"i hate microlabels" yeah i also kind of dislike the idea of putting ourselves and our identities into very specific boxes, i think it can be really isolating- ohh wait you mean you think they're invalid. ohh no that's not the way to look at it. killing you

"How many genders are there" legitimately I think there are as many genders as there are people on earth, you can be a boy but is your version of boy 100% identical to any other boy?

Como eles podem invalidar nossa dor, nosso sentimento, nossa insegurança, se, QUEM SENTE SOMOS NÓS!?

If you ever needed to know the extent of how the I/P conflict is fandomized, there is a popular post going around with a Sailor moon sticker saying Free Palestine and all the comments are talking about how it's their aesthetic and they totally need to buy it

Because this doesn't matter to them, it's just the cool hip and trendy thing

"Shhh Link... I'm right here. We're home. It's okay... "

♥ Hurt & Comfort time ♥

Post-Totk Link is still plagued with nightmares of the Light Dragon, Gloom Hands, Phantom Ganon...Puppet Zelda...loneliness.

He wakes up at night screaming, hyperventilating, sobbing. But Zelda is there and she comforts him with love, kindness and patience! Like Link did for her Post-Botw.

It's gonna take time...but Link is gonna be fine ♥ Zelda too.

They are all gonna be fine and live happily ever after!!!

And Hateno domestic fluff resumes.

PS: Check out my friend's @jdetan new hurt & comfort fic on Ao3!

https://archiveofourown.org/works/54982165

Gotta love when Zelda comforts her knight

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honestly just in general it's very exhausting to try to analyze media that is literally meant to be analyzed, only for the replies to be filled with people arguing not against your analysis, but against the premise that the media can be analyzed at all.

i don't even know what to say about it without starting to really betray my frustration, so i'll just settle with— just don't engage with analysis posts? I'm serious. if you're typing a response to a media analysis post, reread what you've written and ask yourself "is this comment/response against the very concept of analyzing the media at all?" and if the answer is yes then delete it all and go sit in the shame corner. throw your curtains away if you want to so bad and stop telling me that I'm not allowed to hum and haw at the fact mine are blue

I've seen a lot of stuff going down on tumblr and I just wanted to let you all know that all aromantic, asexual, and aroace people are valid members of the LBGTQIA+ community. It doesn't matter if they are cishet or not.

Happy valentine's day to all my aromantics.

the aroaces, the romance repulsed aros, the romance varourable aros, the aros in QPRs, the loveless aros.

I hope you all have a good day.

tbh, Marcille does infantilize Falin and deny her agency at times-- it's something that definitely intentional in how their relationship is written, It's a flaw and (imo) a way that Marcille also holds herself back from acknowledging her feelings for Falin, which I think she has a hard time acting on because of her own web of issues.

Most importantly, I think the reason she's subconsciously afraid to act on her feelings and the reason she infantilizes her are one and the same, tied to her biggest hang up: Falin's going to die long before Marcille does, and Marcille cannot accept her own feelings because she's terrified of that. She also does the "oh you're just a kid who doesn't know better" thing for the same reason. To constantly remind herself that Falin has a shorter lifespan so she can keep herself from thinking of Falin a certain way, to remind herself that a romantic relationship would bring pain. To keep them on unequal levels. To try to dismiss the feelings she has as meaningless because look how "young" Falin is, look how short her life is.

Marcille is obsessed with control and deathly afraid of abandonment. So yeah, she's controlling in her relationship with Falin. And significantly, Falin is not the only person she infantilizes and tries to control. She does the same for ALL her friends and loved ones of other races. She often talks to them like they're kids, decides for them that their short lifespans are sad and they would be happier living a long time like her, that they need to be saved by her that's why she should be in control--because she doesn't want to lose them. Because she wants them by her side forever.

That's obviously something she needs to overcome for Marcille x Falin to actually work and uh, significantly, she does overcome that!! Laios and the others help her accept that death is outside of her control and she can't decide for them what's best. And then she let's go and says she'll accept it if Falin doesn't make it back. She now understands that short lives don't make the others lesser, that she has no control, that she has to accepts the terror of death and fear of loss. Now she can accept and love them as they are, as equals to her.

And in the unoffically-translated post canon material, she also lets Falin give her answer to Shuro (despite CLEARLY being outraged at Shuro and terrified she'd say yes), and accepts that she wants to go travel and get to know who she is without her brother or Marcille, because she's never really done anything for herself. And I think that's really, really good for Falin! That's necessary for her! She's spent her life in the shadow of both of them, and it's time to take some Falin time.

And Marcille lets her. She learns to let go. But that doesn't mean Falin doesn't love Marcille. She specifically says she wants to come back to Laios and Marcille. And I think when she does, the obstacles will be gone. Marcille now understands Falin as not a child, but someone whose potential death she can accept. Nothing is in the way of her feelings. And Falin, now more independent, still thinks of Marcille as home and wants to be with her. That's the journey they take and when they'll truly be able to have a complete relationship and express their love.

The late diagnosed neurodivergent experience of being told you're wrong your entire fucking life.

You're too sensitive,

it's not too loud,

it's not too bright,

it's not overwhelming,

you're just overreacting,

it doesn't smell weird,

the texture is fine,

just eat it,

just wear it,

plans change get over it,

stop being so dramatic,

why are you so argumentative?

I was obviously joking,

why do you take everything so seriously?

I'm not yelling,

It's not a big deal,

stop nitpicking,

stop jiggling/rocking,

stop fidgeting,

stop humming/whistling/clicking,

stop talking about that,

no one cares,

you're annoying people,

you're so high strung,

just relax,

stop worrying,

stop overthinking,

just be normal

and then people act all surprised that you grow up to be an insecure, indecisive wreck. What else did you expect me to be when you spent my whole life teaching me my own perception was faulty and couldn't be trusted?

Grooming me to seek approval and validation from others for every decision I made because whenever I made them myself, they were always wrong.

happy birthday ronan lynch you’re a real one

It’s time I started looking inward for validation…

trans people are some of the strongest, bravest people on this earth.

so much could go wrong. surgeries could be botched. your body could have bad reactions to treatment. your identity could be shrugged off as a joke. people could try to stop you from doing the things you love. they could relentlessly harass you. they could commit hate crimes against you and no one would bat an eye. people who you thought had loved you could turn against you. your government could try to write you out of existence. your entire community could despise you.

and you take that risk with a smile, all while looking absolutely gorgeous.

cause there is NO ONE more beautiful than someone who loves themself, is kind to the world, and freely expresses what truly makes them happy regardless of what others think.

i will fight to the death for your rights. i will not rest in peace until all trans and other queer people can live peacefully and happily without risk of being hurt for who they are.

i love you. trans rights are human rights.

Reform Law Project 22 - Quebec | Canada

During the past week and despite my health problems, I took the time to write and send a letter to various political representatives. The Prime Minister, the Minister of Transport, the provincial deputies and even a journalistic ressource. I wrote to ask for a reform of the law project 22. A law which affects the service providers of the SAAQ (Société d'assurance automobile du Québec). A law which at first glance seems to restore certain injustices and inequalities, but which reveals itself to be very limiting and excluding most users, victims of an automobile accident which invalidate them (And I include myself unfortunately). This law promises the "average Quebec salary" for people on permanent disability, on the principle that each individual would evolve in his profession over time, in a different context. However, this law is so restrictive that it only grants this “privilege” to a tiny part of the affected population. Some lawyers working for the rights of the injured, cries of injustice, testifying that they themselves, after a lifetime of practice, say they only know a few qualified people. According to them, those who are entitled to this reform are either "Dead or close to that". This law is ultimately just smoke and mirrors. Yet the principle, if truly applied as described, would change lives by lessening the burden of a situation beyond our control. THINGS NEED TO CHANGE! VF Au cours de la semaine écoulée et malgré mes problèmes de santé, j'ai pris le temps d'écrire et d'envoyer une lettre à divers représentants politiques. Le Premier ministre, le ministre des Transports, les députés provinciaux et même une ressource journalistique. J'ai écrit pour demander une réforme du projet de loi 22. Une loi qui touche les fournisseurs de services de la SAAQ (Société d'assurance automobile du Québec). Une loi qui à première vue semble rétablir certaines injustices et inégalités, mais qui se révèle très contraignante et excluante la plupart des usagers, victimes d'un accident automobile qui les invalident (Et je m'inclus malheureusement). Cette loi promet le «salaire moyen québécois» aux personnes en invalidité permanente, sur le principe que chaque individu évoluerait dans sa profession au fil du temps, dans un contexte différent. Cependant, cette loi est si restrictive qu'elle n'accorde ce "privilège" qu'à une infime partie de la population touchée. Certains avocats oeuvrant pour les droits des lésés, crient à l'injustice, témoignant qu'eux-mêmes, après une vie de pratique, disent ne connaître que quelques personnes qualifiées (il n'y a même pas 5 personnes). Selon eux, ceux qui ont droit à cette réforme sont soit "morts soit proches de ça". Cette loi n'est finalement que de la fumée et des miroirs. Pourtant, le principe, s'il était vraiment appliqué tel qu'il est décrit, changerait des vies en allégeant le fardeau d'une situation hors de notre contrôle. LES CHOSES DOIVENT CHANGER! Informations https://saaq.gouv.qc.ca/en/traffic-accident/public-automobile-insurance-plan/covered-how/financial-compensation/permanent-impairment VF https://fb.watch/fniydqI_D2/