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hurtcomforted · 3 months

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I never thought about this until I saw it seriously used, but the term "illegal ships" is just so fucking funny.

Like okay, do you think the whole Game of Thrones is a crime? That the millions of people who watched/read/worked on it are disgusting criminals who deserve to go to jail? Is that what you're implying?

"Illegal ships" do you know what the word fiction means?

#proship #proshippers please interact #proshipper safe #pro fiction #i do wonder what antis think about the horror genre #oh or war movies

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v1-kisser · 3 months

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Proship dni for my comfort thanks.

I feel like everyone portrays F/Os as these romantic, perfect all around lovers, and while that's all well and good! I prefer F/Os who are flawed, who don't always say the right things. Who can sometimes be petty or selfish. F/Os who have a habit of seeing conflict as a contest on who can talk the loudest, instead of a conversation. F/Os who run out of patience sometimes and have to go cool off mid-conversation, even if they're right. F/Os who struggle to communicate their emotions.

I find comfort in the idea of a relationship where mistakes like that are allowed and given room to breathe. A relationship where, no matter what the conflict is, the walls eventually come down. Maybe it takes hours, maybe days until you're both calm enough to work it out. Maybe it takes several conversations to solve it, but each end in Hey. I love you. I'll talk to you tomorrow.

You're not perfect, and neither is your F/O. That's okay. That can be beautiful, too. There's not a hug that's more comforting than the firm, tearful one after reaching mutual understanding. Knowing that you didn't mess it up too much, you didn't break things permanently. You couldn't if you tried. They missed you... and you've got some serious affection to catch up on.

#.thoughts #selfship #selfship imagines #selfshipping #f/o imagines #LeV1 #Yes this is about V1 and I...#We're really different- personality wise- with starkly different views on lots of things- violence for example #It can be kind and understanding with me but I often forget that I'm the exception and not the rule #And get upset when we meet others and it immediately threatens them and treats them like they're pests #I think its original purpose as a war machine should NOT be a ''get out of jail free'' card for being an asshole #And V1 uh... Disagrees. To put it simply 🙃 <- Palpable frustration #Anyway I'll quit rambling now #I still love my machine #proship dni #comship dni #safeship #safeshipping #.banger posts

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allthingswhumpyandangsty · 13 days

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one of the things I see the most in any fandom space is pearl clutching people saying how “shocked” they are when it turns out a “problematic” ship or a “problematic” character is loved a lot in said fandom.

the most recent example for me would be from this poll where it asks people to vote which ship they like the most, thousands of fans have voted, and the results happen to show the ship that is — according to these people — most problematic has won. needless to say, hundreds of these “noble people who usually harass real people, who just want to ship their little ship in peace, over fictional characters in the name of being morally superior” are so shocked that such a “harmful and problematic” ship is the one that is most liked within the fandom they’re in.

I mean… I don’t know what to tell you, but just because you’re “loud” and you like to “witch hunt” people who enjoy fictional things that you think is Bad, doesn’t mean the ship or the character you deemed Problematic is actually hated by the majority of the fandom you’re in.

sure, you are allowed to hate these ships and these characters for any reason, but other people are allowed to like them. and surprise surprise, the world doesn’t revolve around you and your mindset that Liking Bad Fictional Things Equals Condoning Bad Things in Real Life.

shocking, I know. but most sane people can actually distinguish the differences between fiction and reality. and that’s why people who like fictional villains aren’t actually serial killer in real life.

fandom is and has always supposed to be a safe and fun space in which anyone can like and enjoy whatever they want. it never is, and it’s never supposed to be a courtroom where someone’s moral compass is judged based on how they enjoy Fictional Things. because the whole point of enjoying a ship or liking a fictional character is that it’s fictitious, it’s not real. no one in real life is getting killed because a hot fictional villain is loved by hundreds and thousands of fans.

I hope you feel better soon though 🤍

#fandom police #fandom discourse #fandom culture #fandom etiquette #blorbo #comfort character #fandom #fandoms #purity culture #pro ship #anti proship #ship and let ship #stan culture #ship wars #villain police #villain #villains #shipping discourse #shipping discussion

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beevean · 9 months

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I can't stop thinking about this morning's anon and some of their wording. "This was so scary to write because if any of my friends knew about this my life would be over".

It's short but I honestly felt so bad for them. They really don't need this on top of their other experiences. And what's worse, this is the common mentality now: I keep seeing, on Twitter and Tiktok screenshots, teenagers who genuinely ask if a ship they like is "proship", with the underlying message being "please don't bully me".

And listen to me. I am the most insecure bitch on the planet. I would literally eat my own hands with ketchup and mayonnaise rather than reveal my music tastes to other people. I've been endlessly mocked for my passions ever since I was a child - not bullied, but I've been told by parents and classmates that no one cares, or I'm too old for this, or I need to live in the modern world... long story short, to this day I do not want to be perceived. So I understand the feeling of "you will pry my true tastes from my cold dead hands". I am old enough to know these are irrational thoughts, but to this day I much prefer to keep things to myself.

So listen: you deserve friends who do not judge you.

Again:

You deserve friends who do not judge you.

It's one thing to prefer to keep your tastes private because you're a private person. That's fine! That is your right! But please, if you really think your friends will hate you because you happen to read Problematic™ fiction... no, that shouldn't happen. Especially not on the internet, where nobody should know about you as a person. Friends who do care about you would not think any less of you for something as common (yes it's common!) as enjoying some spicy stories. It is not a crime. It does not say anything about your morals. And it's even worse if you've already suffered in the past, but this goes for everyone.

I don't want to get into the whole pro/anti ship discourse because I am sick of how easily the internet twists the meaning of important words until discussions can't be had because the two factions are not even talking about the same thing anymore. I don't know anon's previous or current stance on shipping, what they meant by that comment, and again the wording worries me a little when combined with that other comment. I do have my thoughts about it that go beyond what "proship" means, and I'll summarize:

not only no one deserves harassment for what they ship, but the only thing you can judge from someone's writing is their writing level. Not their actual personality, not their experiences, and less of all their real-life morals.

Brand this backwards on your forehead and read that in the mirror everytime you wake up.

Anyway. I don't know if you'll read this, anon, but I really wish you all the best luck in the future. And I'm very glad that you approached me to tell me that - as sad as the circumstances are, and I'm sorry for being self-aggrandizing, your praise made my day :)

#important #vent #proship #i suppose this counts #i really do not want to use myself as an example because as i said i don't want to expose myself #but i am so fucking tired of this relentless bullying over something that at the end of the day is barely above the pettiest of ship wars

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curiositysavesthecat · 3 months

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klaotaku · 11 days

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DNI

please don't interact with me if you support clonecest or incest in general, it makes me very uncomfortable

thank you :3

#clonecest #proship dni #incest dni #the bad batch #star wars #clone troopers #crosshair #star wars the bad batch

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some-pers0n · 5 months

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You can just say it's a mistake. It's so much worse to try and excuse it

#wof #wings of fire #glory wof #deathbringer wof #wof memes #tw proship #tw age gap #tw pedophila mention #sp-rambles #The “dragons have different moral standards than humans” excuse bothers me the most #My brother in christ these animals are basically humans with scales and wings #They abide by the same social standards we do #INCLUDING THAT MURDER AND WAR BAD #Why would large age gaps with a child and an adult be any different??

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intooned · 9 months

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A cozy place to be, all I'm sayin'.

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lameotello · 10 months

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I hate that we've gone from "don't like, don't read" and not caring about what fucked up shit is depicted in fan media as a standard to hypervigilance and having to mind your every word so the group you've found yourself in doesn't know you ship the Not HOA Approved Ship

#like what the fuck #tello talks #proship #I just can't get over it fr #I have a platonic side acc and the fact I have to be afraid some stupid internet person will find out I ship tcest #and tell all their insane little friends who might or might not harrass me #is LITERALLY insane #I have fight daydreams sometimes. as you do. yknow the type of daydream where you're in a talkshow only this is an internet fight #and I try to think of ways to maneuver around a potential ''are you proship?'' situation by saying Yes Fuck You but in a way that explains #what proship IS not what /they/ have made it to be #and that it was the internet standard until like 2016 when some weirdo decided ship wars weren't enough #they needed to Actually Cancel people #but there's literally no way to win because they would /not/ listen #and that's is Insane and I don't feel I'm exaggerating here #anyway rant over #sorry #lol #long tags

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ghostfoolish · 1 year

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You know someone has terminal online fandom brainrot when they say, “this is what the antis wanted all along and I hope they’re happy now” in response to actual books being banned and trans rights being taken away…

#I cannot stand proshippers #like how can you look at the voices of queer people and poc being silenced by conservatives and be like ‘ah yes…the antis strike again’#KILL MEEEEE #moth rants #proshipping #this is why I don’t like them THIS IS WHY #people are dying Kim and your only focus is winning some stupid internet fandom war

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wolixy · 1 year

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Why does tiktok teens in fandoms try to make every ship pedophilic/incestuous?

They say "But the are like brothers they grew up together😭" as if childhood friendship doesn't exist, "Nooo he's like a father to him" even when both characters are over 18 but have a huge age gap, and "It's minor x adult no ewww😭" when it's a 18 yo shipped with a 16 yo.

Do they have some sort of fetish they are too afraid to admit? Have they never talked to anyone outside of their own family? No, really wtf.

#proship #pro fiction #ship and let ship #anti anti #anti fanpol #anti harassment #ship wars #ship discourse #fandom discourse

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keiachi-chan · 8 months

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I DON'T GET ANY OF THIS PROSHIP/ANTISHIP NONSENSE AND EVERYONE NEEDS TO SHUT UP FOREVER

THE WAY I SEE IT FROM THE OUTSIDE IS JUST;

Proshippers about antishippers: they think that ships should be Illegal and you should be hung for even considering writing a morally grey fic. They don't want anyone to express themselves

Antishippers in reality: I hate the contents of this fic and I think it's harmful. It shouldn't be shared. Fiction can strongly impact reality, and drive a person's morals, and I don't want to see that happen to people.

Antishippers about Proshippers: they proudly support incest, pedophilia, bestiality, and other gross topics, and they'll shoot you dead for wanting to read fanfic that isn't creepy

Proshippers in reality: I believe people are entitled to writing whatever they want, even if I don't personally enjoy the material. It isn't up to the writer to dictate the morality of the reader, and they're free to do what they'd like.

JUST WORK IT OUT. WRITE WHAT YOU WANT AND BLOCK WHAT YOU HATE IT DOESN'T MATTERRRRRR.

KISS AND MAKE UP NERDS!!!!!!!

Edit: hey before u leave a comment could u read the post, maybe. Try thinking critically, also. might help a little bit, you know?

#proship #antiship #shipping discourse #WHAT ARE YOU TWO FUCKING TALKING ABOUT #fanfic #anyways I cannot assign one of these labels to myself #lest I be caught in the midst of a war #posts that would get me incinerated if I was popular #posts that I regret but can't really delete at this point

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aurabora · 2 months

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who would win in a fight 2014 spamano and usuk cosplayers with their livejournal accounts or the 2024 tiktok anti-proshipper with DNI and ‘07 in their bio?

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allthingswhumpyandangsty · 9 months

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“dni if you’re problematic” is level 95 middle schooler behavior btw. “problematic” by what standards? my brother in christ, you’ve got to be more specific. but I can promise you that you are also “problematic” in some people’s opinions whether it be online or irl, whether or not you know it. unless you’re a literal saint who’s never done anything wrong, ever, in your life, I guarantee you this; you are also “problematic” in someone’s opinions. I am problematic in someone’s opinions. every single one of us is problematic in someone’s story, sorry to break it to you though.

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ipreferfiction · 3 months

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man the only fan spaces i will ever be in these days are the ones full of people with fucked up nasty reprehensible ships and fondness for the worst characters EVER. everywhere else is a god damn minefield but those bitches? yeah baby this is the freak zone and we are all freaks here

#joining the war on immoral fictional content on the side of the immoral fictional content #all the negative qualifiers are said with FULL affection and respect btw #standard modern fanspace (full of antis): nooo you can't ship them they're LITERALLY SIBLINGS (they are not related biologically. or at all #average day in my groupchat: the sickos meme at all times #but like.... seriously especially in popular series? i literally only trust the villain fans #the actual villain fans not the ones who make him (it's always a him) innocent of everything #no! give him back his atrocities! they're enrichment! and also they're hot!!!#tumblr users will joke about their faves being war criminals and then actively ignore the actual crimes they do in favor of woobifying them #i have so many fandoms this could apply to but i'd like to make a special shoutout to the antis in the asoiaf fandom. like????#this is for freaks ONLY go away #discourse tag #ac says things #oh in case my position was not abundantly clear #proship

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comshipbracket · 9 months

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Antis DNI

Remember, you are voting for the ship you prefer, not the ship you find more problematic

Propaganda for both ships under the cut.

Sebaciel Propaganda (Age Gap - Ciel 11 and Sebastian 1000+, Species Difference)

None that fits the bracket initially provided - feel free to Reblog with your own propaganda for this ship's advancement in the bracket

However! Propaganda has been added by @lecalcifer and @greta-monroe Here and by @alfiely-art and @gearbox-dollhouse Here and Here (Yes, one of the propagandas is legitimately a Roomba.) Check them both out! And by @gearbox-doll Here!

Billdip Propaganda (Age Gap, Underage - Dipper is underage, Species Difference, Abusive Dynamic)

"The fanfic When He Won, by xxZombieWriterxx on ao3!"

#comshipbracket #antis dni #antis do not interact #comship #comship safe #proship safe #comship bracket #comshipbracket round 4 #comshipbracket semifinals #Sebaciel #Sebastian Michaelis #Ciel Phantomhive #Black Butler #Billdip #Bill Cipher #Dipper Pines #Gravity Falls #Why do I feel like this semifinal poll is going to become an all out friendly ship war like the 2008 days

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