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x1yun4 · 1 month
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10 Facts About Your Future Spouse.
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Disclaimer.
Readings are to help you gain clarity and insight on your current situation and what you can do for your own benefit. Take what resonates and leave what doesn't. This blog has been re-edited several times.
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Pile 01.
01 — Physical touch, and acts of service are their top love languages. So, there's absolutely no doubt that this person is quite considerate in different ways, as well as physically affectionate.
02 — Furthermore, they like being helpful. They find peace in helping those around them in whatever ways they can, willingly. It's their second nature, but they aren't someone that can be taken advantage of! For most of the people within this pile, this person has a backbone.
03 — They love holding hands, cuddling, or even light touches. Whatever you're comfortable with! Although their love language is physical touch, they won't push it if you're uncomfortable with it. Even holding hands occasionally instead of often is fine, as long as they know you love them by showing it in your own way!
04 — Drinks coffee often, and likes macchiato specifically.
05 — They have a large family or a lot of people they consider family, blood-related or not. But, they spend time with their grandparents often or the elderly.
06 — Smokes, but is trying to quit. Started, but realized it wasn’t something they wanted to keep constant in their life after some time passed.
07 — Parties with friends here and there, but doesn't mind stopping whenever they're in a relationship. They understand that it's not something everyone is uncomfortable with! Of course, they'll still hang out with friends, but won't head to large parties with people you're uncomfortable with, etc. Whatever it is, they or you will likely bring it up so you guys can communicate about it.
08 — Extremely loyal to those they consider family! Doesn't matter if they are blood-related or not.
09 — Would do absolutely anything for their partner.
10 — Most likely a soulmate.
Pile 02.
01 — This person has had a rough childhood, with some problems that have followed them since. But, they are working on improving their internal state.
02 — Kind-hearted by nature, but happens to be a little bit selfish sometimes. It's not to the point where they seem egoistical, but rather as a way they can still manage to protect themself.
03 — Hard shell, soft nature. In other words, they might seem intimidating at first glance, but is actually a sweetheart once you get to know them.
04 — Polite, respectful towards everyone. They don't see the point of treating strangers they don't know the story of with disrespect or rude remarks, it's a waste of time. The only times when they throw out insults and whatnot are when a loved one is hurt. They don't typically react if something negative happens to them though, a result from how they were brought up or the experiences they went through.
05 — Doesn't bear grudges, but can set down boundaries when absolutely necessary. Doesn't hesitate cutting unhealthy and toxic people out of their life, especially after certain encounters in their past.
06 — They like cooking, and/or baking especially. It's something they find relaxing, and they get quite happy when seeing someone enjoy what they made.
07 — They find peace in reading books, so libraries or cafés are often a safe space for them to be. And, you might meet your future spouse in this space by accident.
08 — Has some ear piercings, and might have one small tattoo or an eyebrow piercing for some people within this pile.
09 — Communicative, wants to work through issues and find a solution together when there's a problem instead of being angry at each other.
10 — Considerate or in other words a gentleman, but I'm not specifying gender. They're willing to do a lot for you willingly without complaints. If they complain, it's most likely a lighthearted joke that they know you'd he okay with.
Pile 03.
01 — They come from a wealthy background, either through hard work or generational wealth. Will agree to provide or have a 50/50 relationship, depending on what the two of you communicative. As long as it works out and happens to be the best for your relationship with each other, they won't mind. Both parties will contribute in their own ways! Even the most mundane contribution like giving a kiss on the cheek as a goodbye will be appreciated.
02 — Extremely communicative, and willing to talk about anything for the sake of your relationship with each other!
03 — Cares a lot about animals, most likely wanting to own a pet in the future.
04 — Older, but for some people in this pile — the person will be one year younger.
05— They have a sister who they have a close and healthy relationship with.
06 — Has a stable attachment style, but doesn't mind if their partner doesn't. They are willing to work it out with them, and help in whatever ways they can without engaging in unhealthy patterns.
07 — Has a good relationship with their parents, and treats the elderly with respect unless said elderly messes with their loved ones or treats them harshly just because they are older.
08 — Protective, can be a little bit jealous, but won't do anything that crosses your boundaries.
09 — Understanding, and empathic.
10 — A very intelligent person!
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diana-bookfairchild · 4 months
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No, but the Hunger Games did need the romance plotline. See, Snow got it all wrong for the cause of the districts' rebellion. He thought an act of love is entirely separate and different from an act of rebellion, that the two are mutually exclusive. But we saw even in Katniss' though process that the two are mixed. And for the districts, the two are the same thing. For seventy-four years they've been forced to watch their children, grandchildren, siblings, niblings, friends die in the Games or through exploitation, are told it's an honour for them to die for the Capitol and are not allowed to grieve. And then suddenly this girl comes up and plants her feet and says 'no'. She survives through illegal hunting, avoiding the miserable death via starvation or the terrible community home. She doesn't stand by to watch her sister die, she volunteers. She doesn't treat her friend's death as one of a tribute to the Capitol, but as the horrible killing of an innocent little girl who deserves to be memorialized. She thanks and humanizes another district's people. She gives another tribute a merciful death. She refuses to give up on the man she loves, repeatedly. Defying all sense and establishment.
That is rebellion, for the Districts. Love, loyalty, grief, kindness, mercy - they're all rebellious sentiments.
And romantic love is an integral part of that. Not the be all end all, but an intrinsic part. We see sisterhood with Prim, we see friendship with Rue and Finnick and Johanna (and Gale and Madge a little bit), we see mentorship and connection with Haymitch and Boggs, so of course we need the romantic angle with Peeta. Of course we need the dandelion that grows after the war, the dandelion that started it all through one act of kindness to the starving girl he loves.
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.Not liking how some people (even other aro people) associate ‘aromantic people dating’ as aromantic people being in a queerplatonic relationship. .Aro people can be in romantic relationships too, by the way. .Romantic relationships. .And even if romantic attraction isn’t involved from one or more of the parties’ side, it doesn’t make it any less of a romantic relationship, either.
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supremechancellorrex · 4 months
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Avatar in my head and I was thinking about Maiko and Mai.
Now, Mai's character arc in Avatar, from my interpretation, is rediscovering herself and her wants and personhood that has been stripped from her as a noblewoman part of a family that submitted to the Fire Nation Imperialist structure and Ozai. We see in Book 2 set up for this. Mai in early Book 2 does not resist Azula's will aside from brief sparks of rebellion where she isn't present. "Of course not, Princess Azula" she notes formally and apathetically when Azula asks if she "minds", knowing she has no choice as Azula 'just' ponders if Mai's hostage brother is worth an Earth King like Bumi. Mai is always aware that Azula, as Princess in an authoritarian nation where the Fire Lord is God, can have her executed and her family punished. The unequal power dynamic is surprisingly consistent in the show.
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Mai can't even insult Azula back in Zuko Alone as a child. She just lets Azula put an apple on her head (as Ty Lee loyally sniggers along), set it on fire, and when Zuko pushes her into the fountain to put it out, Mai, drenched, glares and says "You two are such… ugh". We know Mai can have an acid tongue, yet her fear of Azula prevents her from using it. Her most rebellious act in Book 2 is when she says "She can shoot all the lightning she wants at me. I am not getting in that wall sludge juice". Mai actually has self-respect, but she can't express it in the presence of greater threats, meanwhile Ty Lee merely says "Come on! Azula said we have to follow them", because Ty Lee follows Azula's will even when she isn't there.
Even when Mai gets with Zuko, she falls into a subservient role. When Azula interrupts Maiko's smooching, lazily dismissing Mai with "Oh Mai, Ty Lee needs help untangling her braid" Mai responds quickly "Sounds pretty serious" with only a touch of dryness and leaves, only able to muster throwing Azula a dirty look a split second after passing her. However, this little ember of rebellion will grow.
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Mai has continued difficulty understanding Zuko's anger and reactiveness, or how to even function in a relationship. She initially tries to joke in a dismissive fashion, as if saying 'ugh, feelings are lame, right?', but that would only work with Azula logically. The Beach episode is a key Mai episode. She continues to be emotionally repressed, to the point Zuko, Ty Lee and Azula comment on it. However, Zuko's insecurity at her talking to Ruon-Jian to the point he physically removes him from her presence, and his accusative comments like "You like him, don't you?", also makes Mai feel a little boxed in, controlled, and that does irritated her given her history. However, at the Beach's emotional narrative climax, Mai is able to finally express herself at the rest of the group (Azula included) for the first time, telling them to "Leave her alone" and that she's "still mad". After Zuko explosively reveals the extent of his pain and confusion, we see a 'smoothing' effect on her attitude. She realises her and Zuko are dealing with pain in different ways and his way is understandable.
Mai says softly, "I know one thing I care about, I care about you". This is the one thing Mai can grasp in the confusion. This is where Mai betraying Azula becomes inevitable. We see Mai continue to be more supportive with Zuko, more actively trying to cheer him up in Nightmares and Daydreams with big smiles and jokes while Zuko remains shut down over the War meeting and is acting irritated and repressed due to his family trauma. When Zuko later leaves and joins the Avatar, Mai is hurt and angry, which shows in the Boiling Rock, saying "All I get is a letter? You could have at least looked me in the eye when you ripped out my heart". They have a tense conversation, but it's their most honest one. I actually think Mai already made up her mind in this scene to support Zuko over Azula, and she doesn't quite realise it. "Save it? You're betraying your country" she accuses, to which Zuko replies, resolute, "That's not how I see it", and in response Mai just folds her arms and turns her head away in an almost defeat.
I find it very telling she doesn't respond. It's because she realises Zuko is more passionate and resolute about his mission than she is hers. It's because she knows the Fire Nation under its current authority is not exactly great. Sometimes in life we fall into a box and we need someone to give us that little push so we can realise we can climb out of it, that the toxic space we're in isn't normal, and we don't have to tolerate it. I like to think Mai was thinking in that moment where Zuko locked her in the cell and he and she gazed into each others' eyes, what she was really thinking about was what life she actually wanted to live. She was thinking of Azula and being under her thumb, and she was thinking of all those moments with Zuko, like when they were lounging on the sofa together, smiling and joking in Nightmares & Daydreams, and she realised how ridiculous it was to be afraid of Azula killing her when the real fear should be being Azula's servant until her dying days, decades of repression and misery.
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After all, what does Mai have left to fight for? Fear of Azula? Hah, what a joke. She remembers "I know one thing I care about. I care about you" and when she sees Zuko about to die she has to intervene.
"I guess you just don't know people as well as you think you do. You miscalculated. I love Zuko more than I fear you" Mai says to an increasingly-enraged Azula's speak of 'consequences', because Mai did fear Azula, but now in her love for Zuko she has found a purpose she has been lacking, her feelings and wants over Azula's will. Zuko being true to himself is contagious. Iroh's love for Zuko puts him on the right path, and in turn the love Mai has for Zuko saves her. As a consequence Ty Lee chooses Mai and their friendship over Azula's toxic, fear-based one and even later bonds with former enemies like the Kyoshi Warriors. Like Zuko says to Ozai, "an era of peace and kindness" will replace an "era of fear". In the face of fear, love and empathy win.
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captain-lessship · 1 year
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What kind of lover do you think L would be?
I AM GLAD YOU ASKED
Wouldn’t date you if Watari didn’t like you.
This man love you more than anything else. You are his escape because you just exist, not demanding anything from him. Only asking, politely, for love.
He adores your cooking (especially your baking)
He can cook for shit but he tries
Refuses to watch or listen to you on cameras because he respects your privacy and trusts you.
Buys you things he sees you add to your online cart
when he isn’t working (which is rare) he can be found in your living room, watching Jeopardy (RIP Alex Trebek.) waiting for you to come join him
likes Rom Coms because of the predictable outcome
Execpt the Notebook. He didn’t see that particular ending being the one they chose. It was only a 3% chance they would go with the one they did.
most of your dates are at your or his house. But when you do go out out: he spoils you.
just in general he spoils you. Seriously you have not paid (fully) for one of your dates. Ever. (He mainly spoils you because he feels so absent no matter how much you reassure him that you understand the circumstances and love him anyway)
you love being around him. Something he honestly thought wouldn’t ever hall for him.
when you do somehow convince this man to sleep. He sleeps next you. So next to you that you wonder if he’s glued to you.
L has three sleeping positions with you:
pressed into your side
Him laying on top of you.
His back against the headboard, hands in your hair. Think of a hat. He goes Hat Mode.
You’re just happy he’s sleeping and none of the positions bother you.
It took him months to kiss you on the lips; before that it was hand kisses and kisses to your temple.
You were actually the one to instigate the first kiss
Now the poor man is hooked.
if you leave his work area without giving him a kiss, he acts as if he’s caught the plague and gets sad. Or as sad as L can get. Which translates into picking at his desserts slowly.
I don’t see him as particularly jealous, more protective. He honestly has to be with you due to his line of work.
Everyone he knows, after they meet you, knows that you two are a thing due to the kisses and his eyes following you around.
I personally think he’s in for the long run after you don’t go anywhere after a year or two: Marriage. Or if you don’t believe in marriage, filing together on tax forms.
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thatstonedwriter · 5 months
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Aquarium Trip!
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A/n- guess who's going to the MOTHERFUCKING AQUARIUM BITCHES WOOOO
Contents; romantic relationships, undersea animals, swearing
Feat; Stolas, Blitzø, Loona, Fizzarolli
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Being at the Aquarium with them is a dream. The dark hallways, the lights reflecting against the water of the tanks- it creates such a romantic ambiance.
Stolas is a hopeless romantic. Not only does he get to learn about animals, environmentalism, and the ocean- he gets to learn these things with you. The whole time, Stolas is holding your hand, stopping at every display, and reading all of the information for each exhibit. Cue the cute owl noises. Stolas would love to take some time to sit with you in front of an exhibit, sharing kisses, holding hands, and (of course) him telling you about all the new things he's learned! I think he'd love the touch pools, especially for the stingrays. He probably freaks out a bit at first, but his excitability overrules any hesitation. don't even get him started on the gift shop. Stolas freaks out over every book he sees. Gets the two of you matching shirts because he's a sucker for that kinda shit. Stolas loves taking pictures with you, too! With the jellyfish, cute crabs, the seals you see in the bay, the stingrays, everything. And, in my opinion, he would love ocean puns. You're taking facts and making them funny? He's so in love.
As much as it pains me to say it, Blitzø probably isn't a fan at first. To be honest, the only reason he came was because you said there were seahorses. He was pissed when they weren't actual horses. While Blitzø is kinda grumpy for a bit, he can't deny how cool everything looks- and how happy you are. Most of the time, he's not looking at the exhibits, but at you- appreciating your joy and excitement. Blitzø has never been one for learning "fun facts" or anything, but if you ramble on about the ocean, he'll hang on to every word. Of course, he probably won't outwardly show you too much affection, but there are times when Blitzø goes to reach for your hand, or scoots closer to you when you're sitting at an exhibit. If he had to choose a favorite section, it's the deep sea. he does quite enjoy the freaky animals. He isn't super excitable, but can't help a small smile whenever he sees how much you're enjoying everything. At the gift shop, he'll watch to see what you like the most and will sneakily buy it for you.
Not sure if Loona would be thrilled about the aquarium, but if she's going with you, she doesn't have any objections! I think she would be fascinated by the Jellyfish and open ocean exhibits. The color and size of the animals like the hammerhead sharks or sea nettles is just so mesmerizing. Loona wants to take pictures, but isn't used to the low light, so it's a bit frustrating. Hopefully you've got some photos to share with her. It's a requirement that y'all model and pose for pictures. Aesthetics are everything!! And Loona wants a new home screen. She would love being able to take a picture with the sharks or jellyfish with you. Tbh, I think Loona would be freaked out by crustaceans. Dunno why, I just think she doesn't like them. She also doesn't participate in the touch pools because of how many kids there are. In the giftshop, she probably doesn't get much for herself (but she does like some of the sweatshirts and jewelry).
Fizzarolli will not. Stop. Making. Ocean puns. It is constant, but hey, at least he's funny and creative. Fizz would probably love the aquarium, especially the otters and octopuses. Otters because..Adorable, obviously. Personal HC of him liking Octopuses comes from how they can be misunderstood, and how intelligent and versatile they are. There's also some relatability with the arms if you squint. I think the octopus would make him feel more secure with himself, you know? Whenever y'all are sat while watching a feeding or display, Fizz is snuggling as close as possible, arms wrapped around you, head on your shoulder. I would argue that one of the most romantic spots in an aquarium is the dark jellyfish exhibits. Fizz gets a selfie of him kissing you on the cheek or y'all with your arms around each other in front of the moon jellies. And boom- new lockscreen acquired. Dude goes absolutely bonkers in the giftshop. He loves everything. The notebooks, shirts, pins, jewelry, bags- all of it. You'll have to reign him in if you don't wanna deal with crippling debt. He ends up deciding on a cozy jacket and matching plushies for the two of you.
Aquarium dates are the best way to nerd out with your partner(s) 💛
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freyatarotreadings8 · 15 days
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Thoughts and Feelings of Your EX about U
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Pick a picture 1 - 2 - 3 -Short reading-
PILE 1
Hello, darling. I hope you are doing amazing! So, your ex may think that you are intelligent, thoughtful and independent. They may see you as a person who is sharp-witted, perceptive and cold hearted. It looks like you are emotionally guarded or distant. You have solid boundaries. Seems like no contact situation or you broke their heart. There may be some unresolved issues between you tho. They remember what you shared and how special you are (yes! sure!) and your relationship was. They may feel an urge to return to you. They even may manifest you back. There is possibility that they will reach out soon. Personal readings are available!
PILE 2
Hello, sugar. I hope you are doing wonderful. Well, your ex may see you as a person who puts in consistent effort and hard work towards your goals. They may admire your dedication, patience and willingness to invest time and energy into various aspects of your life. Your ex may be reflecting on the progress you've made or the outcomes of your efforts together. There may be a sense of introspection regarding your relationship and its impact on both of your lives. They’ve spent time thinking about you and they’ve realized that there is so much that you’ve shared together. Your history means a lot to them. They are able to be truly comfortable around you. However, it's time to move on. There is a minimal chance of reconciliation. Personal readings are available!
PILE 3
Hello, sunshine. I hope you are doing amazing. So, they perceive you as someone who is adaptable and resilient. You may influenced them significantly (or vice versa), brought unexpected change. You are remarcable and unpredicatable. They may think that your relationships were destined to be. I hope you both learned your lessons. Also one day they may think positively about you and another day the opposite such a cold and hot energy. They may feel like you mean the world to them. They aren't over your relationship. They may believe that you represent total emotional fulfillment for them. Reconciliation is possible (they may manifest you back). It all depends on you.
Personal readings are available!
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My greatest wish is for a story about a very healthy romantic relationship between a sex-repulsed asexual (Person A) and a non-ace person (Person B)
A realtionship that isn't about " Person A realises that they like sex after all" and not "Person B loves Person A despite them being ace" but rather a relationship that is "Person A does not like sex or overly sexual stuff and Person B is totally fine with it and respectful and Netflix and chill really is just Netflix and chill" and "Person B loves Person A because of them being ace because it's a part of their identity and Person B loves everything about Person A"
Because nowadays people forget that sex does not equal romance and love.
A lot of asexual people just want a soft and nice romantic relationship without constantly getting the feeling of being broken.
We need more ace positivity!!
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( Disclaimer: I do not mean to exclude aroace people. You are valid, you are seen. However this is at the moment just about ace people, because they exist too and it's important to show, that asexual does not equal aromantic. It often goes hand in hand, but not always)
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juthemagicalclown · 9 months
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i think we as whole have a huge problem with the misuse of the word 'platonic'
'platonic' is not a synonym for 'friendship' or 'deep friendship', platonic' and 'romantic' are not mutually exclusive
'platonic' means non-sexual, which means a relationship could be romantic and platonic
love is much more nuanced than you make it to be
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polyquestria · 14 days
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A Twilight x Discord ship art but in a divorced kind of way? (Cause that's how i ship them)
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This is the first thing I thought of
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indiaalphawhiskey · 28 days
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Do you believe that Louis loves Harry more? Louis seems like someone who loves selflessly and puts himself aside.
I didn’t want to answer this, but I’m going to in the name of my younger self, who I think really needed to hear this.
I think the idea of “who loves who more” is immature and actually quite harmful, and I say that coming from a culture who so deeply ingrained in me the idea that heterosexual marriage would never work unless it was the man who was “so much more in love” with the woman. A lesson I’m actively trying to unlearn as I pursue relationships, because I finally figured out that love isn’t about power, and it’s certainly not about holding onto power for self-preservation. That’s the antithesis of real love. Real love is about true vulnerability, which requires power to be completely out of the conversation.
I think the only people who can decide whether the love they’re receiving is or isn’t enough, or is or isn’t given in the way they need, is the person receiving that love.
We all fall in love with different people for different reasons, and especially in long term relationships, we grow into and out of versions of ourselves constantly, and so the things we need and want evolve with us (and our lovers) over the course of our commitment. Because people outside our relationship aren’t privy to our romantic dynamic, much less our innermost thoughts, needs, and growth, they cannot decide what kind of love is “enough”, or “more”, or “less”, especially when they only know a public version of us.
That said, I don’t think either Louis or Harry loves one more than the other. I don’t think their relationship is about power, and it’s not about setting one person’s goals aside in favor of the other’s.
What I think is both you and I know nothing about what their goals are, personal or professional, and assuming selfishness and selflessness based on what little we know of how they choose to love each other and build their future is just an excuse to vilify one side of the relationship.
You’re more than welcome to do that (I can’t control you or how you think), just not on my blog or with my rubber stamp.
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aro-ace-culture-is · 5 months
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Another rant.
One day my grandma said, "You should get married soon"
I asked, "what if I don't want to? I have my friends....and you."
They replied, "Friends are never equal to a husband, no matter how close you are".
I was really curious. "Say, what is the difference between the two?"
"You know. The feeling of someone being there for you, with you, always, 24/7 no matter what? Friends are never gonna give that feeling. I have friends too, but my husband is certainly different. Irreplaceable."
Now this is an old lady who married in her teens and spent 60+ years with her husband. She was dependent on him, according to all the stories she told me about their relationship. Now she's over 90. I bet my ancestors were like, "A girl's gotta marry and settle. Marriage is a priority". Because everyone in that era (in our area) mostly married....and sustained in the relationship. It was obviously more than any other relationship. It's on a whole another level. And also because I picked this belief up from them.
What I knew in my heart:
That's bullshit. Friends can give that feeling too. If we try enough to focus on friendship. And can prioritize it enough. If we love our friends enough in our own way. People are different. And there are many among them who value friendship as much as romance. But I get where she's coming from. It is what she learned from her experience. I don't blame her at all.
What I felt:
It hurt. It made me doubt my new beliefs. Growing up, I was taught marriage was the norm. I grew up thinking I would marry one day, it's inevitable. It's impossible for me to be single cuz no one else would be with me. That I needed a person to be always with me. I grew up believing it hard. Now that's backfiring. Especially after I learned about my aroace identity.
All this rant is for one doubt. Is there a norm in this extremely diverse world? Either everything is normal or everything is abnormal. There is not one generalization or stereotype that is completely true because the world is fucking abnormal with kinds of conditions and people. There's not one invalid emotion or identity because humans are naturally complex. It's human nature. It's normal.
Nevermind this is all over the place, lemme just end it with some slogans.
BEGONE THE SO-CALLED NORM!
BEGONE STEREOTYPES!!
BEGONE GENERALIZATIONS!!!
Amen.
Posted on Nov 01, 2023
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Allos: "You know, being in a committed relationship is hard sometimes; relationships take work and lots of compromise; romance can be difficult sometimes, especially when children come along, and love can break your heart. It's not something to take lightly, and you need to think carefully about whether you're ready for a relationship like that so that you don't get hurt and you don't hurt other people. Being in a romantic relationship is a big decision. You've got to be sure you're ready for it before you start dating ..."
Aromantic person: "Yeah, I don't think I want that."
Allos: "OMG Don't say thaat!!1 What do you meeeaaaann you don't want that?? Nooooo, you must! It's an essential part of being alive! Romance is the best thing everrrr!!1! It's Paradise on Earth! It's the most beautiful and meaningful thing in the world! The most perfectest experience, like laughing with angels and bathing in fluffy sunrises! You will be lonely FOREVAR if you don't have Love™! What will you spend your life on if you're just single all the time?! OMG nooooo ....!"
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unromancesyourromance · 7 months
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?Why is it that some allos can say things like, “Dating is so annoying and awful. I hate dating! Romantic relationships suck!”, but as soon as I, an aromantic, agree with them, suddenly I’m the bad person, and I should ‘stop being so negative’ and that ‘just because you don’t want it, doesn’t mean you should hate it’? …It just doesn’t make sense…
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berry-blue03 · 1 month
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Possible next fic
Recom!Jake Sully x Avatar!scientist!reader. (Romantic)
Name pending.
not the official summary.
i could change some things around once I start writing the actually story.
was inspired by this art piece by @xstarcutx
this also is kinda in the same universe with 'a child of the stars" but Jake's daughter from that will be refereed as my oc Juniper Sully, so that there isn't any confusion.
Possible warning/not official: fluff, angst, HEAVY angst, mentions of death, smut. kissing. loss of virginity (kinda on both ends), rut/heat, breeding kink, mating, mentions of pregnancy, mentions of sex, dick pics, Jake kinda being a perv, unprotected sex, oral (m and f receiving), sex in the forest, trust issues. guns, romantic fluff.
Summary: Jake Sully is reborn as a Recom. he was told by many that he was killed in a Na'vi attack as they were trying to find peace with the natives. His heart shattering when he was told by another Recom that his six year old Daughter, Juniper was murdered right in front of him by Toruk Makto. Filled with rage, he vows to avenge his Daughter and kill the man who did it.
Y/n is a scientist who was permitted to have an Avatar. She is a very shy, introverted person. Growing up, she didn't have the best childhood or parents. plus her trust is very thin. thanks to people who have broken it. She is tasked with monitoring the recoms health along with being allowed to study the flora and wildlife for personal work. as an Avatar driver she isn't permitted to leave Brigdehead unless its with one of the recoms. She is told that it is for her safety but she feels as though she is not being told the whole truth. but knowing how the RDA she doesn't really question it.
both are kept in the dark from the truth without even knowing it.
as the two start to hangout more they soon develop feelings. y/n helps Jake with his grief as Jake helps her regain her confidence.
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captain-lessship · 10 months
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The Most Random Kurt Cobain x Read Headcannons Ever Written.
Listens to your favorite music and gives his opinion on it
Surprisingly a great dancer
Is too prideful to ask you to dress up on Halloween but always immediately says yes when you ask
Has dedicated a performance to you in the most random ways
“This one is for the love of my life… who burnt my toast.”
Wears your clothes and has gotten to a point where he won’t even ask
“Are those my jeans?” “Our jeans.”
Loves reading, loves it even more when you read it aloud and he follows along.
His love language is a blend of words of affirmation and physical touch.
He loves to walk up behind you and lay his chin on your shoulder so he can tell you something 
If you aren’t comfortable with physical touch, he understands and works around it so you can be comfortable 
You always have a lighter. 
Your most famous picture together is you holding the lighter, lighting his cigarette while he hugged you from behind. (A miracle you didn’t catch your hair a blaze)
You are the driver of the group, he sits in the passenger seat and fiddled with your air vents and radio 
Feels bad if you took on one of his bad habits but won’t say anything to you. 
He loves holding your hand in “weird ways” like holding three of your fingers and fiddling with them as he held them
Has a wall of photos of you and him (featuring his and your friends)
Kisses your hand or wrist a lot in public.
Does show you off if you’ll let him
Points you out to anyone and everyone 
Old married couple type beat.
You and him always have your morning coffee or tea together, sometimes still in bed cause you can
If you work, he’ll send little gifts or flowers to flex and to woo you. (And make your coworkers jealous)
Sometimes you’ll catch him staring at you like if he blinked, you’d disappear.
“Kurt…Kurt!” “Wha?” “Your cigarette is about to fall out of your mouth.” “Oh.”
Thinks anything you do is hot. Painting your nails? Hot. Hammering a nail to hang a picture? Hot. Walking? Hot. 
He only goes to bed if you all but beg though once he gets there, he melts into the mattress. 
Lays on top of you while asleep.
Acts as if he’s too far from you, he’ll combust.
Loves when you go to his concerts or on tour with them. 
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