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gender-jargon · 5 months
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[Image ID: The Aphorix flag created by coiner Gent of Gender-Jargon, 2023. The flag consists of three vertical stripes and one central, horizontal stripe. From left to right, the vertical stripes are brown, bronze and light yellow. The central stripe is blush pink. /.End ID]
Aphorix: Describing a Non-Aphorian individual that finds an abinarine gender attribution befitting and considers it an essential facet of their gender identity.
A sibling term of Mascix, Femix, Gynandrix & Neuix.
Etymology
Aphorix was created to mirror the paradigm used for Mascix. Femix, Gynandrix and Neuix.
From English, “Aphor” from “Aphorian” + “-ix”, an neologistic suffix used by other terms in this genus, originally based upon Apathmascix and Apathfemix coined by user Cybertroniancoining. Aphorix was coined by Gent of Gender-Jargon, 2023.
Elaboration
Aphorix is a complex and potentially contradictory identity in which one’s gender is not aphorian, but has abinarine traits attributed to them nonetheless, and this attribution is not only considered to be fitting by the individual, but an integral part of their overall gender experience.
More simply, an Aphorix individual:
Has a gender identity that they consider to be Non-Aphorian.
Has traits of abinarinity attributed to them by other individuals.
Considers having traits of abinarinity attributed to their person to be agreeable and in a few, multiple or all manners at least part of the time.
Considers this attribution to be an intrinsic part of their experience of their gender as a whole.
An Aphorix individual is not apathetic to an abinarine gender attribution, but instead enjoys, appreciate, entertains, welcomes or otherwise freely accepts abinarine traits being attributed to their person. Furthermore, this attribution is a fundamental aspect of their gender experience.
Flag
The Aphorix flag was created to match the Mascix, Femix, Gynandrix and Neuix flags. The flag consists of three vertical bars and a central, horizontal bar, forming a tri-color flag with a median line. At the left is the darkest yellow, becoming lighter as it moves right. The median stripes is beige in color. The colors have the following meanings:
The brown, bronze and light yellow stripes represents abinarine gender attribution.
The light pink stripe represents not being an Aphorian.
The Aphorix flag was created by Gent of Gender-Jargon in 2023.
Note: Gender attribution is not necessarily based upon one’s expression, but is more frequently an assumption made about an individual’s gender identity without their input. Being an assumption, it is not always correct, good, wanted or warranted. Affirming attributions are congruent with one’s perception of themselves. Incorrect and undesired attributions are incongruent with this perception and are often distressing. Aphorix should not be used to describe anyone who does not like abinarinity being attributed to them, as it would be misdenoting on multiple levels
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Abinaryn't Pride Flag
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Abinaryn't (nonabinary/non-abinary/nonabin or nonab/non-ab/naby): not abinary; an umbrella term for anyone who is not abinary.
Flag colors obtained from mixing stripes from aptobinary, ambinary, and midbinary flags. This is inclusive of trans, non-binary, and cis individuals (plus viabinary, ideobinary, mesobinary, etc.).
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"abinary people can be gay, lesbian, veldian & straight" & "orientations that are explicitly inclusive of abinary people need more visibility and to be taken more seriously" are two statements that can and should coexist.
i see way too much "abinary people can be lesbian etc." and not nearly enough people lifting up orientations that are more explicit in our genders or in people's attraction to us. tbh, this is true for midbinary genders too. there's way more "nonbinary people can use [orientation with binary connotations]" and not enough "look at these orientations that honour us".
trixic, toric, enbian and other mestric labels for specific genders deserve as much love as lesbian, sapphic, gay, achillean, veldian.
not to forget there are many people who are both! for some people, "gay" just doesn't tell the full story and they might identify as a toric gay specifically.
all abinary experiences of orientation deserve visibility.
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the-delta-quadrant · 9 months
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"clothes aren't gendered" absolutely includes no clothes being inherently masc or fem, not just male or female.
and before someone twists my words again, you can call your own clothes whatever you want, just stop insisting that stuff like dresses is inherently fem. calling clothes masc or fem is still gendering them.
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themaveriqueagenda · 5 months
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hey maveriques and allies!
the 31st may has been declared maverique visibility day a while ago as that was when maverique was first coined.
the 31st may 2024 is the 10-year anniversary of the coining of maverique.
i feel like this might be a great opportunity for us and our allies to do something to increase visibility of and awareness for maveriques.
i already have a vague plan for a maverique episode on my podcast and i will post something on my instagram as well.
if anyone else has ideas about what we can do as a community, hit me up!
it's time for us to finally move past only being featured as an obscure nonbinary identity, together. it's time for us to be known.
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nb-amourous · 1 month
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Nonbinary language is awesome! It's amazing! Enban, xenic, diamory, maverique, abinary, neopronoun, androgyne, trixic, duosex, enby, exorsexism, ceterosexual, salmacian, there are many such examples of beautiful nonbinary vocabulary.
Our language gets held down and smothered by binary people who call it "cringe" or "weird" or "gen z/alpha" or "artificial" or "too new". All language is created for purposes! Everything has a start, everything was once new.
Use our language! Make it common, make it normal, even if it's only amongst other enben. Don't let exorsexists demoralise you into letting our nonbinary vocabulary fall into obscurity when it's objectively amazing. Erasing a community's language removes their culture, removes their visibility, removes their identity. Don't let exorsexists remove your identity. Our language is not weird, our language is not too new. It may be obscure but with common usage, it won't become obsolete.
💛🤍💜🖤
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billionsofrats · 5 months
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“non binary people exist”
I mean yeah, thanks for the support, but like? Don’t stop there??
I do more than exist, I conquer.
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ballsalsda · 1 month
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baeddel-txt · 7 months
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Corporate needs you to find the differences between this picture and this picture.
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abinary-culture-is · 5 months
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INTRO & INFO
hey hey hey! this is an 'x-culture-is' blog for abinary/aphorian folks!
this blog powered by user asks & submissions. if asks/submissions are quiet, though, i might post some myself.
all asks/submissions should start with "abinary culture is" / "aphorian culture is" OR "(x specific abinary label) culture is"
keep it sfw, nothing hateful.
dni & rules/info can be found here at my carrd. pls pls read it !
anyways, hi, i'm zondt! i use ze/zir pronouns and i'm abinary aroace! i'll see you around!
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me (a lesboy) and Juno (a feminine trans gay guy) [@junonism (tumblr doesn't let me tag her name)] dating feels like the queerest shit ever
tm4tm attraction for the win
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Reminder!
Supporting trans folks, Nonbianry/Abinary folks, and in general non cisgender (as well as GNC) folks can be a bit wired it seems. A good example is trans women (example here), the intent can be good but it can be seen as purely sexualizing.
You can support people without being inherently sexual, you can support people without referring to the bedroom. Note I’m not telling you that you can’t express that if you have like a trans partner or have a preference for them, but please don’t only do it under the guise of support. Trans people are more than their bodies, trans people are more then their sexuality, please support them outside those things.
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(Tagging you being I reference your post @rottingmagicalgirl)
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Genderfluid Maverique Neutrois Pride Flag
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A flag for those who are fluid between maverique and neutrois genders (plus neumaverique/neutromaverique and/or maverineutrois/maverineutral).
A label is possible: maverineufluid/mavneufluid/neumavfluid, mavneutrofluid/neutromavfluid.
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welcome to our abinary experience!
this blog is inspired by @our-nonbinary-experience, @our-transmasculine-experience, @our-transfeminine-experience and other experience blogs!
this blog is for anyone whose gender exists separately from manhood and womanhood, as well as genderless folk to share stories, experiences, ask questions etc.. multigender abinary people are more than welcome here, you don't have to be exclusively abinary to belong here.
people who are not abinary in any way are welcome to interact and ask questions too, please just keep this an abinary-centric space.
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the-delta-quadrant · 9 months
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"i use the terms masc and fem to be more inclusive of nonbinary people"
do you even hear yourself???
yeah, masc and fem nonbinary people exist, but literally a big part of being nonbinary is not wanting to be put into a gender binary, which is exactly what you're doing.
you're only being inclusive of the people who at least have some proximity to the binary, of the nonbinary people who make you feel the least uncomfortable.
it's literally exorsexist trans ally logic: "you can identify as whatever you want, as long as it's within the binary". this is how many people are only allies to binary trans people and not nonbinary people and apparently it's also how people are allies to masc and fem nonbinary people but not to the rest of us.
you're literally just saying "i can't call you male/female so i call you masc/fem instead, regardless of your actual identity". and changing it to "masc-identified" or "fem-identified" doesn't make it any better because a) masc people are masc and fem people are fem and b) did you know that there are more than two gender qualities/expressions? did you know there's more than two ways to be nonbinary?
no matter how much mental gymnastics you do to justify your shitty binary language, masc and fem in any variations will never include me. neither will androgyny and neutrality for that matter, but those are barely forced upon people the way masculinity and femininity are.
i wish we'd finally call it what it is: another gender binary. masc vs. fem isn't less binary than male vs. female, it's not binary lite, it's not less bad. it's literally just another gender binary. it's just as fucking violent.
and before anyone has a go at me for supposedly hating masc and fem nonbinary people because i speak out against the masc/fem binary, no i fucking don't, i simply hate the idea that those are the only two options and everyone has to be either one or the other. i'd be happy with masculinity and femininity existing along all the other options. you all can literally still exist without there being a binary. stop using binary people logic against other nonbinary people.
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themaveriqueagenda · 11 months
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it bothers me when people use "gendered" synonymously with "binary gendered"/"male/female/masc/fem gendered", because that still implies that those are the only two options, the only two real genders, when in fact there are so many people who are gendered in ways those people probably wouldn't comprehend. like, i have seen people describe maverique as "not having gendered feelings" before, which is only true if you mean binary gendered (and neutrally gendered), which only works if you think male and female are the only existing genders. it's subtle, but it still has implications.
same goes for "nonbinary people don't want to be gendered". i mean, yeah, a lot of us don't, even those who do have genders, but others very much do. i want to be gendered as maverique, just not as binary. that's part of why i use neopronouns rather than they/them, because to me, my neopronouns feel gendered in a way that's specific to me, whereas they/them pronouns are often referred to as non-gendered pronouns.
of course, most people will only know to view me in a binary-gendered way or in a non-gendered way, so i choose non-gendered, but that doesn't mean that me and many other non-binary people are necessarily non-gendered ourselves.
gendered =/= binary, as there are more than two genders.
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