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This episode was for the gays, lesbians, bi acceptance, and for Rinas...
#you can't tell me otherwhise#gay#lesbians#bisexuality#bi acceptance#rina#hsmtmts season 3 spoiler#maddox#maddox x ashlyn#seb x carlos#seblos#maddox x madison#ashley#ricky x gina
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Happy Bi Visibility Day to all of you and to this scene that made me cry back in the day.
Also use this a checkpoint for you to remember some stuff that as with on my own journey I think they are important:
If you're not comfortable screaming it loud it's also okay, youre not less Bi for it.
We're not 50% gay and 50% straight, we're a nice weird jumble of mess
You've gotten this far in knowing yourself so CONGRATS! Celebrate by loving and treating you right you're important, you're valid 💖💜💙
Also guys I know we sometimes are invisibled by both straight and other parts of the community but don't do the same to other identities (coff coff mostly the Aroace spectrum so please don't as an Aro Bi is hurtful to see that)
Anyways that's it love you byeeeeeeee (or would I say Bi?) Horrible joke sorry not sorry 😘
#biseuxal#bi visibility#bi visibility day#bisexual visibility month#bisexual visibility week#bisexual visibility day#bi bi bi#bi panic#bi acceptance#lgbt pride#lgbtq+#aro bi
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Saw a post talking about this and didn't want to derail it, but like, honestly, at this point, I'm becoming less and less tolerant of people acting like straight/cis passing privilege is a real, very serious thing that needs to be taken into consideration every time someone speaks on queer issues bcs I swear to god the only time I ever see it actually brought up is when someone is trying to deny someone else a seat at the table. Like first it was used against bi+ people to explain why we're not queer unless we're in a same gender relationship, and then it was used to shit all over ace and aro people for not being "visibly queer", then they turned on nonbinary people who "look cis", and now I see people throwing it at trans men for some reason like???? This is legit becoming an exclusionist dogwhistle to me. Any merit to this concept is completely obliterated by assholes who are so addicted to playing oppression olympics they're meticulously crafting pokemon type advantage charts to categorize all the gays based on who actually has "real" problems and who doesn't, it's agonizing.
Like putting "straight/cis passing privilege" up on the shelf next to "comphet" until people can learn how to use it in a way that doesn't invalidate someone else's queerness.
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“actually the term you’re looking for is pansexual” actually i’m dying right now. i am dying right now before your very eyes and those are the last words i had to read before my soul vacates this plane of existence forever. Are you proud of yourself
#when will y’all just accept they’re synonymous and stop being fucking weird to bisexual people. God in heaven#why do you have to act like bisexual people Don’t know what bisexuality means and like you’re More Woke because hearts not parts. stop it#but anyway. i am bi because i only fuck evil people with fat asses. that’s true
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person not involved in The Discourse: wow both sides on this need to touch grass lol theyre both wackos
side A on The Discourse: i would like to exist in peace
side B on The Discourse: everyone on side A should kill themselves
#i see this. so often. for like so many different types of discourse topics#sometimes some ppl dont have a choice to be involved in a discourse topic or not#bc then their choices are to shut up and accept the hate or try to fight against it and make ppl realize you deserve basic fucking decency#i know a lot of discourse can be bullshit but sometimes. u gotta realize some people are just trying to get others to leave them alone#cough cough bi lesbian discourse#suicide baiting tw
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I genuinely really fucking hate how some bisexual women do not view relationships with women as valid in the same way m/f relationships are.
A bisexual woman at my work recently got married and she told me that she's told her husband "if you fuck up, my best friend (a woman) is on stand by, just so you know" and I KNOW she would never fucking say something like that about a man. She would never tell her husband that he better behave because she has another man on the back burner if he doesn't.
When I was in high school, one of my friends went back and forth between questioning and identifying as bisexual. Eventually she outright asked me if I wanted to have sex with her so she could explore that part of herself. That's an awkward spot to be put in no matter what, but it was made worse by the fact she was in a serious relationship with a man (as in, she is still with him to this very day). When I asked her why she'd make such a pass at me while having a boyfriend, she said that "he's okay" with her exploring that part of herself. And it's just like. Lmao. Okay. Tell him you want to explore with another man and tell me what happens. What is there to even explore? You are with HIM. Clearly you've made your choice. Your exploration is over, boo.
I know there are so many other examples out there. Some bisexual women outright say they will never marry a woman and would only ever fool around with one. It's sickening. f/f relationships are not lesser than m/f ones. Treat your female partners better (ESPECIALLY if they're lesbians) or don't disturb them at all.
#There's something to be said about how parents are more 'accepting' of bi kids as long as they don't end up in gay relationships#Sometimes I think some bisexual people just do not wanna fully commit to gay relationships because they're scared of what that means
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*redress my single heishin headcanon multiple times* are you sick of me yet
#heishin#my art#dcmk fanart#hattori heiji#shinichi who doesnt want to deal with heiji's little bi gay boy panic so he just waits till he reach the acceptance stage by his own
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pov you didn’t ask
#merylwood#stryfewood#meryl stryfe#nicholas d wolfwood#wolfwood#trigun stampede#trigun#jayadoodles#i know merylwood is the accepted popular ship name but stryfewood sounds so much cooler to me ):#im queueing this like a million years after doodling it. can’t wait to get jumpscared by it in my notifs#worlds most annoying bi couple ever (all i draw)
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A snippet from a future fic I'll probably never write, where Steve is a widower with two teenage kids, and he and Eddie randomly meet up, rekindling their old flame. This is when they've been together a while:
“Thank you,” Steve says, coming up behind Eddie at the bathroom sink.
Eddie pauses, catching Steve's eye in the mirror. “What for?” he asks, mouth foamy with toothpaste.
Steve slips his hands along Eddie's hips, hooks his chin over Eddie's shoulder. “For loving my kids.”
“You don't—” Toothpaste dribbles down Eddie's chin and he stoops to spit what's left in his mouth into the sink, gathering his hair to one side. He rinses his mouth out, wipes his face with a towel, then turns to Steve. “You don't have to thank me for that. Of course I love them.”
“Not everyone I've dated has.”
“They're idiots.” Eddie grabs the hem of Steve's shirt, pulling him close. “I mean, first of all, they're part of you, and I don't think I could love you and not love them. But...” He trails off, a small smile tilting his lips. “They're amazing kids.”
Pride swells in Steve's chest; he slides his arms around Eddie's waist and says, “They are.”
“And I'm pretty damn honored I get to be part of their lives,” Eddie says, “so thank you,” and he butts his head gently against Steve's.
Steve huffs and slides his hands up Eddie's back, pulling him into a tight embrace. “I love you.” He presses a kiss to Eddie's neck.
“I love you too.”
“And they both love you as well.”
Eddie lets out a shuddering breath. Steve knows how nervous Eddie was, when they started dating, that he wouldn't be welcomed, but it's almost like he's always been part of their family now. “Good to know,"”Eddie says.
Steve holds Eddie a little tighter. All those years ago, back in Hawkins, when they ended things, Steve thought he'd never see Eddie again. But here they are, together—a family—and Steve's never letting him go this time.
#Steddie#Steve x eddie#Steddie fic#Steddie fanfic#this is soooooo sappy I’m sorry 😫#anyway I don’t have names for Steve’s kids yet lol#but his son is bi too#his daughter is more like him otherwise though#also Steve takes a while to accept his sexuality so he’s only just come out to his kids because I like stories like that#even though I know some ppl in this fandom have found them offensive??#but yeah when he comes out his son gets upset because he then feels like he can’t come out without it being weird haha#and Steve is like what??? no??? when he eventually tells him#(I watched a lot of soap operas growing up :P sometimes it comes out in my writing lol)#that’s why I’ll probably never write this fic but it’s fun to dabble in the verse#pizzaqueenfic#pizzaqueenwrites#tsofverse
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This Buddie lore is on the same level as the Destiel market testing
#911 on abc#9-1-1 on abc#911 abc#oliver stark#evan 'buck' buckley#bi buck#eddie diaz#buddie#buck x eddie#supernatural#spn#dean winchester#castiel#destiel#deancas#buddie is destiel and the haters have to accept that
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happy bi day
#ok attempt two as this wasn’t showing up at all#artists on tumblr#art#bisexual#lgbtq#these are Just Some People but I know and accept it's gonna get tagged as blorbos. it's cool man#digital art#bi visibility day
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People on this webbed site have their brains explode when we try to talk about how trans men of any sexuality are oppressed, so I genuinely do not think your brains could handle it if I said the Scary Privileged Straight Men ™ are oppressed, but at some point we're gonna need to talk about how your "ewww straight man" jokes directed at trans men is genuinely just TERF rhetoric.
#in case it wasn't clear i don't think straight trans man are necessarily *more* oppressed than gay/bi/aspec trans men#i just think our oppression tends to be more invisible#cause people can acknowledge that mlm trans men will face homophobia#but a lot of yall think transhets automatically gain Straight Privilege when that is really just not the case#so if these people can't accept that gay trans men are oppressed they Really can't accept that straight trans men are oppressed#anyway#transhet#anti-transmasculinity#i can elaborate if asked in good faith ig
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Do you ever think about how the scene where Arthur catches Merlin with a dress in S2Ep9, and the scenes where Arthur is like "girl??????" in S5Ep8
that it's like just a lil bit suggested that Arthur thinks Merlin is both into men and crossdresses (which does that suggest some kind of queer culture in Camelot where gay men are known to do drag?? who knows) and not only thinks that, but accepts it too.
Like Arthur who is presented with the fact that Merlin might wear dresses in his spare times just shrugs and says what a man does in his spare time is up to him, and that the colour suits him.
He literally could have made any joke about Merlin being a girl like he often does when he teases Merlin about being a coward (which we know is just teasing) but instead he just accepts it, and still calls Merlin a man.
Meanwhile in The Hollow Queen, well, I'll let the lines speak for themselves:
GUINEVERE: He’s not in danger. He’s seeing a girl.
ARTHUR: Merlin?
GUINEVERE: Gaius, I’m sorry, but there is no reason to worry.
ARTHUR: Except for the poor girl.
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ARTHUR: Oh, so you can go and visit that girl again.
MERLIN: What?
ARTHUR: Girl.
MERLIN: Don't have one.
ARTHUR: That's not what Guinevere tells me. So, why don't you tell us all about her?
MERLIN: Right.
ARTHUR: And why you're walking with a limp.
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The first lines could be interpreted that Arthur doesn't think Merlin is good with women, but paired with the lines from the 2nd scene where Arthur asks him about it.... it definitely feels like Arthur is saying to worry for the girl because he thinks Merlin isn't attracted to women.
I mean the sheer disbelief alone when he says "Merlin?" like it's so out of realm of possibility. (I mean it could also be suggested that Arthur doesn't think anyone would be attracted to Merlin, but with the 2nd scene it definitely doesn't seem so.)
Especially the way he says "girl" with sarcasm dropping from his tone, like literally "girrrl" is how he says it. Like he's basically calling out Merlin, or saying that he knows that the girl Gwen told him about is actually a man.
Which I believe is why the "and why you're walking with a limp" has Arthur so, well,
like this. I think he truly believes that Merlin is lying sjhdfghsdfg Like he's thinking in that little brain of his that Merlin got pegged by a man and just isn't admitting to it.
And he's definitely accusing Merlin of sneaking away to have sex, you know, during an important time and all.
Basically, with these like 3 scenes in the show, I'd say it really comes off as Arthur accepting Merlin as gay and just waiting for the day where Merlin tells him the truth.
And that's really funny to me.
#bbc merlin#merlin#arthur pendragon#Arthur disbelieving Merlin going to see a girl is genuinely hilarious no matter how you see it#like this man who has known Merlin for years - Merlin whose only romance was in secret over a few days#like he just doesnt believe it and whether it's because he thinks Merlin is into men and only men or that the man just doesnt care for it#either is funny because like Arthur knows so little in reality dhfghfg but hey in this fandom we know the truth#and that boy is bi bi bi just like his king :PPPP#of course any references to gay as an identity are just references because obviously it would not be used by the characters sdhfhsdg#this post was inspired by me writing about the dress scene in an arthur returns fic where Merlin is like ???? at Arthur being accepting#of queerness
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happy lesbian visibility week to acespec lesbians!
💜 to gray asexual lesbians
❤ to demisexual lesbians
🧡 to aceflux lesbians (and all lesbians whose sexuality is fluid)
🩷 to trans, nonbinary, and multigender acespec lesbians (transfem, transmasc, and those who are neither!)
💜 to bi, pan, and all mspec acespec lesbians
❤ and specifically mspec lesbians who are acespec in different ways/to different degrees for different genders
🧡 to intersex acespec lesbians
🩷 to acespec lesbians of color
💖 to disabled and neurodivergent acespec lesbians, and especially those of you who are autistic - happy autism acceptance month! ❤🧡💖🩷💜
💜 to acespec femmes and butches and gnc lesbians
❤ to acespec lesbians whose sexuality is influenced by trauma
🧡 to sex repulsed acespec lesbians, sex favorable acespec lesbians, and everyone in between
🩷 to lesbians who feel alienated from lesbian communities due to their asexuality
💜 and to acespec lesbians still figuring themselves out!
i see you. you are appreciated.💖
#og post#positivity#lesbian visibility week#lesbian#acespec#gray ace#demi ace#aceflux#glitter text#lgbtq+#lgbtq#lgbt+#inclusionist#rad inclus#ace lesbian#asexual#trans#nonbinary#multigender#mspec lesbian#bi lesbian#intersex#poc#disability#neurodivergent#autistic#autism acceptance month#gray asexual#demisexual#flashing
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i gotta know what your headcanon is for why bi-han and kuai liang's dad was very visibly more excited when kuai was born bc like- he barely met newborn bi-han and already looked fed up
So I actually have a few explanations for that:
He’s not fed up with Bi-Han believe it or not, it’s just that he felt the need to look “dignified” since he was a first time parent + grandmaster.
By the time he had Kuai he was loosened up a bit (which also serves as an explanation about him adopting Tomas)
But that’s not to say I don’t think he favored Kuai over Bi-Han. I absolutely believe there was favoritism going on in this family cause like, why else would Kuai see his father in such a positive light whereas Bi-Han hated him? I’m also sure he pushed Bi-Han to his limits with him being the oldest (I totally get that being half Asian and the oldest child myself, there’s a lot of pressure)
BUT LETS NOT GET AHEAD OF OURSELVES HERE…
If you haven’t been following me for very long then just know most of what I draw is for exaggerated and comedic effect.
The REAL reason he’s like that in the art is because I was watching phineas and ferb and thought to myself “you know what would be funny? If bi Han and Kuai were like Heinz and Roger doofenshmirtz, where the older child is less loved than the younger”
#that’s right#you’ve been bamboozed#scammed even#I’m not a good writer- never claimed to be#but yknow what#phineas and ferb was peak#and if you don’t agree you’re factually incorrect#get with the program soldier#yeah that’s right I’m talking to ALL OF YOU#ACCEPT MY BRAIN WASHING NOW#mortal kombat#mk1#mortal kombat 1#bi Han#kuai liang#sub zero#mk scorpion#Lin Kuei#headcanons#doodles#my art
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happy fat pride day to all my trans fats, intersex fats, nonbinary fats, mspec fats, ace fats, aro fats, fats of colour, disabled fats, poor fats 💛🧡🩷🤍🩷🧡💛
#fat#fat pride#fat liberation#fat acceptance#queer#trans#intersex#nonbinary#enby#transgender#bi#pan#mspec#poly#abro#omni#asexual#ace#aro#aromantic#bipoc#pic#disabled
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