending.

"Scott, the star that went off with a bang"

"Martyn & Cleo, divided in life and death"

"Impulse & Bdubs, something wicked their way came"

"Etho & Joel, the boat burned, everything burned"

At last, with Jimmy and Tango's death already marked, she made her way back to her tower, a single leftover sign tucked away. One with her name on it. One last ending.

The lonely perches of her tower loomed out of her exhausted reach. It didn't seem worth the effort, to climb all the way up, to where pain had made its home in her heart. Scarlet Pearl wondered aloud, to no one but Tilly, if she should just dig her own grave and wait for death to claim her.

A reply unexpected came from the rustling in the brush.

"Who's there?" Scarlet Pearl called out, gripping her axe, then thought better of it. She did after all, call for the end. And Tilly didn't seem to mind whoever was out there, tail wagging and head tilted in confusion. A state of mind shared by Scarlet Pearl, for she was sure of being alone. She was cursed to be; victory had ensured it. She fell to her knees, letting the happy, silly look on Tilly fill the imminent void.

"You", whispered a voice that was at once familiar and foreign to her ears.

"That's not an answer mate", her head turned to the source of the voice.

Stepping out was an impossible figure. A worn blue hoodie, flowing brown hair and piercing grey eyes. Scarlet Pearl had to look away, she could not meet her mirror's gaze. Was it one of pity? Was it contempt? She could barely guess from a glimpse; would Death be so cruel to use herself in its image?

The question of who was an instinctive one, but the thought made her shudder, jumbling her words "who- why are you here?"

"You. I'm here for you."

"Get away from me!"

Shaking her head reflexively in denial, Scarlet Pearl fumbled for a weapon, finding the sign with her name on it and raised it in one shaking hand. In the depths of despair, her instincts found she would not let Death take her without a fight yet. She was Scarlet Pearl, undefeated and unscarred, survivor of the death games-

The apparition, as she was fully revealed in the moonlight, was no perfect replica of her. Patched up scrapes, bandaged wounds littering her unarmored skin. They looked to be in a real rough state, Scarlet Pearl could easily take on this version of her. But there was something about how her mirror carried themself, the gentleness in their voice, that paralyzed Scarlet Pearl. Not from fear or resignation. But an ugly, painful envy of the affection in her mirror's eyes.

How could she love or be loved ever again?

This Pearl sank to her knees in front of Scarlet Pearl, interlocking one of their hands. Scarlet Pearl was torn, her touch starved self cried out for the first human contact in days? Weeks-, wait human? That hand fit in hers so smoothly, they were undeniably her own.

"You're not Death" Scarlet Pearl said, feeling exceptionally foolish for being unable to recognise herself. Tilly clearly did, nuzzling between the two happily.

"I am no more Death than you are," the other Pearl agreed, gently prising the sign from her other hand, leaning it against the base of the tower then capturing her limp fingers with their own warm ones.

"I'm just the you, who you'd let lead you home."

The last gasp of adrenaline faded; oh Void she was so tired, so bone-deep tired of being alone. All Scarlet Pearl could do is clutch those hands, as though they'd fade away if she didn't.

But they were already were, the Pearl-that-was-her slowly becoming less substantial as their warmth lingered and spread.

"Don't leave me! How will I get home? Where even is a home for me?" she cried plaintively, the numbness wearing off, the pain sweeping in.

"Hold me in your heart. Hold your hurts; and hold closer the hope of their healing."

She could already feel her grasp slipping, her mauled mending mirror of a self, fading, no, melding into her. Gashes opened where swords have left their mark, bruises bloomed with a fresh vengeance and her heart felt like it was torn from her chest anew.

"Home is where they are waiting for you."

The last wisps of their fingers parted and Pearl collapsed, falling forwards-

Pearlescentmoon fell out of this world Pearlescentmoon joined the game

Into loving arms.

#ok i am ping ponging between this one #is it too vague self absorbed or blunt is there the right balance of H/C?#idk man this was a struggle to write #selflove is tough #and for goodness sake am i projecting onto a character?#a solid maybe #like there are small parts of it i relate to #and others i have no idea where they come from #LIAU STOP GIVING ME IDEAS #(no please draw some more I love these blorbos)#tldr traumatized pearl meets future healing pearl whos there to help her move on by recognising her wounds and pain #also you can headcanon whoevers arms it is at the end but its shiny duo on hermitcraft you know its shiny duo for me XD #alright me sleepy now this was horrendously awkward to write #like i might look at this in the morning and trash it because of the wording #but just maybe i might be ok

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defnotjarlaxle · 6 months

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Always be true to yourself.

Nobody will do it for you.

Be willing to change to be the best version of yourself every day.

Improve for yourself.

You deserve it, to be the best you.

Once you trust yourself the people you surround yourself might change but don't be scared - that might be exactly what you need.

Sometimes we get too comfortable and think "It's no use to try, this is my life". No. Don't give up on yourself, on your life.

Love yourself. Yes, it will be hard at first but I believe in you, and so should you.

♡

#Someone needs to hear this so here it is #Jax wants you to know that you deserve the world and more #You deserve love and that includes selflove #I'm sharing the lessons I learned because I can now love other people with all of my heart because I love myself ♡#Selflove doesn't mean arrogance or putting yourself first all the time btw #It also means you know your limits and won't let others use you

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linseia · 1 year

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Thanks to me I went from an obese, depressed, pimple freak, procrastinator to a girl who wakes up early, meditates, journals, workouts out for 2 hours, studies, is hydrated, eats healthier, focuses on skincare, goes to bed on time and is really, truly, genuinely happy to be here

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blackfawnx · 23 days

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asbestieos · 1 year

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i cant look at them anymores . helo asta

#enstars #enstars sona #enstars oc #sure whatever at thispoint ki is both a sona and an oc #piper ens posting #IGNORE the lack of accents ont he. BIRTHNAME. im too lasy #thats not my real name either dont stress i did notdox myself <3 #ima smart cookie <- colleg dropout #and with YOUR help enstars asta can ALSO be a dropout! /lhj #im sure ill hav more to saay inthe morningwehn it not. 2:30 am #i so sleepy but iwannadraw but i must be responsibleand selfloving and seep #th spring-summer outfit is based off my work outfit and the autumn-winter jacket is based off an irl jacket i have except its WAY cooler #irl* i could not do it justiceon canvas #if yr wondering whether i could be an idol . ueah. i could i have the fortitudeid just be neurotic the whole time. but im good on stage ..#id be an ok idol like ra*bits type popularity #theyr mediocrely popular right #sorry for makinga needlessly complicated backstory for my self insert ima needlessly complicated boy #ok ihave to pahcking go to bed before i die . goodnighevrbody #ensona asta

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ughmerlin · 1 year

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a creation for every month of 2022

post your favorite or most popular post from each month this year (it’s okay to skip months).

i was tagged by @yenvengerberg and @ivashkovadrian, thank you darlings!! i love making lists and so i'm super excited to look back at all my sets and create this little wrap up of the year!

january:

🌸 favourite: merlin ot4 + lunar phases 🌼 most popular: the many names of geralt of rivia

february:

🌸 favourite: jaskier + heartbreak 🌼 most popular: #he has a type

march:

🌸 favourite: merlin ladies + king by florence and the machine 🌼 most popular: yenskier + the witcher book quote

april:

🌸 favourite: bbc merlin + zodiac signs 🌼 most popular: geraskier: go fuck yourself

may:

🌸🌼 (i only posted one set in may, so this goes both for my favourite and my most popular!): jaskier + best character traits

june:

🌸 favourite: merlin found family 🌼 most popular: geraskier + manhandling

july:

🥀 no sets in july

august:

🌸 favourite: merlin ot4 + love languages 🌼 most popular: the witcher: they’re 10s but...

september:

🌸 favourite: morgana’s witch of the woods aesthetic 🌼 most popular: merlin incorrect quotes #5

october:

🌸 favourite: yennefer + dream girl evil by florence and the machine 🌼 most popular: merlin incorrect quotes #6

november:

🌸 favourite: merthur + bigger than the whole sky by taylor swift 🌼 most popular: enola setting up sherlock and john

december:

🌸 favourite: bbc merlin + tumblr memes of the year 🌼 most popular: incorrect merlin quotes #7

tagging (with no pressure of course!): @arthurpendragonns, @seance, @lamberts, @harwinstrng, @aramblingjay, @something-more, @anyataylorjoy, @aryastaark

#okay this was actually so fun!!#i tend to be very self critical so its just lovely to take a step back and look at everything with fresh eyes and a little bit more selflove #i also counted all of my sets from this year and if i'm not wrong i posted 40 in total #which is waaaay less than last year #but i'm really happy with them!!#and proud of myself for posting despite having to go through hell of finishing my masters this year #anyway!! here's to the next one!!#and to all of the content creators who inspired me with their work along the way <3 #tagged #tag games

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yonemurishiroku · 1 year

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Fun fact I went through a breakup recently that was really jarring and left me feeling super alone and one of the coping strategies I found was to pretend that the previous versions of myself were there to comfort me. So I'd literally imagine different younger versions of myself from like 6 months, 1 year, etc ago being there and being like "hey, the fact that you were around the see the breakup means that you survived the pain we were going through, right? So that's good. And you'll survive this one." Sometimes I imagine them all sitting around my room and having a council, or I imagine them walking behind me when I feel unsure of myself. I also imagine them embracing me or bandaging my wounds when I really need it. Anyways, I support the Nico x Nico fic you're talking about writing-- self-love can hit the hardest, especially when it's the only kind of love currently within your reach.

Oh my god... I'm so sorry you have to go through such a horrible thing, and your coping mechanism is making me tear up. 😭😔 I hope you would feel better soon, pal.

And I really, really appreciate your support for the Nico selfcest AU! 😭 Fun fact for you too! I'm also an enthusiastic resident of a selfcest-based (?) fandom, and ofc, selfcest is a whole thing in there. It's my sanctuary and I have been the priest for as long as I can.

And Selflove Nico has been my religion since the first day I set foot into this fandom.

So yeah, I know what I'm doing. 😘🤩 I can't guarantee that I'd articulate it into a fully written fanfic - just bc I don't have the patience nor the willpower to come up with a multi-chaptered plot - but I'll try my best to deliver it the best way I can!

I would be glad if my crazy ideas make you feel better somehow.🥰 Wish you all the best, and please, keep loving yourself like that. You're doing great, friend.

#Tbh I have... not quite an issue but more like conflicting opinions ig?? about myself too LOL. it just makes this even more exhilarating #the selfcest fandom is Elsword btw. it's a Korean RPG game #pjo #nico di angelo #hoo #toa #yone rambling #percy jackson and the olympians #heroes of olympus #fanfic talk again bc what’s new anw?#trials of apollo #selfcest #selfcest au #selflove nico #selflove nico my religion

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flovverworks · 6 months

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CHLOE BDAY HIP HIP HURRAY

#stardust speaking !#saw the preview with chloes lines. oh hes so endearing #im highly in the 'thats akiras lil bro' corner but congrats to the chloe fans #(thinks of lennox bday card with the whole 'the one who wins can ask the loser to do something' ->akira asks leno to bend down #so they can PAT HIM ON THE HEAD......................ure so tall so it probably doessnt happen often right.....#......#????????#lenoaki is so tender it makes my head spin #<-person who cried during lennox chara story so is biased #shakes everyone listen the wizard are ssooooo important to akira and for akiras development and building selfconfidence and selflove this #is why i will nvr ever shut up about them here cuz they have such a massive role- <-just likes them a lot #T_^#okay anyway i actually wrote a lil thing for myself today HURRAY ive been in a more. oh i can do things. mood lately #theres a selfindulgent thing i wanna write a lil bit off but aside from that i wanna. do something here #inb4 itll be a tiny teeny thing ive been thinking about lately before tackling 2 para+ stuff. WE WILL SEE eventually #not tonite for sure i am zzzzzzzzz #but i missed writing tiny things for myself so im gonna try to keep at this.#one day ill do that for akira things too. i need to write down my silly postmhyk aus and my silly dramatic modern aus for me myself and i #i dont talk about it a lot here cuz its embarrassing but wizards in akiras world is always a funny concept to me #5ever thinking about INTERNET IS SUGOI figaro from that one figaaki comic #actually that one where figaro memorized akiras name when its written makes me dizzy I WANNA TALK ABOUT STUFF LIKE THAT AGAIN.....#T_T akira learning how to write the wizards names. yknow. at least. since they cant read the language at all #okay its way past my bedtime #i cant get into akira & their language at this hour itll be too much #tldr while i think its difficult for akira to rly pick it up (cuz they understand everything they say!??!?!??!?!)#recognizing words u see commonly....................happens..........+ akira making an effort to learn certain words

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lemonlovemeanslove · 8 months

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what does lemonlovemeanslove mean? where does it come from?

I think Ive mentioned one of the reasons on here before, but this gives me the change to list both! Basically back in my first year of high school there was this queer romance comic that I really liked (i can not remember the name bc it was written in Korean and I guess they just didn’t bother to write and English title lol, doesn’t matter much, but Im pretty sure that it wasnt even good) where one of the characters who recently discovered that he was bi, gave a lemon candy to his crush. This was at the time that I had begun to realize that I too, was not straight, which was really hard for me given my circumstances. That lemon candy thing stuck with me. bc I love LOVE lemon candies, which my best friend since age 8 knows very well, so whenever there be a candy bag or something, shed pick out all the lemon candies and hand it to me. Id never asked her to. Even if we werent together, like shed sometimes just stop by, give me the lemon candies, than walk off, not a word exchanged lol. And then I was like wait....lemon candy means love yall......like lemon sweets are symbols of romantic and platonic love, kinda like a heart or a rose for me, it’s all interconnected...(i love making things interconnected) and then slowley, I stared calling sweet things and acts ''lemonlove'', so my username is an explanation what lemonlove is, its love! representing what love is, specifically when it comes to acceptance towards myself, and what I want love to be between friends.

#u for example shannon #are my lemon friend #my username has more backstory than I thought lol #bc lemonlove was me confronting my internalized homophobia and seeing the love from friends that all around #and then how selflove is so powerful and yadda yadda

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charlieshandmaiiden · 2 years

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I want to give this to dean

#MORE SELFLOVE BABYGIRL #pposting #dean winchester

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fhealync · 23 days

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It's more than OK, it's human. 🌹 Embrace the imperfect journey of life, where bad days, personal choices, authenticity, and flaws weave the tapestry of your story

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