plural culture is the euphoria of being called your name for the first time. (YOUR name, not the host or singletsona's name!)
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fictive culture is getting stuff wrong about canon because you got so used to your version of events. the fuck do you mean his eyes are blue
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DID System Ask List
Feel free to reblog and have people send in questions!
These questions are meant for whoever is currently fronting
The systems reblogging this reserve the right to not answer a question they don't want to
Least favorite thing about having DID, and a silver lining?
Headmate you're closest with, if anyone?
Favorite song right now, and favorite quote from it if it's lyrical?
Favored aesthetic
For fictives: are you like your source? how do you feel about this?
how are you working towards healing, in whatever way that means for you right now?
Any special relationships within the system?
Staple fronters lately? (fronters who are very important right now or front a lot)
How easily do you split?
What are your positive triggers to get you to front?
Are your DMs open for other systems, and what are your boundaries? (18+, sfw, etc)
For systems with other disorders: how do they affect your DID and vise versa?
How open are you about your plurality?
What's something you're grateful for right now?
What would make a bright future?
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plural culture is constantly having to avoid saying “we” when talking to someone you’re not out as plural to
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people who think in-sys dating isn't valid are funny to me..... i can't love the fractured parts of my identity? cmon man, what CAN i do with them
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for me, being plural feels like so much more than “sharing a body.” its sharing a life.
this isn’t a hot take or anything, it’s just my own personal experience. we live in the same room, we strive towards the same goals, we maintain the same relationships, we look after each other so our lives, collectively and individually, are as happy as can be.
saying we merely share a body feels like if you lived with a partner (or similar close relationship) and referred to it as only “living together,” rather than having a long-term life that you share together. it almost feels like downplaying the impact of our system in the external world.
that’s entirely how i feel though, im speaking as a small system w/ managed/treated DID without one particular “host.” i don’t think feeling different is wrong or anything. in fact, im interested to hear why other systems favour the words “sharing a body” over “sharing a life!” i love hearing other people’s experiences, different and similar to mine.
plurality is such a vast spectrum of experience, disordered or otherwise. the brain is a damn funky little thing, i love it
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My parents: One day you're grunge, the next you're goth, and the day after that you're dressed like an adult toddler! It's like you have a wardrobe for every personality– like one of those, uh, you know, the people on TV with multiple personality disorder! A hundred bodies in one!
My closeted plural ass: 😦🧍
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Plural culture is going a few days without switching or hearing from anyone else and thinking you’re faking
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Fictive culture is having an existencial crisis when people talk about your source, like oh yeah I’m supposed to only exist in fiction
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tbh it’s so comforting to refer to the system as a whole as “us”. like yeah if you don’t believe me you can ask my buddy earl
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one really frustrating system experience is knowing that you’ve switched but having no idea who’s fronting now.
is it a member we know of, and they’re just acting a little weird?
is it a brand new member?
is it a member that’s been around for a while but we just didn’t know about them?
is it several members co-fronting and blending together?
it’s difficult not being able to pinpoint who’s who, and it’s a problem that’s very uniquely plural.
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