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#max squawks#anti gatekeeping#anti exclusionist#anti exclus#critinclus#anti transmedicalism#anti transmed#anti truscum#bi lesbian#mspec mono
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being bigender: a glitter text poem
#og post#glitter text#bigender#multigender#insp#positivity#anti exclus#queer#poetry#queer poetry#inclusionist#rad inclus#genderqueer#nonbinary#trans#lgbtq+#lgbtq#lgbt+#lgbt#bigender pride#bigender positivity#multigender positivity#genderqueer pride#genderqueer positivity#nonbinary positivity#gifs#flashing#tw flashing#eyestrain
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whart is a boy lesbian ?1
a lesbian who is also a boy! right on the tin
TO CLARIFY: this label is often used by various queer folk, such as transmascs who ID with the term lesbian, multigender people, and lesbians who simply feel happiest calling themselves boys, men, or male! to name only a few examples (because I couldn't possibly list them all)
I think contradictory labels are cool and awesome and swag and allows queer people to describe and label their various gender & orientation experiences in a way that makes them most comfortable.
#contradictory labels#anti exclusionist#anti exclus#queer#lgbtq#lgbtqia#mspec mono#mspec lesbian#bi lesbian#pan lesbian#mspec gay#bi gay#pan gay#mspec straight#bi straight#pan straight#boy lesbian#female gay#lesboy#lesgay#gaybian
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Image description: Screenshot with blackout poetry. It says: there's bi lesbians. Lesbians are lesbian are bi. Please spread the information that that's real
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thinking about people being so mean to my friends abt their more unusual queer identities and its like? why do u feel the need to get so angry abt someone happy in their identity simply bc u don’t understand it? My 55 year old cishet dad had a coworker that used it/it’s pronouns and even though he didn’t get it, and even when that coworker gave him grief, he still tried to respect its identity and pronouns!!! a man who only uses the internet to order shit for work and read comic strips was more caring and tolerant than some of y’all young queers who call urselves “progressive!!” What happened to “live and let live” or “cringe culture is dead” and why is it a controversial opinion to say that you shouldn’t attack people for being comfortable in their own skin in a way you don’t understand? you will never get anything done by targeting your own community, and we can only stop our oppressors if we put aside our differences and band together. To anyone with an unconventional or controversial queer identity, I love you and and respect you!! Keep on keeping on 💝
Any deranged hate I get for this post will be ridiculed by me and my friends :]
#actual sugar post#exclusionists get BLOCKED#izzy.txt#rambles#blabbering#sugars opinions#queer discourse#queer#lgbt stuff#lgbtqplus#queer stuff#inclusionist#anti exclusionist#anti exclus#inclus#exclus dni#fuck exclusionists#inclusionism
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It'll never not be funny to me how anti m-specs call m-spec lesbians "biphobic" when.. biphobes were literally the ones who forced bi people out of the lesbian label in the first place.
The lesbian separatism movement has roots in biphobia whether you like it or not. Lesbians living their lives and using labels that they feel most comfortable with is not "biphobic" - and it's disgusting that you'd think that way.
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(redone because the old one was too long)
Hello we are The Puppeteers, we’re an originless plural collective. We don’t have a dni however we are supportive of most identities (mspec gays/lesbians, endogenic plurals, nondysphoric trans people, amab transmascs/afab transfems, etc) and we are anti-contact for harmful paraphilias. We are against capitalism and are generally very left leaning in terms of political views. We do not actively participate in discourse and are not interested in being dragged into it. That being said if you “disagree” with any of the identities mentioned above (ex: if you’re a transmed, safequeer, or sysmed) get the hell off our blog, you are not welcome here.
Current host(s): we currently function using shifts so we have different hosts depending on the day
Headmate intros:
Alastor
Angel
Crat
Felix&
Naia
Other blogs:
@404-coining pemogai coining blog
@non-dys-sys system blog
@killjoypuppeteers mcr blog
@non-dysphoric-positivity positivity blog
Our Spotify
Our YouTube
We also have a wonderful partner system the showmen (@milkcowley), and currently uninterested in dating anyone else. -🎙️
Our username is Puppeteers on simplyplural if you want to add us
#pluralgang#anti endos dni#pro endo#endo safe#endo friendly#endogenic friendly#intro post#anti sysmed#anti exclus#anti transmed#anti safequeer#anti radqueer
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me hearing about someone or something being queerphobic in some way and wanting to know what happened: 🤨☕
me when the "queerphobic" stuff in question is just people being supportive of contradictory labels and other identities that most people don't understand, and the drama is just exclus people complaining about harmless stuff again: 😒🫗
#if i see one more person say that ''weird'' identities are queerphobic i'm gonna explode#sigh.... it's just more people being exclusionary again... what else is new....#anti exclus#anti exclusionist#sorry for being discoursey lately#i don't like when people make a big fuss about harmless stuff they don't understand-#-and immediately label it as ''bad''#i'm very supportive of people with ''contradictory'' labels and funky experiences with gender and sexuality-#-and i want to make that clear on this blog#i'm annoyed that people are still making drama over literally nothing in the year of our lord and saviour sans undertale#please stop arguing over labels when us queer people are literally getting our rights written out of existence by lawmakers.#this is the last discourse thing i'll rant about this week i swear
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It makes me real sad that exclus and transmeds think im not allowed to be okay with my body and also trans my gender. Like "hey! I think i look nice today and i fully accept my body? =/= my gender. :) i like neopronouns too.." and then they'll slam their hands on the table and climb onto their validity complex hissing "no!!!! No!!!!!!!!" While we poke them with brooms
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i feel like there’s a lot of exclusionists always try to make their identity about their oppression. and idk it could just be me but like. why? why does have to be like that? in fact, i’ll do you one better:
why are you making your identity all about your oppression while that’s the exact thing you and your community are trying to get rid of?
-deth
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posting this on it's own
#max squawks#critinclus#mspec mono#mspec lesbian#mspec gay#mspec straight#bi straight#bi gay#bi lesbian#sam#split attraction model#anti exclusionist#anti exclus#anti exclusionism#contrapunk#contradictory labels#heteroromantic homosexual#homoromantic heterosexual
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#send me glitter text requests#og post#aes#positivity#anti exclus#bi lesbian#bi#lesbian#mspec lesbian#queer#glitter text#bi lesbian positivity#inclusionist#rad inclus#bisexual lesbian#lgbtq#lgbt#lgbtq+#mogai#gifs
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i was gonna post this on my twitter bc i was looking thru a mutual of mines and saw a link to a "basic dni criteria" carrrd and it had the above in it and yiiikkkkesssssss
but hey atleast it had "doesn't support non she/her lesbians and non he/him gay men" in the carrrd, u gotta take a win somewhere right? /sarcasm
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I recently ran into the tumblr radqueer community. I was just lurking for a bit, but now I have some thoughts.
First, about transid:
- Just because I don’t personally experience something doesn’t mean that it’s not real and that anyone saying they experience it is just lying to get attention.
- If someone is doing their own thing and talking about their own feelings about themself and not hurting anyone else, there’s no reason to be upset with them.
- Last but certainly not least, I can’t find a logically consistent reason to be okay with transgender people and not okay with transid people.
The most common arguments I’ve heard against transid people are:
- Their existence is damaging to people who physically have that identity. How, exactly? If they try to represent the opinions of the community and lie about their transid status, then yeah, but that’s also a problem if trans women were to do it about experiences that are specific to cis women. The vast majority of trans women don’t do that, and if some of them do, we can condemn the behavior, not the group.
- They’re fetishizing our identity and making us feel reduced to a stereotypical, sunshiney version of our traits, instead of a whole human. If people engage in fetishizing behavior, like treating others badly while fixating on certain traits of theirs, we can be upset at them for that. However, if they’re talking about feelings they have about themselves and no one else, I don’t see why we should be upset with them. Also, this argument can again be applied to transgender people.
Now, to move on to something scarier: paraphilias. My thoughts:
- Many people enjoy play-acting and engaging in fantasies about things they would never want to physically participate in.
- If you fantasize about doing something that would be immoral if you actually did it, that doesn’t make you a bad person.
We as a society understand these points implicitly about some things, and refuse to understand them about others. For example:
- Most games of D&D involve play-acting that you’re killing other people. Many people play as characters with violent tendencies who kill lots of innocent people.
- A lot of sexual role-playing is about situations that would be very unethical in real life. For example, if anyone involved is pretending to be a nurse/teacher/etc, pretty much all of BDSM, consensual non-consent.
- Calling anyone “Daddy” or “Mommy” in a sexual way. This one is especially mind-blowing to me, because of the difference in how people treat this kink and paraphilias. In real life, this would be pedophilic incest. But we all understand that the people who participate in this kink are only play-acting. And nothing happened as a result of our non-hatred. It didn’t contaminate vanilla people, it didn’t make anyone think that real life pedophilic incest is okay, the people who like to play-act this are just vibing in their own little corners of the world.
Common concerns:
- HOW COULD YOU SUPPORT PEDOS YOU SICK FUCK GO KYS— I would never support anyone doing real-life pedophilia. I will never be okay with someone doing actions that hurt other people. I just don’t think I should be mean to D&D players, people who call each other “Daddy” in the bedroom, people with rape fantasies (in either direction), or people who sexually fantasize about children. I’m not going to lie, it feels bad to say that.
- All people who have pedophilic fantasies go do pedo actions or watch child porn, so it’s basically the same thing. I don’t know of a statistic that states if this is true or not (please let me know if you do), but I would guess that it’s probably not, based on my understanding of the world and the previous examples I gave (i.e. people with rape fantasies).
This one applies to both transid and paraphilias:
- I’ve been deeply hurt by someone fetishizing my identity and/or doing pedophilic actions. I cannot fathom how some people could have positive feelings about these ideas instead of utter disgust, grief, and rage. I reserve the right to hate them. I’m so, so sorry. I can’t blame you for your feelings at all. If you tell me to die in a fire because of what I’ve written, I understand. I don’t blame you. I forgive you.
I refuse to be afraid of things that aren’t hurting me just because of their association with things that would actually hurt me and use that as a reason to be mean to others. This sentence applies both to how I feel about people who might be angry at me anonymously on the internet and transid/paraphilic people.
Finally, a quote that really made an impression on me:
“LGBT normies are under impression that the concept of sexual deviance was initially coined to describe someone else and applied to them by mistake.” -@female-to-faggot
Please let me know if you have thoughts about this that I didn’t address. I really appreciate constructive criticisms, they help me grow. I’m open to changing my mind about any of this.
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Friendly reminder that the word lesbian includes bi people! M-spec lesbians are valid if your like it or not - lesbianism has always included bisexuality! Deal with it <33
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What's a safequeer? /gq
They’re exclusionists that are against “contradictory” labels like bi lesbians/gays, lesboys/turigirl, amab transmascs/afab transfemmes etc. they also tend to be anti endo. -Blitzø
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