I have to remind people again. Being bisexual is NEVER transphobic. We are attracted to transgender people and nonbinaries. We are NOT the ones excluding them. It's people who say shit like that who make the assumptions. Bisexualism and Pansexualism are two different sexualities. Neither one is better than the other. Someone actually said that Pansexual is a better term in place of bisexuality, and I want everyone to know how ignorant and hurtful that comment is. Not just for bisexuals but also pansexuals. Being bisexual and being pansexual are EQUAL to but are NOT the same thing. We do NOT exclude transgenders or non binaries, but the people who are saying that we do are making us feel like we should be excluded from the rest of the community. There is no excuse for biphobia. Educate yourselves. I AM PROUD TO SAY THAT I AM BOTH BISEXUAL AND PANSEXUAL. BISEXUALS DO NOT EXCLUDE.
If you’re not inviting to the “weirder” genders and sexualities, you’re not as progressive as you think.
I literally don’t care if your gender identity is the Joker and your pronouns are why/so/serious or if your sexuality is sun you’re attracted to different people depending on where the sun is.
“But the right isn’t gonna take us seriously ” no matter what, the right will never take anything but heterosexual and two genders seriously.
“But it doesn’t make sense” so you’re saying that because you don’t understand, this person’s life experience is invalid. Sounds like right wing behavior to me.
“But then people could pretend to be queer/trans” oh no, the horror (how many shocked emojis should I add to capture this). It’s totally not like this is happening already. And pretending is totally rewarding enough to keep doing for the rest of your life.
What happened to “yes, we do have 87 genders and we’re going to create 5 more every time you complain”? Gender and sexuality is fucky, it doesn’t make sense and people shouldn’t be punished for not making sense.
You’re valid. Being mspec (whether that’s bisexual, pansexual, omnisexual, polysexual, etc), mspec gay/lesbian, a straight gay, a straight bi, etc, is valid.
People on here are probably gonna be calling Dream bi or gay, but (because, correct me if I'm wrong, I don't think there is an official statement on his orientation) I'm gonna claim him for the pans because we don't get enough representation