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agirlwithglam · 1 day

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My best and favourite recommended resource for glow ups, self improvement, wellness, etc. :

BLOSSLY.

Ive been checking out the 30-day glow up challenge and it looks AMAZING. I definitely recommend that you check it out!!

#agirlwithglam🎀✨#it girl energy #blossly #recommends #glow up #glow up tips #30 day glow up challenge #self improvement #it girl #becoming that girl #self development #girlboss #self love #girlblog #becoming her #recommend

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agirlwithglam · 1 day

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One of the most dangerous things in the world is not being able to say no to people because you don't want to upset them or dissapoint them. This will completely ruin your life in every way possible, at work, in your private life, your sex life and your friendships. It's a way of removing your own consent in your own decisions and go against your wishes, it is always a crime against yourself. Let yourself have a say. Upsetting people is better than traumatizing yourself.

#glamorous reblogs🌸#self growth #healing #self improvement #self love #self worth

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agirlwithglam · 2 days

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#glamorous reblogs🌸#it girl #that girl #clean girl #vanilla girl #glow up #pink pilates princess #it girl energy

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agirlwithglam · 3 days

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This is actually what scares me and motivated me to go outside and not only touch grass, but also HAVING FUN touching grass.

mentally a living corpse

#glamorous reblogs🌸#stop rotting in your room #go touch some grass #yes i’m talking to you #girlblogger

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agirlwithglam · 3 days

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“I forgot that you existed”

It isn’t love, it isn’t hate, it’s just.. indifference”

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agirlwithglam · 5 days

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“ What, like it’s hard? ,,

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agirlwithglam · 5 days

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You can have love for people and still take a step back.

#glamorous reblogs🌸

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agirlwithglam · 5 days

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Rarely ever be emotional. Your default is under emotional. Always observing, looking at how you can turn certain events to have a favorable outcome for you and where you can benefit from. Save your emotions for your children or your pets or for when you write or paint or express yourself. Save it for your journal to put them all down in and sort through them. Process your emotions in private, with someone you trust, or with a therapist. Practice mental hygiene every night where you put them down on paper or say them out loud. But your emotions are a currency.

Say you only have so much currency to spend every day. Would you be giving them out as freely as you do and to people who didn’t even ask for it?

#glamorous reblogs🌸

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agirlwithglam · 7 days

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✨Time for Vanilla’s Opinion 🍰

Edition #1: thoughts on hate & caring about what others think of you.

Regardless of what people think of you, you need to understand that it only matters/ means something if you decide it to. What i mean is that i know lots of people say “you should only care about your opinion. Others opinion of you dont matter” but that’s only true if YOU DECIDE IT TO BE TRUE. I will say this again: this is your life!!!!!

If you choose to accept and believe the nonsense that others will think/ say of you, then you are saying “i dont have the confidence and self love in myself to only accept my opinion, so im going to give you the power over my emotions and how i act :)” do you really want to do that? Because that’s what you’re doing when you start acting based on how you think others are gonna think of you and what their perception is.

Remember: what other people think of you is just THEIR PERCEPTION. Stop making your personality & yourself dependent on what another person thinks of you!!

And also, some people will literally just hate on anything because of how sad their life is. I mentioned this before, and im gonna mention it again: there could be a video of CATS PLAYING on YouTube and you’ll find someone criticising and hating on that. That’s how sad some of these people in life are. So stop trying to or thinking that since you love yourself and you’re “perfect” that everyone should/ would like you because THATS NOT TRUE.

I read this quote once: “you could be the most juiciest, yummiest apple in the world, yet there would still be someone out there who doesn’t like apples.”

“So then.. what do i do if I receive hate? It’s still mean and hurtful.”

WHY does it still hurt??? WHY are you giving that person ANY control over how you feel???? If this person is someone who’s your friend or close to you, when they do it, TELL THEM THAT YOU DONT LIKE IT!!! Without communication and understanding, you will only start to build resentment for the other person, creating a toxic relationship. Comunícate your boundaries clearly by telling them that firmly, NOT in a joking manner, that you don’t like it. Now ofc if they do it once more, remind them again. Most of the time, if this person really cares about you, they will respect your feelings and stop doing that. But if it happens more times, you’ve gotta stop giving your energy to them. Reserve that for something that actually matters.

You may or may not have noticed that i did not write “just cut them out” because i know how difficult that can be, especially if you’re a kid still living with your parents. Because at some times, you’re stuck in the situation you’re in for a while (for example: a workplace, living at home, in 1 class at school) so its not as easy to just “cut them out”. And that’s why i wrote “stop giving your energy to them”. Because THATS what the parasites are feeding on! Your energy and attention! Take that away from them and see what happens.

BUT….;

know that what I’m NOT saying is to be a stone-cold bitch who doesn’t care at all about others or their happiness. (Because honestly, doing that shows me that you’re a lot more insecure) A lot of people now would be like “but it’s not my responsibility to ensure they’re happy. They are their own person in charge of their own actions and feelings!” Sure, ok. But then don’t come whining to me about how you have no friends and how you feel so lonely and sad. ‘You’re your own person and in charge of your own feelings’, remember? So if someone decides to leave a relationship (whether it’s a friendship, or with romance) with you because you don’t make them feel happy, then don’t be surprised about that because ‘they are their own person.’

But look, i completely agree with the fact that you and every individual indeed are in charge of their own feelings and actions, but just stop and think about it for a sec; would YOU want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t give a hoot about your happiness? Yuck, no!!

So to put it in more simple/ plain terms: be KIND to people, bring smiles to peoples faces when you can (give them a compliment, help them out, listen to them, offer advice, etc.) but don’t something that compromises your own wellbeing and happiness. Cus like, how is complimenting someone’s hair or eyes gonna hurt you? If anything it would just make you happier. But also don’t live your life constantly on the edge, afraid of what he’s gonna think of you, what shes gonna say about you, etc. etc.

I guess that’s pretty much it. <3 anyyywayys i hope you enjoyed the 1st edition of the series! If you have requests, comment on this post of send an ask using the ‘tea’ button ☕️

Xoxo, Vanilla

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agirlwithglam · 7 days

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The amount of VIBE in this song is outstanding.

#agirlwithglam🎀✨#thoughts #me #it girl #Taylor Swift #new romantics #Taylor Swift songs #girlblogging #girlblog

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agirlwithglam · 8 days

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Hiii pookies! I have TONS of magnificent posts about to come out soon! (Finally sozzz😭) <3

And also, im starting a new series called: “time for Vanilla’s opinion!” (Inspired by the great, Gina Linetti ofc)

and this series is basically gonna be about different topics with my thoughts and opinions on it, unfiltered. If you wanna request a topic or need some advice, then dont hesitate to ask a question in my ‘tea’ <33

A very small sneak peek of the first edition:

Oki byeee 💋

Hi my glamorous pookies, what post do you guys want?

(💌 I’m open to any more suggestions as well! Just shoot me an ask or write it in the comments of this post)

#agirlwithglam🎀✨#thoughts #me #self improvement #update

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agirlwithglam · 9 days

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agirlwithglam · 9 days

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Wake up everyday feeling excited ✧.*

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agirlwithglam · 9 days

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Tysm to all my Pookies!!! 💋🥰😘

#me #agirlwithglam🎀✨#thoughts #followers #Tysm we got to this so quick!!!#222 #angel number

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agirlwithglam · 10 days

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How to be the “it girl” in school ✨💁‍♀️

Academic validation >> external validation (boys, girls, etc.) : academic validation should always come first if you’re in school. ALWAYS. Your grades and your knowledge will take you far in life, not the approval of some random kids who you probably wont ever even see again. You need to know your priorities.

Romanticise it!: make school fun! Romanticise it. Act like the main character because you ARE the main character and don’t let anyone tell you otherwise!

Study for tests: part of being an “it girl” is actually getting good grades. And how do we get good grades? By studying!! Romanticise studying if you want. But just study. Study study study until you can’t get it wrong. Also- stop working just on motivation. Create a routine or schedule where you get in studying everyday and STICK TO IT.

Confidence: walk, talk and act with confidence and confidence only. walk as if you OWN the room. Know that you are worth a million dollars, OWN THAT. Believe in yourself and your abilities. Remember: “you can’t fit in if you were born to stand out!”

Stop caring about what others think of you. people will hate on you and THATS OKAY. Some people will literally hate on like everything. I heard once (from thewizardliz) that there will be a video of cats playing on the internet and there will be a person that figures out how to hate on it. There will be people who just have nothing to do in their lives except try to bring you down so you need to just ignore it. Be protective of your energy.

Style: it’s okay to hop onto different trends, but try to find your own style. It’s okay if your school has a uniform, you can add a ‘signature’ piece of jewellery to your outfit to make you feel a bit better about yourself. Also use a certain scent/ perfume on yourself that just makes you feel a bit more.. ✨you.✨ (also remember it’s perfectly alright to change your style if you get bored once in a while!)

Good hygiene: brush your teeth. Comb your hair. Shower. Make sure your lips aren’t crusty musty dusty. Iron your clothes. Make sure you feel fresh and clean everyday.

Be kind: dont be mean if you have no reason to. If someone comes up to you politely asking a question or talking to you about something, dont give them a side eye, dont look at them as if they’re a clown, be polite and respectful. No one, and i mean NO ONE likes someone who’s rude. You may think it’s cool, but rly.. it isn’t. It’s just icky. Give genuine compliments, smile, treat others to make them feel special. Although do remember that THERE IS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN BEING kind AND BEING A people pleaser!! Have boundaries and prioritise YOURSELF FIRST.

It girl emojis to use (optional): ✨🩷💌💋🐩🪩📚🎧💗💄🌸👑🎀

Xoxo, Vanilla

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agirlwithglam · 11 days

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PERFECTION 😭🐩🪩🤍🖤🩶

TTPD IS SO AMAZING I LOVE IT SM <3

#agirlwithglam🎀✨#ttpd #Taylor Swift #album #the tortured poets department #tortured poets department #Taylor Swift album #taylor swift ttpd #ts ttpd #ttpd era #it girl energy #it girl #girlblog #girlblogging #girlblogger #girly things #love

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agirlwithglam · 12 days

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when she's studying 24/7, is obsessed with “ gilmore girls „ doesn't care about boys, is eating healthy and working out regularly, has a skincare routine, is putting herself first, is getting straight As and doesn't care about anybody's opinion >>>

#glamorous reblogs🌸#academia #studying #study motivation #education #school #student #study aesthetic #study blog #study inspiration

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