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odinsblog · 2 years
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Weird how transphobia and racism keep showing up at the same parties together.
After reducing the entire movie down to (Amandla’s) “excessive cleavage,” Lena somehow manages to unironically recommend that everyone go see Jennifer’s Body, a movie best known for it’s lack of cleavage. Like, at this point just say you hate Black people and gtfo.
Other relevant tweets that hit the nail on the head:
Finally, someone brave enough to come for truly the most powerful and over represented group - queer, Black women.
"I don't want anything more to come out of this... But now I will post this video which will 100% guarantee that more will come out of this, rather than, say, reply privately”
“I don’t want this person who has more social power than me to think that it’s fucking okay to do something like this.” <<image of Elizabeth Eckford being harassed by white women>>
Social power didn’t have a thing to do with this. It was a DM not a public exchange. This film critic brought “social power” into this by making it public over social media. Just a typical Karen/white tears situation.
It was a direct message? How is she display her “social power” if she came to you directly and privately? YOU made it public. 🤡
Here are more shots of what the characters wear throughout the film. (Also cannot stress enough that there’s not even any nudity in this movie, let alone a sex scene or anything resembling an ad for cleavage.)
Lord, if you're hearing this, I'm down for the worst day of my life being someone sending me a soft jab in a DM.
Let’s put the context behind the response. (video)
It needs to be noted that Lena Wilson apparently has some history of shitting on films with Black leads or mostly Black casts. This is a good example of white feminism™ that body shames, objectifies, sexualizes & polices Black people’s bodies; and seeks to replace privileged straight white male gatekeepers with privileged cis gay white gatekeepers. And when called out on her racialized misogyny, Lena retreats back to the familiar position of “powerless” white woman who was “attacked” and “victimized” for no reason. (Hint: this is a good example of weaponizing white femininity against BIPoC).
As much as Wilson likes to tell everyone she attained her “success” by hard work and pulling herself up by her own bootstraps, please remember that her mommy and daddy are prominent industry insiders. So her life hack, her secret sauce is just more of the same old “nepotism & being born into a privileged wealthy white family” that keeps journalism and Hollywood so disproportionately white.
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ambientbroth · 2 years
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Gatekeeping culture is like: “don’t get your information online it’s too easy😡!!!” Then offer “find research papers online it’s really easy🙄”
Then block you.
Self diagnosing isn’t TikTok videos and random blogs. It’s literally months to years of research. There’s a lot of reasons why someone can’t get professionally diagnosed.
Misdiagnoses happen a lot
People aren’t taken seriously
It’s expensive asf
Its inaccessible
People want to adopt
People want the right to their bodily autonomy
I’m disappointed when I go online and see my bullies are now nurses. That’s kinda the same thing when I go on here and see professionally diagnosed people who shit on undiagnosed for posting coping mechanisms.
Stop calling people “the problem” for coping. The real issue is people who post any “if you have these… you might have” THATS DANGEROUS. what isn’t dangerous is:
Finding coping mechanisms
Find organization tools to function
Therapy
Talking about experiences
Researching extensively on traits
Documenting
Unmasking
Printing off quizzes or research articles from well established resources (Embracing Autism, ASAN, AIM, awn network, A4A)
Stimming (if it isn’t harming)
Advocating for diagnosis is one thing. Being a bully online is another. It’s a disability not a quirk, a lot of self diagnosed people know it’s a disability. We can identify the actual problems in the self diagnosing community but a lot of us aren’t those.
We’re valid
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yourbiggestfan2020 · 2 months
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This is me mass downloading every fic I find that I might possibly like and saving them to a folder just in case as back up 😂
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So the other day I was watching the OG Hellsing and quoted Integra while watching it. Then the day after my mom quoted me
THE URGE TO GATE KEEP WAS SO IMMENSE
Context: my mom doesn’t watch anime, nor has an interest in watching anime so I was like “how dare you use a quote from my favorite anime against me when you refuse to watch it?!” Lmfaooooo
But why was Integra so rude to him for no reason?! I get he can be a pain in the ass but she didn’t have to do him like that 😭
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whatdoyoushay · 2 years
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truths89 · 1 year
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MFA
Dream looters pull up With a stick up
Got me feeling like a shark Asking tuna for permission to swim
No child, partner, house, or car The phantom Amerikan dream looking grim
Fantasy is a shore, with whom I have great rapport If poetry were personified, I am her avatar
An introverted empress, a spiritual Negress A literary craftswoman in isolation You don’t require the Academy’s authorization!
Community is a consolation, you have yet to gain affiliation Realization is an invitation for evaluation
Become your own school, google is a tool Discipline a master, you’re your own headmaster
Create evidence of your resonance Edify yourself into eminence
May this be your genesis
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Here is a comic about seeking treatment. Thanks as ever to the angels who support the comic. if you want to join them linktr DOT ee SLASH tomorjudy
Here is the script Everything is Somewhat Repaired: Seeking treatment cw: Health care bullshit
Step one: Ask your doctor to write a letter confirming you deserve treatment "Judy has an ugly man body and should do something about it"
Step two: Send that letter to the people at your health insurance to decide if they will pay for treatment
Step 3: Wait seven months
Step 4: the health insurance offer to pay if you get a prescription
Step 5: Have the doctor who wrote the letter refuse to write your prescription for treatment.
Lol! We just wrote that letter to fuck with you.
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nightthrone · 1 year
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I don’t hate many people but I do hate people who try to tell you that you are practicing witchcraft wrong or that you can’t do certain magick because you aren’t an expert in it. Those people suck.
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odinsblog · 2 years
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*bloop*
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agiraffesjournal · 1 year
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What I was looking for was community and a sense of belonging. But I’ll tell you it is frustrating when communities are so rigid that they gatekeep. It’s not just the poly community. It’s several others. Stop worrying whether someone is “one of us.” And dare to go out discover people who are different than you.
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havatabanca · 2 years
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elvhendis · 8 months
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Somebody translated the infernal runes face tattoo that you can put on your character and the runes on the forhead literally just spell "forhead", the runes on the nose spell "nose" and the runes on the chin say "chin"
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everchased · 6 months
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hahahahaaaa get safe and cared for, idiot
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gaybeanman · 15 days
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We've all heard of gaslight gate keep girl boss but what about guilt trip
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ynsvnte · 3 months
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Just me when I find the song of the edit and listen to it all I think is about the edit itself
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awetfrog · 3 months
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Here to throw them into as many romcom tropes as possible
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