dinguses in dungeon (bein kinda gay)

♡Self positivity is a new endeavor of mine

I’ve had the incessant need to draw trans masc Javier since a week ago.

A bit self indulgent because I really like seeing trans masc characters with chests / no top surgery. Mainly comes from me not feeling dysphoria for my chest and being frustrated by the lack of trans masc characters with chests still.

Keeping the chest or getting surgery does not make either party more or less of their desired gender. That being said, I feel like showing trans men with chests sends a stronger message of “men can be more than flat chested” as opposed to every single trans man character in media having too surgery as if that’s the only way to be trans.

and also I just like seeing cowboys relaxing on a hot day with their jugs out.

Danger Days: The True Lives of The Fabulous Killjoys by My Chemical Romance is Transmasc and Bisexual!

requested by @heaven-helpus

They told me white look good on me but i think something else will be better in me 🥵 😉 Who knows that?

haven’t posted in a hot second but holy fuck,,,,,

my thighs have been fucking black and blue for weeks because my mutt of a boyfriend just has to mark me up every. single. time.

such a dumb puppy, can only think about claiming what’s his <3 he’s such a good boy

teenage trans guy here with a burning question (btw crazy ive never seen a blog like this before. you are doing wonders)

what should i resort to for binding if :

a) i have rib damage and breathing problems due to my inexperience binding and lack of research

b) have tried transtape with terrible results

c) physically cant bind with sports bras due to previously mentioned lung issues

i cant afford top surgery. im not even out to my family as a trans man, and i know i dont have to bind to be able to pass but its getting increasingly harder to be in public and pass as a man. thanks for your help if you end up responding to this 🏳️‍⚧️

Hey there dude, welcome and thanks for your support. I try and get through all of my asks, but I am doing full-time school at the same time too, so sorry for any delay in responding. Since you seem to have not seen many of these style of blogs, I'd recommend @our-transgender-experiences @our-transmasculine-experience @our-trans-punk-experience and @our-queer-experience .

This is a difficult ask and first let me take a moment to warn people against unsafe binding because of this.

Now for my advice to you - don't double down on the bad binding practices - no duct tape I REPEAT NO DUCT TAPE - I suggest trying to create an overall boxier, angular less curvy silhouette - this can be done by working out, particularly chest and other upper body exercises - or by layering clothes that have structured fronts (tshirts with large laminated design panels, utility vests, jackets with big chest pockets) Also, I wouldn't completely write trans tape off, it's a skill you can get better at with a little practice :)

Me trying to explain perisex trans people how I'm a trans woman and a trans man at the same time

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i love being cared for and spoiled just as much as the next lesbian, but it's so important to do the same for the other person in the relationship.

helping them out when they've had a bad day, give them a shoulder to cry on or a neck to hide their face in, reassure them that they'll be ok no matter how much the world feels like it's crashing down on just them and them alone. or if they're not that much into physical touch, just lending an ear helps. even if you can't give them great advice, just being there and letting them get their bad day off their chest says a lot, and it means even more. and some people don't like to talk about their bad days. that's ok too. sometimes it's just space that they need but sometimes they just need to be distracted from their bad day. indulge in some of their favorite hobbies with them, watch a comfort show/movie of their's, cook them their favorite meal.

remembering the little things and doing them just because. adding in small details that you've remembered they hold so dear to their heart for whatever reason. it always feels good to know you're actually being listened to.

can we pls normalize femmes paying for stuff? just a little bit???? please queens/kings????? listen guys, i'm not complaining if you want to take care of me financially, i am a broke bitch! but WHEN i do have money, (not very often😞) at least let me buy you some ice cream with it or SOMETHIN'- PLEASE! i know ice cream isn't a super big responsibility but it's always felt weird to me seeing the relationship dynamic where one person supports themselves and their partner financially, and the partner doesn't even reciprocate it occasionally???? THIS IS NOT ME DEMONIZING THIS LIL DYNAMIC OR WTV, i just personally do not vibe with it. but do whatever makes you happy, bbgs. i know there are other ways of taking care of someone other than supporting them financially but i'd love to even be able to do it just once in a while, if not all the time. (all the time is not likely bcs once again i can't save money for shit....)

i know i mentioned this for like five seconds in my first or second lil paragraph but cooking is such a reassuring thing to do. cooking someone their favourite meal or just any meal is a love language that we look past too often and i am sick of it!!!!! (this is coming from someone who tried to make homeade hamburger helper with burrito beef two nights ago btw... don't look at me.) it's such a quiet way of love admittance. but then genuineness is there and it's abundant. mostly if your partner is of culture, i bet that would be an amazing and quite heartwarming surprise for them to see. (meow:3)

i could go on and on and on about reciprocity but it's 2am and i don't feel like writing anymore...

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How do you differentiate being aro/ace from being scared of intimacy/dysphoric/ being not being attracted to a specific gender

And also

What do you think the differences between qpr and allo relationships are?

Like Qpr's can still have kissing and sex and everything right?

(sorry, this is coming from a really, REALLY confused transmasc person who's trying to figure out how I identify)

I'm going to be honest dude, I'm going to try to answer this but I'm in the same boat as you.

Now, for your first question, I'm not actually sure? Because for me I have a mix. I'm demi aroace, which basically means: I can't fall in love or have sexual intimacy with a person without a long established friendship first. And i really only diffracte it because I'm in a relationship.

Like I'm having a sexualty crisis because maybe I'm actually bi and not straight??? So yeah idk with the first one either bro.

Now, #2 the difference? Would be romantic feeling which honestly from what I learned the best way to difference platonic vs romantic is to listen to a love song and imagine it's you directing it at them.

Ok, #3 absolutely they can still have sex, kissing, snuggling all that jazz, I'd say the difference is romantic feelings but again I'm not that knowledgeable on that topic.

(Sorry if this was really long and for taking a while to get to it)

Femmes in a sundress with no underwear deserve to be eaten out constantly

Ok so question for all the trans ppl out there (mainly trans masc but anyone can respond!) ,ik thus is a question u probably get alot but how did you know?

I've been questioning my gender for literally years at this point and I'm just so confused so I wanna hear more experiences!!

Anything that helped you figure it out ,lmk! (Can be comment ,reblog ,dm ,I don't mind)(idk which of my mutuals are trans so not tagging anyone but feel free to share this)

:))))

proud to be queer and trans and an albanian 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️🇦🇱

i hadn't given my relationship to my country a lot of thought until lately to be honest

persevering in order to create a better world and a better place for fellow queers especially the generation after mine

i have to survive but they don't have to just survive they should get to live and be free more than most of my generation are

anyways I heard we were talking about tboy boobs and let me JUST SAY... hiiiii

My little pony n Sanrio flashhhh

while i was in philippines my ma encountered an old friend and she introduced me like "this is my kid" and the friend looked at me and called me guapo (handsome)

literally cannot get better than that

That's awesome my guy!