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Women are works of art 💕
#im ace#ace#asexual#asexuality#ace memes#bisexual#bi#bi memes#pansexual#pan memes#pan#lgbtq#lgbtqia#this includes trans women#this includes masc women#this includes androgynous women#this includes enbys#this is about all women#i love women#aroace#queer#beautiful women#queer memes#lgbtqia memes#alphabet mafia#wlw
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I been watching Trigun, and oh BOY am I down catastrophic for 1 very Tall Plant Fucker with a Gun
#vash the stampede#vash 98#tryina figure out how to translate his already incredibly stylized ass into even More Stylization#Vash#fuck man why gotta be so Cute#listen#im ace#but im still Simping#its the aesthetic attraction#babyyyy#me when a character who lives every moment of their lives in agony#anyway#trigun
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If you were once a 13 year old who spelled magic as "magick" what brand of queer are you now
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I HATE it when I'm reading like cute character dynamics or whatever and they're like "this character loves watching movies" okay that's nice "and they're horny" NO WHAT STOP IT "this character loves chai teas" cool me too "and they love oral sex" NO ICKY YUCKY PLEASE STOP IM BEGGING YOU
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I’m not a girl but like this is me. I just wanna have an adorable ace partnership with him where we focus on nothing but annoying our enemies and causing chaos ok, is that too much to ask
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idk if this is too personal, but how did you figure out you were ace?? I'm asking as an ace person who is curious about other ppls experiences
My experience is kinda funny!
My friend mentioned being ace, assuming I already knew I was back a bit before covid.
Incoming long post and a tiny bit of tmi for me.
I, a Christian girl in a small town who had barely any friends and also wasn't on the internet proper yet, had absolutely no idea what that was.
Eventually I found my way into learning all about it and my heart soared.
It took about a year for my family to really accept my identity. They mostly worried it would take over my life and that I wouldn't feel like I could change later on if I set my sexuality in stone. But now my family is on board. (I'll explain that in a minute. )
Now as for how I came to be like this?
I've always known I didn't want to do the same things as my peers did. Undiagnosed adhd until 2nd grade and autism in 6th explained some of it. But not all of it.
I was in 3rd grade when I discovered what adoption was via A Series Of Unfortunate Events. That series got me to love reading, and sparked my early interest in darker writing. Also taught me tons of words that some people are still as an adult surprised I know.
I declared I would adopt tons of children at that age. In fact I daydreamed about buying an entire orphanage and being the best mom in the world. I thought about all those kids who needed a home and I wanted to help. I also loved Meet the Robinsons and it made me want to adopt even more.
My parents gave me the sex talk. They didn't do whatever the birds amd bees is, I still have no idea what that is even now. They didn't go into a ton of detail obviously, I was like 10-12 I can't remember exactly. But they explained the "girl parts" and "boy parts" fit together to make a baby. (I learned the rest when I was a little older)
I thought it was gross. The idea of anyone's parts going in me made me feel kinda sick. It solidified my stance on adoption. I didn't want to have sex. I wanted to adopt kids because I didn't want to have them. But I did want to be a mother.
Growing up it was often chalked up to me not having hit puberty yet, me being young, and that I'd grow out of the adoption thing once I was a teenager.
It didn't. In fact once I hit puberty I wanted to have kids even less. My parts work, and feelings are feelings. I get horny, and I hate it because I don't want to have sex.
(Unfortunately for me, maybe tmi but I have bigger and longer labia, those protect the area but also have a lot of nerve endings. This leads to a lot of accidental stimulation and overstimulation from literally sitting on a hard chair. I can get sore riding bikes like the old newspapers claimed would happen to normal women. Pair that with autism, it's not fun.)
But the truth was I wanted to have sex less and less as I learned more and got more of a picture of how it works. The idea makes me feel bad. I don't want to look at a dick, ever. (I'm aware this may need compromise once I'm married. But I won't be having penatraitive sex even then. It limits my options by a lot but, I have plenty of time to find love)
Circling back I often made up crushes so people would stop asking me. I told other kids I had a crush on Einstein because he was dead so no one could tell him. I picked a random boy in 4th grade and forced myself to pretend I had a crush on him. I didn't really ever talk to him, but he was smart in my math class and he didn't make fun of me so I figured that would work. The closest to crushes over had were always on fictional characters, people who I couldn't upset or hurt or meet.
I never understood crushes. I do feel romantic love, in fact I've dreamt about falling in love for a long time. I experience aesthetic attraction, but the feeling I feel towards pretty humans is the same I feel towards a pretty painting. I recognize the beauty and then move on. Clothing stands out more to me than looks. This isn't meant to be a 'other people are shallow' thing. I do wish I understood how others felt like that. It looks fun. Now some of this is likely me being autistic as well.
Anyways. Once I learned I was ace, and accepted that for myself, things got easier on me. I felt so good to have a label for this.
Especially in high school. I finally had a fast way to let people know that I don't want to hook up. Not that anyone asked. I'm happy with how I look but I'm hoping I grow more into my mother's beauty because face wise I'm nothing special. (I've uh actually been complemented about my figure a few times though and that makes me very happy) I'm happy with how I look, but I know I don't turn any heads.
A few months ago my mom admitted something to me. She was actually relieved to learn I wasn't going to have kids.
My family has a ton of genetic health problems going up to 5 generations back on both sides. No, not because of weird interfamily relationships, because of unlucky genetic carriers and just plain bad luck. My dad has a degenerative condition, and my mother's side has had a variety of heart problems going back generations. Bad heart problems. My mom has hip displaisa, a partially fused spine, Hashimotos, allergies to nightshades, penicillin, mold, blood pressure problems, chronic migranes, chronic hip problems, and more. She has to take at least 7 pills daily, and none of them are pain meds.
All three of her children had to be delivered via C-section. I was born almost 3 1/2 months early. Turns out it was Preclampsia. That probably contributed to me being born with autism. Mom has never made it to full term with a child. If she had tried both of us would've died.
She said she's worried about what might happen to any children her kids might have. Especially the women in the family because (kinda obvious) that's where most of the genetic problems are coming through. Her mom had heart problems, her grandmother had heart problems, her great grandmother, and possibly farther but my mom's side didn't keep good track of the family tree. So she worries more about her daughters in that regard.
She says she looked into the Bible and also saw that God calls some to lives of celibacy. Which technically would be me. I plan to die a "Virgin".
She knows how much I want to be a mom, and she's supportive of me adopting one day. My dad doesn't talk about it but he's not against it anymore.
It was really nice to know she worried about that because I've been worrying about what might happen if I ever tried to have kids of my own for years. I always knew my parents had health problems. And from as young as 8 years old I worried about my baby getting really sick if I had one. I didn't want to have a baby but I still worried that if I did they'd get super sick.
I've always lived my life with the intention to adopt children from the time I learned about it. And when I learned how expensive it is, I adjusted and planned on making more money to afford the fees.
When I learned I was asexual it made me so much happier.
And it also made it easier to engage with kink content. There is plenty of kink that doesn't involve the private parts which is fun! Sorry if that's also tmi.
So... yeah! That's my story. Or some of it.
#shine post#im ace#asexual spectrum#actually asexual#asexual adult#ace#asexual#asexual journey#answers#ask me anything
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Hi Amber!
HAPPY VALENTINES DAY!
You art and animations are so beautiful and inspiring <3
Have some love from Sun this heart day
Hope you have a great Valentines!
PBPPBPPBPBPPNPBPJRJDJH1EKSJS1!1!!!11! SUNNYYYYYYYYYWAAAHHHHHHH
I still can’t draw atm but if I could I would eat those flowers and then grappling and hugging sun like a fucking gremlin and weeping tears of utter joy
Thank you sm though I hope you have a good Valentine’s Day too waahhh🥺🥺🥺
#THIS MADE MY DAY#I USUALLY DONT CELEBRATE CAUSE#IM ACE#AND ITS JUST AWKWARD FOR ME#BUT#IF SUN WERE REAL AND HE DID THAT I WOULD NOT KNOW WHAT TO DO BUT LAY DOWN AND CRY#GRRRGTGEGEGGEGRRRR I WISH THESE JESTERS WERE REALLLLL#CRIES IN SPANISH#THANK YOU AGAIN MOOT#GRABS YOU AND HUGS YOUUU
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Kinda want the ghildo..... Just for shits and giggles....
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Valentines day!! I love Valentines day because you get cheap candy the next day and people are doing romantic gestures around you! Seeing people happy makes me happy! You get romantic fanfiction and you get fanart and there's pink and red everywhere! Couples treating each other, flowers are all over the place, and there's a hundred different ways people celebrate.
And did I mention the cheap candy the day after?? I buy like 12 boxes of 5 piece chocolate boxes for 25 cents each. I buy bulk.
Its amazing
#im ace#valentines day#lovers#love love love#chocolate#valentine's day#candy hearts#i love seeing people happy
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Asexual/Aromantic headcanons: Good, I love them, keep going
Asexual/Aromantic headcanons based specifically on characters lacking genitalia or even being nonbinary: I am blowing you up with my mind
#high key feels aphobic to me#our sexuality is not based on our genitals#again ace headcanons are fine#im ace#but hcs based solely on the basis of a characters sex or even gender suck
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Some ace stuff :>
And it's just my opinion of course
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Happy International Asexuality Day!
When i was a tween, i always assumed i'd grow up to look and love the way that adults in media did.
I never looked like them. And i never came to understand them. But i was a wonderful person all along. and i was always suitable to be loved.
I was always beautiful and worthy of love. Ace and all.
#im ace#vent art/#p.s. mark feb 14-21 as aro spec week too#i hope ppl get the message is that like ... my body image issues made me not realize i was ace because like... i assumed that once i was#a thin adult that id suddenly look right and then would experience normal allo romance. and in fact none of that ever happened#cw body dysmorphia /
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I was talking with my roommate and for a moment I lived in a beautiful world where I forgot that people are ACTUALLY horny and want sex and its not just some weird internet joke
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My mom, who is in her 40s came into my room asking me about a tag she saw on a romance book sale. "Tail play" She doesn't really read romance but she was looking for paranormal fiction and she does like werewolves and they all seemed to be there. Also she was looking for one of her favorite authors and hoped one or two of her books would be onsale.
This led into a really interesting conversation. See my mom is a strong Christian, and I am too. I'm a monsterlover, and a furry. (ace and sex repulsed but I do read kink focused smut because the lead up is usually much better than normal stuff.) and she was obsessed with Vampires as a teenager.
So people aren't annoyed by the length.
She says she looked up most of them, and she figured out the rest. But one, the tail one she didn't get any results from Google searches and figured I, the self proclaimed monster lover and the one who she knows has more adult friends than she has might know what Tail play is. (I use a lot more social media and have a bunch of close friends on an 18+ server, so nice to just have other adults around. I like hanging with my other teen friends but it's nice to have a break.)
She thought it might be like butt plugs, which could be, but she mentioned it was the paranormal section and I explained it's a very popular thing to make the tail an eroginous zone. It can be used well, or used as a lazy way to get a character in the mood without trying. (I actually learned about it from gacha videos when I was 14, but I didn't know that wasn't a real animal thing for a bit so I avoided touching dogs tails so they wouldn't get mad at me lmao)
She doesn't read smut, and doesn't even really like romance. At least not when it's the focus, so when she was looking around she ran unprepared into the bottom bin romance 'trash' and actual romance trash. She was shocked by all the noncon, and she said she felt a bit sick even just reading some of the descriptions of the stories. We talked about the Fantasy but also that it's weird. It's odd that so many romance books marketed to young adults feature noncon and straight up rape.
Sometimes it feels like an excuse for lazy writers to ignore any chemistry because they can just force the sex scenes. Which is. Not good.
She also stumbled upon omegaverse and I explained it to her. I don't read it myself, I respect the place it has in internet history and fandom culture but I've never liked the alpha beta omega stuff, even before the Alpha Male Bros tm came a crawling, begging for scraps of coolness. She didn't like it. She also prefers more women in her stories and omegaverse by default is mostly men.
But one of the big things to me, was when she was talking about the possessiveness in a ton of werewolf fiction. She didn't like how everything seemed to only cater to the desire to be required to stay and to be owned. To be dominated. She says she's always preferred what little romance she reads to be more equal. Which, to me isn't surprising due to how my mom is, but may to the idea of a strong protestant Christian many have in their head.
I explained it's a very popular trope. Personally? I'm 50/50 on it. I'm up for a little "be mine" and "you're all mine" but it's just so overpowering. It's hard to find the werewolf as the sub, or without the power play.
Mom and I ended up talking about our various reader woes, her in the Christian fiction and general fiction world, and I in the fanfiction and fandom world. And the monsterfiction community.
We both spoiled ourselves by reading really good books, or for me fanfiction, and good books because my father is a Sci fi buff and has a massive collection of some beautiful stories. And also I'm autistic and if I don't think a story is good near the start I can't finish it. I can't hate read anything.
My mom and I bonded over something I didn't expect, the lead up. Mom enjoys tasteful scenes, or as she says "closed door" or fade to black sex scenes. We both love the romantic tension when written well. That's why I tend to seek out kink stuff. The lead up is more necessary. But I've never really enjoyed the sex part of smut.
And worse sometimes people stop trying during the sex scenes. Like the writing quality drops because "why try the people reading already got excited, they know what to do."
I personally love reading sexual tension, I love the kissing and the rubbing and the wanting. I love reading about the hot and bothered. But I don't like reading about genitals and I never have. Kink, especially those with unusual eroginous zones tend to focus more on that. Also monster fiction, if it is with really weird monsters, will use unique situations and open up to some amazing writing. I even skim past the actual sex scenes half the time. But if you write good lead up, I'll probably give it a look.
Mom has started to develop the "pickiness" some of us fandom lovers have as she gets older, and we bonded over the wish for more of specific things without being able to find it. Me with empty tags, her with genre issues.
Because the best stuff is hard to categorize, which is cool. But it sucks! Because it's really hard to categorize and find more of. We make it work.
But I think it was a really interesting conversation.
#shine post#monster lover#fiction books#conversations with my mom#being an ace Christian monster lover is pretty interesting#fanfiction woes#romance novels trouble#im ace#monster fucker#Christian#my mom is really cool#werewolves#werewolf fiction
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Story time (sort of)
This morning I woke up and decided that from now on I was going to be claiming main character energy. And a few days ago I came out as ace on my personal Instagram (so where a bunch of people I have classes with and just people I know in real life follow me)
And this afternoon I was talking to a friend and she informed me of the following:
Apparently there is a group of boys in my class and a couple of people I only know by name who have started this bet, where if one of them starts dating me they get an amount of money.
The exact number, or people involved, I don't know, but the starting bid was 20 euros, and according to rumor the number then only went on.
I have deduced a few names and I figured out who most likely started this thing, and let me tell you, the group is led by the know fuck boy of the class, and none of them are people I like at all, even on a platonic level.
And they don't know I know
So this will be fun
That, believe it or not, was not sarcastic. I find the situations entirely hilarious, as I'm also on the aro spectrum, and just overal, I dunno, I just think it's hilarious.
So I guess I'll be posting updates on the situation, hopefully soon.
#im ace#ace#asexual#asexuality#lol#this will be fun#comming out#coming out#arospec#i dont know how to tag this#main character energy#drama
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What the hell, what is up with all these people following me recently. Why are there so many women with inappropriate tumblr profiles following me brrruuhhhh.
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