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A fun fact to anti endos who I know probably scroll these tags!
Someone you think is anti endo, too, could be endogenic themselves! We would know, we have anti endo friends we made before realizing our origins! We love them deeply though and just play the part instead of losing them. That doesn't make us any less non multigenic now does it? Exactly >:)
#[[ramble]]#~ beppi ~#endo positivity#endogenic#endo safe#pro endo#endo system#endo friendly#anti endo dni#multigenic#multigenic system#plural positivity#plural#actually plural#plural system#plurality
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Here’s some positivity for proxy systems!
According to Pluralpedia, proxy systems are “where one functions as a singlet (or approximately close to one, such as a median system) due to a frontstuck host, yet all members of the system are completely distinct in the headspace.” Many systems may find that they function in this way! This post is for all the proxy systems out there!
🧡 Shoutout to willogenic, paromancy, imagian, or other willfully created proxy systems!
💛 Shoutout to systems who are writers, artists, or other creators whose headmates are characters who are unable to switch or front!
🤍 Shoutout to proxy systems with headmates who wish they could switch!
💜 Shoutout to proxy systems whose members often cofront, blur or blend together, or are coconscious!
💙 Shoutout to proxy systems who love, embrace, and celebrate the way their system works!
🧡 Shoutout to protogenic proxy systems, or those who have always been plural even if no one but the host has fronted!
💛 Shoutout to proxy systems who identify as specutien or have some other specific labels for their experience as proxy systems!
🤍 Shoutout to proxy systems with vast, complex headspaces, and to proxy systems with no headspace whatsoever!
💜 Shoutout to those who are questioning whether or not they are a proxy system!
💙 Shoutout to hosts of proxy systems who work hard to help their headmates live the lives they want to live, even if they can’t fully front!
🧡 Shoutout to proxy systems who prefer to present as a singlet in their daily life for their own comfort and/or safety!
Proxy systems have always been and will always be valued, cherished, and integral members of the plural community! To any proxy system who reads this, please know that your system is real and you are valid, regardless of how you experience plurality or the ways in which your system functions! It’s okay if most of your system members interact with the world through your system’s host. That doesn’t negate the validity of your system in any way, shape, or form!
We hope that every proxy system out there can have an amazing day today. Know that you are so loved, and you make the world and our spaces a better place simply by existing in it! Regardless of how your system came to be, you are special, your system is beautiful, and we are so pleased to be able to share this wonderful, diverse community with you. Please keep you chin up, have some pride in your system and how it works, and do you best to take care of each other!
#plurality#multiplicity#pluralgang#actuallyplural#system positivity#plural positivity#plural pride#system pride#proxy system#long post
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helloooo hi. wanted to make a positivity post for systems that relates to. gender.
— shoutout to systems who are trans as part of their collective identity or masking identity!
— shoutout to systems where most alters have different genders!
— shoutout to alters whos perception of their gender doesn't match their outerworld body!
— shoutout to levian/eclian/azlian alters!
— shoutout to introjects with different gender than their source!
— shoutout to alters who showed up identifying as one gender, but later identified as another, for any reason at all!
— shoutout to alters who identity as more than one gender!
— shoutout to alters with no gender!
— shoutout to alters with genders others have a hard time understanding!
— shoutout to trans alters in general!
— shoutout to non-human alters whose non-humanity affects their gender!
— shoutout to systems and alters whos plurality affects their gender in any way!
— shoutout to systems who can't express or talk about their gender because they aren't out!
— shoutout to alters who are the only alter of a specific gender in their system!
— shoutout to systems and alters who use more obscure labels to describe their gender!
— shoutout to systems and alters who coin their own terms to talk about their gender!
hope you enjoyed :D gender is a personal topic to me as im eclian/ecligender myself, and thats... quite a difficult label to describe to singlets, methinks. i hope this post was able to make you smile today!
#pluralgang#plurality#system#sysblr#plural positivity#system positivity#endo safe#plurality positivity#actually plural
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Technically, if you’re plural, every project is a group project. Give your headmates credit
#actually did#endo safe#plural community#plural stuff#did osdd#plural system#traumagenic system#did system#pluralgang#actually plural#plural#plural culture is#plural positivity#plural pride#plurality#multiplicity#dissociative system#dissociative alters#actually dissociative#dissociative identities#dissociative identity disorder#osddid#didblr#sysblr#pro endo#endo friendly#anti endos dni
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a plural edit of the trans comic by @ vsemily
(flags used are the DID flag, the OSDD flag, and the general plural flag - edit: I have received multiple comments and am now aware of the history behind this version of the DID flag and won't use it anymore moving forward, however I don't plan to delete the post entirely.)
#plural positivity#plural pride#plural#plural system#multiplicity#multiple#endo safe#endo friendly#plural community#osdd system#osdd#did#did system#system#system stuff#my edits
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plurality is not defined by switching.
plurality is not defined by headcount.
plurality is not defined by an inner world.
plurality is not defined by distinct headmates.
plurality is not defined by communication.
plurality is not defined by getting along internally.
plurality is not defined by an origin.
plurality is defined by multiple consciousnesses/identities in one body. if you say you’re plural, we and many, many others will always believe you. no two plurals are the same, and no one can tell you what you are or aren’t 💞
#✨ — Cillian#🍰 — Vince#endo safe#sysmeds dni#pro endo#plural positivity#system positivity#pluralgang
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treat yourself with the kindness that you deserve!
#system#plural system#plurality#sysblr#plural#actually plural#system positivity#plural positivity#system memes#plural memes#plural community#endo friendly#endo safe#this idea has been bouncing around my head for so long i had to make it
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Issac 💚
You're welcome internet
#did system#systemhood#system humor#system jokes#system joy#did jokes#traumagenic system#trauma#plural system#system#did#plural stuff#plurality#alters#system stuff#dissociative identity disorder#plural things#plural memes#plural#plural community#actually plural#plural joy#plural positivity#kaleidoscope crew issac
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No, you're not.
(Made by me)
-host
#did#osdd system#osdd#did system#system#dissociative identity disorder#other specified dissociative disorder#system stuff#system things#did osdd#osdd 1a#osdd 1b#complex dissociative identity disorder#did positivity#osdd positivity#system positivity#plural positivity#system appreciation
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hey shout out to plurals with "frustrating" or "socially bad" traits.
plurals who seem indecisive, "hot and cold", disloyal, dishonest, etc. to others due to subtle switches, passive influence, being median, amnesia barriers, etc. between headmates with very different opinions, wants, and moods
plurals who have headmates with "scary" attributes/symptoms, like hallucinations, delusions, anger issues, hypersexuality, low/no empathy, selfishness, need for attention, etc. especially those afraid they're perpetuating the "evil alter" stereotype
plurals who never know who's fronting. especially those with memory barriers, those who struggle with feeling any sense(s) of personhood, and/or those who struggle to keep close bonds with people due to this
plurals who struggle with meltdowns, tantrums, outbursts, pathological demand avoidance, poor sense of social norms, and other tendencies/issues that make being social or just existing in public difficult
plurals with fluctuating sexualities and/or triggers that make it difficult to remain with a partner/partners (or to date in the first place)
plurals who infight in-system and have trouble making decisions without intense internal backlash
plurals who have trouble keeping self care (and may go out of the house dirty/disheveled) due to other mental illness or due to frequent fronters being unmotivated, forgetful, or having sensory issues or triggers that interfere with self care tasks
plurals whose "self defense" relies on people pleasing, avoiding stressors, getting overly defensive, or getting angrier than "reasonable"
i write a lot of this cause i need to hear it, and i figure others do too. you are loved, you are appreciated, you deserve to be a part of society, you deserve to be happy, you deserve to be understood and given patience... you deserve to be able to create, love, heal, be respected, be treated like your own age, to lead, to have a voice, to feel safe.
#and even if none of that applies to you... you still deserve all that. i promise.#plural#plurality#endo safe#plural positivity#system#traumagenic
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something thats been helping us a lot recently has been letting alters just exist. i see a lot of systems who have strict roles and distinct alters, and it can be stressful to see that be the “norm” when our system isnt like that.
we’ve tried forcing individuality, but it only let to more dormancy. we tried figuring out everyones role, but there are too many alters who front just to do very specific things.
now, we are just letting ourselves exist as we are and communicating is way easier. we dont lose so much time anymore. i can remember a lot more (even if i still have emotional detachment).
i guess im just saying that as a system, do what helps you.
tracking fronts? go for it. assigning roles? pop off. making picrews and profiles for every person? thats so awesome.
if you can’t do any of that? you aren’t less of a system.
#plural positivity#system#plural#traumagenic#traumagenic system#multiplicity#sysblr#endo friendly#accepting of all plural types#system positivity#i thought it would be nice to have this as a reminder the next time we feel Denial
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there's no "wrong way" to be plural.
you don't need to be a "system".
you don't need to be a "collective".
you don't need to hear voices.
you don't need to have concrete ideas or knowledge about the "others" inside you.
you don't need a consistent headmate count.
you don't need a checklist for what's a "real" headmate.
you just need to feel at home in a plural community. you just need to see experiences and say "yeah, that feels right. i feel like that fits."
that's all it takes.
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people who think in-sys dating isn't valid are funny to me..... i can't love the fractured parts of my identity? cmon man, what CAN i do with them
#🎰jason#💿 kodi#endo safe#endogenic#endogenic system#plural#plural community#plural system#pluralgang#plural culture#plural positivity#plural pride#actually plural#plural stuff#plurality#plural things#endo friendly#pro endo
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#osdd#osdd tag#osdd system#osdd 1b#osdd positivity#osdd community#osdd things#osdd problems#osddid#osdd memes#did osdd#did positivity#did community#did system#did memes#system memes#plural meme#plural community#plural positivity#system positivity
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Everybody gangster and anti-fakeclaiming until it’s them fakeclaiming themselves. Yeah. That’s what I thought. Be nicer to yourselves.
#actually did#plural community#plural stuff#plural system#pluralgang#traumagenic system#did osdd#endo safe#did system#multiplicity#dissociative system#dissociative alters#actually traumagenic#actually dissociative#actually plural#dissociative identities#dissociative identity disorder#plural positivity#plural pride#plurality#didblr#sysblr#system#pro endo#endo friendly#anti endos dni#traumagenic did#traumagenic#positivity
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Please remember:
Endogenic includes a whole bunch of shitty stuff that people don't identify as trauma for themselves. Stress, fakeclaiming, struggles with neurodiversity, anxiety, anything.
Endogenic doesn't mean not traumatised, just that a system didn't form from that.
Endogenic systems can have traumagenic members.
Traumagenic systems can have endogenic members.
Endogenic systems can be horribly depressed and traumagenic systems can be joyful and enjoy their systemhood.
No system owes you their trauma history.
- River
#endo safe#non traumagenic safe#traumagenic#psa#plurality#plural#system#mixed origins#plural positivity
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