For all those people who think the A in LGBTQIA+ stands for Ally...
How is being a descent human being queer??? How is not being a literal homophobe/transphobe/biphobe/intersexphobe/aphobe worthy of praise???
Congratulations, you're not an asshole. That does not mean you're part of the LGBTQIA+ community.
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A stands for queer identities which begin with the letter A. This currently includes asexuality, aromanticism, agender, and their respective spectrums.
A does not stand for ally. Did it in the past? Maybe in some circles. Should it now? No. Things change. History is important, but people have to live right here right now. We need to do what makes sense right here right now.
Allies are welcome in some queer spaces, and NOT WELCOME in other queer spaces. Unfortunately, people who cannot come out may be excluded. That sucks. It does not suck as much as queer people being unable to sometimes exclude allies when they need to.
A spectrum queer identities are still facing a lot of exclusion in queer communities. We need to explicitly include them wherever we can. Real Allyship would understand that. We need to talk more about a spectrum queer identities. We need to make it clear that they exist and that they are welcome.
A does not stand for ally
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again what is queer about a cishet who needs a bond to feel sexual attraction? what do they contribute to the lgbt community? how do they not oppress lgbt people
okay, so what this is called is aphobia and actually is oppressing lgbtq+ people
demisexual people, on the other hand, are not oppressing anyone by being who they are, and if you believe so, I invite you to either do some research or suck a dogs cock <3
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This is your friendly reminder that ace/aro people belong in queer spaces. Yes, even cishet ace/aro people. Yes, even cishet ace/aro men. And if I see you tell an ace/aro person that hc a queer character ace/aro is infantilizing them, I will take your fucking kneecaps
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also obsessed with other queer people or people who pride themselves on being allies who only truly care about the first four letters
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i’m confused. isn’t it bad that amber settled?
i don’t think so!
it offers her a chance to finally be rid of her abuser, once and for all. she will no longer have to suffer through his legal abuse and she will not be forced to relive her trauma again for the public or for anyone. she will be able to move on with her life, her activism, her acting, and raising her beautiful daughter!! hopefully this can begin to officially be behind her and she can move forward in peace 💕
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PSA: Acespecs are queer, Acespecs belong here.
Arospecs are queer, Arospecs belong here.
Aplatonics are qeer, Aplatonics belong here.
Aspecs are queer, Aspecs belong here.
All Aspecs belong in the LGBTQIAAP+ community. That is what the A stands for. We belong here. The LGBTQ+ community should be and NEEDS to be a safe place for Aspecs. Shout out to all of my fellow Aspecs.
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