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beardedlink · 29 days

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Conveniently I was actually assigned NB at birth

(not breathing)

#im actually serious i almost died #nonbinary memes #I'm actually agender #trans memes #gender memes #amab #gender meme #gender is weird #nonbinary #non-binary #non binary

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punkeropercyjackson · 2 months

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"This is the gender fuckery and cis+ website"You guys can't even handle trans people who don't want to physically transition

#no because this literally ruined my first best friendship after i grew up friendless my whole life💀she sxually harrased me with bodyshaming #and the worst part is that it wasn't even her saying i'll never be a man i'm bigender and super femme and THAT'S why i want to stay afab #but she refused to understand me!!!she expected my femininity to be the same as a cisgirls and my manhood the same as binary trans dudes'#i explained my gender SO MANY TIMES and she used 'she' 'accidentally' even though her fuckass also called me 'a girl in a he/him kinda way'#she saw my bigenderness and genderfluidity as a fucking joke instead of who i actually am just because i don't want t or surgeries bc gnc #and i told her both those things too but here we are!!BE NORMAL ABOUT TRANS PEOPLES BODIES AND STOP BEING A DICK EVEN IF YOU'RE ALSO TRANS #trans #transgender #transmasc #transmasculine #bigender #genderfluid #trans men #demigirl #ftm #transfem #trans women #nonbinary #agender #demiboy #transneutral #transmascfem #black femme #genderqueer #xenogender #catgender #dragongender #ghostgender #💌#summerposting

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demisexualnathanvuornos · 4 months

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Canon AroAces (it/its) 268/?: Murderbot Diaries by Martha Wells (2017-)+tropes

#murderbot #secunit #nocticola art #canon aspec list #asexual #aromantic #tvtropes #i'm reading these in finnish so using quotes later #once i've actually read more #i just got to the part where it said it skips the sex scenes #agender #nonbinary #only bummer with finnish is it doesn't do the same things with pronouns as english does #so murderbot being 'it' isn't even noticiable #unless they emphasize using hän for everyone else #i've only read 2 chapters so i haven't noticed that

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marinsawakening · 10 months

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Weighing in on the debate “Are you allowed to ship aromantic characters?” As an aromantic person, this is a difficult subject. On the one hand, we have characters who clearly and repeatedly state that they hate romance, do not feel romantic attraction, and don’t want to be in a relationship. On the other hand, we have your personal inability to engage with deep relationships without making them romantic. As a compromise, I say people are allowed to ship canon aromantic characters, provided they pay me at least $100 in cash for the license.

#my posts #aromantic #this is about the murderbot diaries fandom. btw.#me: you know the murderbot fics on ao3 are actually pretty good. most of them seem to understand the themes of the books #and most people seem to have gotten the hint and don't ship murderbot romantically. maybe I'm safe to check the tumblr tag #the tumblr tag: no you're not #me: ok noted #people will see a character repeatedly and consistently being romance-repulsed #and go 'is anyone gonna ship them' and not wait for an answer #it's rlly funny how quick seeing blatant shipping made me go from #'while in terms of human western labels murderbot obviously fits the definition of aromantic asexual and some flavour of nonbinary/agender'#'I do not feel like it's useful or desired to ascribe these labels to it as it consistently avoids labelling its gender'#'and in general seems unlikely to be the kind of person who'd want to use human western labels perhaps even if it was human'#to 'murderbot is not just aromantic it's a loveless nonpartnering aromantic suck my dick'

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will80sbyers · 1 month

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kinda wish I didn't open the "hey you're actually non binary" door because now being thought about as one or the other gender too much bothers me sometimes and before I could ignore that and now I have more difficulty not thinking about it and I know that no one in my family or country will ever respect that anyway so the reality here is that I have to just get used to that annoyance

#non binary #nonbinary #agender #I guess I'm lucky that it's not worse at least #but... I thought it didn't change much and I think I was wrong because it's actually bothering me when this happens now #do not like this at all

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something-existing-somewhere · 4 months

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Breathing? More like stabbing my throat with air

#chronic pain #fibromyalgia #actually mentally ill #chronic illness #aroace agender #spoonie #chronic fatigue #disability #actually disabled #chronic disability #it feels like I'm trying to swallow while someone is constantly choking me when i breathe lately #it's just been getting harder

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purplexiasphinx · 4 months

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ame. if you even care

#oc #oc art #my ocs #my art #concept art #tbh creature #pixel art #art #digital art #im actually tagging things can you tell they mean so much to me #their name is ame they're agender and pansexual and have a crush on a transfem deergirl barista #they acquired a drinking problem when their coworker decided to start casually trying to murder them #you know the saying when life gives you lemons #life made them a lemon so now some fucking guy is trying to make lemonade and it HURTS #brainrotting about them all the time forever #might make a refsheet of them not in their work uniform with notes that relate specifically to them as a person like what bands they like #and who their friends are and what their coffee order is #i'm Normal about them

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galadrail · 4 months

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Hey every non-binary people i was asking, how do you discover you where nb ? (trans and other lgbtq+ can respond too !)

#i was just thinking #and i was curious #so how ?#for me i just don't feel right with she and that how i discover it #with a lot of research and misinterpretation #at first i was thinking i was trans #actually i still don't know for this #but i'm sure i'm nb #anyway please respond #i would love to know this !#non binary #nonbinary #lgbtq+#agender too #and trans too !#please just help me know how

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fizzypoison · 1 month

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estrogen is fem and testosterone is masc, but my doctor told me i'm full of cortisol and adrenaline so idk what gender that makes me

#fizzypoison #actually i'm on meds now and they remove my anxiety so i guess i'm agender after all

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just-eyobis · 6 months

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Yeah I'm a straight A student:

ADHD

Agender

Aromantic

Asexual

Autistic

#actually I'm not even straight lmao #AuDHD #aromantic #asexual #agender #I'm in a lot of pain rn oml

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familyofpaladins · 9 months

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I HAD A REVELATION

okay so I was thinking about gender. My gender. And my feelings about being a cis girl over time.

When I was little I used to wear all kinds of dresses and wore nail polish and even occasionally makeup (but like. Sloppily as a 7 year old would lol) and how overtime I stopped wearing nail polish and stopped wearing dresses and despised make up. I dont really remeber why I stopped with nail polish. Maybe because it flaked off too easily or maybe I was sick of the few colors we had idk. I know I gradually stopped wearing dresses and night gowns because I was sick of being told I couldnt "put my legs up [up against the wall or just straight up in the air] or that I had to sit a certain way while wearing one. So I wore more and more pants.

I think about how i used to stand in the toys aisles while my mom did grocery shopping and look at "The Boys" section and think how much cooler it was than the girls section.

And I think about how my music teacher told us one day we'd hit puberty and we'd grow and us girls would be like "[in a high pitched voice] OH MY GOSH I LOVE BOYS AND DID YOU HEAR ABOUT SO AND SO" and I looked over at my classmates and friends to see if they were also terrified of becoming annoying teenage boy-obsessed girls.

And i think about how when I was at my friend's house and we were building "tree forts" in the woods i would wish I had a penis for the convenience of being able to just go pee behind a tree, because squatting near the ground was Not Fun and I hated walking all the way back to the house. And I think about how I hated that I'd have to wear a bra once my boobs started to come in

Now you might be thinking. Friend I think you want[ed] to be a boy. But the thing is, i dont.

I may have hated being restricted in dresses but I dont actually hate them. I've gotten a couple dresses in the last 10 years (for prom and graduation and a [not my] wedding) and how I actually did like how I looked in them and enjoyed wearing them for that time.

I think about how I was jealous of the boys selection of toys, but also how I had a ton of barbies that I massively enjoyed and how if I'd been a boy I probably wouldnt have been able to enjoy them (thanks to pressure from society) as well as a bunch of other "girly" items and shows and movies. I think about how I'm actually Asexual and that I wasnt scared of becoming "a young woman", I just didnt understand the obsession with sex/romance/boyfriend&girlfriend stuff.

And while having a penis is more convenient for peeing I also remeber thinking that it would suck to get kicked in the balls and/or that trope of falling on soemthign between your legs that happens in so many movies (not that it feels any better with a vagina honestly). And that if I had been born a boy I'd most likely have to deal with all the toxic masculinity forced on me, and I'm glad I dont have to deal with that.

And while me and my boobs dont always get along, I remember that after getting my first cute bra, I thought. Oh well maybe this isnt so bad. And I mostly wear sports bras now because I do wish they were smaller and I HATE that so many bras (EVEN THE SPORTS BRAS) are already padded into cup shapes, and while I don't mind Having Boobs, i Do Not want to show them off. And sometimes i think that maybe i wouldn't mind chopping them off, but then i think how my figure/outline/silhouette would look with out them, and that seems worse.

And i think about the times I've accidentally been called "Sir" from tired fast food employees when wearing gender nonspecific clothing and felt happy about it. But not "oh it feels right to be called sir/he/him" , but more of "hehe I fooled you! You thought this was a dress but its pants!"

And really this is all to say. I was born a girl and grew up that way so it's what I'm used to. If I'd been born with a dick then I guess I'd be a guy. If you magically stuck me in a male body right now, would I feel like a Guy or feel like a girl in a guys body? I honestly dont know. So am I non binary? Maybe that that doesnt quite feel right either.

Being a girl is what I've grown up as and into, and it's what I'm used to and going by anything else is… odd. Maybe itd be better and maybe it wouldnt. It's like an old blanket. You've had it forever and maybe its frayed and patched maybe a little too small and it's not what people expect you to have for a blanket, and maybe you could do with a new one. But nothing feels right with out it. No other blanket feels the same. It's what you're used to and its familar. It's a comfort blanket.

And that's why being a [cis] girl is my comfort gender.

#Sorry that got LONG #This is a very personal post and I dont mind it being reblogged if anyone wants to #But dont be weird about it please. Dont tell me I'm an egg or actually trans or nb. Cause I'm not #*points at post* I'm a girl. It's my comfort gender :)#(edit: I don't mind if the 'wrong' pronouns get used. Like if someone uses he or they for me I'm not gonna be upset #I more just dont want labels put on my gender besides cis or comfort gender )#Man I need that post where it's like so many asexual people are removed from gender. Cause yeah that kinda fits #Maybe I'm agender or soemthing. But mostly I'm Chill With Being A Girl #Also feel free to also totally ignore this post #I'm just rambling about thoughts #Gender identity #Comfort gender #Its after midnight so I apologize if none of this makes sense or like. There are unfinished thoughts lol

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jasontoddssuper · 1 year

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Jason Todd sure does get oversexualized a lot for a dude who's canonically a virgin and actively chooses to not use his insane amount of rizz

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rabid-transcendentalist · 1 year

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I gave a few pride flags the rainbow treatment!

You can find this shirt in my shop, right about here, if you're interested

#I'm actually so happy with the way this one came out #okay now for the tags in the order that they appear on the shirt #because it makes me happy #lesbian #gay #bisexual #transgender #genderfluid #aromantic #nonbinary #asexual #genderqueer #pansexual #agender #lgbtqia #I hope you all enjoy this design that I mostly made for myself lol

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highlifeboat · 4 months

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Making my Fallout 3 character trans by picking boy at the start and then deciding while exiting the vault I want them to be a girl actually (I like how they look better) and that's just part of their canon now.

#sorry manik you're trans now #my bad bro #weirdly enough my fallout/elder scrolls characters do not recieve the trans canon like.. ever #it's usually companions #actually that's a lie i consider eva (my dragonborn) agender #rambles #fallout 3 #yes i did name my character Manik. i'm normal person #lone wanderer

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the-adhd-duck-on-your-shoulder · 5 months

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i'm a girl in the same way i'm catholic

#like [deadname] was both a girl and a catholic but i'm not quite her but i was her once #and i am born of her corpse?#and i am unattached to either girl/womanhood or catholicism #except i kind of am emotionally attached to them #but i wouldn't consider myself either and i wouldn't want people to consider me either?#ramblings #agender #actually agender #librafeminine #catholic #catholiscism #shitpost #shitposting #adhd brain #religion

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squishosaur · 9 months

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Consider: Fem!Jamiazu as Kuromi gf x My Melody gf dynamic. No I don’t know anything about sanrio characters, I just know the aesthetics of the two characters and how they are almost opposites. Anyway hopefully you understand this because its so silly to me

-Snake Anon

considered :3 i think jamil would also keep a diary of 10,000+ instances where azul was mildly irritating.

#i actually do Not like kuromi and my melody i think they are too overhyped #i think azjm could be. stitch and angel though.#thing filled with rage and calmed by the power of friendship and understanding and pink thing that has a siren's song and was flirty before #but then fell for that other thing. and they were both created evil but got better 👍👍👍#but idk i haven't seen lilo & stitch in such a long time #i do think kalim could be lilio but that's off topic now #also i did not change their designs just to make them girls. because azul is already a girl to me.#jamil is agender to me but noooo oneee caaaares #BACK TO THE KALIM TAG I MISSPELLED LILO I WAS THINKING ABOUT LILIA LOL SORRY #um #askbox!#my art :>#doodles #snake anon 🐍#azujami #SORRY I DIDN'T FORGET YOUR ASK THE OTHER DAY I WAS SAVING IT FOR WHEN I FELT UPSET SO I COULD DRAW AZJM AGAIN & FEEL BETTER #didn't work i feel like a hater rn sorry #i'm upset lol #but not at you snake anon never at you 💞💞#twst #yeah i don't feel like this is worthy of me maintagging them

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