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hajar-diamond · 2 months

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hajar-diamond · 2 months

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Pursue your femininity with all your heart.

Ignore the naysayers.

Ignore any desire to fit in.

Don't bother imitating others.

Value your femininity as though it were a flame in a room full of darkness.

Don't make masculinity and masculinization your saviors.

Femininity holds more keys for you.

Learn it, nourish it, nurture it, cherish it and see how your life may change.

And I am not saying a touch of masculinity isn't important in a woman, because balance is always necessary, and sometimes feint masculine energy is essential, however femininity is your forefront.

Never let go of it.

Never throw it away.

Never look down upon it.

Keep moving forward towards accomplishing all of your goals without looking back and make the best use of one of your most essential weapons....

Femininity.

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hajar-diamond · 2 months

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Stop breaking your feminine standards, being authentic pays off.

If you don't like swearing/cussing, don't.

If you like elegant and beautiful clothing , wear it.

If you don't like to wear street wear, don't wear it.

If you don't like vulgarity, don't engage.

If you like to read books read, and don't be ashamed.

Vice versa for everything as well. It's common for some to follow negative influences. If you stick around those people longer than 3 months, you might turn into a totally different person. Everything you didn't want to be.

Don't lower standards, don't belittle your likes and dislikes, keep your standards, say no, or simply don't engage further.

Be who YOU want to be as a feminine woman. We all want to fit in, but don't fit in at your own expense. ✨

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hajar-diamond · 2 months

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Channel your inner femininity.

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hajar-diamond · 2 months

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Stay soft, stay feminine.

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hajar-diamond · 2 months

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Here's why you shouldn't yell to get your point across:

1. Usually will cause the opposite effect. This may cause someone to become more aggressive with you and start yelling back.

2. Causes annoyance and discomfort. Sometimes people when you yell people will focus more on the fact that you are yelling then what you are actually saying.

3. You may have gotten your point across but people's perception of you is more likely changing, and not for the better.

4. When you speak lower, people may try to listen more so they can understand what you're saying.

Of course speaking softly and feminine will usually put you at an advantage. 💕✨

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hajar-diamond · 2 months

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Always keep smiling and be light in your feminine energy.

Don't allow other people to ruin your peace.

Don't allow people to come after how feminine you dress or how feminine you speak.

Don't let negativity control you.

Don't let anger control you.

Stay positive, calm, cool, collected, and of course feminine.

The difficulty of staying feminine can be real with so many negative influences and overall societal judgement, but being a rebel girl and staying truly seductive, feminine, girly, and happily self-sufficient can be highly impacting.

People will notice your feminine charms, manners, lack of vulgarity, and the beauty you've worked hard to build.

Anytime you feel like fitting in, remember that your femininity is great and strong regardless of naysayers.

Always remember your power you've been granted as a woman before anything else.

Stay feminine and see how soft your life may become ✨💕

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hajar-diamond · 2 months

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Don't let people take you out of your femininity.

When people start acting weird around you because you're beautiful, femininely-dressed, and femininely behaving, don't cater to them to make themselves feel better or to fit in.

If you don't dress tacky, love to take care of your appearance, and love to act and be feminine surround yourself in that environment.

and if you don't find that sometimes being alone is better than being around people who influence you to be something you don't want to be and overall destroy all the feminine progress you made because they are insecure or looks down on feminine behavior.

Simply find new friends or associates, don't apologize for being beautiful, feminine, and womanly. Be unapologetically feminine ✨

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hajar-diamond · 2 months

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Personality Enhancement

Reinvent yourself and become your best version. Stop falling for people's mental tricks and games.

A lot of people talk about maxing our your physical appearance, but people don't talk much about maxing out your personality and enhancing it which is even more important than looks.

A great way to improve your personality is to play the game like everyone else. Start by reading books based on improving your social interactions, and observing charismatic, confident individuals either in film, fiction, or real life.

Examine how you are socially.

Do you talk over others/talk too much?

Are you unnecessarily loud?

Are you too quick to anger?

Do you struggle to listen to others speak for long periods?

Are you a bit rude?

Do you rarely smile?

Sometimes, its not how you look, but how you act. We are never properly taught how to socialize with others in modern society, we are expected to naturally learn how to speak to others, however many people in today's era very much poorly socialized BECAUSE of our lack of education.

Sometimes it has to do with where you grew up or the type of language you have grown accustomed to.

Due to these factors it can become difficult to be aware of poor social skills and communication.

Socializing is primarily supposed to focused on the individual you're speaking while still radiating your own personal confidence.

These are key things, sociaizling requires patience, consideration, mild flattery, charm, wit, and most importantly a comfortable vibe.

Sometimes people sense the slightest amount of discomfort and feel less inclined to communicate. Its important to feel like having fun and creating a smile! (without being too much of course).

Improve your ability to socialize and see the amount opportunities you may gain.

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hajar-diamond · 6 months

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Stop breaking your feminine standards, being authentic pays off.

If you don't like swearing/cussing, don't.

If you like elegant and beautiful clothing , wear it.

If you don't like to wear street wear, don't wear it.

If you don't like vulgarity, don't engage.

If you like to read books read, and don't be ashamed.

Vice versa for everything as well. It's common for some to follow negative influences. If you stick around those people longer than 3 months, you might turn into a totally different person. Everything you didn't want to be.

Don't lower standards, don't belittle your likes and dislikes, keep your standards, say no, or simply don't engage further.

Be who YOU want to be as a feminine woman. We all want to fit in, but don't fit in at your own expense. ✨

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hajar-diamond · 6 months

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Dream Schedule:

Wake up at 3-4AM

- pray

- have green tea and water

- pray

- make up your bed

- tidy up your room

- shower

- make a nice high protein high cal breakfast to be slim thick

- exercise for 1-3 hours

- study Arabic, Russian, French, and Chinese

- start your work at home job/business

- read

- invite friends over for tea, cake, and sandwiches

- attend a meeting

- donate

- travel and donate

- stretch, dance, and sing

- journal

- watch something feminine or informative

- take a everything bath/shower + skincare

- put on lingerie/pajamas

- perfume your bed with spray and your body with incense

- have tea and sleeping pills

- put on sleeping mask and rest tight by 9:30PM

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️✨

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hajar-diamond · 6 months

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Make feminine friends, it rubs off on you. Oh and stop copying the bad habits of others. You weren't like that before. 🤍✨

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hajar-diamond · 6 months

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Get the man, but keep your focus on your plans, money, fashion, family, and friends. Stay unbothered and emotionally free. 🤍✨

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hajar-diamond · 6 months

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It's really not a big deal if he cheats. He was never really that important to begin with.

🤍🤍

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hajar-diamond · 6 months

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I love to just wear pretty things and overdress for no reason.

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hajar-diamond · 2 years

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I pray for nicer handwriting like this.

#handwriting #studying #student #studyblr #notes #my writing #writing

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