living with your queerplatonic girlfriend is like a ✨forever sleepover✨

grace i gotta say excellent choice in a girlfriend (she’s in a random i’ve been hyperfixated on for 8 months)

anyways i am very happy for you two !!!

I too must say that I made an excellent choice in a girlfriend!! so so so excellent ♡ (and aaahhh that’s amazing!!)

and thank you!!!! i appreciate that so very much!!!!! (and I too am so so very happy for us lol)

guess who apparently shakes like a fucking leaf when feeling feelings?!? ME it’s me and idk how to deal with that lmao aaaaahhhhh

Is there a story where two guys are chasing a girl and they start as rivals but eventually decide to be each other’s wingman, then proceed to fall for each other instead?

And the girl they’ve been chasing observes their changing relationship the whole time. Maybe she ships it, maybe she just finds them silly.

Maybe she also turns out to be aromantic. Maybe she even starts a lil sapphic qpr with another person.

(or a reversal of it where the girls are chasing a dude instead)

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The Spider And Her Demons

YA Australian urban fantasy/horror

about a Malaysian-Chinese girl who’s half spider-demon, just trying to keep her head down and survive high school

when she accidentally kills and eats a man in front of the most popular girl at school, they strike up a strange friendship and she starts to learn more about herself and the supernatural world

aroacespec/sapphic ish

there’s a kind of time travel in letters, isn’t there?

my piece for @pjoroyaltyzine leftover sales open now!!

[ID: a coloured digital comic of reyna ramírez-arellano and thalia grace.

the first three panels show reyna, dressed as a princess in a purple gown with gold detailing, and several pieces of simple gold jewellery. the first panel is big, showing her sitting at a desk in a castle, writing a letter with a smile on her face. the two other panels are smaller, on the right of the big one and partially overlapping with it. one is a closeup of reyna’s eyes, the other a closeup of the letter, now sealed, lying on the table.

the other three panels show thalia, dressed as a knight in silver armour with moon-themed details, a silver circlet, and silver earrings, one of which is shaped like a moon. in the big panel, she sits in a forest clearing, leaning against a tree, smiling as she reads a letter. the two smaller panels, on the left on the big one and partially overlapping with it, are a closeup of a stack of letters lying on the forest floor, and a closeup of thalia holding the letter. /end ID]

I was repulsed by the idea of marriage until I realised I wanted to marry a woman.

I felt suffocated by the idea of only having the option of romantic and sexual committed relationships until I learned about qprs.

I felt wrong when I got excited about my partner having a crush or when I thought about being so tightly bound to one person until I found out about polyamory.

I felt empty searching for what made me feel like my agab until I discovered I was agender.

These standards and pressures exist even when we don’t know what they are. Pushing a hetero/allo/monogamous/cis agenda onto kids hurts them even if they aren’t in an actively intolerant area. Ignorance does the most damage. Nobody deserves to feel broken.

hey sorry i wanted to ask a question that would reach sapphics and figured this was a good way to do it if a non-man is aroace but qpps with non-men, would they be considered sapphic?

it really just depends on what the person considers themself!!

also this is not a personal attack on you but i’ve never been a fan of the man/non-man dichotomy. there are sapphics who are both women and men (bigender) there are trans male sapphics who still feel a connection to the label, there are butches who identify partially or fully as men and still lesbian, the whole thing is just a really flawed way of defining queerness. sorry

off topic but does anyone know any shops (preferably that do shipping) that sell queerplatonic or sapphic flags that are only a few inches in width & height and are handheld? I want it small and onna stick so I can put it on my desk

I'm kinda, sorta, in a way, dating my friend ? Like, I'm sapphic-oriented aroace and she's gay. Our relationship has never been anything but platonic and neither of us plan on changing that but I just dropped her off after our third date. It started, as many things do, by me saying "you know what would be funny ?" We both come from the same town and study in the same town so we ride the train together when we visit our parents on weekends and we both wanted to go to the Christmas market. We decided to go together and I said it sounded like a Christmas movie, that it would be funny if we posted about it on social media and made it look like a date. So we did. And, yeah, we've rode a Ferris wheel for the first time, went on walks, watched movies while cuddling on my couch, been to coffee shops and libraries. She just joked about bringing flowers next time and I'm delighted. We've been dating since Christmas, except we're really JUST going on dates. It's really fun.

i was talking about the fnaf movie with my girlfriend last night and mentioned Mike, and she said “is he the one who’s Peeta from the Hunger Games”

god i love her and her bizzare ways of looking at media

congrats on the gf btw i’ve only heard of it from you referencing it and other people saying it too but good work ig

aaahhh thank you so so much!!!!

she and I both absolutely did good work lol so thank you!!

when you just want to scream “I love you I love you I love you”

but cannot

sometimes the most beautiful relationships you’ll have are the ones you never see coming. the ones you don’t go looking for. you’re laughing with a friend for the millionth time and as you settle into a comfortable silence, you suddenly realize that this is who you’re meant for, and they were right there all along. it’s the relationships where the two of you aren’t a “unit,” you’re not two halves of a whole — you are your own people, you are individuals who value each other’s growth and you choose, deliberately, every single day, to love each other, to grow alongside to each other, to learn from each other. sometimes falling in love isn’t falling at all — it’s just waking up again.

Polyam Tournament

It's monthly polyam day! This is for me ig XD

Am I aroace ? Yup.

Do I want my face to be meshed into a pair of pretty boobies? Also yes.