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genderqueerdykes · 2 days
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it kills me how much people love to speculate on the trans male experience. transphobes and even other trans people will conjure up ideas of what it must be like for us to live, how hormones affect us, and especially what society treats us like. they love to tell us how we live our lives; strawman after strawman about fictional trans men who started hormones and became "evil and ugly", completely fabricated stories about about how every trans man they know suddenly "gained male privilege" and never deal with misogyny or transandrophobia.
people who tell you how your transmasculine experience will go have no idea what they are talking about. even if they sound confident, they are not correct- each and every transmasculine person has a different experience in life- we do not automatically gain the societal privilege of cishet white men once we decide to socially transition. they cannot see what your future holds. you don't deserve to have someone telling you how you will experience your own life, it is yours, you are allowed to live your truth, pave your own way and prove that we have varied lives that transcend what transphobes think the trans male experience is.
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wickjump · 2 days
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shout out to toby fox for managing to make the most non binary characters possible (literally the best representation out there i think). and shout out to the fandom for managing to misgender literally all of them
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station-down-any · 2 days
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floral-ashes · 2 days
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Huge thanks to Viridian Lakes for the review! 🥰
Having said that, the book can probably be best summed up by the author themself. “For those who, like me, struggle with crafting a sense of themselves in the world, acknowledging the inescapable messiness of queer life can be liberating. Demanding order and discipline is for cops, and we don’t like cops.”
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yourdailyqueer · 2 days
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Nemo Mettler
Gender: Non binary (they/them)
Sexuality: Queer
DOB: 3 August 1999
Ethnicity: White - Swiss
Occupation: Singer, songwriter, rapper, musician
Note: Will represent Switzerland in Eurovision 2024
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dreamtydraw · 8 hours
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21 QUESTIONS IS OUT !
My entry for amare jam and also a very important game for me as it was the first project i ever started to draft ( back in 2022 ) and finaly finished it all fresh and new !
Content:
Starting university in a new country is always challenging, but thankfully, you've made some friends. Eating together,  playing games,  and venting about classes... What could possibly go wrong ?
21 questions is a queer slice of life / romance visual novel that focus on your relationship with the main character Clément, a students who struggle in their first year of university.
Features : 
20K Words
4 Endings ( 2 neutral, 1 platonic, 1 romantic )
4 CGs
1 Non binary love interest
Partial voicing
Custom pronouns
All my love and tears
Warning : the game contains  scenes with reference  to depression and self harm ( no explicit imagery  ) If you're sensible to this themes play with precautions. 
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shutupvincent · 2 days
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i knew i was trans when i was extremely young. as a toddler id thrown tantrums when i was referred to femininely, and that's coming from a kid who was mostly silent from the ages of 1-4. when i was 6 i punched a girl cause she said i had to be girly and feminine. i knew i liked girly and feminine things but i couldn't take it because being girly and feminine meant being a girl. on my 8th birthdayi had a complete mental breakdown over the fact that i was always going to be girly and feminine. when i was 9 i told my girlfriend I wasn't a lesbian and i was a boy; she told me she didn't care. when i was 10 i tried to kill myself because no matter what i did it didn't look like i was ever gonna be seen as a man. no matter how many punches i threw or how many people i yelled at they would just see me as a screaming, confused stupid kid.
i am seventeen years young. i am still here and i am still queer. if it weren't for other trans people giving me some hope in this world, i wouldn't be here. or at the very least, I wouldn't be me. i would have detransitioned and I would've lead a life full of regret and despair and self-loathing.
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ineffable-ezra · 2 days
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Crowley is such an important character to me. They're the reason I found out I was genderfluid. He inspired so much of my aesthetic, and her look reminds me that I dont have to be "masc enough" or "fem enough" to be valid. I even bought 2 snake rings and a snake pin to have constant reminders of him on me when I feel bad about myself. If she was real, I would thank them so much for letting me be myself.
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genderqueerdykes · 2 days
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if you are a trans boy, especially a teenage trans boy, i wanted to say that as a trans man in their 30's, you have my deepest respects and condolences for what you may be going through right now.
it has become socially acceptable and basically online custom to bully teenage trans boys & mascs, call them cringy, or excuse misgendering them for whatever reason. people put trans boys on this pedestal of "must perform masculinity and manhood to cartoonish degrees" even though they're still children.
people make trans boys fight for their manhood before they can even be boys. i am sorry people can be so judgmental and harsh on you. you are not wrong for wanting to be a boy. you are experiencing something wonderful. it's okay if you still want to be a boy even if people have treated you poorly, or tried to make you feel bad for being a boy. there is nothing wrong with being a boy.
it's okay if you never socially transition. it's okay if you're afraid to come out because it's not safe. it's okay if you never change your outward appearance. it's okay if you try very hard to pass but struggle to. it's okay if you wear "women's" clothing and shoes, bras, makeup, etc., it's okay if you're gay and love other men. it's okay if you're scared of hrt. it's okay if you don't want surgery. it's okay if you mainly occupy girl's spaces still. people will find every reason to pick these things apart and ridicule trans boys for, but they are all perfectly fine experiences that do not make you any less of a boy. you are the one who is in control of your transition, presentation, and state of being- you should be able to prioritize your safety over the comfort of random strangers who have no impact over how you live your life.
i've been put through this too, but later in life as i came out when i was an adult. people still try to make me feel bad for identifying as a trans man, for whatever reason they have in their head to justify hatred of a trans person. i've had enough. there will never be an excuse for how people try to excuse the infantilization and abuse that trans men and trans boys face.
take care of yourselves, no matter what age you are, if you are a trans boy, man, or masc you deserve to know that other trans men care about you, especially when people are scrambling to find ways to punch down on you. there are people who suck, but there are also a lot of people who care about you. keep your chin up. you know who you are
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yo yo yo, my mother keeps referring to me as "they" instead of "she" I'm SO happy!
Ayyyyy that's awesome mate!!
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the nonbinary (enby) flag color picked from Raikou
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shak3sp3are · 2 days
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Resisting the urge to grab the plastic wrap when I run out of chest tape and my tits are too big for binders but it's too hot outside to layer
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adogscurse · 2 days
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A commission for @spearohero!
Thank you again! I enjoyed working with you!
Character is Heather They/Them
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notmebeing · 2 days
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What's your gender, on a scale between "yes" and "I own 20 hoodies"
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