loving your mom is like

I love you and I hope I never lose you, please stop talking to me I can't handle it anymore, I don't know how to go on without your support, why won't you just listen to me for once?, oh god I miss you and how do people do it without their moms?, please l just want you to be proud of me, I want to stay at home and pretend I'm still five, you're giving me bone nausea every time you get silently pissed off I need to leave right NOW, I can't imagine when I won't need you in my life, just let me relax for two seconds, please mom, hold my hand and acknowledge my pain without feeling like it's your fault even if some of it is.

Note #12

Empowerment is a deeply transformative and uplifting experience that resonates on various levels of one's being. It goes beyond mere confidence; it's about feeling a profound sense of strength, agency, and capability. When you tap into your inner reservoir of power, you unlock the potential to navigate life's challenges with resilience and purpose. Imagine a scenario where every step you take resonates with a quiet assurance, every decision you make is fueled by self-assuredness, and every hurdle is viewed as an opportunity for growth. This empowerment is not just about external validation but stems from a genuine understanding and acceptance of your own worth. Picture the moment when you stand tall, fully embracing your uniqueness and recognizing the strength within your vulnerabilities. It's about acknowledging the journey you've traversed, the lessons learned, and the wisdom gained. This inner power is a force that propels you forward, pushing the boundaries of what you thought possible. In the realm of fiction, this empowerment often takes the form of a character's self-discovery, overcoming personal demons, or rising from adversity. Whether it's a hero's journey or a protagonist's internal struggle, the narrative resonates because it mirrors the universal quest for empowerment that transcends the pages. History, too, is rich with stories of individuals who, against all odds, harnessed their inner power to shape destinies. From political leaders to social reformers, their narratives inspire because they showcase the indomitable human spirit and the ability to effect change against formidable odds. Now, let's delve into the profound emotional aspect of empowerment. Picture the surge of joy and fulfillment when you realize your own strength, the warmth that spreads within, and the genuine smile that graces your face. It's a heartwarming acknowledgment of your worthiness and a celebration of the unique power that resides within you. In essence, to feel powerful is to embrace a holistic sense of self-worth, resilience, and authenticity. It's a journey of self-discovery, marked by moments of triumph, growth, and an unwavering belief in your capabilities. So, my friend, may you continue to explore and nurture the power within you, for it is the key to unlocking the extraordinary tapestry of your own existence.

You don’t miss people, you miss moments

I learn a little more each day about what expectations or assumptions can inflict upon your life and your view of the world.

It is sad to think one should not expect more, but as each let down happens, you must learn to accept that some thing never meet your needs, and you can either integrate this into your life, and radically accept that this is the truth and it is what you will always have: or you must decide how to make a change as nobody can force somebody else to become what you "need"

Meet your own needs. You are worth it.

Assuming someone is one way or another based on limited experiences, or even vast majority of years worth of those experiences is not typically the case that you are right to believe any one thing about them. It's a generally societal idea that people's personalities are made up of traits and actions but this just simply isn't true. Actions and reactions are born from circumstances and the life experiences one has had which leads them to take the path that speaks the most sense to them. Many people do things that seem "out of character" but these things are just a production of circumstances that have left them in a position where they may feel they have no other choice or even may be too scared to pick the other path. This does not define that person, an action is just that, an action, a reaction. Personality is cultivated through the way a person sees and interprets the world, and the way they touch other peoples lives in each moment. Personality is not labeling. It is an energy which each of us creates anew every moment.

Cherish yourself

Allow yourself to become anew every day

And do not label

Define

Or limit

Your love for what is real.

Expectations are harsh,

Assumptions are false

And you are real.

“If a child lives with criticism, he learns to condemn. If a child lives with hostility, he learns to fight. If a child lives with fear, he learns to be apprehensive. If a child lives with pity, he learns to feel sorry for himself. If a child lives with ridicule, he learns to be shy. If a child lives with jealousy, he learns what envy is. If a child lives with shame, he learns to feel guilty. If a child lives with encouragement, he learns to be confident. If a child lives with tolerance, he learns to be patient. If a child lives with praise, he learns to be appreciative. If a child lives with acceptance, he learns to love. If a child lives with approval, he learns to like himself. If a child lives with recognition, he learns that it is good to have a goal. If a child lives with sharing, he learns about generosity. If a child lives with honesty and fairness, he learns what truth and justice are. If a child lives with security, he learns to have faith in himself and in those about him. If a child lives with friendliness, he learns that the world is a nice place in which to live. If you live with serenity, your child will live with peace of mind. With what is your child living?”

Dorothy Law Nolte

Your life isn’t supposed to be all sunshine and roses.

Your life isn’t always cocktails on a beach, a perfect home, a lover who never disappoints, a child who behaves, a job that fuels you with purpose.

Life is a series of events that raise you up and knock you down. All of the moments count. It is the contrast that enables you to eventually choose to build the life you desire. When you move through trauma and pain, you find deep gratitude for joy and peace. It is the contrast and duality of life that makes thriving possible.

The problem is we set the standard that life needs to be what we see on social media. It is rare you see the dark side of what goes on in people’s homes on Instagram. You will see their perfected reality. Please remember that. There is always a contrasting photo that depicts the fight between spouses over a dinner table, a child in a temper tantrum, the loss of a loved one, a battle with dis-ease… but those photos often don’t make it online.

Your life is no different than anyone else’s. We all have our days navigating the storms. We all come up for air. We all hit rock bottom. We all rise from the ashes.

Just for today, find joy in this knowing. Whatever you are going through, you are going to be okay. In fact, you will be better than okay.

the funniest meltdown ive ever had was in college when i got so overstimulated that i could Not speak, including over text. one of my friends was trying to talk me through it but i was solely using emojis because they were easier than trying to come up with words so he started using primarily emojis as well just to make things feel balanced. this was not the Most effective strategy... until. he tried to ask me "you okay?" but the way he chose to do that was by sending "👉🏼👌🏼❓" and i was so shocked by suddenly being asked if i was dtf that i was like WHAT???? WHAT DID YOU JUST SAY TO ME?????????? and thus was verbal again

the 'what if you played it a little risky' post literally Changed my life but i cant fujkign find it in my blog because its. a tiktok screenshot

If Pikachu were real, it would not be a very pleasant animal. An enormous mouse that shocks you like an electric eel. I would run from these beasts

She loved October. Had always loved it. There was something sad and beautiful about it - the ending and the beginning

Jacqueline Woodson

idk how to flirt but i can make things awkward if you're into that

{Words by José Olivarez from Citizen Illegal /@fatimaamerbilal , from even flesh eaters don't want me.}

i hope my absence gives you the peace my love apparently never could

- nick <3