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happy ace awareness week
#i just rewatched the entire show with jay :’)#this episode was excellent#asexual#lgbt#lgbtq#ace week#post: r
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I kinda wish that "oh they don't know they are dating yet lol" was used less as a joke because while it can be funny to think about people not recognizing their obvious feelings it also shows a major issue with amatonormativity and believing certain ways people interact with each other can only be read 1 way. It shoves relationships into a box and assumes the people in their own relationship don't know any better and so can't possibly label it correctly.
"they say they are friends but obviously they just don't know they're dating yet!" Assumes that 1. Friendship is less than romance. 2. That the way these people act with each other has to be romantic and any other interpretation is wrong including the people who are interacting own interpretations of their relationship. 3. Assumes you, a third party observing the relationship you are not part of, know more and better than the people in the relationship and thus have authority to put a label on said relationship.
Do you see the problem here? Do you understand how fucked up it is to constantly be told your relationship is something it's not. Do you understand how rude it is to undermine people's own ability to properly label their own relationships. It does not matter if YOU think they are dating. If they say they are friends then they are F R I E N D S.
The thing Abt relationships is that all parties in the relationship have to agree with what it is. If one says they are dating and the other says they are not, then they are not dating and they will never be until both agree on that face. Simple as that.
#text#amatonormativity#relationships#aro#aromantic#ace#asexual#aroace#aspec#ive seen 1 too many jokes abt characters actually dating but being to dumb to know#like maybe...maybe expand ur view on how relationships can be structured and accept that#maybe the perception of their relationship isnt something to be belittled and laugh at#maybe explore the idea of friends who still kiss??? instead of being 'haha funny doesnt know they r dating'
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Of all people, this bot should not have contacted me lmao
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once again aromanticism is not a tragedy
#asexuality too ofc.#feeling this strongly today bc ppl online r pissing me off#aro#aromantic#aroace#aspec#asexual#ace#amatonormativity
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things that allos do that make aspecs accuse them of being aphobic:
mocking their labels and vocab
invalidating their existence
trivializing their experience
excluding them from the queer community
comparing them to paedophiles and MAP groups
comparing them to their oppressors
things that aspecs do that make allos accuse them of being homophobic/queerphobic:
existing
talking about their personal experience and headcanons
expressing their wish to be included in the queer community
#aphobia#aromantic#actually aromantic#asexual#actually asexual#the number of people accusing us of being queerphobic is wild lmfao#we r literally just existing#aspec communities r literally the most inclusive and anti-terf groups in the community. tbh idk wtf r yall even going at.
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I COMPLETELY BLANKED ON ASEXUAL DAY I HAVE FAILED MY FELLOW ACE BRETHREN.....💔 on a lighter note I realized something groundbreaking.....
#gabe and bee r so ace4ace canon in my heart#havent drawn them in a bit im kinda rusty lol 😵💫#good omens#good omens 2#archangel fucking gabriel#good omens beelzebub#gabriel x beelzebub#boxfly#ineffable bureaucracy#ace day#asexuality#lgbt#yeayeyyyayay#my art
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Watched the DnD movie and honestly... not only getting to see a man and a woman platonically live together and raise a child, but also seeing the story treat that relationship as even more important than either lead's lost romantic love..? Not to mention just the overall lack of focus on romance in favour of fellowship and family? My ace skin is clear... my aro crops are watered... Tolkien's ghost is doing a jig as we speak...
#dnd movie#dndhat#dungeons and dragons#dungeons and dragons honour amongst thieves#dungeons and dragons movie#asexual#aromantic#acearo#j r r tolkien
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I used to be very active on r/lgballt, guess I will post some of the comic i made for that sub here to
#pride#pride month#r/lgballt#lgballt#transgender#non-binary#bisexual#pansexual#asexual#bi#pan#ace#trans#queer
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still not sure how much of my queerness is "real" and how much my brain made up to be more like the cool and funny and hot people on my phone
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Sorry not sorry but if you hear "we need more aroace rep" "we need more repulsed rep" or "we need more non-partnering rep" and your first response it to get upset and assume this means people think just aro/ just ace/favorable/partnering rep shouldn't exist then that's a YOU problem and maybe you should ask yourself why you feel threatened by other aspec identities asking for rep so much.
#text#aro#ace#asexual#aromantic#aroace#sex repulsed#sex favorable#romance repulsed#romance favorable#non partnering#non-partnering#nonpartnering#i see so many ppl repond this way to my posts and its like...why r u mad exactly?#no where in my posts do i ever mention tgese others identities getting rep is bad#in fact i often support them#but ppl here me mention how otger identities deserve rep too and they throw a fit
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It happened again lol
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kissing girls is an olympic sport and by god am i coming in last fucking place
#im arospec and asexual so…#also a class A idiot/loser :)#but girls are SO PRETTY and SO AMAZING but also the idea of being in a relationship w/ anyone is like ‘ehhhh’ yk???#wlw#lesbian#shitpost#me: wow i wish I could kiss a girl#a girl: i want to kiss u#me: thanks gtg bye *finger guns*#why! am! i! like! this!#anyway happy asexual week we r all so cool and rad#sapphic#sapphic shitpost#wlw shitpost#bisexual#pansexual#aroace lesbian#aroace#arospec#asexual
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being ace and a 196er is like walking in a minefield
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