Take care of the family God has given you.
Part of me waited to feel like I had a "family" because it wouldn't feel official until my husband and I had a child of our own. I'm learning to feel blessed with the family God has given me in this season of my life, and take care of them how I would take care of my familial ideal.
My husband and I recently moved into a new home, and my sister in law and her husband are renting the spare room from us. Since we've all moved in together I've learned how much I enjoy taking care of everyone, from cooking, to cleaning, to encouraging their ambitions. I never expected this to be the case, but God has truly opened my eyes to how a Christian woman can be a homemaker even when she has no children.
This might look different for you. Perhaps you an adult daughter still living with her parents and siblings. Take care of them. Perhaps you are a college student with roommates. Take care of them. Perhaps you live alone in an apartment complex, but have many elderly neighbors on your floor. Invite them to dinner, and take care of them.
God is faithful to lead us to a community, but sometimes we get distracted by the fact that it isn't the ideal we see for ourselves, and overlook our ability to serve and love them nonetheless. I've been thinking a lot about how I would feel if I found out we would never be able to have kids — and whether I could be happy homemaking for a family that didn't consist of my children.
I think I could, but this realization has come only through God opening my eyes to the fact that we are all His children, brothers and sisters in Christ — family by default, and all responsible to serve one another.
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The best friends of Eva Black
Lindsey The Yorkshire Terrier Dog & White the Wolf
Interactions between my ocs, adding Lucky (the little dog)
Let's add context, Lindsey and Lucky are siblings, they are both Yorkshire Terriers, and along with Eva and White, they are a big family. Lindsey and White are Eva's best friends, and Eva adores Lucky as if he were her brother too.
White is a white wolf, with the power to control and create ice. Together with Eva, they are dancers, they are passionate about music and dancing.
Lindsey is a genius, almost approaching the intellect of Tails or Eggman, and creates all kinds of gadgets to help Lucky, White, and Eva. Both Eva's bracelets, and the ones White wears under her sleeves, are her creations that help the two better control their powers more effectively. She has a laser sniper as a weapon, and uses it both in melee and ranged shooting.
Later I want to go into more detail about White's powers and Lindsey's engineering skills. Thank you for reading this far.
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April 26, 2024: Origin Story, 1993, Adam Falkner
Origin Story, 1993
Adam Falkner
Your grandma says you look just like your cousin
Frank, mostly in the eyes when you grin.
They chuckle at the dinner table when there is Frankie
in your hair, towhead cowlicks bolting into sky
like strands of snapped hay. No one stays
long on the subject, really – just the way he lives
in your laugh, your funny faces, how he smokes
like a ghost from your whistle. Once, your nan
had to grip the back of a chair to keep from
buckling. And he’s not dead. He just moved.
They told him he had to. So he bought a blue
‘82 pickup & went to New York to “get AIDS
and die.” Which he did. But not before
filling his lungs with sky the size of God
country & the new-fashion baptism of
a sequined, hungry life. Not before flashing
through a decade of open-mouth laughter & living
room play readings, crowded apartment holidays
& finally, the big breaks. Not before the coke
parties & park muggings & good news to share
with the boys & dinners at diners that let you run
a tab & hard news to share with the boys. Not before
beach houses wind-whipped with salt
& memory, where they sit arms pretzeled to watch
the sun steal into the other life. But that’s later.
It is 1993. You are nine-and-a-half but going on
knowing. It’s the fourth of July & everyone is here
except everyone who never is. Your giggle
lingers like grease on the walls as you float
the hallway, dull murmur carrying on from the kitchen
& there—frozen on the dresser, like a trophy
& a prayer. He kisses you back.
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