Gaybianfluid/flux/fluix is a term referring to those who are fluid and/or fluctuate between the labels gay (man) and lesbian, they may or may not also be abrosexual
Hey guys, as mentioned in my previous post I am now going to start working on a gaybian resource/explanation carrd!
With this decision comes a plethora of work and research to be done to make sure I properly and appropriately present the gaybian/velaurian community and their identity.
It would be really helpful if any gaybians out there that are interested in helping this mini project shared their experiences as being gaybian using this form (link).
Of course, only fill out the form if you are gaybian (or some variation such as velaurian/lesbigay/etc.) and are comfortable sharing your experience.
No one is obligated to share their relationship with the label, and if you are concerned about identification you can 100% fill out the form anonymously!
It would be very helpful if people spread this post by reblogging.
If you have good resources on gaybians it would also be very helpful to share those with me.
I also have a list of flags I plan to include in the carrd below. If you have other gaybian/velaurian/lesbigay flags you would like to have included please share (although I'm pretty sure I got all the important ones ever soooo yeah).
Have a good day everyone!
Most well known gaybian flag by @/beyond-mogai-pride-flags
Lesbian gay flag by @/beyond-mogai-pride-flags
Lesbigay flag by @/bunnyz-mogai
Sunset meadow gaybian/lesbigay flag by @/almondvaledeer
laughing maniacally: i sent an anon ask to the first person under the tag ‘bi lesbian’ (not just bi lesbian, the ‘’ is in the tag, it’s where the people who don’t like bi lesbians hang out and shit non people) saying “what’s ur opinion in multi gender people using more than one label, saying they’re lesbian and gay, and multi gender ppl identifying as lesbians” (the person is a lesbian)
CACKLING AT THIS BTW ITS FUNNY AS FUCK TO ME BC ITS ANON SO THEY CANT TRACE IT TO ME LMAOO
edit: and yes i’m putting this under that tag for shits and giggles.
I apologize if this comes out wrong, but what’s so wrong with non-man? I saw your response talking about lesbians including attraction to men, but how can someone be gay and lesbian at the same time?
Im sorry if this sounds rude, I’m new to labels and genuinely trying to learn
This post sums it up best, about the non-man thing.
Someone may be gay and lesbian at the same time if they are multigender or use the split-attraction model or have a fluid orientation. Or any number of reasons.
Every time before I go to a family gathering, I get this urge to be extra gay. Just like, to get it all out of my system, ya know? You want to go around the neighborhood and look for cats to pet? Bring it on! You saw too many people (one person) and you want to go home? I'm on board! You want to rewatch heartstopper? Or reread it? Or listen to girl in red? Whatever you say, as long as it's gay!
never let anyone tell you that trawling through mediocre victorian poetry isn't worth it. we just happened upon an absolute BANGER of a worm poem. go read it or else 🪱🪱🪱
the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again
a term for those who identify as lesbian and gay, can be used interchangeably with gaybian if the user feels it.
the user may feel attraction to both women and men or fem and masc aligned people (as well as gnc or gender neu ppl) in a queer way that's best described as lesbian and gay, hence lesgay.
T4T Lesgay
those who identify as lesgay and are trans loving/for trans
Narc4Narc
or NPD4NPD, a term for pw npd who love/date/are attracted to others with npd. a term ONLY for those with narcissistic personality disorder.
flags with and without overlay, mad using our npd flag from our cluster b post !
tagging @thrillingterms for both the idea and the last two flags <3