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listen to me. It is not your responsibility to make everyone happy. It is not your responsibility to please everyone. It is not your responsibility to stay in a position you hate because ‘no one else will do it’.
it is not your fault that someone else can’t get their shit together. It is not your fault that someone else didn’t have a backup plan. It is not your fault that leaving will upset them.
you do not deserve to be yelled at. You do not deserve to be told cruel things. You do not deserve abuse.
if you made a commitment, then fulfill that commitment and leave. If you made a promise, keep that promise and leave.
if leaving is imperative, fuck that commitment and fuck that promise.
your mental health is the most important thing. Your safety should be your top priority.
You will disappoint some people, and make some people unhappy, that’s just part of life. You shouldn’t try to please everyone
But if you disappoint yourself and make yourself unhappy due to someone else’s stupid decisions, leave.
Surround yourself with people who love you and who treat you with respect.
you deserve love
you deserve respect
and above all, no one has the RIGHT to damage your mental and physical health.
I love you
#i love you#mentalheathawareness#you deserve better#tw abuse mention#tw yelling mention#for whoever needs it#asking for help can be hard#for whoever needs to hear this#yes this is about a specific person#im quitting a club I love#Because my mental health is declining#Because of our club leader#safe space#you deserve the world#you deserve love#you deserve to be happy#you deserve respect
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i'd let him kill me ngl ♡
#yes this is about a specific person#i dont think he follows our tumblr#which is probably a good thing tbh#derek's obsessed#fuck it getting my own tag cus im not leaving this in the general talking tag LMAO
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me: i love this creator and the things they make!!!
me, minutes later: *finds out that one of the popular searches when you look them up is “[creator] controversy”* oh im fucked arent i
#yes this is about a specific person#but i dont wanna look into it bc id much rather live in blissful ignorance than have another thing ruined for me
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If you refuse to cover your mouth when you cough, and you cough constantly, I should be allowed to shoot you between the eyes.
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Can we stop saying someone is bi-polar when they really just mean mood swing? It’s abelist af and I’m really tired of hearing it.
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Sometimes you have to look at the things you’ve made yourself angry about and ask yourself “have I accurately interpreted this person and what they’re trying to say, or am I just being a heinous bitch?” And growing the fuck up means acknowledging it to yourself when it’s the latter.
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Honestly havin online friends is so funny,, I know people who’re half a foot shorter than me, n then they’re people who’re half a foot taller than me
Same for my irl friends, too,, just less of my irl friends are as short,, one of my best friends irl is 6′2 n HE’S STILL GROWING
#sherwood talks#like that guy’s been tall forever but it’s getting over-the-top at this point#but yeah it’s funny thinkin a friend must be around 5’5#n they say they’re 5’1#yes this is about a specific person#you know who you are /silly
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it's so funny when someone you follow or are mutuals with starts posting about a fandom you've literally never heard of and now its all over your dash and you're confused but don't have the heart to unfollow them bc they made like five really good posts about a fandom you're in
#yes this is about a specific person#not saying who#maybe they'll see this idk lmao#maybe they'll know its them if/when they see this???#shitpost#idk how to tag this#posting#tumblr#mutuals#moots#idk man
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You ever just trust someone and then you hear about what they’ve done and you’re just like why did I trust them?
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I hate having problematic favs. Like, bitch? How can you be an irredeemable trash bag and have the audacity to make things I like? I'll listen to your music but if I ever see you in real life it's over for you, old man!
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i don’t believe in natural selection.
because if it worked, you’d be dead.
#shitpost#natural selection#science#tw death#You have defied God#And I intend to end you#Natural selection#More like whoever pissed me off#yes this is about a specific person
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you know when sometimes you try and talk to people you love about things you’re interested in and they just brush it off and it kills a little bit of you every time?
yeah i hate that
#yes this is about a specific person#i always listen to people like infodumping or whatever about things they love#even if i have no interest whatsoever#because apart from just enjoying hearing about other peoples passions#i know how much it hurts when people just don’t even pretend to give a shit#and then they wonder why they seem to know nothing about your interests#and you can’t say that you tried to tell them but they didn’t listen#bc then they get shitty about it and suddenly it becomes your fault#ugh sorry i’m just so over it#needed to vent#chatty lolly#vent
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#facially challanged#yes this is about a specific person#imagine him finding out im making these kinds of posts about him
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you have to go to work so you can pay for your doctor, who is not taking your insurance right now, and if you say i can't afford the doctor's you are told - get a better job. it is very sad that you are unwell, yes, but maybe you should have thought about that before not having a better job.
(where is the better job? who is giving out these better jobs? you are sick, you are hurting - how the hell are you supposed to be well enough for this better job?)
but you go to the doctor because you had the nerve to be hurt or sick or whatever else. and they tell you that it is because you have anxiety. you try your best. you are a self-advocate. you've done the reading (which sometimes pisses them off worse, honestly). you say it is actually adding to my anxiety, it is effecting my quality of life. so they say that you are fat. they say that all young people have this happen to them, isn't it a medical marvel! they say that you should eat more vegetables. they say that you probably just need to lose a little more weight, and that you are faking it for attention.
(what attention could this doctor possibly give? what validation? that's their fucking job, isn't it?)
there is always a hypochondriac, right. someone always tells you about a hypochondriac. or someone who is unnecessarily aggressive during the worst days of their life. or someone looking "for a quick fix". or some idiot who wasn't educated about how to properly care for themselves who just abandons their treatment. and again, the hypochondriac, the overly-cautious hysteric. these people don't deserve to be treated like humans (right), and since you might be one of these people, you also don't get treated like a human. because those people can really fuck with the system, you now have to pay for it. and besides. you're actually probably faking it.
(more often than not, you find a 2:1 ratio of these stories. for every "hypochondriac", there are 2 people who knew something was wrong, and yet nobody could fucking find it. the story often ends with pointless suffering. the story often ends with and now it's too late, and it's going to kill me.)
you are actually just making excuses. someone else got that procedure or that diagnosis and he's fine, you should be fine too. someone else said they watched a documentary about other inspirational people with your exact same condition, maybe you should be inspirational, too. you're just too morbid. your pain and your experience is probably just not statistically concerning. it is all self-reported anyway, and you're just being a baby.
(once, while sitting down in the middle of making coffee, you had the sudden, horrible thought - i could kill myself to make the pain stop. you had to call your best friend after that. had to pet your dog. had to cry about it in the shower. you won't, but that moment - god, fuck. the pain just goes on and on.)
you know someone who went in for routine surgery and said i still feel everything. they told her to just relax. it took her kicking and screaming before they figured out she wasn't lying - the anesthetic drip hadn't been working. you know someone who went in for severe migraines who was told drink water and lose weight. you know someone who was actively bleeding out and throwing up in the ER and was told you're just having a bad period.
in the ER there are always these little posters saying things like "don't wait! get checked today!" and you think about how often you do wait. how often the days spool out. you once waited a full week before seeing the doctor for what you thought was a sprained wrist. it had actually been broken - they had to rebreak it to set it.
but you go into the doctor. the problem you're having is immediate. the person behind the counter frowns and says we're not taking your insurance. you will be paying for this out-of-pocket.
they send you home with tylenol and a little health packet about weight loss or anxiety or attention deficit. on the front it has your birthday and diagnosis. you think about crying, and the words swim. it might as well say go fuck yourself. it might as well say you're a fucking idiot. it might as well say light your money on fire and lie down in it. and the entire fucking time - the problem persists.
it's okay. it's okay, it's just another thing, you think. it's just another thing i have to learn to live with.
#spilled ink#warm up#can you tell what i'm mad about today specifically#i will say that there are a LOT of things that go into this. like a lot. this is ungendered and unspecific for a reason#it isn't just sexism. it's also racism. and ableism. and honestly classism.#and before a healthcare professional reads this as a personal attack: i understand ur burnt out#we are ALSO burnt out. your situation is also dire. this is not an attack on you.#this is a commentary on the incredible amounts of bigotry that lie at the heart of capitalism#where people have to pay money out of pocket to be told to fuck off.#your job is important. so is our humanity. and if you cannot accept that people are fucking mad as hell#at the industry - you are probably not listening .#anyway at some point im gonna write a piece about sexism specifically in medical shit#but i don't want terfs clowning in it bc they can't understand nuance#> it is true that ppl w/a uterus are more likely to experience medical malpractice & dismissal globally#> it is also true that trans people experience an equally fucked up and bad time in the medical field#> great news! the medical industrial complex is an equal opportunity life ruiner :)#(if you find it necessary to go into a debate about biology while discussing medical malpractice#i want to warn you that you're misunderstanding the issue. because guess what.#cis MEN might experience this. particularly black men. particularly disabled men.#so YES having a uterus can lead to more trouble for you. but this happens a LOT.#instead of fighting those ALSO experiencing your pain.... try working WITH them.#which btw. is like. actual feminism.)
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the experience of tragedy in plays specifically because ‘maybe it will end differently this time’ feels possible. This isn’t pre-recorded. This isn’t set down in time and film. This is live, this is now, these people are real and maybe this time when they open the letter it won’t say ‘kill the messenger’. Maybe this time they get to live
#yes this IS about Rosencrantz and Gildenstern#even when I know the end#a part of me thinks every time that they might get to live#theatre hits in such a specific way#tragedy#theatre#Shakespeare#hamlet#rosencrantz and guildenstern are dead#personal
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if you ate your greens you’d have cheeks to clap
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