I hate hate HATE being forced to define my identity by what I’m not (“I’m not a woman”) rather than what I am (“multigender-flux nonbinary transmascfem transandrogyne maverique xenogender and agender”) because people simply refuse to learn what nonbinary means, let alone bother to try to understand any of my other labels. I’ve been out as nonbinary for years, just recently figured out all the other stuff and haven’t come out to anyone about it yet, but even when I only call myself nonbinary most people either can’t or won’t respect that and it’s so infuriating. I never get to define myself by what I am, only by the fact that I’m not a woman because people just refuse to do the bare minimum of googling “nonbinary gender” or whatever and instead just jump to “that’s dumb” or “that’s weird” or “that’s not real” or “there’s only two genders” or whatever and shove me into the woman box, usually go the purpose of sexualizing me despite being fully aware that I’m married.

this is exorsexism.

HAPPY PRIDE TRANS FOLKS

Transneuquasimasc is a label where one identifies as transneutral but has aspects of masculinity in their gender.

Transneuquasifem is a label where one identifies as transneutral but has aspects of femininity in their gender.

Transneuquasiandrogyne is a label where one identifies as transneutral but has aspects of masculinity and femininity in their gender.

Based off of transmascquasifem and transfemquasimasc

Share your piercings!

I really want to get a piercing, and I would love it if it were gender affirming.

So, please share your piercings! Especially if some aspect of them is gender affirming in some way. Share anything you want about them, the more details the better.

Pictures are welcome, please keep them sfw, and describe them if possible.

I also want to encourage people of different genders and gender expressions to participate, that way many of us can get ideas.

(this post is geared twords the trans, non-binary, genderqueer, and adjacent community but everyone is welcome to participate, and help give ideas)

Intersex autistic Transfem, Intersex autistic Transmasc

Intersex autistic Transandrogynous, and Intersex autistic Transfemasc / Transmascfem

Combining these Trans- flags, the Autism Pride flag by Wikipedia user Neurodivergent Elephant (overlaying the two to mix colors) and the Carpenter Intersex flag

Anon requested just the first two but l had a lot of fun and wanted to make some more combos with the colors. Help with ALT text is appreciated!

Taglist - @revenant-coining, @radiomogai

Them: Are you a boy or a girl?

Me: Yes... And no.

hi. may I please ask dysphoric transneutral/transandrogyne people to say something in reblogs/comments so I'll be able to see I'm not alone? maybe even talk a little and follow each other? but it's optional ofc

it was a really hard times for me recently bc of dysphoria and another gender identity crisis. thank you

hey sure!! we can definitely do that for you!

i'm transfemasc, and identify as an androgyne and i am dysphoric. i just wanted you to know that regardless of how you identify, it's totally okay for you to feel uncomfortable in your body and/or presentation. i identify as an androgyne and a hermaphrodite, but i don't really like having breasts ALL the time, and i need my genital situation to be a bit different than it is now for me to feel complete and happy! it can feel fucked up and isolating to feel this way, but i know you're not alone <3

hopefully this will help some and we'll be able to get some feedback from others who feel the same! take care of yourself, good luck out there, stay safe!

Transandrogyne flametail using this flag, perhaps? And also Bristlefrost too if possible!

Yes, there is a difference! Tfemneumasc (no matter the order of the term) is about being transmasc + transfem + transneu. Whereas tfemneuandro (no matter the order) is about being transfem + transneu + transandro

In this case, "andro" would be a combination of masculine and feminine and/or man and woman (in this case, "andro" would not be the same as transmascfem!).

Oohh, that makes sense ! “Andro” as in “androgyne”! Sorry, I confused “andro” with “masc” because “andro” is an affix that means “man”. “Androgyne”, translated in english, would literally be “man-woman”! I would personally propose “-drogy(n)-” as an affix for androgyne gender modalities, that way there would be both some “andro” (man) and some “gyne” (woman) in it. Feel free to call it whatever you want tho, it’s your term !

With that out of the way, here :

transfemdrogyneu / transfemneuandro

[PT: transneudrogyfem / transfemneuandro. End PT.]

A flag for people who are transfem, transneutral and transandrogyne/transandrogynous. Term can be arranged in whichever order the user wishes, as long as the affixes “trans”, “drogy” or “andro”, “fem” and “neu” are present.

[Flag ID: A rectangular flag with 9 stripes of equal width. In order from top to bottom, the colors of the stripes are light saturated blue, dark slightly desaturated purple, light purple, very light pink-leaning purple, very light pink, light beige, very light yellow, saturated yellow, light pink. End PT.]

i know this is not by any means an original concept, but i made some pride flags. the top ones are transfeminine and transmasculine; the bottom ones are transneutral/transandrogyne/etc. the designs consist of the regular trans flag with an extra stripe inserted in the center (pink, blue, purple, yellow, and green) to represent the user’s femininity, masculinity, androgyny, gender-neutrality, genderlessness, etc.

when i say “transmasculine” and “transfeminine” i am referring to self-defined and self-created gender, not assigned sex; these flags represent a person’s trans-ness being entwined with their masculinity, femininity, androgyny, etc, regardless of their chromosomes, natal genitals, or anything else.

i also made a transfeminine flag with the outer stripes swapped, for higher contrast:

SWEET HEART Blinkies

Based off of my sweet themed pride flags

Sweet bi

Sweet pan

Sweet transfem

Sweet transmasc

Sweet transandrogyne

Sweet trasnneutral

Alt Transandromasc + Transandrofem Flags!!

AFAB Transandromasc | AMAB Transandrofem

AFAB Transandrofem | AMAB Transandromasc

Intersex Transandromasc (With Symbol) | Intersex Transandrofem (With Symbol)

Intersex Transandromasc | Intersex Transandrofem

I didn't really like the transandromasc flag I found and I couldn't find any transandrofem ones, so I made my own!

Silly little pub outfit

xe/xem

Transambiguous Pride Flag

Transambiguity or transbiguity (adjectival: transbiguous, transbigue, transambigue, or tramsambiguous): a term used to describe a trans* individual who identifies fully or partially as ambigue or another ambiguous gender; transgender ambiguity/ambiguinity.

My head is being DUMB

as someone who got CONSTANTLY slurred with “dyke” (and many more) in middle school bc I was a gnc presumed-girl who was relatively open about thinking girls are attractive, I just look at all the people telling me that now, as an adult, I can’t self-identify with/as a dyke and reclaim the label for myself just bc I’ve found myself to be a transandrogynous multigender genderqueer exclusively-t4t partnering aroace — aka, not a cut-and-dry, fresh-from-the-mold, exclusively wlw lesbian — I just look at them, and I say: fuck you, I am who I am, and that’s a dyke

yeah!!!!!! good for you, i'm so glad you feel that way! people are so fucked up in their gatekeeping for this slur, they try to leave out a good 85% of the people who are affected by it, but you have every right to use it, and good for you for loudly, proudly being a dyke! genderqueer, transandrogynous, multigender, aroace, t4t dykes forever!