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r-e-dax-t-e-d · 24 days

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A little something we drew for the boyfriend ^_^

Drew a faceclaim for Valentino from our partner system[@the-devoured]

Really happy with how it turned out

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cimmerian-chaos · 2 months

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When the whole system boops you

#partner system things #system things

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the-volary · 1 year

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John after burping during a massage: "Sometimes you need to jiggle your Catholic to get the demons out."

I proceed to have to put the massage gun down to laugh my ass off.

#[REDACTED] Dark #Monsignor John Michael Pruitt #midnight mass #partner system things #dissociative system #partner system

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knifearo · 7 months

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being aromantic is like. hey btw you're going to live a life that is the culmination of most of society's worst nightmares. sorry lol ✌️ but then you turn around and take a really good hard look at it and it turns out that living in that nightmare is fucking awesome and you get to wake up every day and take that fear that other people have and laugh and hold it close until it's a great joy for you instead. and being happy is a radical act that you define instead of someone else. and you're sexy as fuck that's just a fact of life i don't make the rules on that one

#aromantic people are just sexy i'm not making the decisions here it's just facts #course ur hot as fuck. it came free with the aromanticism #being sexy is just default settings for aromantic people 👍#hope this all helps. anyway i'm on my 'i hope i die alone <3 i can't wait to die alone <3' kick rn #i think the existential fear that people have of Not Partnering specifically is so. well.#obviously that shit is strong and it is SO awesome to be free of it.#realizing you're aro and you don't Want a partner can be such a hit to the solar plexus #cause society says that's the only thing that'll make you happy. so either you go without that thing or you force yourself #into doing something you don't want which would make you unhappy anyway.#so you think it's a lose lose situation and you have to come to terms with what amatonormativity presents as the worst possible situation #but then! whoa! turns out personhood is inherently valuable in and of itself and romantic partnering is just a construct!#and that nightmare is now your life to do with as you please... define as you will... structure as you want...#best case scenario. is what i'm saying.#every day i wake up ready to spit all that amatonormative rhetoric back in life's teeth by being alone and being happy #and it's so fucking satisfying. every day.#fucking JUBILANT being by myself. and i love being a living breathing 'fuck you' to the romantic system #you need a partner to be happy? oh that's sooo fucking crazy guess i'll go be miserable then. in my perfect fucking dream life lmao #yeah obviously it's the worst possible outcome on earth to die without a partner. so terrible. can't wait for it :)#aromantic #aromanticism #aro positivity #aroace #arospec #sorry to bitches who are sad about not having a partner. i could not give a fuck though get better soon #you couldn't EVER pay me enough to go back to a mindset in which my inherent value wasn't enough by myself.#FUCK that shit. absolutely miserable and a bad life outlook in general. like genuinely do the work w/ amatonormativity and get better #life is something that can be so fulfilling whether someone wants to kiss you or whatever or not #i'm on antidepressants and i have people i care deeply about. what the fuck would i need a partner for lmao

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sensitiveheartless · 9 months

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(The rest is under the readmore!)

(Next part) ->

#breaking news: local man is confronted with the fact that if he uses dumb contests as an excuse to avoid emotional vulnerability —#then his partner is going to do the exact same thing lol #also covid update: I had a bit of a relapse and have been completely stuck in bed again the last couple days #am still definitely doing better than before but remain very very fatigued #apparently changing my bedsheets was a little much for me lol #anyway thank you to the people who have sent in asks the last couple days!! I am very excited to get to them #I just had to get this self indulgent comic out of my system first lololol #bsd #bsd dazai #bsd chuuya #soukoku #skk #bungou stray dogs #my art

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witchings-ofkoi · 2 years

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stealing my qpp from my brother

percy threatens to steal my bf in return >:0

#partner system things

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muqingapologist · 1 month

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i dont fw mpreg bc it is not my thing but mpreg shen qingqiu is actually so hilarious to me simply because there are few couples less equipped to be parents than bingqiu like come on guys😭light a candle for that child 🕯️

#having a child implies that you need to love that thing more than ur partner #let’s be so fr #svsss #scum villain’s self saving system #ren zha fanpai zijiu xitong #bingqiu #luo binghe #shen qingqiu #lily posts #i would also make a similar argument w mpreg hualian #hua Cheng’s sole reason for existence his xie lian #U think he’s gonna care about a kid half as much?

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haunted-house-sys · 5 days

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As a system with a partner system with pretty good system communication on both ends; our days are NEVER not eventful.

We could be having the most casual day, body doubling, just existing in the same cozy vibe. Then suddenly one of us glance around the inner world and end up DYING of laughter, or a headmate could pop in and say the most bizarre thing, or a gatekeeper comes in to drop some knowledge, or even someone slides in to just give some gossip on innerworld relations.

This is the positive side. This is something that happens and we all instantly are here to be included in the loop.

But being a system with a system, our days are never uneventful.

We are long distanced partner systems. We keep in touch with texting and facetime calls and constant updates (because our headmates love to yap to them). The outer world is full of stress and trauma. We strive to keep each other semi sound with everything.

Sometimes there is rapid switches that happen and we have to clock it for them, and try our best to help ground. Never know who to call for. Sometimes theres blurring and panic that flows through them and all we can do is talk to them while they go nonverbal as we sit in hopes for a body manager or a soother steps forward.

Sometimes BPD or ED episodes are triggered, and we have to do our best to reassure, ground, and motivate. Sometimes theres suddenly meltdowns and break downs or negative triggers, and we have to sit there and watch them cry and try to self soothe, as we just talk.

And if that's not hell on earth to watch each other suffer, while feeling helpless and understanding what is going on with each other... i dont know what is.

Being a system with a system is fun, but it also is difficult. We understand each other. But that also means we understand the headaches, the lost feelings, the amnesia, the disgust we feel in body, the hate when we see our camera or the body in the mirror, the sick feelings from "nothing", the fear and anxiety that runs through when something happens, the nonverbal, the meltdowns, the stress, the trauma, the pain.

But we also understand the jokes, and the fun, and the stupid comments, or when theres that empty look within their eyes, the sudden reactions to virtually "nothing", the sharing voice, co cons, co fronts, the energy swaps, the everything.

If you're a system with a system; im proud of you. Im proud of you all. Especially if you support and stand by each other whether or not is your specific partner or another headmate through the good, bad, and the ugly. Im proud of yall who actively help and improve each other, and help tackle difficult times together. Im proud of yall doing your best from a distance or right next to them.

Y'all the real ones.

DNI if you are: Endo/nontramagentic + supporters, minors, anti furry, anti LGBTQ+, etc.

- 🔥

#haunted house sys #endos dni #sysblr #plural gang #plural things #system posting #system community #cdid system #dissociative system #system blog #system stuff #system things #traumagenic system #system problems #partner system #long distance relationship

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lefluoritesys · 8 months

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So, this is a bit of a different post than usual, it doesn't directly relate to systems, but I really gotta share.

So, our partner system and us, we sleep on VCs. Main reason being, it just feels safer that way and feels like we're closer to each other. And we have like... a 7 hour time difference (to put it in perspective, their 10am is our 5pm), so we can also soothe each other's nightmares if we have them.

And yesterday was a pretty stressful day for us. As well as, we just felt sleepy and couldn't get anything done due to that. I was regressed, and they were still sleeping, it was almost 5am for them (almost 12pm for us). So I unmute my mic, and I call one of their alters who I see as a parental figure and who wasn't even fronting at that time. Wakes up, immediately fronts, asks me what's wrong, and I tell them that I want to be lulled to sleep. Cause I'm small and sleepy, but I want my mum to help me fall asleep. I am also apologizing cause they have work in a few hours, and I'm waking them up, not letting them sleep... and I get the "no apologies, baby, you're so small, of course you want your mum to lull you to sleep."

And we had another ex-partner system before that who told us, very explicitly, that we're foolish for trying something with our partner system, all because of a minor inconvenience that they didn't like (and that I won't bring up). I didn't listen, for the first time ever stood my ground... and so I went from a system who claimed that giving us any reaction to anything we send or are passionate about was "not something they were taught" (to the point where talking to them and talking to a wall made no difference), to a partner system who is willing, and encouraging us, to wake them up at night if we need them for literally anything.

So like, romance, friendship, QPR (queerplatonic relationships) are cool and all, but will they wake up in the middle of the night because you need affection? Cause ours will. And that's probably our biggest flex. /semi-ref

(@the-soup-system)

-host

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r0semultiverse · 3 months

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Hey so Avatar Kyoshi can just physically manifest & take the wheel at any time? That feels kind of over powered??

We’re just not gonna talk about how Kyoshi possessed Aang? 👀

Also feels like the avatar detection statues in Zuko’s ship got retconned already. Iroh asking how Zuko knows he’s on the right path to find the Avatar but neither of them acknowledge the avatar tracking statues that this adaptation spawned in. 😩 It was a little frustrating to watch. Either leave them in & acknowledge them or just leave them out.

#my partner speculated that 2 different writers were trying two different things at the same time which made the scene with Iroh & Zuko very #jarring when the avatar state detection statues weren’t acknowledged #also Aang is plural or a system?#good for him!#also I feel like Kyoshi would have been more merciless but it seems like she was on a limited power budget?#still felt over powered af that she can just... do that #like oh my god; also gender fluid Aang headcanon?? gotta be feeling something strange after turning into a cool warrior lady #I don’t remember this ever happening in the show #I’m pretty sure Aang never got transformed into Kyoshi against his will lmao #Netflix avatar is such a wild adaptation #mine #op #avatar live action #avatar the last airbender #atla #natla

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wanderingpeonies · 3 months

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system pairing & pairpluric relationships

(partner) system pairing is an event between partner systems that involves 2(+) members splitting / forming in their respective systems very soon after one another, or otherwise sharing an important moment with eachother.

these individuals form a close and committed bond with the other, that may take the form of any platonic, queerplatonic, romantic, etc. relationship. it can seem as though the partner systems are "pairing" headmates together, like bluetooth devices.

the system members between partner systems who experience this could be called system pairs, partner pairs, bonded pairs, or paired members/headmates/etc. they can also choose any other label that feels best for their relationship.

system pairings are not limited to 2 individuals. all language used to refer to these types of partnerships can be modified to fit different relationships.

attraction and/or relationships (platonic, qp, romantic, alterous, etc) between paired members can be called pairpluric. this can be given specifiers, such as pairromantic, pairplatonic, pairqueerplatonic, etc.

this term was coined by peony gardens. we are pro-endo and inclusys. all systems are welcome to use this term however it may apply.

#plurality #plural system #plural terms #plural term #system terms #plural things #plural stuff #system stuff #system things #partner system #endo safe #endo friendly #endogenic safe #endogenic #systemhood #system related

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the-volary · 1 year

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My hand is all sorts of fucked up in the tendons and I had the boyfriend applying pressure to it between his knees when suddenly he exclaims:

SPANISH INQUISITION!

Before quickly trying to crush my hand between his knees. Much to his dismay I caught on and slipped my hand out of the Danger Zone™ just in time for him to smash his knees together. Fucking played himself XD

#[REDACTED] Frank #partner system things #partner system #system dating #dissociative system #did system #fictive

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merrill-mcmerlin · 9 months

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I had a Bottom-Mobei-Agenda epiphany!

I don’t have the exact quote to their canon first time on hand because it was only in an interview and not in the text.

But from what I got from Osmosis:

SQH ends up injured/bleeding

Mobei ends up punched across the room

SQH insults Mobei’s sex skills

It happens because Mobei is big and doesn’t know what lube is

You don’t need Mobei to top to get there. As stated before, our boy is tall, heavy, impatient and has possibly never heard of lube, and sex is the leading cause for penile trauma is sex.

It’s absolutely possible that he would just flipped SQH onto his back if the foreplay takes to long. It’s absolutely possible that he would just try to sit on that dick without any preparation. It’s a fact that he has the strength to crush a mans dick.

Another great point about this interpretation is that you for one can give SQH a black eye because he got an ice pillar to the face.

Also Mobei going horny insane over being punched across the room and has his hands slapped away because he keeps trying to fondle SQH. He’s also deeply offended that he’s not ever allowed to kiss it better.

If you insist on blood, Mobei has claws in most peoples heads and there are other penis injuries than penile trauma, like a torn foreskin frenulum.

The possibilities a vast and glorious!

#svsss #moshang #shang qinghua #mobei #scum villian self saving system #sqh #My research was quite limited I mostly only skipped over one article on penile trauma but I loved the prevention part.#It was mostly make sure that your partner knows that your partner know this is a thing that can happen when they ride you #Don’t ram your erect dick against things unyielding surfaces #Try to avoid work and car accidents #Don’t shoot yourself or others in the dick #blorbo #MyTake

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korya-elana · 7 months

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My dog was shooting a commercial this past weekend so I went home for my dad’s birthday because it was only a couple hours away from them.

I’m learning that my experience as a DID System with my family, as opposed to home with our partner System or at work as a “singlet” is … very, very different. And it’s both affirming and makes me question everything.

One of my biggest triggers is having my boundaries crossed because I wasn’t allowed to make any until I was in my late 20s. It’s still very new to me and I don’t take it well when I’ve managed to stiffen my spine enough to put down boundaries only for them to be trampled anyways.

The System already felt different than normal. Apparently we’re much more covert around my family. I couldn’t really feel anyone around while we were there. Basically just me up front and that’s rare.

Well the big trigger happened and I’m still not really sure what the hell happened? I know I started shouting about how it wasn’t ok my boundaries had been swept aside. But then I think Alice fronted and started shouting too? But she didn’t have her accent at all which has *never* happened to my knowledge. And then I was in the spare bedroom isolating and our partner System was leading us out for a walk. After that our youngest was co-con and upset but able not to take full front? Which is super super rare.

Idk. This shit is so complicated. As soon as I think I have it figured out, the universe changes things up.

And to my wonderful, wonderful sibling who may see this post or not, you are always welcome to ask us who’s at front or if it’s not Em. We’ll always answer honestly to the best of our ability ❤️

#we have a truly stellar sibling #did osdd #system #did system #plurality #alters #system things #plural #didsystem #dissociative amnesia #trauma triggers #triggers #seriously A+ sibling #partner system #ineffable partners #perfect partner #em.ke #a.ke

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the-devoured · 17 days

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In all our 34 years, we never imagined stumbling upon someone as incredible as @r-e-dax-t-e-d. We had pretty much given up on love until he waltzed into our lives, turning our world upside down in the best possible way. For the first time ever, we're in a relationship where it feels like a true partnership instead of abuse masquerading as love. @r-e-dax-t-e-d is the beacon of hope we never knew we needed, guiding us toward a future filled with happiness and healing as we navigate therapy together. He's shown us what genuine love looks like, treating us with the utmost respect and kindness, making us feel truly human, not burdens.

His appreciation for even the smallest gestures warms our heart, and he never fails to boast about us to others, displaying unwavering loyalty and trust. Whether we're pouring our hearts out or simply enjoying each other's company, every moment with him is a treasure.

Smart, funny, talented—especially in art— @r-e-dax-t-e-d encompasses everything we could ever want. He's not just perfect; he's our perfect, and we wouldn't trade him for anything in the world.

#system things #did #did system #partner system #<3 #wholesome #lovers #relationship #mlm

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steakout-05 · 24 days

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how i feel about TBYS causing a shockwave effect of everyone dogpiling on and harassing Illymation and spreading extremely easily disprovable and malicious misinformation about her and putting her in a lot of danger for literally no legitimate reason

#big rant in the tags incoming hold on to your hats:#i swear drama commentary youtubers are actually some of the most dense people on the fucking planet #like holy SHIT i have never seen a bigger display of collective stupidity than every drama commentary grifter harping on illy based on shit #-she didn't even say that they heard from a guy who sounds like budget ben shapiro. how are you that dense. like how. actually how.#it's just a big stupid game of idiot telephone with how much basic shit people are getting wrong because they heard it whispered from-#-another person. istg if i have to see ONE more person say that ''oh but she's encouraging obesity'' ''oh but she said [thing she literally #-didn't say]!!!'' im going to SCREAM. i am going to throw my phone against the wall if i see one more malicious misinterpretation of a-#-basic statement that even a fucking doorknob could understand with more grace and nuance than these idiots #i swear to god this is all so STUPID #drama commentary youtube is where basic reading comprehension and common sense go to die. it is the 10th circle of internet hell-#-just below 4chan.#anyway rant over glad i got that out of my system.#i hope illy is doing well and that she and her partner and her cats are safe <3 #sorry for being so angry. this whole situation literally makes my blood boil and i'm so upset that an innocent person got put in danger-#-because of some nerd emoji sounding wackass blatantly lying about her and being a dickhead #this is the first and last post i'll ever make about internet drama (unless something really REALLY funny happens) i just needed an outlet-#-to scream into for a few minutes #drama commentary youtubers delete their entire channels and leave the internet right now challenge #shitpost #youtube drama

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