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druidcore · 1 year

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I love you, I miss you, why did you leave me?

forvagabondsfromclown / excerpt #71 (d.n) / break up with a friend (blü eyes) / unknown tumblr post / vodktales / brian rea

#web weaves #friend break up #web weaving #web weave #brotp: burn my friendship bracelet #wisteria du voile #opp: lucia bianchi

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adventuresyettobehad · 9 months

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i’m not proud of how easily i’d forgive you

#cs #ex best friend #i miss you #ex friend #friend breakup #heartache #friend break up #adventures yet to be had

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ineed-internet-therapy · 2 years

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I can't call her anymore

I put my son first,

which meant to her

that I put her behind -

beneath.

I put my son first

because he needs me

more than

she ever did.

I put my son first

because when

she put him in harms way

I chose his safety

over our friendship,

and I don't feel bad

because I would do it again

any damn day.

I put my son first.

but my god, I miss her.

#best friend #breakup #friend break up #motherhood #parenting #baby #teen mom #poetry #slam poets on tumblr #mental health #I miss her

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onceuponanage · 2 years

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Okay so here's the thing I don't how people can let go of best friends???!!! I lost my best friend of 3 years months ago and even now it's like I'm not the same. Ik growth is inevitable but the pain or the memories I had with her isss so much to endure and i can't just let her go properly because at the end of the day she is gonna be the first person I loved like that in my life and nothing could change that even if I'm 20 years old or 30 years old

#friend break up

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honeyandbloodpoetry · 2 years

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Flee from me dark star,

Touch me like an angel

And then leave forever.

.

Who am I thinking of,

In the light of day

When I weave my arms around myself

And will myself back home?

.

Gently weave yourself into my life,

Unchain and tether me to you,

Whisper your wings across my brow

And sing-song

"Everything will be alright."

.

Then go.

.

Leave abruptly all at once

And edge me along for years.

You never loved me.

You never wanted me,

A filthy obligation

And someone to save.

.

Yeah, you saved me,

But at the cost of you hating me.

You get to move on,

And I'm left here

Wondering what I did wrong?

I'll never know

Because you refused to speak.

.

So speak,

Tell me of a time

Where you told me the truth.

Tell me of a time

Where I was not an animal

But a man.

.

Run away,

Like you always do.

#spilled thoughts #poetry #poem #lgbt #spilled ink #twcpoetry #writerscreed #trans #transmasc #lgbtq #abandoned #saviour complex #trauma #cptsd #ptsd #friend break up

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ironwilledf-up · 23 days

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I set one of my best girl friends up with one of my best guy friends (they both told me they liked the other and he was literally the only fucking man I knew other than my husband I trusted) and he broke her heart and fucked her over and her young daughter so I'm going through a friend breakup while feeling my bestie's breakup hurt so I need that new Taylor Swift album precisely now.

Especially "The Smallest Man In The World." cause that is what he is.

#taylornation #tay #taylor swift #swifties #ttdp #smallest man #break up #friend break up

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ali3nboyfriend · 1 year

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worst relationship status to have w someone is “objectively they’re a fine person who is nice but i don’t enjoy their company as much as they enjoy mine”

#starscream.txt #not about anyone here #it’s literally impossible to ‘break up’ with a friend like this without coming off as a dick

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davidtennantpussytulpa · 1 year

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#the best decision of my life was breaking up with my friend who was like this its truly the most brain dead shit 🙏🏻#tiktok #repost

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andthebeanstalk · 1 year

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Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

#hlep #original #mental health #my sympathies and empathies to anyone who has to rely on this kind of hlep to get what they need.#the people in my life who most need to see this post are my family but even if they did I sincerely doubt they would internalize it #i've tried to break thru to them so many times it makes my head hurt. so i am focusing on boundaries and on finding other forms of support #and this thing i learned today helps me validate those boundaries. the example with the milk was from my therapist.#the example with the towing company was a real thing that happened with my parents a few months ago while I was age 28. 28!#a full adult age! it is so infantilizing as a disabled adult to seek assistance and support from ableist parents.#they were real mad i was mad tho. and the spoons i spent trying to explain it were only the latest in a long line of #huge family-related spoon expenditures. distance and the ability to enforce boundaries helps. haven't talked to sisters for literally the #longest period of my whole life. people really believe that if they love you and try to help you they can do no wrong.#and those people are NOT great allies to the chronically sick folks in their lives.#you can adore someone and still fuck up and hurt them so bad. will your pride refuse to accept what you've done and lash out instead?#or will you have courage and be kind? will you learn and grow? all of us have prejudices and practices we are not yet aware of.#no one is pure. but will you be kind? will you be a good friend? will you grow? i hope i grow. i hope i always make the choice to grow.#i hope with every year i age i get better and better at making people feel the opposite of how my family's ableism has made me feel #i will see them seen and hear them heard and smile at their smiles. make them feel smart and held and strong.#just like i do now but even better! i am always learning better ways to be kind so i don't see why i would stop

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iwoulddieforienzo · 6 months

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Personally I think percabeth is at its best when Grover is in it. I don’t necessarily mean in a polycule way I just think it’s great when he’s around

#just you and me and me and you just us and our friend Grover :)#he IS a third wheel. however he’s a very appreciated 3rd wheel who is never left out of anything except make out sessions.#he comes on 90% of their dates and would probably come on all of them but he’s Busy :(#and also he exasperatedly tells them that a date should probably include only the people dating. he’s tired of watching them make out okay.#like he’s genuinely happy for them but for the love of PAN. he is RIGHT HERE.#they both smack his ass as they do each others and like to pretend to break up with each other to date him. they flirt with him sometimes.#there are no romantic feelings involved on either side. annabeth and Percy just think they’re hilarious #when they get married they’ll probably end up marrying him too tbh. even just spiritually. he probably lives with them #percabeth #pjo #grover underwood #annabeth chase #Percy Jackson

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slymanner · 8 months

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hurt my heart why dontcha.

#adventure time #fionna and cake #fionna and cake spoilers #simon petrikov #BMO #this is seriously fucked up u cant do this to me im so sadSNSSN #IMAGINE BEING BMO #just one day finn and jake say they'll brb and they're going on a important mission...#and BMO after this and them being gone for awhile just see's the world go into peril #death everywhere. no sign of his friends expect remnant's of the past..#and the only survivor is them...#no other's expect the thing who released hell upon this once lively and colorful world in the first place.#and BMO just accept's this...tells themselves that they're still around...cosplay's as they're old friend's...this is fucked up #in the current timeline all his friend's are gone to natural circumstances.#but for this one? it was too early. too sudden. atleast in this one BMO will remember they're name's but...man.#this poor lil robo cant get a BREAK.#AND THEY FUCKING DIE IN SACRIFICE AT THE END TOO SHUTUPPPDPDPDPD #and the fact BMO also consider's “jerry” a friend...not knowing...that the same person caused all this.#this is...SO FUCKED UP #WHY MUST THE SHOW WRITERS DO THIS TO MY HEART.

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kanakori · 15 days

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crazy out of context and not much better with context

#when the homoerotic friendship is so powerful you break up ur best friend's relationships #straight show #house md #hilson #hatecrimes md #kanakori gif #house md gifset #house md s3e20

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adventuresyettobehad · 10 months

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i still care still care about you. unconditionally.

#cs #ex best friend #i miss you #ex friend #friend breakup #heartache #friend break up

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shitpostingkats · 5 months

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I'm sorry I'm still not over Riz taking the High Fantasy Equivalent Of Speed except no one remembers he weighs 25 pounds soaking wet so instead of Calming The Hell Down like we all know in our heart of hearts Riz would do if he actually took properly dosed stimulants he just sprints through all 9 phases of hyperfocus and ascends to neurodivergent godhood and starts solving mysteries you've never heard of and then becomes paranoid that someone's gonna take his memories so he goes up to a pirate and asks them to tattoo his red string conspiracy board on his flesh

#also he's sixteen and on spring break in cancun #what. what do you think this pirate thought when a highschooler with pupils wider than god walked up and asked for a chest tat of NIGHT YOR #Riz's coffee chugging is an attempt to self medicate change my mind. you can't.#Riz fucking Gukgak #he sleeps with a sword. he sleeps for four hours a night. he offered to bite a guys eye out and shove it into his best friends skull.#he can't stop breaking into crime scenes.#d20 #dimension 20 #fantasy high #riz gukgak

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treasureplcnet · 3 months

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