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starkidsupremacy · 2 months

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damn

Im a little disappointed with how little Bryce Charles was in Nerdy Prudes Must Die.

I mean- they introduced her in nightmare time (she ate up axe man) where she only had a few minor roles.

But then in NPMD she was only a minor character again!

I just really hope she gets to pla-

OH FUCK YEAH

#IM SO HYPED #NON-HATCHETFEILD MUSICAL #I mean I'm aroace #But Bryce Charles....#let's go lesbians #starkid #npmd #nightmare time 2 #team starkid #nerdy prudes must die #black friday

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shmaroace · 9 months

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"we need more aroace characters" actually we need more aro characters. like just aro because every time a character is aroace the aro part of their identity is conveniently forgotten

#not to be mean or salty but like. every aroace character either is canonically just ace or is corrupted by fandom to just be ace #yes i'm ace yes i want more ace rep but i NEED ace rep to stop overshadowing aro rep ok #aro #aromantic #arospec #ace #asexual #acespec #aroace #aspec #1k

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knifearo · 10 months

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i hate the concept of platonic and romantic as a binary i hate the concept of platonic and romantic as a sliding scale of "less" to "more" i hate the concept of platonic and romantic as the only two options i hate the concept of platonic and romantic as significantly different things i hate the concept of platonic and romantic as all encompassing i hate the concept of platonic and romantic as the two halves of a shallow concept of love that doesn't actually encompass anything at all i think we need to overhaul every popular conception about "types" of love so we can talk about things that are real and true for once

#in conclusion. alloromantics stfu up about love challenge #hate using the term platonic so much actually. cause even if it has a definition that is what it Should mean #you know that people don't actually think about it that way.#you say 'platonic' and you might Mean an all-encompassing love. but how it's interpreted is shorthand for 'just friends'#so like. the word platonic isn't Really for me is it :|#platonic gets presented like a consolation prize for aro people no matter where you turn #but fundamentally rn it comes from a concept of platonic and romantic as the two kinds of love #where platonic is for family and friends and nothing More.#and romantic is for the relationships that overhaul all else #so 'aros can still feel platonic love!' ok. what if it's not platonic as you know it though.#'oh then it's romantic!' k but it's not romantic either. will your framework explode if i say that #'aros can still feel platonic love!' why do you say that like it's a second-best option and expect me to identify with it...#again. platonic might Actually mean smth i experience. but it won't be Heard that way. do you get what i'm saying #i don't experience 'platonic blurring into romantic' cause i will never feel romantic love actually. those lines are still blurring though #ummmmm in conclusion. killing and biting #aromantic #aromanticism #aroace #arospec #talking

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redysetdare · 9 months

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A character looks straight into the camera and says "I'm not interested in romance" and people will still say "No, it's not confirmed they're aromantic!!!" "They could change their mind!!!" "it's a challenge for them to overcome!!!" "They'll have character development that makes them fall in love"

It's like they are given the most blatant answer to a character romantic orientation and they actively ignore it. all the while all it takes is subtext for people to speak as if it is fact for a character to be any other sexuality.

#text #yes I'm calling out the hypocrisy within queer readings of a text and how often people dont see aromanticism as queer #and thus they will hear a blatant omission that a character is aromantic and still say it is not enough #mean while a character saying 'im not interested in the opposite gender' is rightfully taken as the character being queer #the queer community hates aspec characters because they don't match their perfect idea of sex sex relationships as being peak queerness #aphobia #aro #aromantic #aspec #aroace #im sorry but n oit isn't a difference of opinion if you blatantly ignore a character outright saying 'im not into this'#like y'all complain abt ppl turning gay ppl straight but will defend ppl erasing aro identities all the time #fandoms will throw a fit if you ship gay characters in straight relationships but ppl shit aro characters and we r told to shut up #im so fucking tired of this bs #I will keep complaining and keep calling this shit out #until it is drilled into ur skulls that you are being APHOBIC becaue WHAT? You want to REALLLLLY SHIP a character?#Because you'll die if you dont???#fuck man just say you hate aspec ppl and move on #it's easier than dealing with your 'im not aphobic ur being unfair i supposed aspec people really' bs

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macksartblock · 10 months

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Hey, do you take requests/suggestions ? If so, can you draw Henry Oak Garcia being Henry Oak Garcia please ?

Henry my beloved,,

#he means the world to me #dndads #dungeons and daddies #henry oak garcia #henry oak #also featuring #lark oak garcia #sparrow oak garcia #mercedes oak garcia #darryl wilson #look i'm on the aroace spectrum but i'd makeout with him if given the opportunity #i'm a simple man with simple taste (fellow autistic bitches i could hypothetically pin to the ground)#my artwork

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vinceaddams · 7 months

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I love love love art nouveau decor but I do have one complaint about it, which is that whenever there's a human figure incorporated into the design it's always a young lady, and I think there ought to be more of a gender balance.

Where are the lamps and candlesticks shaped like men artfully draped in long strips of fabric? The fancy little man-with-insect-wings pendants??

#I mean I'm aroace but I'm definitely homoSOMETHING and I'd much rather look at pretty men #art nouveau

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thebisexualwreckoning · 8 months

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PSA!!!!!

This is for the people who didn't know they were gay or bi or pan or ace or aro in their childhood.

This is for the people who had crushes which could be deemed straight and then came out as gay later in their lives.

This is for the trans or genderqueer or fluid or nonbinary people who did not experience dysphoria in their agab.

This one is for the people who don't want to take T or E or have gender-affirming surgery but are still trans.

This one is for the sex-positive or sex-neutral aces who are told that they aren't ace because they aren't disgusted by sex.

This one is for anyone who has been told, "You just need to find the right girl/guy!"

This one is for all the queer people who have been told that they cannot be queer because of their religion, race, ethnicity, etc.

This one is for all the queer people who were told that they weren't queer just because they didn't fit into somebody else's idea of what being queer is like.

Nobody can tell you how to be queer. The only one who gets to decide that is YOU. Queer people do not need to bend themselves over backwards to make others comfortable.

We have always been here and we will continue to be here, and everyone else will just have to learn to accept that.

#I'm tired of this bullshit #just because i only had crushes on boys as a child it does not mean I am not bisexual #Just because i never experienced dysphoria in my body as a child it does not mean I am not genderfluid #people tell me i cant be queer because I'm indian or because I'm hindu #and i want to scream that my religion has nothing to be with my queerness #gay #lesbian #bisexual #aromantic #asexual #aroace #trans #genderfluid #genderqueer #pansexual #non binary

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cowboylikeghost · 9 months

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i physically cannot go to pride, because if i ever see a "love is human" sign i think i might go insane

#loveless aro #asexual #ace #aroace #aromantic #aro #asexuality #aromantism #queer #I HATE THIS #JUST BECAUSE I DON'T FEEL LOVE OR WATHEVER THAT IS LIKE YOU DON'T MEAN I'M NOT A FUCKING HUMAN BEING

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dramatic-delirium · 30 days

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WHY IS GOOD ART MOSTLY SHIP ART AND EROTICA ART WHY CANT YOU JUST DRAW THEM AS FRIENDS AND MAKE IT BEUATIFUL

#peak aro ace moment #i just don't like ships that much... i mean you can do whatever you want of fictional thing #but also I'll take your fictional thing and make it platonic too #also friends can fuck!#and polyamory exists!#I'm looking at you fanfic ers #aro #ace #aroace #fanfic #fanart

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cero-sleep · 2 years

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Here lol

Y/Ns by:

RB&FR @jack-o-phantom

Detective au @starlightcloudbaby + Sleuth Jesters @naffeclipse

Gang au @oobbbear

Library mob au @daunsun

#fnaf sb #fnaf meme #sun and moon fnaf #fnaf daycare attendant #fnaf y/n #my art i guess vdkshdk #fnaf detective au #rbfr #fnaf gang au #fnaf library mob au #hi hi? hello? (˶• •˶)#/hj still love the blorbos vv much vsjsdvbs #personally I mean this platonically btw #I'm aroace *finger guns*#but y'all can interpret it however you want dvjsvd

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anotherqueersnailowner · 9 days

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us arospecs really do just get on Tumblr dot com and choose violence huh.

anyways be aro bash bigot with a crowbar <3

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callonpeevesie · 1 year

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Death Note text posts but like aroace

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redysetdare · 1 day

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"This fandom is so queer friendly!" This fandom literally hates, bisexual, trans, nonbinary, and aspec people but ok.

#text #fandom #fandom culture #“queer friendly” you mean gays an lesbians? because i sure as hell don't see the same friendlyness towards anyone else #bisexual character exists “noooo they were comphet” or “they're dating the opposite sex right now so it doesn't count!!!”#Trans character exists and their story still has to focus on them being gay or else it's not queer or interesting enough #not to mention the sexualization they will face solely based off their trans identity #and the debates on if they're “really” gay or not because of being trans #Nonbinary character or character with complex and nuanced gender exists #and it's all about what their ACTUAL gender is and “I'm just going to use [gendered pronouns] for X because i see X as a boy/girl”#Character uses a specific set of pronouns and everyone decides to toss those to the side in favor of other (gendered) pronouns #under the guise of “nonbinary people can use gendered pronouns too! they are still nonbinaryyyyyyy i prommy”#Aspec character exists and it's “nooo you can't prove their aspec” “I can still ship them because aros can still date”#“Aces can still have sex so I can sexualize this ace character”#“okay but i headcanon them as a different sexuality so it's fine!”#and if you headcanon ANY of these identities? “Nooo you can't PROVE that they are bi/trans/nonbinary/aspec!!!!!”#queer #lgbt+#lgbtq+#lgbtqia+#bisexual #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #aroace #aplatonic #aspec #acespec #arospec

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smallsies · 1 year

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sorry but. something about how fanfiction is vastly undervalued by readers in fandom culture. how people love to read stories about their favorite characters but only if they're in love, or if they at least sleep with each other. there's so many incredible stories that are just missed because fandom culture struggles to see beyond romantic pairings and relationships.

#idk is there some fear people have of engaging w characters beyond being half of a gay ship?#maybe this is just me but like. don't you want to get inside their head? share a piece of their thoughts and how they see the world?#even just seeing them in silly Situations . like. that is truly unappealing to you without any romantic aspect alongside it?#i don't mean to come off as bitter ot anything but this is just something i see time and time again #ship culture in fandom and particularly within fanfic is just. a bit of a nightmare #maybe i'm too aroace for this idk #fandom #fandom culture #ao3 #fanfic #ship culture #shipping culture

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uncanny-tranny · 1 year

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A big argument against asexuality and aromaticism is the idea that you can be too young to know. I remember people being so put out by the idea of somebody under eighteen identifying as aro or ace, and they made it known how they thought it was bad.

However... I really don't agree with that outlook. I knew something was up with me when my friends were developing a "normal" identity in the eyes of amatonormativity, and I was under eighteen. Mind you, I didn't have words to express how I felt, so I was in a perpetual state of feeling pressure to be "one of the normals." It made my life miserable because I was being dishonest to myself and cloaking who I was behind a layer of shame.

My point is that... when you know, you tend to know. Sure, your identity might change, but is that more important than making sure you are comfortable in yourself? Would you rather feel the way I did at my age hearing about my allo friends? Because it was unbearable, and I don't wish that on anybody.

#ace #asexual #aro #aromantic #lgbt #lgbtq #i guess i can see where people are coming from... but a lot of people who say this don't seem to be aro and/or ace #and it's like... okay you can ask how people can *know* they're aro and/or ace at a young age but it seems rather pointless to me #like... i feel the same way about being aroace as i did when i was in sixth grade having the same feelings so...#...i guess people are really under the impression that secretly *everybody* is allo and they just need to be proven they are #i'm here to say how wrong that is. allo is natural and so is aro/ace #anyway if somebody outgrows being aro and/or ace then: GOOD FOR THEM /gen /nm #i WANT people to understand their own sexuality and romantic feelings. i WANT people to be honest with themselves #and if that means they stop IDing as aro or ace or allo then so be it!!!!!

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juthemagicalclown · 10 months

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i think we as whole have a huge problem with the misuse of the word 'platonic'

'platonic' is not a synonym for 'friendship' or 'deep friendship', platonic' and 'romantic' are not mutually exclusive

'platonic' means non-sexual, which means a relationship could be romantic and platonic

love is much more nuanced than you make it to be

#idk but this matters a lot to me #maybe it's cos i'm on the aroace spectrum lol #i'm just so tired of seeing people saying 'their relationship is not romantic is purely platonic'#cos like i agree!! they are purely platonic!! but that doesn't mean they can't be in love T-T #just ranting at this point #romantic #platonic #platonic relationships #romantic relationships #aromantic #aroace #asexual #aro pride #ace price #acespec #arospec #ju talks #random

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