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do you have an resources about lesbian men as a historical term.
this carrd has a bunch of stuff but I'll show some of it here. I'm going to focus more on parts where lesbian men/male lesbian or trans men identifying as lesbian are directly mentioned, if you want to see everything from the source or stuff I didn't put here I recommend to go to the carrd
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"Tommy Boys, Lesbian Men, and Ancestral Wives: Female Same-sex Practices in Africa" - Ruth Morgan and Saskia Wieringa, 2005
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Transgender Butch - J Halberstam, 1998
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Butch/Femme: Inside Lesbian Gender (Lesbian & Gay Studies) - Sally Munt, 1997
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"The Lives of Transgender People" - Genny Beemyn and Susan Rankin, 2011
These are about what I have on hand that directly combines lesbian and man as a whole identity, but bigender people and trans men have been within lesbian communities for a long time. also, this isn't exactly a historical resource, but this post has a great video on trans men existing in lesbian spaces
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thehealingsystem · 23 days
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lesbian men <3 DOMINATE that like button and OBLITERATE that reblog button if you agree
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everyponie · 9 months
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here's my favorite drawing I've ever done that's gotten like 5 hate videos made about me and had me put on several DNI lists. Live Laugh Love Lesboys
EDIT: since this is kinda popping pussy u guys should check out my other art!! I take commissions also!
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flutterrloves · 17 days
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Pastel Lesboy Flag! For lesboys that like pastel colors lol
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t4transsexual · 9 months
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why do you identify with "lesbian" if you say you're a man. A man can't be a lesbian, i don't understand it.
The whole lesbian concept excludes men bc it has nothing to do with men. Lesbian is women loving women, and if you identify as a man, i don't understand how you can identify w the lesbian community as well.
like this isba genuine question, I'd like to listen to your explanation bc im genuinely confused!
trans men, and any trans person really, cannot exist on the same binary cisgender people exist on. the binary was not made with trans people in mind, to be trans and to change your sex (which isnt limited to bottom surgery btw), would be inherently nonbinary, simply because the binary does not accommodate for trans people
beyond that, trans men dont have the same rights privileges and power that a cis man would have. meaning that while a trans man IS a man, he is not a cis man, and thus cannot experience male privilege, or the systemic power that comes with being a cis man
so we can conclude from that two things. one, trans people are inherently nonbinary. while not every trans person identified as nonbinary, the act of transitioning, socially and medically, is an inherently nonbinary act. i personally choose to identify as nonbinary to deal with the distress of people forcing me into the cis man category when i am fundementally different from them. now that we have concluded that the act of transitioning is nonbinary, let me address that: trans men have always been included in lesbianism. the communities are not seperate. the historical definition of lesbian has included gender diverse people as well as women, and trans men are still gender diverse
beyond that; a trans man identifying as a lesbian is not the same as a cis man identifying as a lesbian. the ideas that trans men are men and that trans men are NOT cis men can both be true. trans men who are attracted to women have more societally in common with lesbians (especially genderqueer lesbians) than cishet men. yes, trans men identify as straight all the time. however, if a trans man wants to identify as a lesbian, who are we to deny him? he isnt a cis man, hes not a threat to lesbianism or to the queer community.
faq:
"wouldnt identifying as a lesbian and a trans man be invalidating?"
a: different trans men have different opinions for themselves and their gender. some trans men choose to identify as straight/heterosexual, some trans men choose to identify as lesbians. it just depends on the person, however, if a trans man truly felt invalidated by the lesbian label, he just wouldn't use it. you dont get to assign rules on how a trans man chooses to identify, and you don't know him better than he knows himself
"what IS a lesbian then?"
a: the historical defintion of a lesbian is any gender diverse individual who likes women and/or gender diverse people. however, every lesbian can tell you something different. i know lesbians who only date binary women. i know lesbians who are exclusively t4t. i know lesbians who are femme4butch and date trans men who are butches. someones personal definition of their own lesbianism doesnt invalidate yours, and vice versa
"whats next, a CIS man identifying as a lesbian to cause trouble?"
a: and what if the world was made of pudding? trans men are not cis men, and to believe such is wishful thinking at best, and ultimately distressing to trans people. beyond that, i raise a counterargument of, what if we let trans people use the bathroom of their preferred gender? what would happen if a cis person used the opposite genders bathroom to cause trouble? the fact of the matter is, punishing trans people who are trying to live for the hypothetical cis person doing something wrong is transphobic and also stupid
"evan, i dont WANT to date a male lesbian/lesbian on t! what does this mean for my lesbianism?"
a: absolutely nothing! date who you want! you actually dont have to be attracted to every single person who is a lesbian! i know im not! youre allowed your preferences. i do know for a fact that some lesbians, especially under the trans/genderqueer umbrella are really into trans male lesbians and lesbians on t, but that does NOT mean that you have to be! once again, nobody elses personal definition of lesbianism can invalidate YOUR personal definition of lesbianism. im ALL ABOUT doing what you want!
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ridibulous · 2 months
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whart is a boy lesbian ?1
a lesbian who is also a boy! right on the tin
TO CLARIFY: this label is often used by various queer folk, such as transmascs who ID with the term lesbian, multigender people, and lesbians who simply feel happiest calling themselves boys, men, or male! to name only a few examples (because I couldn't possibly list them all)
I think contradictory labels are cool and awesome and swag and allows queer people to describe and label their various gender & orientation experiences in a way that makes them most comfortable.
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puerileaccismus · 5 months
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Guy: whos the man in the relationship?
Butch He/Him lesbian couple: Yes
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savorthesin · 12 days
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demonic lesboy!! credit when reposting
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genderqueerdykes · 2 years
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hey on that note if you're a lesboy you're sexy, hot, incredible, rad, cool and i could go on and on and on. turns out lesbians have always included and had a connection with masculinity and manhood. remember that alison bechdel canonically has a character who identifies as a boy dyke in dykes to watch out for. so like, let's go boy dykes!
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our-lesboy-experience · 3 months
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it's kinda sad that the label lesboy has been shit on a lot, because it's such a cute and fun label that can mean so many different things. it could mean being a tomboy, being butch, multigender, genderfluid, using he/him pronouns, an expression of transmasculinity, a collective system identity, being cusper, a boydyke, ftm, reclaiming the word boy for yourself, and so, so many other reasons. binary masculine cishet manhood isn't the only manhood to exist, and if people were more accepting, I would be louder and prouder to call myself a lesboy. it's a beautiful identity
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paw-pride · 4 months
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hii, can I get some virsic woman, queer julietian, turicirl, and julietian paws? also can you use this julietian flag? ty! https://www.tumblr.com/xenoic-verxeno/697688387348529152/romeric-flag
Virsic woman, veldicirl, lescoy, queer julietian, julietian, alternative julietian, queer romeric, romeric, and alternative romeric paws!
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everyponie · 7 months
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eveytime someone's says "lesbian is non-man loving non-man" an angel loses its wings.
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mothribcage · 7 months
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I think I have an intox kink :33
Like the thought of someone getting me stoned out of my mind and using my holes however they want.. Just mindlessly doing as they say, them bending me to their will. Mmmm pleaseee
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frenchkissingamoth · 5 months
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Something about anal makes my brain shut off and I can’t control my moans at all anymore, she had to give me a pillow to scream into and bite onto I was so loud. It’s just so deep, stretches me out so much, makes me cum over and over and over. I just become a begging loud whiny mess. God then when she was close to coming she started just absolutely railing my hole. Just pounding me so hard I felt like I couldn’t breathe…. Her strained voice telling me how well I’m taking it and how good of a boy I am as she fills me with her cum
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t4transsexual · 9 months
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need to make my stance on this known because i had an account interact that i am in their dnis
this is a pro trans man lesbian/trans woman gay and bi/pan lesbian/gay/straight space
im more than happy to make a post on this as well! i would identify as a nonbinary lesbian, however everyone forces me in with trans male lesbians in their activism/transphobia because of the way i look, so ive become educated in that/am forced to speak on it often. but for all practical purposes, if you are against trans man lesbians, you wouldnt like me much, and im sorry i shouldve put it in my dni, but i didnt think id have to because my instagram (t4transsexual) is already geared towards male lesbians and bi/pan lesbians especially and i just kinda figured the right people would find me
and also! if your acceptance of trans lesbians stops at lesbians that you can put/force into the female category, youre still a transphobe. i see you, people who r "cool" with nonbinary lesbians but force me into the "trans male" category when i am nonbinary
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transqueer4singlemoms · 5 months
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What is a boy lesbian? Please genuinely explain to me
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