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to all my trans mascs:
who have many other gender identities
who identify as lesbian
who are nonbinary
who are binary
who are feminine
who are masculine
who don’t fit into the stereotypical idea of trans masc (eg. tons of masc traits and instead have fem traits)
who love being feminine
who love being masculine
who are androgynous
who are genderfluid
who are aspec
who are allosexual
who are bisexual
who are straight
who are poc
who are chubby
who are fat
who plan on transitioning/or have already done so
who don’t want to transition
who kept their birth names
who changed their names to something different than their birth name
who are neurodivergent
who are disabled
who are deaf/blind (was originally dead by accident but hey if ur transmasc and dead shoutout to u)
who are wheelchair users
who use canes
SHOUT OUT ALL TRANS MASC!!!
#trans#trans masc#lesbian#lgbtq#queer#genderfluid#nonbinary#aspec#allosexual#shout out to trans mascs
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Sure you're sex positive but are you normal about aroallos?
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#asexual#allosexual#aro#ace#ally#lgbtqia#queer#gay#lgbtqia+#lgbt#lgbt community#goofy#get it together y'all#aromantic#aro positivity#ace memes#ace positivity#i will fight you
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EDIT : Sorry if your identity isn't on here, I can't edit the poll after it's been published. If I make another poll like this I'll be sure to add more so more aspec people can be included in the vote, apologies.
EDIT 2 : You guys do know that you can just say no, right? There's no need to backpedal and run around in circles, it is honestly not a nuanced question. Do you think there's too much romance that commonly comes across as forced, or not? If it's a no, then answer no.
#aromanticism#aromantic#aro#asexuality#asexual#ace#aroace#acearo#aspec#arospec#acespec#allosexuality#allosexual#allo#alloromantic#alloaromanticism#aroallo#aceallo#alloace#alloaro
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Bi/pan and aroace friendship is something special, truly
(Fr tho I love my aro and ace spec buddies)
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something i hate to see but sadly see a lot of within the aromantic allosexual community is the hate towards men.
cisgender homosexual men are valid allo aros.
cisgender heterosexual men are valid allo aros.
transgender homosexual men are valid allo aros.
transgender heterosexual men are valid allo aros.
if you disagree with any of this, get tf off my blog. you are part of the reason our community is so overlooked.
#aromantic spectrum#aromantic#aromantic pride#arospec#allosexual#allosexual aromantic#alloaro#aroallo
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since people don't know about them, let's talk about sex-repulsed allosexual people.
first of all, asexuality is experiencing little to no sexual attraction. they can have a libido, read smut, and partake in kinky stuff. they just experience little to no attraction to people sexually.
with this logic, sex-repulsed allo people are just people who don't want to have sex. they can experience the attraction part, they just don't really want to partake in the sex part. this can also be caused by trauma stuff, but it could also just be people not wanting to have sex, even with the attraction.
just like how asexual people can be sex-favorable, allosexual people can be sex repulsed.
#sex repulsed allosexuals#sex repulsed#sex repulsion#allosexual#asexual#asexuality#virgil shut up challenge#i have seen the best of queue and the worst of queue and i choose both#1k
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Hey, allo anon with an ace partner here. I wanted to say thank you so much for the well wishes! I figured I would send this in here again, so anyone else who is curious about what this experience looks like from the other side can see it.
My girlfriend came out to me a little over 2 years into our relationship. At the time it surprised me a lot, because she'd never given me any signs that she wasn't enjoying what we were doing. After we talked more I understood that she wasn't repulsed by sex and she didn't hate it, but she didn't really love it either and wanted to stop doing it for a while (so a sex-neutral ace).
Honestly, at the time, I did get anxious about it. Not just because of social conventions, but because I had viewed sex as an important bonding part of our relationship. I don't do well with change, and I was super worried about how a lack of sex would change our dynamic. I also had some insecurities about my own body, and my girlfriend admitting that she didn't see me as sexy was upsetting. But after speaking to my therapist, I realized that I was projecting my own issues on to the relationship. So I spoke with her again, and she reassured me that she wanted to be with me, and that she was confiding these feelings because she trusted me. She likes how I look, she just doesn't have the same sexual impulses I do.
So, I realized this was pretty much like cuddling. I love physical touch a lot, and I want to cuddle for a much longer time than she does. I like it when someone lies on top of me. She doesn't want me on top of her chest during cuddling. She still cuddles with me, but she tells me when she's satisfied, and we stop.
A few months went by, and I noticed that she wasn't spending any less time with me; she was actually spending more. We would still call every evening when we didn't meet up in person, we would still joke around, and she still told me she loved me and did everything she could to show it to me. We also began trying out new stuff together, and playing games and watching stuff more often. We also still had plenty of physical intimacy with things like cuddling and kissing, which made me really happy.
I realized that I didn't feel like anything was missing from the relationship. I just needed her to show and tell me she loved me in the ways she normally did. Sure, I am still attracted to her that way, but it wasn't something that would make or break the relationship.
It's been years since she came out, and at this point, I never expect anything sexual. It happens rarely, and I always check in with her multiple times before and during. We stop at any point she tells me. There are quite a few hard boundaries about what is and isn't off limits, and I always keep them in mind. I would rather satisfy myself forever than make her uncomfortable, and she knows it.
It's been over 5 years and we are still going strong. I am hoping to ask her to marry me in the next few years, because honestly, I can't picture wanting anyone else by my side. She is kind, funny, beautiful, intelligent, and treats me well. I could never ask for anything more from a partner.
Thank you SO MUCH for sharing. I myself definitely lack knowledge of what it feels like from an allo's perspective, so this was very educational for me, but beyond that... You have no idea how much hope this gives me.
From you being aware of how much sex meant to you in the context of your relationship and still being fine without it, to just... Heck, even your therapist for not blaming her for the situation. Therapy is still very much, in my country at least, an area where the absence or lower levels of sexual attraction will be hastily labelled as something wrong physically or mentally, so... Yeah, the amount of relief I felt reading that, you have no idea. And I can only imagine how much your partner appreciates it too.
Honestly I teared up a bit reading this - I sincerely wish you guys all the best and I hope you have a bright future ahead! (Also fun fact, seems you guys have been together as long as my partner and I have, it's nice to be able to relate to that too hehe^^)
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i need a favour allos; pls tell me what a crush feels like. this is extremely important info. like genuinely, what does it feel like to have a crush on someone. if you’re feeling fancy what does it feel like to be in love with someone
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Man I've been seeing a lotta discourse lately and I've gotta say if you're asexual, aromantic, allosexual, aroace, aspec or anything that falls under the asexual and/or aromantic umbrella you're so valid and welcome here <33
#aromantic#asexual#aroace#arospec#allosexual#lgbtq#lgbtqia#lgbtqia+#lgbtq community#lgbtqia community
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Just a friendly reminder that not all aromantic people are also asexual! You can be aromantic and still experience sexual attraction!
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original image by sirompp
i bring a kind of allosexual romance repulsed werewolf to the table that a lot of people dont seem to vibe with
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Good: Accepting promiscuous aromantics/aroallos.
Not Good: Assuming all aromantics/aroallos are promiscuous.
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AlloAce
An Alloromantic Asexual
AroAllo
An Aromantic Allosexual
Symbols
Left AlloAce and Right AroAllo
#alternative flag#pride flag#queer flag#lgbt flags#a spectrum#a spec#aromantic#asexual#aroallo#alloaro#alloace#aceallo#allo allo#alloromantic#allosexual
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why are some allosexuals so unbearably open about their sexual actions like today I literally had one of my friends tell in detail that he wanks everyday and would totally fuck a clone of himself if he got the chance.
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Explaining to their cousin
@why-are-the-allos-like-this
#bisexual#queer culture#aroace#aromantic#allosexual#sex repulsed#asexual#lgbtq#lgbtqia#Sex positive#(from both ends👍)
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