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#and I’m emotionally overwhelmed really easily lately :(
lilyblisslys · 7 months
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I’m having a rough few days, apologies if I’m bad at responding to dms this week!
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the-second-sage · 3 months
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hi hi! i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup for Genshin Impact please?
i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are thing i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me. having anger issues doesn’t help either- though i rarely take my emotions out on people
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me. i’m also super loyal to my friends and tend to be a bit protective over them (and just the people i love in general)
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area.
i love moths to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
thank you for your time and have a wonderful day!
after an entire day's worth of thought, I match you up with...
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the scribe of the akedamiya, al haitham!
alhaitham spends the late hours of the night with you, he's just as much of a night owl as you, he'd doesn't feel the need to constantly maintain the conversation, he just appreciates the winding down from his work and the opportunity to just relax. he's never been big on conversation anyway, he views it as a win-win.
whenever you go on your rambles about moths, he always listens in with an attentive ear, he'd never pass up the opportunity to learn something new about something he never thought to learn more about.
although his choice of career path may prohibited it, he likes to be affectionate behind closed doors. he'd just like to get close to you and spend the rest of the day relaxing and reading.
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missmaywemeetagain · 1 year
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PINK SCARF AND LIFE UPDATES
Hello my babies! I wanted to jump on and give you some updates since I know I’ve not been posting/responding much since PS ended…
The long and the short of it is that I’ve been rather overwhelmed. Life is being A LOT. One of my sisters is very, very ill with late stage cancer and we are currently gearing up for her to (hopefully) get a stem cell transplant within the next month. This process is very involved and complex and scary and it’s one of those things that could just as easily kill her as make her better. This coupled with the family dynamics involved as we all try to navigate the situation has been emotionally exhausting.
In addition to that, I started temping back at my old job a couple weeks ago which is not what I wanted to do, but I gotta pay the bills, but it means my time is more limited and I’m way tired cuz my stamina is for shit lol.
And whilst all that’s been happening, I did some research and discovered that there is no way I can publish Pink Scarf as is. *sobbing* Turns out after Elvis died, Tennessee had to create a law specifically for him to protect his rights and image posthumously. This includes using not just his image, but his name and likeness as well. All this meaning I could get sued if I publish, and I DEFINITELY do not want to invoke the wrath of EPE.
Needless to say, this made me very upset cuz I know how much y’all want Pink Scarf on your bookshelves.
HOWEVER, before we all slide into the pits of despair, I think I have come up with a bit of a solution/compromise. I’m planning to rework PS into something just slightly different, changing some things that make it too specific to Elvis. I’ll likely have to change the title, too. But the plot and much of the writing will stay the same. But at least this way, I can still get it out to y’all in paperback form! (And lord knows I certainly can’t help who y’all picture in your heads while you read, soooooo…😉)
I know this is disappointing, y’all, and I’m so sorry I can’t make PS happen in published form as is. I am hoping that this new version is good enough for y’all to still want, and I’m gonna make it the best I can for ya. Honestly, I am thinking having something really close is better than having nothing at all. And of course, PS will still be online in its original form, so it’s not going away!
So, in the midst of all this insanity, I’ve started working on this newer version which is a project in its own right, but it’s taking time and my energy has been zapped with everything that’s going on. 💗🧣💗
For those who have asked about if there are any new Elvis fics in the works, the short answer is yes! I have a post-army fic that I am verrrrryyy slowly working on. The vibe is different from Pink Scarf (more of a slow burn), but I hope y’all will still enjoy it!
Anyway, thank you as always for your support and I’m sorry I haven’t delved into answering all your wonderful asks and comments. I very much appreciate them, I’m just a bit depleted at the moment. I’m still lurking around, just maybe not as active for the time being. But maybe I could jump on Discord or something next weekend if that would be fun for people!
Love ya always 💗🧣💗
Madisyn 💜
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okkalo · 15 days
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⊹˚. ♡ hi hi! i’m Dove and i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup please?
i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are things i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me. having anger issues doesn’t help either- though i rarely take my emotions out on people.
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me. i’m also super loyal to my friends and tend to be a bit protective over them (and just the people i love in general)
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area. i’d also like to be a librarian or work at a bookstore!
i love moths and cats to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
thank you lots for your time and have a great day!
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hi dove! you never stated which fandom you wanted a matchup from so i’m doing something a bit different for you,, i hope you don’t mind! besides that, thank you very much for participating in my event :> i hope you enjoy your matchups and have a wonderful day -`♡´-
𝗶 𝗻𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗮 𝗰𝘂𝘁𝗶𝗲 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝘄𝗼𝘂𝗹𝗱 𝗯𝗲 𝗮 𝗳𝗮𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗺𝗶𝗻𝗲 ₊˙♡﹗
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he adores you and your soft-spoken and good-natured attitude. though, when it gets to the point where it’s becoming trouble for you, he will quickly step in and try to make life easier for you. while also lightly scolding you, keep in mind.
he would love taking naps with you, coddling you in these moments. he would always encourage you to share your drawings or writings while giving feedback if you so wished to hear it. of course, most of his feedback are compliments. best believe he would listen to every word that comes out of your mouth while you rant as well. he partakes in active listening, nodding along with your words while also peering at you so adoringly.
he might draw the line in staying up late with you, however. instead, he might try to switch you to sleeping a bit earlier with him and get you into a healthier sleep routine.
he shows much of his love just like you do—with his actions. though, if you are alright with it, he would also love physical touch on top of it as well!
𝗸𝗮𝗹𝗼 𝗺𝗮𝘁𝗰𝗵𝗲𝘀 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 : jing yuan from hsr, yukimiya from bllk, mitsuya from tokyo rev, and kazuha or diluc from genshin
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Moon x Y/N
Summary: you’ve been tired about life and moon tries to comfort you
Reader: gender neutral
Warnings: mentions of the glitch but nothing bad happens, this is meant to be fluff!
I had been sluggish all night with my work. It probably wasn’t the best idea, especially with Moon following me. He took notice and was repeatedly suggesting I ‘Take a nap’ or ‘Have a rest’, I would brush him off each time. I knew it was making him more annoyed as the night went on, but I was too tired to really do anything about it. Not physically tired, just emotionally, and mentally. I don’t think sleep will fix that so easily. The problems will still be there when I wake up.
I debate with myself if I should tell him. Maybe he’ll have a better solution, or maybe the glitch will freak out hearing me use the T word. I figure it might be worth a shot if I’m careful. I decide to wait until I’m safe in some light to bring it up to him.
It takes a bit, but I finally find myself in a room and turn the light on before Moon can follow me in. He looks at me annoyed as he sits just outside the light reach. Just outside my reach. I take a deep breath and give him a tired smile.
“I am not drained physically. I actually slept just before coming here. So I’m all rested.” I say with a half-hearted thumbs up. I’m careful with my wording, but there are only so many ways I can describe what I’m feeling. Moon's head tilts to the side a little. He’s listening.
“I am, however, exhausted *emotionally*.” I pause to see his reaction. Will the glitch freak out? Will he try to find a way in? It doesn’t look like it. Instead, the pupils just disappear from his eyes, causing him to blend into the darkness more.
I decide to press on, “Things have been pretty stressful lately. I’m overwhelmed with everything I have to do and everything that has happened. It’s a lot to process.” I’m not even hiding how tired I sound at this point. Moon hasn’t moved though, hopefully, a good sign.
“I wanted to be honest with you. I can’t hide these things from you forever. Figured I should explain my attitude tonight before any assumptions got us in trouble. After all, a nap can’t fix everything.” This might have been a bad call, but he seems to be handling the information well. I see him take a step forward. He’s still in the shadow, but closer to the light than I thought he would ever get.
“What do you want then?” He asks quietly. I look at him, a little surprised and a little relieved at the question. I sigh a little in response. I think I want a hug, but I’m not sure if he’s in the right headspace for that. I can always ask Sun later.
As I think my options through I see a hand slowly extend towards me into the light. It’s not the desperate hand of something looking to hurt others. It’s the gentle hand of a naptime attendant who wants to soothe a sad kid. More so, it’s the reassuring hand of my friend who wants to comfort me. I look up at him to see red and white eyes.
“Are you sure?” I ask hesitantly. He nods quietly.
I reach my hand out and he patiently waits for mine to join his on the verge between light and shadow. The silicone on his hand makes them soft and a room temperature. He gives my hand a little squeeze. “It will be okay, we will make sure of it.” He says reassuringly. I give him an appreciative smile and squeeze his hand back. “Thanks, I think I really needed this.”
I don’t even realize my misty eyes until the ache sets in. I turn away a little to rub them dry, but I’m careful not to let go of Moon. Oddly enough, he is what’s grounding me right now.
I feel a gentle hand on my head patting me soothingly. “It’s okay, you can cry. We will stay as long as it takes for you to feel better.” I’m not sure if it’s the reassurance or the permission to lose it for a moment, but before I know it, I’m sobbing. It’s a frustrated sob that stings my throat and drenches my face as I cry into the hand of my friend. I curl into his hand a bit as I take it with both of mine like it’s a lifeline in a storm. Like it’s the salvation I’ve been waiting for. Like it’s the home I’ve been trying to return to.
He moves the hand on my head slowly to cup my cheek. He doesn’t try to raise my head or force me to look anywhere. Instead, he just rubs his thumb across my cheek as I continue to cry into the night.
Eventually, I take some deep breaths as I continue holding his other hand against my face. He keeps rubbing my cheek all the same. I almost hide behind his hand, not ready to face the next moment. I hesitate to look up at him, I probably look like a mess.
“It will be alright, we will figure this out together.” He says in a quiet and gentle voice. I lean into his hand more and squeeze it tightly. He squeezes back gently.
I finally look up at him hesitantly. Moon looks at me with concerned and gentle eyes. “Promise?” I dare to ask, needing reassurance that I won’t be alone in figuring this out.
Moon leans in a little with a kind smile, holding my cheeks with both his hands as he wipes the tears away, “We promise, starlight.”
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pray4byron · 3 months
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⊹˚. ♡ hi hi! i’m Dove and i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup for Hazbin Hotel please?
i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are things i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me. having anger issues doesn’t help either- though i rarely take my emotions out on people
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me. i’m also super loyal to my friends and tend to be a bit protective over them (and just the people i love in general)
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area. i’d also like to be a librarian or work at a bookstore!
i love moths and cats to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
thank you lots for your time and have a great day!!
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how are we actually the same person what the heck, that aside, i match you with…
Sir Pentious !!
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I can see you and Pentious just curling up in balls and napping together due to your love of sleep, and then you guys end up in these tangled positions when you wake up haha
Pentious is also sensitive emotionally so the fact that you can understand that part of him means a lot to him
You both can be kinda overwhelmed in settings with lots of people, so usually you two just talk and hang in his quarters as he builds (that’s when you two take the opportunity to talk about your lil special interests)
Pentious is also very physically affectionate, but he’s very nervous to initiate it, so the fact that he doesn’t have to worry about it as much because you are also physically affectionate is really soothing to him haha
Staying up late with Pentious while cuddled up in bed while chatting the night away are definitely some of your best moments together <3
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blippymilk · 4 months
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the fact that Mount Rageous played when i saw your matchup post- anywayyyyy
hi hi! i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup please?
i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are thing i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me. having anger issues doesn’t help either- though i rarely take my emotions out on people
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me. i’m also super loyal to my friends and tend to be a bit protective over them (and just the people i love in general)
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area.
i love moths to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
thank you so much for your time! have a good day as well!
…Generating Matchup…
You got…
CLAY!
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- Finds it really convenient that you like to do small and quiet things like drawing and writing
- So best believe he adores it when you can peacefully sketch in his office with him, while he stays focused
- Loves that your very social with your friends (but don’t leave him by himself too long)
- Completely understanding about your emotions, he feels for you
- Never looses it or gets angry back when he knows you’re speaking out of anger. He just simply waits for you to calm down (in his embrace or not it’s your choice) then let’s spill your guts
- Bonus cuddles if you have a crying session after
- Clay is also very physically affectionate so it just works out
- Won’t ever leave you in a noisy place because frankly he doesn’t care for too much noise himself either
- Will try to stay up with you on the weekends occasionally, but week days; he’s getting to bed on time, and dragging you along if you take too long to come to bed
- If you have a ton of energy before bed this man with either entertain you or look at you with a blank stare for the longest (NO IN BETWEEN)
- You’re the reasons he gets out more because frankly, he’s always in his office working all day
- Loves going on walks with you now (mostly bright and early in the morning)
“Wake up sunshine! Wanna take a walk?” (say yes please 😔)
- Loves to just hear you talk, even when you offer to listen to him
- He especially loves how passionate you are about moths :)
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annawrites444 · 2 months
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⊹˚. ♡ hi hi! i’m Dove and i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup for JJK please? (a full bouquet would be preferred and an 18+ character please)
i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men and i prefer to be referred to as masc titles)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are things i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me. having anger issues doesn’t help either- though i rarely take my emotions out on people
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me. i’m also super loyal to my friends and tend to be a bit protective over them (and just the people i love in general)
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area. i’d also like to be a librarian or work at a bookstore!
i love moths and cats to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
thank you lots for your time and have a great time!
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JJK Matchups (Full Bouquet 💐)
Nanami X G/N/ Masc Reader
Hiii Dove! This is my first request for anything JJK related so I’m hoping I get it right :D
A/N: I've also never written for a masc reader before please let me know if I did anything incorrectly or if I made you uncomfy in any way
(blurb)
You were opening up shop early one Tuesday morning, the cool metal keys jingling in your hands as you unlocked the front doors. As you swung open the door you noticed a tall man approaching from around the corner. Oh. It was him again. This blonde man was one of your regulars, he was almost always around right when you opened and failed to miss a morning since your bookstore opened up last fall. You held the door open for him to enter, welcoming him in a soft “Good Morning!”. He appeared to tense up at your actions and nodded in response. Hmm so mystery man wasn’t much of a talker either then. Your bookstore was the epitome of cozy, tall oak bookshelves full of books with titles ranging from all across the world. The small areas of wall space that weren’t covered in shelves had small frames of cat pictures or paintings. Your very own cat was curled up on the checkout counter in a pool of black fur. You hummed a soft tune walking over to your spot at the counter and began to turn on the radio music for some background noise. Your mystery man was stalking from to and fro, hands shoved in his pockets, and a contemplative look on his face. You couldn’t help but stare at him. He had this energy and aura about him that was alluring, as he turned in your direction you quickly averted your gaze and picked up a nearby book you had yet to finish “A History of Moths:Worldwide Edition” You eventually got lost in your novel preferring to think about the Comet Moth than about your awkward encounters with your blonde regular. About five minutes past before you heard a soft *Ahem* looking up you made direct eye contact with the blonde guy, this time he was in front of your register with a slightly flustered face. “Oh! Sorry about that” you got a little red in the face, “I was just reading about Comet moths, did you know their long tails are really handy against predators?”you looked up at him expectantly. “No..I didn’t know that '' he gives you a small smile and hands you his book he wanted to check out. You continued to give him some pretty cool facts about Comet Moths and as he looks at you a bit caught off guard you realize-Ohhh you were doing it again. You tended to talk a lot about your passions when they were on your mind. “Sorry about that, I guess I was just really excited about this book” You try to shake off that embarrassing moment and ring up his book. He watches you for a second before quickly saying “Don’t apologize for being passionate about something you love.” you look up at him and give him a small smile feeling your face heat up “My name is Nanami by the way” He held out his hand to shake yours. “Dove” you say, shaking his hand. He smiled and you felt the rays of the rising sun through the windows, you felt them warming up your face. Everything around you began to have this spark to it…
Song: Sparks- Coldplay 
It’s soft and just reminds me of an early morning like this one :)
(headcanons)
The only reason Nanami was so adamant about being a regular at your shop was so that he could meet you
Your sketches and drawings are constantly praised by Nanami, he has a few framed on his desk at work. 
Since you are more of a night owl, whenever he comes home late from work, he’s always so happy to be met with your smiling face as you look up from whatever book you were engrossed in. 
You can 100% expect Nanami to never miss a single opening in the morning. He’ll always find an excuse to see you before a busy day at his workplace. Whether he just wants to drop off your tea or coffee order, or if he just wants to give you a quick kiss on the forehead. 
Evening walks are a MUST. On lazy sunday nights when you want to just enjoy the dusk before the night swallows the sky whole, you and Nanami just link arms and walk in content silence breathing in that fresh air. 
Reading dates are always scheduled beforehand and involve a lot of cuddling and several good books, and of course giant fluffy blankets
Thank you so much for your request <3
As always please feel free to like, reblog if you enjoy :)
-Anna
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lady-eris · 5 months
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hi hi! i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup! (any fandom is fine!)
i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are thing i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me. having anger issues doesn’t help either- though i rarely take my emotions out on people
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me. i’m also super loyal to my friends and tend to be a bit protective over them (and just the people i love in general)
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area.
i love moths to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
thank you for your time and happy holidays!
of course you can have a matchup! don't worry i get it, It can be hard figuring it out! Remember to not stress yourself!
Theres a few character's i match you with!
Aoi Todo is the first character i match you with! With an eccentric persoanlity, he'd love to hear all about moth's, and everything to do with them! He'd adore you to death (we see how much he adores Takada) He's also protective, so he wouldn't let you get hurt, he'd take all the hit's if it means your safe. though he does, get concerened with your late night's, and will try and make sure you have a normal sleep schedule.
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Choso
congratulations! you get both brothers! Choso is rather paitent, as that's what he's used to with brother, so he'll have no problem listening to you talk, honestly he'll find it really soothing. I imagine that he's the type that likes listening to his lover talking, so You talking for hours? Choso would be at peace and happy. Choso can struggle at showing emotions, as he himself doesn't know how to properly show it. (especially with who he's been around) But i feel that, acts of love is how he shows his affection. He loves, physical affection he just doesn't know how to show it.
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♡ hi hi! i’m Dove and i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup please? (i’m 17 if that helps!)
i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men and i prefer to be referred to as masc titles)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are things i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me. having anger issues doesn’t help either- though i rarely take my emotions out on people.
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me. i’m also super loyal to my friends and tend to be a bit protective over them (and just the people i love in general)
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area. i’d also like to be a librarian or work at a bookstore!
i love moths and cats to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
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Based on what you said I think Kirishima might be your best match. Based on his friendship with Bakugo, he has ability to deal with people who have strong emotional reactions. He tends to be physical in most things, and that would include his affection, meaning you'd have matching love languages. He has a calm, level head at most times, and a great deal of patience in most cases. He is fiercely loyal, just like you describe yourself. He's confident and self-assured, so he wouldn't begrudge you the alone time you need. He is perceptive to emotions and is able to be a solid wall for you in uncomfortable situations. He is very passionate about his interests, and would likely click with someone with equal passion, even if they have different hobbies/interests.
Those are my overall thoughts. What do you think?
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murder-cookie-dust393 · 7 months
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hi hi! i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup?
i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are thing i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i love moths to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me.
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me.
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area.
(i hope this wasn’t too much to read-)
I match you with (ooh- someone I haven't talked about yet-) Eclair.
Tw: stealing, implied stalking, somewhat controlling behaviour
With you guys both obsessing over something, it's a great match- in terms of interest. He likes listening to your moth facts, and often has a thing or two to share about them too. He rambles about his artifacts, trying to catch himself each time he almost slips up that he has stuff from you...stolen from you actually.
He's more of a person affectionate with words, but he likes your hugs and physical affection. He doesn't usually initiate anything, but he certainly loves to give you all the praises.
He gets worried if you're ever in a bad state. Physically or emotionally. He consoles you, and won't let up (whether it's today, or the next year) until you tell him. He wants to know everything about you. He wants to know your life completely.
He's had his fair share of all-nighters. But if you stay up for too long, he gets worried. Trying to get you to sleep.
(Eclair- a new one! My memory is getting better aha-)
- Celina
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existentialbogwitch · 25 days
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I love Star Trek, but Star fleet is not very inclusive.
I’m watching the episode of voyager, season 1 ep 16 where they try to force the Maquii crew members to undergo training and it feels so gross.
Maybe the reality is that most of humanity tends not to be instilled inclusive of differences and disabilities.
Instead of listening to their own crew air their grievances, Chakotay comes in and just punches him in the face to prove a point?
There are so many other better ways that situation could have been handled.
I definitely have PDA and watching people being forced to conform to rules and regulations makes me intensely uncomfortable.
It is the one aspect of star fleet that I do not like.
I imagine if I were in star fleet, I would survive by being some sort of bizarre combination of Mariner, Ezri Dax, Counselor Troi, Seven of Nine, and Belanna.
The only way I’m able to keep the intense rage I feel when I witness something that feels “unfair” is by engaging in intense emotional regulation and reminding myself that even people I disagree with deserve compassion and respect.
It is a complicated thought process that I must endure constantly or allow my rage to boil over and affect my actions in ways that do not align with my personal values for how I want to live my life.
I highly recommend DBT therapy if you have struggled with emotional regulation.
Since learning more tools to help myself emotionally regulate and choose to mindfully act from a place of integrity and empathy, I find it much easier to interact with the world.
I have also found that my desire to directly interface with other humans has decreased dramatically.
I am very sensitive to interaction with others face to face and can easily get overwhelmed.
I like myself best when I can regulate my emotions and act from a place that aligns with my values.
In order to do this, it means that I cannot participate in many activities others find enjoyable.
Namely, eating out at restaurants and going to bars.
Both of these activities are incredibly disregulating for me, but I will endure them if I must for the sake of ease - I live with my family and do not have a place of my own to invite people over. I do not feel comfortable having other people in my house around my family because there is a lot of tension in my household.
I know I’m autistic, whether I have a diagnosis or not.
Getting a diagnosis won’t actually change anything about my life because there are no supports available for adults. I would not be able to survive on disability alone, and I can work relatively ok as long as it’s in an environment I have some control over. And that I work alone or with someone one on one.
I have never tried teaching in a larger classroom because I do not think I have the ability to discipline students and I don’t want that responsibility.
Something that has really stuck with me lately is Tuvok saying “do not mistake composure for ease.”
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ghostiwrites · 4 months
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hi hi! i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup?
i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are thing i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me. having anger issues doesn’t help either- though i rarely take my emotions out on people
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me. i’m also super loyal to my friends and tend to be a bit protective over them (and just the people i love in general)
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area.
i love moths to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
thank you for your time! i hope the new year treats you good!
Ahhhh! You have no idea how excited seeing this made me! I hope you’re having a good year so far as well <3!!
So I had a difficult time choosing a slasher for you! Or more like I had a difficult time choosing just one so, why bother trying to choose one! You’re getting two babyyyy mwahaha!
I match you up with Thomas Hewitt and Bubba Sawyer!
Both Leatherfaces just for you! I hope you’re prepared for these sweet loving boys :P!!
Both Leatherfaces can appreciate your different arts! But more so Bubba, he’s quite the artist himself! Mask making counts as art right?
I can also see them both really enjoying your writing! When you read it out loud to them though, can’t imagine either of them were really taught to READ but they still wanna enjoy your work!!
Tommy isn’t too physically affectionate but appreciates the love from you! It was hard for him to imagine someone would wanna be so close to him. Bubba however love love looooves physically affection and happily reciprocates it! He’ll squeal and squeeze you back or give you a sloppy but sweet kiss! It makes him so happy that you would love on him so much!
Both Leatherfaces can also be emotional as well, in their own way, so when you’re feeling strongly whether you’re upset, angry, or anything like that! They always know how to help, Bubba would most likely hold you and pat your head while Tommy would listen to you rant or vent, I could also see him offering to let you punch his arm or give his hand a squeeze to release some of those overwhelming emotions :)!!
Both of them VERY much appreciate your loyal nature, considering the life they live and their family. It’s nice for them to know you’ll always stick with them and they won’t have to make you the next meal <3!
Bubba fusses over you for staying up so late, you need sleep! How can you expect to do the work you’re assigned if you’re sleepy? Bubba tries to get you to go to bed at a more reasonable time while Tommy has a tendency to stay up with you (not for very long, poor boy is tired from his chores). He wouldn’t fuss over you like Bubba but he would also like you to go to bed earlier.
Speaking of sleep, these two are absolute cuddle bugs but of course, more so Bubba. Bubba will curl up around you and squeeze you in his sleep while Thomas would probably hold you close by your waist but wouldn’t squeeze you like you were a little stuffed animal like Bubba would.
PLEEEEASE TALK ABOUT MOTHS AND ALL THE OTHER THINGS YOU LOVE TO THEM!!! They will listen so intently, Bubba will absorb all the info you share excitedly, he loves to learn about new things! Especially if it’s stuff you like! Tommy is listening just as intently but isn’t all excited the way Bubba is.
Bless Bubba’s heart he’ll try to get you a pet moth because he just wants to bring you all the things that make you happy! Nobody tell him about how moths don’t live very long, it would break his heart.
I hope you enjoyed these and they were to your liking <3!
-Love, America’s Cannibalistic Sweetheart ☆
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desiredcaramellatte · 6 months
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hi hi! i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup?
my name is Dove and i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are thing i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me.
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me. i’m also super loyal to my friends and tend to be a bit protective over them (and just the people i love in general)
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area.
i love moths to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
I LOVE MOTHS DUDE THEYRE SO CUTE
The fluffy little poodle moths mmmm I’m in love
Anyways, I shalt match you with-
Madeleine!
He may not always understand you but he tries his best. And he does a pretty good job ngl.
Madeleine is a very public and extroverted person, so he’s used to large crowds and gatherings. If you’re ever overwhelmed or overstimulated he’s likely to notice. He’s pretty good at detecting changes in demeanors, especially if it’s you.
He’ll escort you away and give you some time if you need. Otherwise he’ll be extremely clingy to you after you manage to calm down. Expect a big hug from him.
He gives you drawings he’s done of random things. He’s drawn a bunch of moth pictures for you. If he sees a pretty or unique looking moth he’ll try to remember it to draw it for you later.
^ He doesn’t know how to color inside the lines.
He pins and/or hangs any drawing or art you give him on his wall. If he ever runs out of space he just starts using folders and binders and then hangs those up.
Madeleine is mainly expressive through physical affection as well, and he is very happy to accept yours.
He loves to just talk to you. Like just talking is this best thing in the world to him, and he loves all the silly little conversations you have.
He can’t really stay up late at night due to his job, but he will be very happy to sleep near you while you are doing stuff. Occasionally he will wake up in the middle of the night and just be very exhausted-ly clingy and cuddly.
Likely to drown you in affection if you’re still awake by the time he does fully get up.
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Hi,
I know you are probably busy with your life, and sometimes you might come across some asks that you might not feel like doing a reading for. And that's totally fine and okay, protect your energy. But could you please post that ask and just mention that you won't be doing the reading.
There are no readings I’ve deleted that have asked for one except one that was from January and it was a personal private one. I deleted because I was very spot on about a personal dynamic in the first reading I did for them a few months prior and the second one was asking for future projections with someone they knew personally. That can be hard to read and I’d encourage people to not use spiritual readings for people they can just talk to in person, even if scary.
Readings are more about getting insight you can’t find on your own about things currently impacting you. Such as the future direction of life or things from the past holding you back. A lot of people ask about future spouses or loves they haven’t met yet. Or even messages from people they’ve lost. Those are people they can’t easily communicate with now.
I sometimes post asks related to private readings, like a recent one I posted that told them I did their reading privately. I get to readings when I can and they sit in my inbox until I can get to them. I’ve never said when I would get to readings and have been transparent that it can take time, so please don’t send multiple asks because it clouds my energy and inbox. Thanks for sending in this ask so I can clarify again how this works.
It’s a free service I give as a way to workout my gifts and to help others. I try to be timely but I’m also a person with a full time job where I’m serving the community and it takes a lot out of me at times. Sometimes I’m emotionally depressed or something that keeps me from reading for periods of time, which you can see if you scroll through the blog.
If you did send in multiple asks, please let me know so I can link them together like I have with some of my other asks. Most readings shouldn’t be impacted based on when I get to them, based on the ones that have been asked. I sometimes will do readings based on how much energy is required or how distressed the energy comes through, but generally I try to go by when it’s sent in. Some topics are easier for me to read, some ask for more channeling which takes longer. Usually channeling for soulmates is the hardest lift whereas career or generic guide messages are easier.
For example. I can probably on a good day with good time do three channeled readings vs maybe like seven just pulling a card and interpreting.
I also want to add I’ve really appreciated the kindness and thoughtfulness of the asks coming through lately. I appreciate that you guys have been reading through the blog and understand why some asks may take longer and thank you for giving me the space to do these readings in a way that feels right. I value all the asks I get because they help me grow, even if sometimes I feel frustrated and overwhelmed by the asks and my desire to help.
Thank you all for making my blog what it is and for being here with me. You’ve all shown me my power in new ways and I have so much gratitude for the community we’ve built here.
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newtthetranswriter · 3 months
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⊹˚. ♡ hi hi! i’m Dove and i was wondering if i could have a romantic matchup for Haikyuu and BNHA please?
i’m not entirely sure what my gender or sexuality is :,> (all i know is that i have a preference for men and i prefer to be referred to as masc titles) (boyfriend, sir, king, etc.)
i really like sleeping when i can, drawing and writing are things i also like to do! i also like ranting about random things-
i tend to stay by myself though i do like hanging out with my friends whenever i can! i’m very sensitive emotionally and i tend to be able to empathize with people easily, though it tends to take a toll on me. having anger issues doesn’t help either- though i rarely take my emotions out on people
i’m very physically affectionate and i tend to show my love through actions rather than words. i tend to get overstimulated/overwhelmed whenever there’s too much noise or people around me. i’m also super loyal to my friends and tend to be a bit protective over them (and just the people i love in general)
i tend to stay up VERY late at night because it’s pretty calming and it’s when i have the most energy. i tend to stay at home a lot but i do like going on walks or randomly exploring my area. i’d also like to be a librarian or work at a bookstore!
i love moths and cats to death and could talk for hours about them tbh- though i love listening to people i like talk about the things they like too!
thank you lots for your time and have a wonderful valentine’s day!!
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A/n: Hello and welcome. Sorry it took so long, It's a little shorter then I would have liked but my brain is mush and wanted to get this out sooner than later, but I hope you enjoy it. Any way have a great day and Remember to Hydrate or Diedrate
Haikyuu: Daichi Sawamura
Daichi loves to listen to you talk about all of your special interests or whatever random topic you’re focused on at the moment.
He doesn’t mind if one day you want to just go home instead of hanging out at practice because you’re feeling overwhelmed, he understands the boys can be a bit much
Expect him to try and get you to sleep at a decent time but if you do have to much energy and need someone to talk to he will gladly talk through the night, even if it will trough him off at practice
Sugawara is definitely going to be poking fun at you guys whenever he sees you guys holding hands or just being close, just cause he finds it amusing that you seem to be the only one who can break Daichi’s tough exterior
My Hero Academia: Shoto Todoroki 
Shoto is 100% a night owl, he also enjoys how calming it can be when everything is quiet and no one is pressuring him to be the best
He enjoys listening to you ramble and talk about moths or cats, he doesn’t have any special interests like that ao instead of talking about his own he’ll ask so many questions about yours because he loves how happy you get when talking about them
The best dates the two of you have are A) late night walks, exploring the town and just enjoying eachothers presence or B) staying in while you draw or write and him asking questions about because he wants to know as much as possible, sometimes you even convince him to try it himself
If you’re ever feeling overwhelmed let him know and his anxiety loop hole will activate and he will confidently make an excuse for the two of you to leave and go relax away from the chaos
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