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shoebillstork · 6 months
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Mutual 1: (An extremely extensive post detailing their trauma on their secret blog)
Mutual 1: (A picture of the soup they finished making) Eeatting penis soup grab a bowl
Mutual 2: (Cropped batman yaoi) This scene was so compelling in the comics qnd established so much for Bruce Waynes character as a bottom
Mutual 3: Just updated my comic (it is one of the most compelling pieces of narrative youve ever read. Its based off of a bad game)
Mutual 4: Ngl this omegaverse gacha life youtube video is more compelling than most shows i watch
Mutual 5: Finally cocking out i swear if one more thing happens today i will snap
Mutual 6: PENIS TYPO
Mutual 7: PENIS TYPO
Mutual 8: PENIS TYPO
Mutual 9: This yak tranquilizer weak af
Mutual 10: Come make my sinister potion (posts how to make a pipebomb)
Mutual 11: Do i get plastic surgery and change my name and move to a different country y/n (poll is in favor of yes by a huge margin)
Mutual 12: Mutual 13 is a lying fucking piece of trash and i think they should drop dead. They live at 308 Negra Aroya Lane, Albuquerque, New Mexico, 87104 and im going to record me beating the shit out of them
Mutual 13: Aww my bestie is coming to visit me soon :]
(Mutual 12 and 13 are dating)
Mutual 14: who tf does she think she is (posts a sc of mutual 8 from three url changes ago. It is mutual 8 saying theyre going to the park)
Mutual 15: So in my latest session in dnd we rolled 1d12 for dick size and i rolled a nat 20 and idk what to do with this reponsibility now
Mutual 16: he looks so good im going to scream (a screenshot where said character is so far in the background he doesnt even have a face)
Mutual 17: eho up thinking about the moral dillemma presented in pokemon go
Mutual 18: take a look at my ocs :D (mona lisa if dhe was gay)
Mutual 19: i hadba really good day today i got to spend some time bonding with my entire family and we got to celebrate something we havent had the time for in 37 years
Mutual 20: (reblogging mutual 19) L + Don't care + 632146K~P PRC, dl.2146K~P, 5K > 2146K~P, 5K > JF 2146K~P, 2H, WS ([4]6H->P), 623H
Mutual 21: (Blurry photo of them running from police) they're after me for my stash kf yaoi cocaine
Mutual 22: (Miles long RP chain they started 2 months ago. You have post notification on for them because its awesome)
Mutual 23: Discussing the morality of liking bananas over mangoes
Mutuals 24 ans 25: having a dramatic wedding where theyre acting as a crack ship. They're on the verge of divorce
Mutual 26: She winding onbmy waker (is in the middle of intense controversy)
Mutual 27: (Callout for mutual 26)
Mutual 28: If Mutual 17 asked i would give them a sloppy toppy
Mutual 29: Anon get out of my inbox before j block you his ass is NOT flat. (His ass is fucking concave)
Mutual 30: Shes just like me fr (a picture kf a shopping cart)
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defilerwyrm · 11 months
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anyway bottom surgery is good and awesome and anyone who’s not happy with the configuration they were born with should seriously consider it ‘cause getting to finally feel like your body is correct fuckin’ rocks
and if anyone tries to talk you out of it with scaremongering you tell them “suck shit, transphobe”
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mtfstuff · 1 year
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Tinder swindler
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"Never thought I'd get married before you.", Chris said taking a picture of me.
"I just didnt have luck finding the right person.", I answered.
He gave me back my phone.
"You look good on the picture. You could use it for a dating account. It doesnt hurt to look somewhere else. I mean, I found my Will through Grindr.", he said.
"Yeah, maybe I should look into it."
"If you want to stay a virgin when you turn 28 in two months, no one will stop you."
"Hey! You know I lost it before you did."
He chuckled.
"I know."
That night I couldnt sleep. I always thought about what Chris told me.
I turned on my lamp and took out my phone. I installed Grindr and made myself a profile. I entered my name, height, weight, what I like and want and at last I added some pictures.
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It didnt take long and my inbox was flooded.  Many called me 'daddy' which was quite new for me. Most wanted to have me fuck them, let them worship me and move on but one message caught my eye.
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A man called George. According to his profile he is 6,3ft, just like me and well build. He likes to bottom and is searching for a long time relationship.
He wrote 'you seem like a dream but I'm probably out of your league already'.
I answered 'You're definitely not out of my league'.
We started chatting and got to know each other. I felt connected to him immediately and we quickly agreed to go on a date next friday. We wrote each other every day.
It was finally friday afternoon and I got myself ready for my first date in a long time.
First I took a long shower.
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I toweled myself dry and put on my boxer briefs. I left the bathroom and went to my wardrobe. I opened it and looked for a suit to wear.
I decided to wear a beige vest and pants with a light blue shirt and red tie. I slipped into my socks and stepped into the pants. I put on the shirt and buttoned it up before I tucked it into the pants. I tied my tie and put on the vest. I put on my watch and rings.
Now I had to choose a jacket and decided to go with a dark olive green one. I put it on and looked at my small collection of shoes.
I decided to go with my favorite pair of brown leather dress shoes.
I slowly slipped into them before lacing them. I loved them because they show little wear on the outside but they already molded themselves around my feet to fit perfectly as if they were custom made for me.
I took an uber and drove to the restaurant George and I agreed to date.
I sat at the table waiting for George to enter the building. I was staring at the front door, waiting to lay my eyes on his muscular frame.
I searched for him so much, that I didnt even looked at the chubby guy who entered and walked towards me.
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He sat down and looked sheepishly at me.
"Hey Dean. Its awesome to meet you in person.", the man said.
I looked at him with big eyes. If he was George, I officially got catfished.
"Before you say anything or even stand up and leave, please let me tell you why I catfished you.", he continued. "The pictures on my profile are real only from 4 years ago. Shortly after I took them I had to get a big surgery on both of my legs and my right arm. I lost my muscles in no time as I couldnt go to the gym. You know, I'm sorry I did this to you but I lost so much confidence over the last few years and while I wrote to you, you were the nicest person I've ever met since then and I thought I had to take this chance. This chance to go on a date with one of the hottest men I've seen in my entire life."
He looked at me, probably waiting for my reaction but I couldnt speak it was as if someone was choking me.
"Please give me a chance. Only this date, I beg you. We can go separate ways after that, please.", he begged.
"Well,... I dont know what to say.", I finally got something out. "You lied pretty heavily in our chats now that I see you."
"I know, and I'm really sorry. I wanted to tell you but I thought that if I did you would never agree to meet me. I seem to be way out of your league."
"You dont know that.", I chuckled. "Only this date. And only because I dressed up for this."
"And you look marvelous!", he said.
"Thanks."
We started up a conversation and I was surprised how many things we really had in common. We talked, we laughed, we had dinner together. And maybe one, two drinks too much. We sat there together for more than 5 hours. The clock struck midnight and the restaurant wanted to close.
I wanted to call an uber for me and one for him, because he had paid for our complete dinner.
"I know you said only this date but maybe we could elongate this date by going to my apartment.", George asked.
Maybe I was too drunk to say no or I was somewhat attracted to him, I didnt know.
"Yeah, why not.", I answered. "I'm craving a relief right now."
"I can do that for you, I promise.", he smiled.
We called an uber and drove to his apartment. We entered the elevator and when the door closed, he pulled my face down to his. He began to kiss me passionately and I didnt push him away. The elevator rang and he pushed me out the door. I stumbled into a huge foyer, connecting multiple huge doors.
"You didnt tell me you had the suite of this building.", I said.
"Its not the suite but the penthouse.", he answered.
I turned around trying to soak it all in.
"Impressed?", he asked.
"Yeah, quite a bit."
He chuckled.
I turned around to see that he already had undressed himself quite a bit. He only wore his suit pants.
He pushed me into the bedroom. It felt like it was bigger than my whole apartment and on the far wall stood a huge king-sized bed. He pushed me ontop of it.
"You want some champagne?", he asked.
"Yeah, sure."
He opened the bottle that stood next to the bed and filled to glasses. He gave me one and we toasted. It didnt took long and the complete bottle was empty. I felt dizzy but it felt great.
"May I undress you Dean?", George asked.
"Sure.", I answered.
He slowly unlaced my right shoe and slipped it off my foot. He stuck his nose inside my shoe and took a deep breath.
"It smells so manly. I wish I would smell so good.", he said.
He unlaced my other shoe and sniffed it too. He let out a quiet moan. I wiggled my toes in my socks. To get his attention.
He pulled them off slowly and smelled them too.
"I love your style Dean. I mean I couldnt pull of these striped socks with those hot, hot, brown dress shoes.", he said taking another sniff of my socks.
"Well you can put them on to see if you can.", I said.
I dont know why I said it but I still did it. It felt like a slight layer of fog was clouding my mind.
George seemed happy as he pulled my socks over his own bare feet. He wiggled his toes inside them before he stepped into my dress shoes. He laced them up and looked at himself in the mirror next to the bed.
"Not so bad, isnt it?", I said.
It honestly didnt look too bad at him, but you could immediately see that my socks and shoes were a size too small for his body mass. His ankles swole over the edge of the shoes and you could see where the socks ended beneath his pants.
George continued undressing me. He slipped my watch off my wrist and my rings off my fingers. He took off my green jacket and beige vest before he untied my red tie.
He ran his hands over my light blue shirt feeling my muscles beneath before he unbuttoned it. He went down to my beige dress pants and pulled them off. I was now laying before him only wearing my black boxer briefs.
I thought he would yank them off of me but instead he took my suit and carefully hung it up. He turned around and laid himself next to me. He played with the waist band of my boxer briefs.
"Now you can undress me.", George said.
I opened the laces of my shoes and pulled them off, together with my socks. After that I slowly opened his belt and dress pants. As I pulled them down I was surprised by his hard dick swinging towards me.
"No underpants, what a surprise!", I said.
He chuckled.
"It has always brought me luck not wearing one.", he said.
He threw his pants to the ground and eagerly pulled my boxer briefs away.
"Its even bigger than I've imagined.", he said taking my erect dick into his hands.
He started going down on it and it felt amazing. His warm, soft lips engulfed my dick and his tongue played with the tip. I started twitching as he started sucking.
"That should be enough lube.", George said leaving my dick. "I want you inside of me."
"When you state that so nice, turn around."
He turned around and I slowly inserted my dick into his loose hole.
I started thrusting and it didnt take long until George started moaning.
"This feels so good!", he said.
I thrusted back and forth, my body already covered in sweat , loosening his hole even further.
After some minutes I felt I'm close to cumming.
"I'm close, I'll pull out.", I said.
"No, please, dont.", George said clenching his cheeks. "I want your pretty boy seed inside me."
That brought me over the edge. I shot string, after string of thick, white cum into his hole. We both moaned in sync. I, because I had my orgasm and him because he loved the feeling.
It felt like more than 10 minutes until I stopped shooting my load inside of George. I collapsed ontop of him, feeling my dick slipping out of his hole, covered in my own cum.
George turned me on my back and cleaned my dick by licking it clean. He laid down next to me and started playing with my sensitiv nipples.
"You are so incredibly hot.", George said.
I started moaning because he hit the sweet spot with my nipples. After one of my biggest orgasms this somewhat felt like torture.
"Can I fuck you?", he suddenly asked. "I have condoms if you want."
I started winding around.
"Yes, if you stop playing with my nipples, please.", I moaned.
I didnt fully realise what I agreed to until he stopped playing. He leaned over me to open the drawer next to the bed.
He took out a condom and pulled it over his dick.
He got off the bed and pulled me towards the edge. He took my muscular legs onto his shoulders and pushed his dick inside my ass.
It hurt at first.
"Is this your first time?", he asked.
I groaned in agreement.
He started thrusting slowly but increased the speed fast. My pecs jiggled with every thrust just like his belly. It didnt take long until I heard him squirm.
"I'm close to cumming.", he moaned.
"Then pull out.", I said panting.
"No need, I'm wearing a condom."
He started to twitch until he let out a loud moan.
I suddenly felt a strange warmth filling my ass.
"Dude, I think your condom broke.", I said pulling my ass off of his dick.
"Oh god, sorry. I'm really, really sorry.", he answered.
"Its okay, I'm just so sleepy all of a sudden."
"Well, make yourself comfortable then.", he said gesturing towards the bed.
I crawled under the blanket and curled myself together. I suddenly felt cold and started to shiver.
I felt how George crawled under the blanket too. I felt how his belly touched my back while he put his arm over my side, placing his hand on my abs. Shortly after that I fell asleep.
I woke up the next morning and I felt my stomach grumble. I turned from side to side and felt funny.
"Man I feel bloated after yesterdays dinner...", I whispered to myself.
My crotch started to itch. I moved my right arm to scratch it as I noticed something weird. My belly was in the way of scratching my crotch.
I opened my eyes and was devastated. What I saw wasnt my hard earned body. I didnt see my abs, pecs, muscular arms, tattoos and muscular legs, but a fat body.
It didnt took long for me to realize that this was Georges body. I looked next to me, thinking I would find my body there sleeping but I was sitting on this bed alone.
I looked around the room searching for him but he wasnt there. I stood up looking for some clothes but Georges suit from yesterdad was nowhere to be found as well as my own clothes. I looked inside the wardrobe and only found a bathrobe.
I slipped it on and left the bedroom to search for my body.
It wasnt in the foyer and I made my way out onto the terrace. I found it there sitting on the couch, fully dressed in my clothes from yesterday evening, touching itself.
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"How did this happen!", I shouted at it.
"Good morning Dean. How are you?", it asked.
I shivered when I heard my deep, dark voice.
"George?  Is that you?", I asked bewildered.
"Who else should it be."
"How did this happen? We cant stay like this!"
"Why not? I mean, I'm stunning now."
"So you dont want your life back? Even if not, you cant force your life uppon me!"
"In fact, I do not want it back. I mean, I was the one who swapped our bodies."
"What do you mean 'you were the one'?"
"Remember the champagne we had before yesterdays makeout session? Yeah, it was a special one. It took a very long time to get it here from the deep darks of the internet. And then I only needed a hot hunk to drink it with and to have each others cum inside us."
"Wait...you broke the condom on purpose to swap with me? Why even me? Why even swap to begin with. Your muscles still have your workout memory. It wouldnt have been too hard to get your muscles back!"
He stood up and leaned against the wall. I only now noticed how much taller my body is compared to Georges.
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"I'll do this in order. Yes, i did it on purpose. Because you are honestly one of the hottest men I've seen. I mean, that trimmed beard, the handsome face, the muscles, the tattoos, the suits. And those pictures werent really me. Those are my cousin, he always had the better genetics while looking similar. I always had a crush on people like him: big, strong, muscular. And with your body I can finally get a boyfriend like that!"
"You've done all of that just to have a chance of getting a hunk as a boyfriend? You know you coild get that in this body too!?"
"Dont try to trick me! No one wanted to date me when I had a profile with real pictures of myself."
"But I gave you a chance. What if I wanted to be your boyfriend George? "
I could see his dick twitch in my pants.
"You want to?", he asked.
"Yesterday was one of the best nights of my life.", I answered.
He walked around me and put his arms around my waist.
"So you'll be my boyfriend?", George asked.
I got goosebumps feeling his breath on my neck. I smelled the perfume and aftershave from my body. And it smelled incredible.
His hands opened my bathrobe and started to massage my fat breasts. He slowly moved down onto my belly and kneaded it before starting to stroke my dick.
It was pure pleasure and my knees went weak. I fell onto my knees and George sat down onto the couch again.
I turned at him and he held his foot in front of me.
"Worship me George!", he said.
And how I wanted to worship him. I felt the need to serve this muscular man before me.
I started licking the brown leather top of my former shoes. I pulled it off of his foot and smelled it. It smelled great, like leather and manly sweat.
I pushed my dick inside the shoe and wanted to shoot a load into it when I came back to my senses.
"No! This isnt right! I wont serve my own body. It is mine and I demand you to give it back!", I shouted.
"Thats sad. I had hoped that the seduction would let you forget who you really are.", he said.
"You are a horrible person George! You steal my body and then try to make me forget myself?! Even when I would still have my body I wouldnt want to be your boyfriend anymore. You are just sick!", I screamed.
"I want to propose a deal to you.", he said calm. "You can have your body back, but only when you get a hunk to date you in my body."
"Deal!"
"Good. I'll give you three weeks to accomplish it. If you dont, I'll make you my slave and you'll worship your own body forever."
He stood up again and left the terrace. I followed him.
"Oh, before I forget. You'll get some of my memories in the next hours. Phone pin, where I hid my clothes, credit card pin, where my car and house keys are et cetera.", he continued.
I looked at him speechless.
"Yes, I also have your memories. And not only a few like you will, I know what you know.", je chuckled. "I'll go home now and test this body to the fullest. So make sure you get a date to get this back!"
He pointed to himself, then entered the elevator.
"See you in three weeks."
He waved at me as the elevator doors closed.
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Follow George exploring his new body (coming soon)
Follow Dean trying to find a date (coming soon)
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creaturecomfxrts · 2 months
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Dipper and Mabel pines headcanons?
FINALLY getting around to answering these! since im better at them, heres some college age headcanons that apply just as much to how i view them in the show!
DIPPER PINES
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transmasc. duh. of course
parents are INCREDIBLY supportive, super understanding. hes on hormone blockers in the show and starts HRT as soon as hes able, getting top surgery and bottom surgery in his early 20s
bisexual! ran into a guy junior year of highschool and went oh GOD. this is wendy 2.0 im going to die
NERD.
LOVES board games. so much. not just dungeons and dragons and monopoly im talkin everdell, wingspan, cascadia, catan. he loves a good think. he also loves dragging everyone else into playing them with him. he always wins. almost always, anyway
absolutely adores college and everything about it hes a little freak. totally ends up being the president of a few clubs, co creating some, etc. made an occult club AND a hiking club at his college
loves doodling, loves horror. his teachers? not so much. they try not to look at the weird ass creatures he draws on the margins of his very well written homework.
probably goes into something smart. like biochem. or um. stem. im (author) is a liberal arts major all i do is write gay fanfiction.
PSYCHOTIC ASS DORM ROOM. he barely decorated it like a classic college male but has a conspiracy board and thats it. which is full of strange shit hes seen outside of gravity falls. to be fair its very well documented and somewhat neat, just…. strange decor. he lives in a single (introvert)
COVERED in tattoos, but always abides by the suit rule (all tattoos need to be able to be covered by a suit to be professional. he knows this bc hes a neerrrrddd). he has really sick sleeves of runes and other occult like things hes found interesting. he has cipher related tattoos as well and also even got ford to design a few.
he has PROMINENT eye bags. he will never fix his sleep schedule
ended up working as a summer camp counselor for a while right outside if gravity falls! the kids loved him but he couldnt stand the heat and bugs all the time so he only did it for a summer or two
even after turning 21 he doesnt actually drink that much, hes a craft beer enjoyer and likes to make it himelf (Much later in life)
ALWAYS stays in touch with mabel. if anything happens in either of their lives you better BELIEVE theyre already on the phone with eachother
medical marijuana card holder
smokes to help eith his anxiety. it works WONDERS
coffee drinker but actually Does put cream and sugar is coffee. sometimes. other times hes too tired and just thugs it out
MABEL PINES
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THE number one it girl ever
NUMBER ONE TRANS ALLY EVERRRRRR she loves her brother so much
pansexual!! she loves cool people, thats her motto
went to a fashion design school, is loving it despite drowning in work
began dying her hair in cool ways through highschool, now she always has some of her natural color present but goes a little crazy on the highlights
found out about huge dangley joke earrings. went absolutely crazy. has an entire space on her desk dedicated to her many many earrings. she has babies, knives, bags of doritos, aliens, glow in the dark ones, anything you could imagine.
fantastic at fashion design. stuggled a lot with the fancier stuff but her teachers were floored when they let her go wild on casual comfy wear. she excells in combining fashion and comfort in really exciting and colorful ways.
a party girl through and through, loves clubs, raves, concerts, anything!
video game lover as well, cracked at pvp games.
still boy crazy, just less so (has had like. 10 college boyfriends)
literally the sweetest friend ever. she loves hosting movie nights and tea parties (bc who wouldnt. theyre awesome)
tea drinker, loves floral teas with honey
HATES. black coffee. a starbucks frap girlie 4ever
has been scouted for modeing multiple times and only accepted when it was a commercial with puppies
love love loves making friendshio bracelets. knows all the patterns, all of her friends have a hefty amount of a bunch of different ones because she just keeps making them
anywwy, here you go! i love these two so much, i hope ive done them justice!
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bluemarbled · 4 months
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This blog is vehemently pro plastic/cosmetic surgery and body modification. (This includes tattoos, piercings, gender affirming procedures, boob jobs, etc)
I acknowledge this is a complicated topic and does not exist on its own, there are many factors to the conversation about body modification of any kind but the bottom line is this-
Your body is yours. If you want to change it in anyway to make it more comfortable for you personally to live in, regardless of the feature you're deciding to change or why, more power fucking to you. As a trans person I will never, ever, ever judge someone for a 'bad' surgery result or whatever. You aren't shallow or self-obsessed and if you regret your surgeries you also aren't stupid. Your body is awesome, and in fact, isn't it SO cool that modern medicine makes it possible for us to fuck around with the body in the ways we do? Like. If y'all really believe in bodily autonomy the way you say you do you wouldn't act like a nose job is the end of the world.
Do I also get somewhat annoyed when celebrities get a million dollars worth of work done and then claim that 'healthy eating' made their acne scars magically disappear? For sure. But Becky from the office who wanted an extra two cup sizes for her birthday is not your enemy and you're kind of an ass for treating her badly about it. She paid good money for those knockers! Don't be a bitch!
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trans-girl-nausicaa · 2 months
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im sooo excited for my new job! decent pay, some healthy routines, regular socialization, plus actual health insurance that doesnt suck. I dont care WHAT kinda crazy shit i might have to clean if i can really better my life. Allegedly the company has good opportunities for advancement which really appeals to me as I have spent my whole professional life bumping up against glass ceilings. Plus its a monday to friday job so i will still get to have a regular social life outside of work. Thats one of the not often talked about downsides of the restaurant industry: Frequently working on weekends. If you have friends who AREN’T in the restaurant industry, you likely won’t have the same days off as them and it can really kill your social life.
Crucially, this job appears to have decent benefits too. Medical (with a decent insurance company even), dental, and vision. They also mentioned some kinda stipend or reimbursement for public transportation too.
I wonder if my new plan can cover laser hair removal or electrolysis? Their website lists facial hair removal as a covered procedure but idk what the out of pocket costs would be or if it’d be covered under my work’s specific plan. I got laser done on my face a few years ago but ive got some stubble coming back in :/ soooo i want to get some more treatments for that. I’ve heard some insurance plans even cover FFS (which is pretty awesome) so I feel like laser being covered is a possibility.
I would seriously consider FFS and professional voice training if I didnt have to pay the whole thing out of pocket.
In recent years I think I have seen some insurance companies and hospital systems gradually becoming slightly more competent about trans healthcare. I specifically remember when Virginia Mason announced their new center for transgender health. It was difficult going through the insurance process for GRS back in 2018. I had to have some long phone conversations with my insurance company, I had to do all the research on which surgeon took my insurance myself, and we still ended up with a few thousand bucks of medical bills for my hospital stay. Blessedly my parents were able to help me pay for it. I will be eternally grateful to them for that. Bottom surgery was a life-changing improvement to my life.
If any of you gals have any questions about bottom surgery, let me know. I feel like we dont talk about it enough in the transfem community.
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your-queer-dad · 28 days
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Hi Dad ♥ Thank you so much for the last answer you gave me, it really warmed my heart and brought my spirits up! making slow steps forward, but one thing I did this week was I talked to my doc about bottom surgery! im excited! on a more serious note, im hearing a lot of calls for political action among my distant online peers, and while I share sentiments with them, noones really able to give me all that much information on how I can get involved.... do you have any resources for those of us willing to get out and do some activism?
Hey kiddo!! Glad to hear from you again! And congrats on talking to your doctor, that's awesome and I'm really proud of you!
Activism for beginners: advice for accessing activism and get involved!
- Figure out which causes are important to you, what makes you angry? What are you passionate about? What change do you want to see in the world?
- What limitations do you have? Work hours, travel, school, disabilities or access needs, family, money?
- What kind of activism are you interested/could you do with the limitations that help your cause?
Protests? Boycotts? Demonstrations? Community work?
- Look locally. I personally used social media. There's 100s of groups, protests and information out there for you to search for
- Do something that you actually want to do, and not what you think you should do. If you don't feel passionately about the cause or find the idea of going on protest overwhelming, you're gonna struggle to do it consistently
- community groups or online groups can be a really good way to meet new people and learn more!
Let me know if you have any other questions!
- dad x
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genderqueerdykes · 1 year
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idk why, but this just felt like a good place to send this ^^
every time i stretch, i feel it in my top surgery scars, and it reminds me that it’ll always get better. that if i feel like i’m at rock bottom, things can only improve. that feeling will also always be a reminder of how far i’ve come and how much better things have gotten over the past couple years
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you are so cool, i hope you know that, thanks for taking the time to stop by and share some positivity, that's so awesome. i'm very happy for you and you're right, there's always something to look forward to, always something to fight for, always a way for things to get better. take care of yourself <3
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titan-god-helios · 9 months
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pt1 of oddly specific things that give me gender affirmation/euphoria (that may not be that odd but i didn’t expect them so shut up <3 /lh):
wallets !!!! a good stereotypically masculine wallet that’s small and leather and still has lots and lots of usability and looks like something a dad would use makes me feel so masculine !! love it
any type of trouser or bottoms with more than two pockets
windbreaker jackets - they make me go “FUCK YEEAAHH im such a boy a man a male tm yessir” and idk why they just do tho, even the fem ones to an extent
plantssss i love plants and they make me feel like a little gardner boy just yessss
energy drinks for some reason ???? they make the internal man dialogue of “IM A MANNN” go haywire so much
hairbands on my wrist and an excess of those wooden beaded bracelets or even stone beaded jewellery
cross earrings but just bc they look cool (i’m an atheist so yuh, i still love people who have religion too, y’all are awesome <3)
doing the thing with your hair where you take hair from one side and flip it on the other with one hand and its kind of like running your hand through your hair but with long hair…. esp of my other hand is on my hip and i scrunch my face ?!?!?!??!? so boyish i feel so good
dancing like an absolute idiot. i dont know why but every time i just do a little jig for myself by myself my gender is just like “yessssss you’re a boy frfr slay king”
watches !! big chunky analogue watches
following on from the last point, clocks too
mushroomsssss they make the more nonbinary side of me jump for joy cause like “yes ofc im a fucking forest goblin dude i love mushrooms im just a goblin guy leave me alone and let me love the shrooms”
sketching in public. it just doessss
camoflague clothing !! i mean this was probably obvious but when i came out to myself and i wore camo cargo pants (with loads of pockets mind you) i just freaked out in joy i felt so manly that day it was glorious
singing !! singing my favourite songs as low as i can go with it still sounding good
just being as stubborn as possible but in a non problematic (for the most part) way. like if you give me the option to make things easier and more convenient or not i’ll choose the harder option. idk it just makes me feel manly (is this toxic masculinity ?? i dont know but i try to remind myself that this only applies to non mental stuff so i don’t end up self-harming againnnn)
being unnecessarily overdressed
not brushing my hair till its perfectly untangled and just letting it be a bit wild - this came with me figuring out that my hair type is waywayway wavier/curlier than i thought my whole life and learning to take care of it the best i can whilst i have like zero products for waves/curls on hand and as a bonus i felt more masc !!
looking at the stretch marks underneath my boobs in the mirror. i have a large-ish chest i think (DD cup), plus i’m a lil chubby, so i have loads of stretch marks around my chest, and the ones underneath look like top surgery scars, so if i’m having a particularly rough day with my chest dysphoria i’ll look at em and feel a bit better
using my stim toys and accommodations with friends and by myself for my autism and adhd - being capable of taking care of myself finally makes me feel really confident and as a result quite masc as well
stimming by flipping my beaded bracelets between my fingers - this is specific to greek and possibly other cultures similar to greece but it’s typical for a lot of greek men to flip long-ish beaded loops (?? they’re not jewellery and specifically made for this but idk what they’re called so) between their fingers in a similar fashion, and it’s a thing that my dad does a lot when bored. whether neurodivergent or neurotypical it’s a very common thing for men and so doing it makes me not only feel good stimming but also feel manly as fuck ! it feels even better now that my mum saw me doing it once and said “what are you a man ??” and being closeted i had to say “idc im just flipping a bracelet why does it have to be gendered” BUT INSIDE I WAS SO HAPPY
playing card games - when i was younger and even now my dad and grandpa would let me sit in on their card games late at night when we visited them in greece and now when i play card games i always feel so calm and comforted and quietly masculine
drinkingggg now hear me out yes im a minor but i’m also half greek so as a result whenever my parents drink im allowed a bit too (under supervision ofc). anyway that out the way, i have a pretty fucking high alcohol tolerance and considering the fact that it comes from my dad (being asian, my mum’s tolerance is dogshit) plus the stereotypical “men can drink more” stuff i feel SO MANLYYYY when i can quite literally drink more than my dad and feel okay whilst he’s starting to be tipsy (just to clarify though, the stereotype is bullshit and should NOT be perpetuated as much as it is, at least with intent. you guys with low alcohol tolerances are just as manly !! maybe you’re even more manly than those with high tolerance !! and women with high tolerances, you’re still very fem and very cool and valid as a woman and those who aren’t binary or aligning you are valid as your gender or as no gender no matter what tolerance you have <33)
caring about myself more. and i don’t mean in a “i’m gonna have a nice fucking bath and be happy about it” way i mean in a “i’m going to feed myself well, drink lots of water, get good exercise and be respectful to myself at the very least” way. and also in the bath way. baths are nice
collecting shit !! idk dude but having a collection of dumb shit just makes me feel so masc and good cause i swear to the stars nearly every dude i’ve met and stepped into the house of has a collection of SOMETHING whether it’s games, books, rocks, crystals, cookbooks and recipies or art supplies or whatever makes them happy. like legit fucking anything and i like collecting stuff too so its a bonus !!
just being nice. just being a nice dude makes me feel so manly
being silly and myself and doing dumb shit and being unapologetic about it (im still working on being able to do this since i struggle a lot but when i can it feels so good !!)
being stupidly loyal to something equally stupid /pos. like yes i have had this stuffed animal since the dawn of time no i will never get rid of her. she’s a genderfuck lesbian rainbow tiger from buildabear workshop who goes by the name of Roxy i will never get rid of her >:(. and so what my ring is so rusty it makes my skin green every three days ?? i clean it and take it off when it gets out of control back off bitch its mine. why are you so concerned about my shoes ????? fuck you i like them how they are (falling apart and dishevelled, the sole is halfway off already and it hasn’t been even remotely okay since three years ago) and they still fit and work so i’ll wear them until i literally cannot anymore. its so fun and it’s such a “just some guy” activity AND it makes my autism goblin feel safe and good too so its great would reccommend
just talking about stuff i like and that makes me feel good but not to anybody in particular. maybe in my notes, maybe on tumblr (like right now !! i’m doing this one right now !!) maybe on my personal dm to myself. it just makes me feel like a boy i love it PLUS i dont actually have to stress about humans on the other end of it so i feel way more confident and comfortable and as a result even MORE manly !!
ice cream on cones. i will not elaborate
travelling and exploring !! like legit anywhere. as long as i’m moving from one place to another and exploring the world i feel so happy and right and also masculine it’s great i love travelling so much. on holidays i enjoy the act of travelling even more than the holiday itself tbh
(to clarify i identify as male but a bit fucked in the gender - if you want a label i still identify as nonbinary but male aligningg <3)
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defilerwyrm · 2 months
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I don't want to sound too personal or anything but.. have you ever had dysphoria over how the phalloplasty.. looked? That's my main fear about getting the surgery. I want to feel like a real guy so bad and not feel so weird about what's in my pants but I'm scared I'm going to regret it because it doesn't look cis enough, I guess.
Naw. Of course I’d be happiER if it looked and functioned exactly like a natal dick, but just having it there has done me worlds of good. I’ve had contact with multiple cis men who couldn’t tell the difference in photos so that’s pretty awesome, if (like me) that’s what you long for.
It’s not perfect, but like, penises are weird-looking little things to begin with and quite varied from one individual to the next. It’s been a near-total cure for my bottom dysphoria rather than an exacerbating factor.
Fun fact: a study a few years back showed that phalloplasty has something like a 97% satisfaction rate, which is truly astronomical. That’s higher than heart surgery, higher than repair for broken legs, higher than the vast majority of surgical procedures.
Side note: don’t let me catch any of y’all in the readership ragging on Anon for the “real guy” thing; he’s speaking for himself for his own feelings ABOUT himself, and if you’re honest with yourself, I bet you understand exactly what he meant by that.
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Hello good sir I would like to request for Whit Young X Transmasc reader if possible :3
WHIT YOUNG MY BELOVED!! I am so normal about this man, definitely not obsessed with him nope-
Thank you for requesting!
Whit Young with a transmasc reader
Warnings: Mentions of Dysphoria, Mentions of discrimination
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-Is so so supportive of you!
-Probably made the "Hi trans, I'm Whit" joke when you came out, not because he was trying to deflect, but because he could tell coming out made you nervous and he wanted to lighten the mood so you would know you had nothing to be worried about
-He's the living embodiment of those parents who buy their gay kid every piece of pride merch they could find
-"Hey Y/N, I got you this super awesome trans shirt, I thought you would like it!" (He's such a dork)
-While he doesn't understand what it's like to have body dysphoria, he certainly understands that it effects you and tries his best to lessen it as much as possible
-He'll buy you masculine clothing, compliment you constantly, and reassure you that you look masculine and that he sees you as a man
-Plus, have you seen him? Whit's a total fashion icon, he will absolutely give you advice on how to style your clothes to look more masc
-If you're comfortable with Levi knowing, Whit will get him to design you masculine clothes that match you're style
-If someone purposefully misgenders you, he will become the most passive aggressive motherfucker on the planet, giving them the most dead stare imaginable
-"Excuse me, HE is a HIM, not a SHE, get it RIGHT." (Side note: this is what my best friend does and it's great)
-If someone's outright giving you shit for being trans, it is on sight
-Like, Whit isn't strong enough to beat the crap out of anybody, but what he can do is roast them into oblivion. Bro picks out every insecurity this person could have and uses it against them until they're on the floor shaking and crying
-Nobody fucks with Whit's boyfriend and gets away with their ego intact
-If you bind, he sets reminders on your phone to take a break from binding. He doesn't want you breaking your ribs because you left it on for a few extra hours
-Fully supports your decisions regarding your transition. You want to start T? Awesome! You want to get top/bottom surgery? He'll be with you every step of the way! You don't want to get surgery done? That's fine by him!
-Loves you no matter what, and is so proud of you for having the courage to be who you are
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sepalina · 5 months
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ty for the tag!  @infinitelystrangemachinex
- three ships:  I was honestly never a big shipper, so there are very few ships I give a damn about, and even fewer that I'll seek out content for, so I guess the ones that exist stand out?? I used to be pretty turned off by shipping culture because of the aggression and entitlement, and it's still not a big thing for me, but I did discover a community of Rational Adults who are cool about it and its a fun hobby. (I'm sure some would deny "being cool about it", but look... have YOU sent death threats about your ship over social media, or hatemail to the creators? No??? THEN YOU'RE COOL ABOUT IT.)
ObiYuki (Akagami no Shirayukihime) - Because DUH.  When I finished the anime I contented myself with the knowledge that it wasn't endgame, THEN I READ THE MANGA.  (Came to the server for the ship, stayed for the community.)
Celty / Shizuo Heiwajima (Durarara)- Listen, he's the Berserker and she's the Valkyrie.  Shizuo is a good friend and a good man who didn't grow up performing surgery on Celty from a young age.  They have chemistry.  The official ship with the doctor makes me GAG.
Jason Todd / Stephanie Brown (Batman) - They're the working class Robins who died and are generally mistreated and judged harshly, and they've got some REAL GOOD FIC. Wayne Family Adventures knows what's up.  THE CREATORS KNOW WHAT THEY DID.  They don't count as Batcest to me.  🤣  In the comics they're supposedly good friends, but it sprang out of nowhere, so Rosenberg can bite me.
- first ship:  Pfff.... ummmm.  I'm honestly trying to reach back to any pairing I had vague feelings for. ...OH!!  Duo Maxwell and Hilde from Gundam Wing, the series that occasionally teased romance and then did nothing with it, because the Pretty Boys aren't allowed to be in an official relationship.
It's an overdramatic show, but I remember watching it again back in college and going "Aww, the pilots DO have character arcs, and they're kind of touching."
- last song:  Ummmm... something on youtube.  I think the Cyberpunk 2077: Edgerunners soundtrack.
- last film:  Godzilla (2014).  This is such an awesome, grounded take with a lot of gravitas.  The combination of visuals and music for the halo drop into the burning city still gives me chills.  I don't know my art history well, but the scene of the city is definitely composed in reference to a specific era, romanticism maybe.  So beautifully apocalyptic.  The protag is hot and likable.
currently reading:  Mediocre fanfiction.  💖   (Scraping the bottom of the Jason Todd/Batfam barrel because I am still DEEP IN THERE.)  Some books I've been considering:  Children of Time, We Are Legion (We Are Bob), a nonfiction book about American fruit/vedge history, some comic books.
currently consuming:  Black coffee.
currently craving:  Woods.  Sweet Lord... I need to haul my ass out to a real park.  I grew up spoiled with wooded common ground that doubled as a bird sanctuary.  The massive, gorgeous oaks in my neighborhood are great and a testament to the arborists that care for them, but they are NOT ENOUGH.
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sublimecatgalaxy · 2 years
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Hi girly!! I had my practical test for surgery today and It went so good that I'm finally in the mood to request something
Can I please please please have a very fluffy Eddie like something about reader birthday, bc tomorrow is mine and I hate it so I'm just want some comfort, if not is totally okay no worries. 💕
Heyyyy yay on the practical test!! Go you! Happy belated birthday, I hope it was lovely and that this hits home!
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"Hey sweetheart," a voice in my doorway startles me and my eyes fly up to meet Eddie's gaze, a soft smile on his lips as he steps into my bedroom, "how's celebration?" He asks, referring to the balloons that are scattered around my room from a previous visit from Dustin and the rest of the gang.
"Good, better now that you're here." I smile, patting the bed in front of me as he quickly takes his spot, setting down a small box and a bag down beside us. Leaning towards me, he captures my lips in a sweet kiss, lingering a bit before whispering.
"You look beautiful, even in your old age-"
"Shut up! I told you no birthday jokes- I hate getting older." I huff, reaching out to shove him playfully as his eyes roll, his hands lifting in playful surrender.
"Fine, fine. Then here's this completely unrelated gift that has nothing to do with you surviving another year in this dreary existence." He sighs, holding the box out to me gently as my fingers lift the lid, a bright smile taking over my lips at the sight of the small cupcake, an unlit blunt sticking out of the top of it as if it were a candle. He's quick to snatch the joint, sending me a wink. "That's for me." He giggles, setting the drug behind his ear before handing me the treat. I smile thankfully, dipping my finger down into the frosting before lifting it to my lips, humming at the sweet sensation that consumes me.
"Thank you honey-"
"That's not all!" He rushes out, forcing the bag into my lap with a chuckle, watching me with wide, eager eyes as I stare hesitantly down at the gift bag, not expecting a gift from him. "I know you told me not to get you anything, but chivalry is not dead, my love." He smiles, reaching up to cradle my cheek gently, eyes lingering on mine for a few stray moments. "Open it."
I do as he says, pulling the tissue out of the bag and tossing it to the ground until I finally come across a small box at the bottom of the bag. It's wrapped poorly but it's almost cute, especially with the boyish, embarrassed look Eddie is giving me, his cheeks a bright red as I hold the box in my hands.
"Eddie-"
"Open it." He urges quietly, lip tucking between his teeth and my fingers open the lid of the box, shocked at what I find inside. There's a small guitar pick, similar to the one that's wrapped around his neck, but instead, it's engraved with both of our initials. It's cheesy, sure, but it took thought and dedication that not a lot of people give, especially when it comes to me. "Do you like it?" He asks, fiddling with his necklace as I pull my own out of it's confines, immediately handing it to him so he can help me place it around my neck.
"It's the sweetest, most thoughtful gift anyone's ever gotten me." I whisper, reaching up to touch the pick as his fingers linger on the back of my neck. My neck cranes so I can look back at him, capturing his lips in a brief kiss before throwing myself into his arms.
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sapphire-heart-tippy · 6 months
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If it's not too sensitive of a question: is s/i Tippy post-op? I imagine it would be easier in a world where stands are a thing. Maybe Giorno could have played a part due to his abilities.
(Also in the Mer-Verse I had the idea that perhaps like many irl fish species merpeople could naturally change and have no fixed sexes so perhaps merdude!Tippy just transitioned on his own) 😊
It's all good!! 💪✨ Yes, my s/i is post op and he is on testosterone 😎
Some kind of TMI stuff in the mix??
Aaahhh yes, it's definitely easier in a world with stands 😭 hrrrghhhh that would be so awesome...
Interesting that you say that because a while ago, with my oc f/o Bel... Bel actually got most of their transition done by a stand user!
Xe had top surgery and wanted to keep the scars, because they reminded him of how far he came 💪 (xe also has both working sexes due to the stand user, which is something I've personally wanted for a long time and felt that it would add to my Identity... I've actually talked to a doctor about that and it makes me even more excited for bottom growth. It won't be much but it'll be mine 💙)
And I kind of wanted to write a little fanfic about Bel taking Tippy to the stand user 🫶
OMG YES. THAT'S AN AWESOME IDEA 😭💙💜 I've always envied species that could do that!! I really like your idea 🥹🫶 He just went one day "huh I think I'll be a dude now..." And there it is 😎✨ I gotta do more merverse stuff!
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How long after a hysterectomy should you refrain from having anal sex?
Autumn Says:
You shouldn't have sex until your doctor clears you to have any kind of sex.
From what I'm reading on the internet, resources say anywhere between 4 to 6 weeks.
The first couple of weeks after surgery are extremely important to a good recovery and healing, so I would recommend you follow your doctors instructions as closely as possible.
When in doubt, ask your doctor. They have heard all of these questions before and there is nothing to be embarrassed about.
After I got bottom surgery I asked a good amount of sensitive questions and my doctor was very awesome about it.
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