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Here’s some positivity for headmates who are transfem boys and transmasc girls!
Being part of a system can have a profound influence on someone’s gender. Sometimes contradicting labels can allow systems and headmates to express themselves to the fullest! This post is for all the transfem boys and transmasc girls out there!
🏳️‍⚧️ Shoutout to systems and headmates who are bigender, multigender, boygirls, and girlboys!
⚧ Shoutout to transfem headmates who use he/him pronouns and transmasc headmates who use she/her pronouns!
🏳️‍⚧️ Shoutout to transfem and transmasc butches, femmes, twinks, otters, and bears!
⚧ Shoutout to transfem boys and transmasc girls whose gender is inherently connected to their plurality!
🏳️‍⚧️ Shoutout to transfem boys and transmasc girls who are taking HRT, planning gender reassignment surgery, or are transitioning in other ways!
⚧ Shoutout to transfem boys and transmasc girls who are only interested in transitioning socially!
🏳️‍⚧️ Shoutout to transfem boys and transmasc girls who are still questioning their gender identities!
⚧ Shoutout to transfem boys and transmasc girls who are comfortable and at home with their gender and self-expression!
🏳️‍⚧️ Shoutout to transfem boys and transmasc girls who are intersex!
⚧ Shoutout to transfem boys and transmasc girls who have faced transphobia or harassment due to their identity!
🏳️‍⚧️ Shoutout to transfem boys and transmasc girls who are T4T or Sys4Sys!
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having conflicting or contradicting labels. Your gender is valid and you are lovely just the way you are! Remember that you will always be a vital and cherished part of both the plural and trans communities. You bring a unique perspective to these communities that is valued and needed!
Please continue to learn and grow, and to discover how to live your best life unapologetically! Rest assured you and your system will always be welcome in our spaces. We’re rooting for you and we wish you the very best!
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queerism1969 · 3 months
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nicholasribcage · 6 months
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etherealspacejelly · 12 days
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its so funny looking back on my 'not like other girls' phase now as an adult, knowing im audhd, aroace, and transmasc
like. honey. you dont like makeup because of sensory issues. you dont like dresses because of dysphoria. you dont care about boys because you're not attracted to them in that way. of Course you dont fit in with the other girls, a) you're not a girl and b) you're autistic as fuck dumbass
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genderqueerdykes · 13 days
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feminine afab non binary people and masculine amab non binary people are still non binary, and thus, trans. it's not okay to excuse slipping up using an afab non binary person's pronouns just because they "look cis" to you. they are not cis. they are desperately trying to get you to understand that gender is not as black and white as it seems. they are existing in a real niche of real people that struggle to be seen as who they are and contributing to that helps no one.
i see you, fem afab enbies and masc amab enbies. you are still non binary. you are still trans. you still have a right to what pronouns and identity you use. you have a right to get upset when they call you a girl or a boy when you're not. people do not have the right to misgender you just because they don't understand the niche you fall into in life. you are justified in being upset when someone misgenders you because they refuse to see that gender is a broader spectrum than we give it credit for.
you are trans. you are non binary. the right people will see you for who you really are. don't give up telling people who you really are. stand your ground if you must. you are loved and seen for who you are even if it doesn't seem like it right now. don't give up.
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imsrryoisin · 2 years
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trans unity
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arrowmoose · 16 days
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I’ve been curious about this…
I’m trying to get a large sample, so reblog please! :)
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lune-redd · 24 days
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some transmasc Buttercup drawings
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queerism1969 · 24 days
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thund3randrain · 3 months
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"I respect you and won't stop you from being who you are" and "I'm not ready to call you by a new name and pronouns because it hurts me" can not co-exist when the speaker is your parent who has a huge amount of control over your life.
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genderqueerdykes · 2 months
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as someone who has been scarred for life by experiences at gay bars, i need people to understand it's beyond tacky to mock people who want queer spaces beyond queer bars- it's dangerous.
let me explain. i went to 2 of my local queer bars a lot last year, as much as i was able to despite being poor. i witnessed a fist fight that was so bloody that ended up with a transmisogynistic drag queen getting hit in the head with a metal baton. the sight caused me to uncontrollably throw up in the bathroom of the club because of how gruesome it was. they had to close down the club and forard people out the back door because of how out of hand this person got- he was screaming transmisogynstic slurs and phrases at the bouncers were were transfem.
i was also sexually assaulted at these places, i was repeatedly groped by several people who i was not interacting with in the first place who found me attractive and decided physically grabbing me on numerous occasions was the way to get my attention. being femme in a queer bar is dangerous even if the people groping you are gay men.
i am also a recovering addict who dealt with alcohol issues in the past and could be considered a recovering alcoholic. i don't want to be around alcohol. i don't want to smell it. it triggers awful memories and also sometimes makes me consider getting a drink, but i can't have one, because the medications i take will cause a fatal reaction- i don't want to be tempted to drink, because it will kill me.
it's not right to mock someone or call them childish or whatever for not wanting to go to a club. whenever alcohol is involved, people's inhibitions are gone and they will do whatever. this includes fighting. i witnessed several other fights. just because it's a queer bar doesn't mean there won't be fights. and it especialyl doesn't m ean that you won't get groped or assaulted because, like i said, since alcohol is involved and it's a bar, there's a high chance this can and will happen.
queer people are not inherently safe angels to be around by virtue of being queer. there are still transphobes in queer bars. tranny chasers come to these bars. homophobic lesbians show up and lesbophobic gay men show up. drag queens and performers bring their cishet friends and family to support their shows. these are not perfect havens. they are not safe. we should not force other queers to interact with inherently dangerous spaces if these are supposed to be our safe spaces.
also these spaces are not friendly to people with disabilities; wheelchair users have nowhere to go especially when it's very crowded. other mobility aids get kicked and knocked over. neurodivergent people can get overstimulated by the deafening music very quickly. photosensitive people can have seizures due to the strobing lights. people with emetophobia like me run the risk of running into those types of triggers. people who are overstimulated by intoxicated people have no choice but to deal with it. dancing is one of the only activities to do other than drink and not many disabled (or even abled) people can dance for extended periods of time comfortably.
not to mention these spaces are not geared toward aromantic or asexual people at all, either. there is a long list of reasons why bars should not be our primary venues of interaction with one another. they serve a specific purpose- for people who want to cruise- but for the rest of us, it's really crucial that we have spaces that provide meaningful interactions with other queers on other levels of our identities.
some people just want to hang out with other queers in a quiet environment and craft, or shop, or drink coffee, or read books together, or just about any other activity on planet earth, and that's not "lame" or "cringy" or bad in any way- these are extremely normal and necessary parts of human interaction that we all require and crave and it's normal to want to do healthy, domestic things with other queers. we need this in our lives.
please take it seriously when people attempt to create queer spaces that don't involve alcohol and bars. it's necessary for our survival and well being as a community.
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transsexual is not an old fashioned or outdated term. transsexual is not a term only used by transmedicalists, truscum and transphobic trans people. you do not have to like or use the term transsexual for yourself and no one is forcing you to, however you do have to be normal about other people using the term transsexual to describe themselves and their experiences.
people still use the term transsexual, transsexual is a term steeped in trans history and trans liberation because transness is not just about the gender binary but also about the sex binary. for many people transness is inherently related to their sex and they are trying to change their sex. sex is not an irrefutable, immutable fact and the sooner people accept that the sooner trans, nonbinary and intersex liberation becomes a possibility. I hate the sentiment that gender is a changeable social construct and sex is a biological fact because sex is also a changeable social construct.
stop buying into t_rf and transphobic rhetoric about sex.
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aubreykate1 · 3 months
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Reblog if you love trans girl 🍆🍆😥
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sugarlovet · 4 months
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What do you think 😋😋😈😈😋😋
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queerism1969 · 10 months
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paperbackribs · 5 months
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transmasc Steve with weirdly supportive parents at the beginning, they pay for t-shots, an overhaul of his wardrobe, and (later) top surgery, and the family moves to Hawkins so Steve has a new school and a chance to be him without the weight of how he hadn't fit in before
but it becomes this thing, this burden with weight and expectations. because Richard Harrington, he'd always wanted a boy, a man to take over the business, a prodigal son
so it's like a cursed monkey paw at home: have to be a boy in a certain way, date the right sort of people, and definitely only date girls
and Steve's mixed up because he's grateful, he is, but when does he get to live as himself and not an extension of the Harrington's? does he even deserve to for all that they've done for him?
and so he becomes a bit of an asshole, absorbed in presenting in The Right Way, which means being an aggressive asshole, right?
sports, cars, girlfriends.
right?
then the Upside Down happens and happens again, and Steve learns that there are more important and scarier things than Richard Harrington and his expectations
it's not easy and it's not quick, but Steve gets a new family of kids in his back pocket, and a platonic soulmate on his shoulder. he finds that he can paint his nails with Robin and still be a boy, he can care and cook for Max while she's having a hard time after Billy and still be masculine, he can fall in love with Eddie Munson and still be a man
Steve is more than what Richard Harrington would make of him
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