If you do not spend time getting to know yourself, you will end up absorbing everyone else's random and conflicting ideas about you.

Knowing who you are on a very deep and intimate level is the best way to protect yourself from internalizing disempowering opinions from others.

energy givers

“It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue, and the pain lessens, but it is never gone.”

Rose Kennedy

I needed to see more Goddesses with body art because we outside slaying too

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I can not control how people look at others through their lens of the world nor is it my problem. Nor is it any of our problem. It sounds rather selfish to let others bask in their distorted reality of life/sexuality/gender/love until you realize these same people have no problem imposing these steel chains on themselves and you too if you let em. So don't let. ^Read that again, it sounds like an attack on both sides doesn't it? Yet I take no sides on who of them who calls themselves straight or gay because the truth is, we are just living, we had to figure this shit out over again because history was wiped and no one is right or wrong for many different reasons. The jist. Be and become the most weirdest wildish shit ever, if you look around and see no one there that just means that space was meant for you, you just gave it away to best selling and your sense of identity went with it. You just let people abuse your respect for everyone's think peace. Everyone in the internet has one and yet we soak that shit in like the end all be all turn around and take a stance on it for life. Tragic. the only respectable and responsible opinion are those who are lucrative. Meaning they understand life itself as having no definite answer. And to be ok with being undefined, nothing but self, and the very life force that causes for you to wake up in the morning is freeing yourself from all the bullshit. We get up here and have a new label every 3years,5 decades, until it becomes a blur and have to start all over again from Adam and mf eve. Until it becomes trigonometry to figure out what your gender and 'sexuality' is and we go back to the animal instinct of reproduction, then they tell us we weren't being smart by defining ourselves as lifeforms but dumbing it down past free will. only to forget we never had to fight to love who we wanted but became too emotionally illiterate too . When did we stop becoming the purest form of ourselves. Meaning who we have sex is important in the sense that it pertains to the adults involved . How we dress has nothing to do with the one not wearing it (this was known hince why men had the emotional literacy to wear whatever tf they wanted but don't think this doesn't involve women, see we've defeated what a "women is supposed to look like" before only when we put ourselves in a society that is hypocritical do we trip over our feet) declaring oneself free from this culturalized society is the only way out and only are we to use society as self expressio...not chains. But we once forgot that too and ended up segregated with cave/hive mind. And yet we still don't believe history has repeated itself on multiple occasions. Or has it become so detached from who we actually are? We are forgetting there is another side to this whole life thing that is non physical. Forbid we keep ourselves in just one, the one that has us having an identity crisis about a fucking color,skirts,dress, fixed personality, fashion, love, stance, clothes, hair, nails, feminine/masc (since when were we as humanbeings everrr defined by just two ways of being before documentation existed) that's where so much confusion comes from. So in conclusion... aesthetics. Free yourself, these may be very real in the reality you currently reside in but for fucks sakes you could be looking at a friend from your long lost past and yet you worry...if he indeed...is gay,likes you back, has a girlfriend. In the way we have spit on the essences of just simply existing in exchange for these roles we were forced to play. Break out of it for fucks sakes, we are finally free.

Free your Mind from the weight of your troubles - #freeyourmind

Happy Saturnday!

It may be difficult to walk away, but releasing unhealthy relationships will allow you to seek more out of life.

Relationships are not always sexual; they can be family or friends. That favorite cousin or that co-worker.

People, places or things...

Go and don't look back!

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“The only way to improve the world is by improving ourselves, because the only thing we can experience is ourselves.”

~Immanuel Kant

Heute gibt's von mir:

●eine virtuelle Umärmelung für die, die alleine sind und sich Geborgenheit wünschen.

●ein 🕯Licht am Ende des Tunnels, für die, die gerade keine Hoffnung haben.

●ein Fünkchen Glück für die, die das Gefühl haben, keines zu haben.

●ein bisschen Frieden für die, die im Krieg leben, oder die Krieg gegen sich selbst führen.

●ein bisschen Ruhe, für die, in denen ein Orkan tobt.

●Sicherheit für die, die Opfer von Gewalt, Missbrauch und Terror sind.

●Gewissheit, für jene, bei denen es ungewiss ist, wie es weiter geht.

●Hoffnung. Für all jene deren Träume sich noch nicht erfüllt haben.

●und Liebe, für jene die sich ungeliebt, nichts wert oder unnütz fühlen.

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Sucht euch raus, was ihr gerade braucht!

Und auch wenn es nur ein virtueller Gedanke ist, den ich euch geben kann, so ist es doch mehr als nichts zu geben!

Love, Christina

“Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.”

Jim Morrison

Apofaticamente - pA. dR.

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