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cartoonchaos · 7 months

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“gee i wonder why there’s still so much more fanfiction about male characters” “we need more morally complex female characters” “i love relationships that are doomed by the narrative” “more stories need to treat mentally ill characters with compassion and respect” “all his problems could’ve been fixed if he only went to therapy” you fuckers can’t even handle the ending of fionna and cake

#i’m not one to go online and complain fruitlessly about how media literacy is in the toilet but jesus christ #it’s actually devastating seeing so many people actively reject a brilliant and emotionally challenging show #all because they refuse to examine anything about themselves #if you’re genuinely pissed petrigrof wasn’t endgame and the show couldn’t quote unquote let them be happy #if you’re seriously mad your favorite doomed yuri was in fact doomed by the narrative #if you can’t enjoy petrigrof anymore because you now know it’s quote unquote problematic or toxic and not a perfect tragedy #please i beg of you watch it again #this show beat you over the head with a children’s book and then you misunderstood it somehow and then whined about your headache #and if you for realsies believe this show is pushing an unhealthy message with how it handled simon’s depression #this show that showed him so much compassion and understanding and gave him closure and let him move on and grow and seek help #if you think betty was too harsh on him #the betty that sentenced the man who doomed her to life #to live a happy and healthy life #to seek help and grow and become an individual not defined by his grief #if you think that’s seriously equivalent to telling a depressed person to just cheer up #then you are legitimately anti-recovery #i really hope you guys learn how to engage healthily with complex media #one would’ve thought steven universe taught us all a lesson #but i guess a million casper and nova level stories won’t be enough for some of you #here’s hoping you don’t just kin simon but actually follow his example #get therapy #loony rambles #fionna and cake #simon petrikov #betty grof #petrigrof #adventure time

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svdaily · 1 year

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But first: Self Care ᥫ᭡

Feed your body with the correct calories and nutrients to the best of your ability, every day.

Feed your mind with words and poetry and knowledge, books, puzzles, jigsaw, crossword. Be curious, ask questions.

Feed your heart with self love and forgiveness and GRACE for your past self.

Feed your soul with wonder, adventure, naiveté. It's silly and cliché, but dance in the rain. Go on a swing. Hike, run, climb.

Buy yourself flowers, treat yourself with jewellery. Do your 11 step skin care, 30 min yoga, meal prep, 6 hour slumber, notebooking and manifestations.

And lastly, feed others. Your time, knowledge, love, and existence, are priceless and unique. Fill your cup first and the rest will spill into others.

#svdaily #affirmations #manifestations #black luxury #luxury lifestyle #luxury #wealth is being happy and healthy #wealthy #wealthy lifestyle #soft luxury #soft life #soft living #soft black women #soft black girls #self care #rich black girls #rich black women #rich in life #rich in love

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matchablogging · 1 year

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#virgincore

#do not read into the caption it is a jackbox.tv joke #may all virgins live a healthy and happy life #matchablossom #kojiro nanjo #joe sk8 #kaoru sakurayashiki #cherry sk8 #sk8 the infinity

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saydesole · 5 days

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Happy MonSlay

Reminder 🫶🏾

Smile

Drink your water

Spread love and positivity

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coolchickblog · 1 year

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She’s healthy 🫐🥦🍇🥝

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mindawaken · 2 years

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them00nsm3l0dy · 1 year

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aggressive reminder that YOU DESERVE FOOD! You deserve nutrition!!! It doesnt matter who you are, how you look, how much you weigh, how much you ate yesterday. You. Deserve. Food!! Fuck diet culture! And fuck the beauty industry!!!

#recovery #Fuck ana #You deserve to be happy <3 #And healthy!!#And depriving your body of what it needs to survive is not worth it!!! You deserve to live a happy healthy life!!!#Anti ana #Anti proana

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narniangirl1994 · 11 months

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I despise what they did with James Tartt's character this episode and his relationship with Jamie. I hate when every show/movie depicts awful parents doing the bare minimum out of nowhere to change and then has the abused child forgive their parent or make amends 'for themselves.' As if the only option for someone to heal from their trauma and abuse is to forgive and/or reconnect with their abuser.

Fuck that! It's unrealistic to expect abusers to just change out of the blue, and the person who was abused owes them absolutely nothing even if they do. Sometimes it is actually more harmful to someone's physical or mental health to try to reconnect. For the love of god, can we just let an abused character acknowledge what happened to them and find a way to move on without having to forgive their abuser?

It's especially egregious in this instance, where Jamie was being actively abused by his father as of just one year ago and hasn't even outwardly acknowledged/named that mistreatment as abuse. We just found out a couple episodes ago that his dad was responsible for Jamie being sexually assaulted at the age of 14! And now the writers expect us to think it's a good idea for Jamie to forgive and reach out to him (without even knowing his dad was in rehab in the first place)?

I wish the show was brave enough to not feel the need to try to narratively redeem a truly awful person like James. At the very least if they were going to show James 'changing,' they could have at least had Jamie acknowledge that change but ultimately decide to keep his father out of his life anyway. But I guess that's just too much to ask for. 🙄

#ted lasso spoilers #jamie tartt #ted lasso negativity #sorry for the negativity but i am SICK of this unrealistic plot that sends a harmful message to abuse victims #ive seen it in countless other shoed too #to anyone reading thus #you don't need to forgive or reconnect with your abuser to live a happy and healthy life #jamie deserves better #ted lasso meta #my meta

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foreverfitnesspositivity · 2 months

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If we stop, just for a moment and we really look, we can see the tiny joys that life brings us, they are always around us......in these moments of true awareness 🤗

#positive mental attitude #positive #positive thoughts #bemindful #stay healthy #be healthy #mindfulness #selfcare #happiness #simple living #simple life #awareness

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officersnickers · 7 months

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I'm really no fan of generic "Emma is forced to become a Sister/ Mama"-AUs, but the potential vibes of Emma and Isabella as Grandma? Unattainable. Kill me with a fucked up concept please thank you.

#alone the thought of Isabella thinking she did at least save one of her children...#only to realize she did indeed loose Emma too over the years she was forced to live this kind of life #ugh #not too happy with the outcome but sometimes you have to torture yourself with a concept. I think it's healthy for your soul #also ponytail Emma... the only slightly longer hairstyle I do accept for Emma. besides a mullet. because Demizu did draw her with one too #the promised neverland #tpn #ynn #yakusoku no neverland #yakusoku no nebārando #tpn emma #ynn emma #yakusoku no neverland emma #the promised neverland emma #tpn isabella #ynn isabella #yakusoku no neverland isabella #the promised neverland isabella #Snickers draws

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kyros-tha-soldier · 6 months

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ONE PIECE 1097 SPOILERS

The world government's description of Kuma:

Bartholomew Kuma the tyrant is a menace to people, being a buccaneer only adds to his hostility, he's dangerous beyond means and should be manipulated for our benefit!

Also Kuma:

#He's just an silly big guy... A goofy looking bearman priest who heals people and is absolutely chill with them hanging around in his church #“But how dare he live a normal happy healthy life" the world government and literally the King of sorbet #I like how even the Kingdom's residents called him Kumachi like omg everybody loved him so muchhhh 🥺#Bartholomew Kuma #I now understand why Ginny had big sister instincts towards him he is like so pure and sweet omg PROTECT HIM AT ALL COSTS #I didn't really like the part where she proposed to him now that I read the translation... It was weird honestly #Like... You're like his older sister no???#But they're so cute together honestly.... *Sigh* if only Oda wasn't a weirdo #Maybe she meant it as in “Aniki” or “kyodai” type of brother but I dunno it still weirds me out #One piece

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niishi · 15 days

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when it comes to mental illness, you can never please anyone. you're either mentally ill and do your best to not be a victim and to cope and grow, and then ppl act like you're not mentally ill and dismiss your genuine issues, or you make a big deal of it and harm ppl and yourself with it and then you're too much to handle. like what's gonna make ppl happy? what will make them validate your position in life? literally nothing.

#ive been medicated since i was 14 #and have heen suicidal since i was 14 #i put in so much effort to combat my mental illness so i can just live a happy life #where i dont want to die 24/7 #and where i can relax and appreciate my life etc #and bc i put so much effort in to coping and healing and growing #ppl just dismiss that im genuinely mentally ill #what do u want from me?#do u want me to have breakdowns and abuse people?#do you want me to make life hard for others and myself?#when will i ever get recognized for fighting so fucking hard for myself?#ppl only care when youre negatively effecting them and then #they use it as an excuse to dismiss your reality and hard work #idk man #im not saying i have mental illness and disability to be cute and quirky #im saying that bc ive been in and out of the doctors since i was 14 and have been diagnosed by #several different doctors all with the same diagnosis'#i have incurable mental disorders from taking medication that #kept me from killing myself but gave me massive dissociation #its not a joke and its not for attention #i don't even rlly talk about it unless i have to remind ppl that im not normal like they are #and stop writing off ppl who are good representations of strength and growth within their mental illnesses #we exist and we should be given more recognition so other ppl in our situations can see an example of someone #coexisting with their issues in a more healthy manner

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hel7l7 · 1 year

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you think this is what you want.

this is not what you want

#got so triggered in my ED by smt that happened the past week #and just my head is going insane #gotta remind myself that this is not it #this is not what i want #i want to be happy and healthy and #just live life fully #i don't want to go back to that hell

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amrv-5 · 2 months

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survived Badly (argh) but going to work on fic for as long as I continue to enjoy doing so then switch over -- see if I can find somewhere to watch The 400 Blows and probably cry forever and dehydrate and feel soooo sad and then feel better after. Thank you French New Wave

#boooo whatever saying nonsense nothing matters delete later #somebody should invent a proximity to your parents that doesn't immediately make you so emotionally weird forever #overdramatic. Im feeling fine im eating some crackers and lying around chilling. Just. Weird. Off Balance..#Mild Disturbance in my Year of Exceptional Emotional/Mental Chill #not gonna let it break my 2024 streak of feeling generally Pretty Freakin Good and mostly Recovered From The Lost Year #Which btw. can I say... have i said...? Genuinely having one of the nicest years of my life so far... feeling really pretty good #mfw having more control over your life + surroundings + choices + living circumstances means you can genuinely #meaningfully improve ur day-to-day lived experiences and find what works for u to keep u happy + healthy + excited about life... magic #anyway. brief Huh I Feel Kind Of Bad And Sad In A Deeper Way Kicked Off By But Unrelated To Events Of The Day moment earlier #really made me realize how exceptionally good I've had it so far this year... i think... it's possible... things Do Get Better #anyway. ok done Tag Blogging now. just hope everyone enjoys a nice treat or something. get good sleep enjoy ur time change if it applies #watch a movie or something. idk have fun guys have a good night

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ferniliciousness · 2 months

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I just realized, I cannot remember if I have introduced Tumblr to the Bread Gang. I must rectify this immediately.

This is the Bread Gang. They are the best boys.

Members of the Bread Gang: Jam (red long fin guppy) Baguette (yellow tuxedo guppy) Toast (sunset guppy) and honorary member, Turbo the nerite snail.

#for anyone wondering #the algae on the glass is on purpose #i like rhe look of it and im trying to grow it over on the sides #it does not hurt the fish lol #there tank is ten gallons and full of plants #there happy and healthy fish who are living well past there expected life span #they get plenty of brine shrimp treatos as well #bread gang #fish #pets

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dragons-and-yellow-roses · 3 months

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I got a number blocking app so that I could call you. You probably still have my actual number blocked, and if you don't then I couldn't risk you knowing I'd tried to call you. I need to be clear, I wasn't trying to trick you into answering me. I just needed to hear your voice. Even if it was only saying "I can't come to the phone right now, please leave a message and I'll get back to you as soon as I can."

The first time I called, I hung up immediately. Even though it's 3am where you are, and if you're anything like you were four years ago then you've been asleep for four hours already. I was just deeply terrified that you'd answer and I'd have to fight the need to talk to you again. Because if you had answered the phone, I wouldn't be able to hang up without trying to say something.

So this is dangerous. Because one of these days, I'm afraid I won't be able to resist the urge to call you during waking hours, and you're going to respond. And I won't be able to hang up. I'll have to say something.

Because god, I don't know how I've lasted these last four years without our nightly texts. I don't know how I've gone four years without video calling to practice sign language. I don't know how I haven't gone insane from not hearing your voice. And now I don't know how I won't go insane, knowing that if I called you might answer, and that I cannot call you.

#yes i know this isnt healthy or fair or good. i know this isnt right of me #i have no defense. no excuses.#i lost the love of my life four years ago and it was both of our fault #but she kept her girlfriend. probably now her fiancee. she kept her college. she's achieving internships. she's living her dreams #she is living her best life and I'm so happy for her. i just wish that i could be there with her #it's driving me insane

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