this is important

listen to me. It is not your responsibility to make everyone happy. It is not your responsibility to please everyone. It is not your responsibility to stay in a position you hate because ‘no one else will do it’.

it is not your fault that someone else can’t get their shit together. It is not your fault that someone else didn’t have a backup plan. It is not your fault that leaving will upset them.

you do not deserve to be yelled at. You do not deserve to be told cruel things. You do not deserve abuse.

if you made a commitment, then fulfill that commitment and leave. If you made a promise, keep that promise and leave. if leaving is imperative, fuck that commitment and fuck that promise.

your mental health is the most important thing. Your safety should be your top priority.

You will disappoint some people, and make some people unhappy, that’s just part of life. You shouldn’t try to please everyone

But if you disappoint yourself and make yourself unhappy due to someone else’s stupid decisions, leave.

Surround yourself with people who love you and who treat you with respect.

you deserve love

you deserve respect

and above all, no one has the RIGHT to damage your mental and physical health.

I love you

Sometimes you have to admit that you're the one standing in your way. And it's not always an easy pill to swallow. But owning up to your actions, words & behavior patterns will allow you to change for the better.

Me wanting to apologize to people who caused me much more pain vs me realizing I haven't been afraid of my friend groups for the first time in 10 years.

It's tough to put your foot down, and even tougher to stick to your guns once you have, even when you're in a much better place then you were before but don't cling to shit friends.

i think one of the most impactful things my therapist has told me is that sometimes just sitting around doing nothing IS productive. sometimes your body and mind need time to rest and you're not horrible and unproductive for taking the needed time to do that. i still struggle with the guilt of doing nothing after a long day or week of work when i know there are things i "should" be doing. but the thing is, the dishes can wait. i need to recover

i do unironically think the best artists of our generation are posting to get 20 notes and 3 reblogs btw. that fanfic with like 45 kudos is some of the best stuff ever written. those OCs you carry around have some of the richest backstories and worldbuilding someone has ever seen. please do not think that reaching only a few people when you post means your art isn't worth celebrating.

Follow your dreams, kid.

Sometimes I hate “for whoever needs to hear this right now” posts but here goes

For whoever needs to hear this right now:

If you’re feeling like “how long must I wait,” just know it is coming. For that thing that makes you enjoy being YOU. It WILL happen and it will give your soul the refreshment the nourishment it needs. It will make you remember why you hold on for the next time when you are in a spot where you need to hold on.

You can keep holding on and you will keep holding on and when you get to it you’ll be so incandescently happy it will make all the painful waiting worthwhile. Every time.

"I can't believe everyone made Heartstopper out to be this big revolutionary thing and it all it was was a big waste of my time!"

Me, speaking softly as I take your hands in mine: I'm sorry that the experience did not spark joy for you. Genuinely. I'm glad that you experience your queerness and that of your loved ones with such fullness that this show felt like an excess. It's important to remember however that not everyone has that privilege to experience such unadulterated queer joy. Please be gentle with them. Be gentle in a way that life was not gentle with you. Want better for the kids growing up in the here and now.

ok so. I found the whole master sword decaying and breaking thing ridiculously funny once the cutscene ended and i got over it. bc. i've played sksw. i forged the darn thing. i had to haul the goddess sword through quest after quest (smth about dragon bathwater?) so i could put fi through flame after flame and finally get the master sword. and. and then i broke it. i spent so long putting it together and THEN I WENT AND BROKE IT??? anyway i found it funny kind of. full circle ig.

no you're so right this is hilarious

Trapped Fear

At first Fright Knight was not loyal to Pariah, maybe it was because he was the combination of many warriors and he knew that tyranny would lead to nothing. However, because of this the former king engaged him in battle and captured his core, making him loyal.

Like all Ancients, Fright Knight could survive without his core but had to obey the person holding it. He and Clockwork shared that unfortunate fate, though Fright Knight considered being at the mercy of the Observants far worse.

When Danny defeated Pariah Dark his control over Fright Knight stopped, the knight foolishly thought he would take back what was his, but the old king was selfish and thrown the stone of fear into the human world, where he knew Fright Knight would not enter.

Disappointed but used to it, Fright Knight resigned to not finding that part of himself, he served Danny from that moment on, becoming his protector and above all, his friend. Until someone found his core and instead of being free, he was summoned and resigned to fulfill the words of his new owner.

Of course, Danny was worried when his knight disappeared from Phantom Palace, and after a long search he found his whereabouts in a city: Gotham. A man called "Scarecrow" was spreading fear in the city, and it seemed very familiar to him.

After a fight with the bats he got the information he needed: his knight was following the man. When he went to face his old friend, the king noticed that Fright Knight was not speaking on his will, he was crying and sending messages of help that only he could understand. The King was furious, and maybe it was time to show why no one messed with what was his.

I don’t know who needs to hear this, but it’s very likely that we are not gonna get a Buck and Eddie kiss in tomorrow’s episode or them confessing their feelings. It’s likely we may have Buck come out to Eddie and that’s it. And we may even possibly get a little moment of some kind of realization for Eddie. And if we don’t get any of those things, that it isn’t cause for concern. This is long form storytelling and unfortunately there’s not going to be any sort of instant gratification no matter how much people want it. They’re telling us a story and it’s unfolding beautifully. Yes it may be a slower journey than most, but the outcome surely will be worth it. And it will be wholesome and beautiful and very much needed for these two individuals. Please be patient and understand that if things don’t go a certain way tomorrow, that once again doesn’t confirm it’ll never happen. So don’t get upset if certain words are said amongst each other, and they behave a specific way that may not be to your liking. Buck and Eddie, in my opinion at least, are the ultimate endgame and they’re slowly giving us their stories on how they eventually come together as one. Please be patient and enjoy the road, however bumpy it may be. It will all be worth it in the end I promise.

NOW I GET IT !!

I hate sniff snifferish

I hope you have the courage to...

"I hope you have the courage to keep loving deeply in a world that sometimes fails to do so. In a generation that orders up attention like they order up a meal, in a generation that has started to love with one foot out the door, I hope you have the courage to believe that genuine connection still exists. And I hope you have the courage to stand up for that, to open yourself to it when you start to feel it bloom within the heart of you. I hope you have the courage to appreciate it for all that it is, to not approach it wearing a mask, to not try to desensitize yourself to it or to play it cool. Please, I hope you have the courage to crash your heart into the people life gifts you. I hope you have the courage to believe that goodness still exists, that there are those who have the capacity to love the way you do, and that there are those who will see you, will grow you, and teach you more about the world. I hope you have the courage to fight for connection. I hope you have the courage to go deeper. To never exist on the surface of your life, even if it’s easier or more convenient. At the end of the day, you should leave this world with a heart that is worn-out and soft all over. A heart that is bruised from loving, and feeling, and caring in the best way possible. At the end of the day, you should be proud of your inability to be anything but open to the world. You should be proud of who you are.

I hope you have the courage to do the hard work. I hope you have the courage to sit down with your demons, to befriend them; to look them in the face and to not feel fear. I hope you have the courage to stop picking or numbing or avoiding the wounds within, and I hope you choose to heal them instead. I hope you have the courage to understand yourself, fundamentally—to open up the deepest, darkest parts of your mind, to unhinge your rib cage revealing the gritty parts of your soul, the parts no one else claps for, and I hope you have the courage to clean them out. To forgive yourself for what you had to do to kill your sadness. To forgive yourself for the ways in which you didn’t fight for the person you were becoming. I hope you have the courage to nurture your pain, to not disregard it or sweep it under the rug of distraction or convenience. I hope you have the courage to heal yourself, even when it hurts.

I hope you have the courage to know when to end things. And I hope you have the courage to see endings as beautiful, transformative stepping stones. I hope you have the courage to let love and opportunity move through you like rain. To not grip, or seek to change it, to not ask people or circumstances to be more than they can be for you. I hope you have the courage to see endings as the cornerstones of the chapters that changed you without needing them to be a part of the rest of your story. And when that is done, I hope you have the courage to give yourself closure. To be your own home. To be your own safe place. I hope you have the courage to not let the losses destroy you, to not let them burrow into the heart of who you are and convince you that you failed, or that you are unworthy of the happiness you are standing up for in your life. I hope you have the courage to see the way in which you loved and tried and fought for something as a testament to just how deeply your capacity to feel is, just how beautiful moments can be when you appreciate them for what they were instead of nullifying them or letting them harden you to the world. Please, I hope you have the courage to move forward. I hope you have the courage to walk away with grace.

I hope you have the courage to do things differently, to be the kind of person who takes the risk, to be the kind of person who leads with their heart and shows up in their life with a ruthless dedication to learning and growing and enjoying the hell out of their moments here. I hope you have the courage to never let comfort or apprehension convince you that you are better off staying still. I hope you have the courage to trust the part of yourself that knows there’s more out there for you, the part of yourself that is easy to quiet when you’re trying to live by the rules and the expectations of a world that has bred so much dissatisfaction and sadness. I hope you have the courage to trust the part of yourself that seeks freedom from those trends, from those boundaries, and I hope you have the courage to go after whatever it is that genuinely makes you want to get up in the morning. I hope you have the courage to find the things in life that ignite you and deepen your understanding of the world and those within it. I hope you have the courage to fight for a future that inspires you, even if it doesn’t look the way you thought it would. I hope you have the courage to change. I hope you have the courage to trust in the person you’re becoming."

-Bianca Sparacino

Masterlist

-follow a blog for the sole purpose of hearing unhinged rambles about a specific subject

-OP will be like "sorry for going off about this thing ahh :("

-i smack them across the face with one of these bad boys