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stbot · 1 year

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♡judgmental girlfriends♡

#jade claymore #kit tanthalos #tanthamore #willow 2022 #willow #willow disney+#losing my absolute mind???#like kit is louder about it but jade is right there with her #so many little moments of them just being totally in sync i love them your honor #bc kit is a mean lesbian and jade is a supportive girlfriend!!#support kit's rights but more importantly her wrongs!!#the lesbians are judging you #i think i need a gif tag #this is mostly just a joke

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bonefall · 4 months

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Anyway. Bi and Mspec Lesbians aren't a hotly "debated" topic or even new to queer culture, it's just the newest thing that bullies who REALLY want to be homophobic and even racist use to justify harassing gay people they don't like.

It's the thinnest possible veneer of progressive language wrapped around TERF and reactionary rhetoric so that they can feel righteous for forming an angry mob against vulnerable targets. If you're gullible enough to fall for the newest wave of bigotry within the queer community, and turn on your allies because they're "confusing" or "invading your spaces," the SAME way they turned on bi/pan labels, trans people, xenogenders, neopronouns, and aroace people before this, then get lost.

#No patience. Wither and rot.#These motherfuckers dogpiled the legend who leaked the no fly list because it identified as the wrong type of lesbian.#They will attack the people doing DIRECT ACTION over dumbfuck label discourse. Deeply unserious people.#Embarrassing to think that there are rubes out there who keep falling for this #For ALL our sakes I hope this is literally their first rodeos and they really haven't fallen for this bullshit twice.#But unfortunately I'm too old to be that hopeful.#I didn't get to see the big ''public block list'' made for us dirty queers who support or are bi/mspec lesbians but I hope I was on it #If a man is best judged by his enemies then exclusionists who echo terf rhetoric are the ones I WANT to have.#And ''public lesbian block list'' is in quotes because if you REALLY thought that such a thing wasn't a ''GO HARASS THESE PEOPLE'' charter-#--then you have a black mold where your brain used to be and it's rapidly eating into the bathroom tile you call a skull #Unironically you should not have a platform if you are THAT stupid or malicious to think it was anything BUT a harassment charter #I hope they're ashamed.#Context for those unaware: a flesh-eating amoeba created a public blocklist for people who supported bi lesbians #Minors and extremely small creators without big platforms were on that list #People got harassed but the most namely was Lockandkeyhyena who had people raiding his server with racial slurs and death threats.#I hope everyone involved sees who their ''allies'' are when they spread that sentiment.#A bunch of people ACTUALLY 'invading someone's space' to post the n-word and suicidebait.#THAT is who you appeal to. Sit with that.

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angstydiaz · 10 months

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can i just say the weird standard people try and hold queer romcoms(and queer media but) in general is so weird

its always "its too juvenile" and "its too wholesome" but then its "this is too sexualised" and apparently queer ppl having sex scenes is automatically "fetishizing". Always "too corny" "too angsty" and dont get me started on people who act like something has to be bad representation just because they didn't like it

"its cringey" it is a fucking romcom bro. like half of the appeal of a romcom is the kinda cringey fun of it all . not your thing? fine go watch something that is,not being the audience for something is fine but god stop acting like one romcom is gonna dismantle the movement for queer rights.

#Since this keeps getting notes pls read:it's not about NOT judging queer media #also but im a cheerleader did not be the campiest lil 90s movie ever FOR SOME OF YOU TO ACT LIKE YOURE BETTER THAN A ROMCOM.#red white and royal blue #crush(2022)#heartstopper #bottoms movie #lgbtq+#gay #lesbian #lgbtq media #first kill #willow 2022 #yellowjackets #WLW ESPECIALLY #but yeah #posts of mine i like #bottoms 2023 #thai bl

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inkskinned · 2 years

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it takes a really long time to unlearn but there's no such thing as "cheating" or "half-assing" being a person. if you need to leave the cabinet doors open, leave them open. microwave your tea. sit down in the shower. buy the eggmaker. use your phone to calculate tip.

it's mostly fake posterity rules. who cares if you microwave your dinners. who cares if you use instant coffee. who cares if you stop watching the show that got boring. we all have a different set of skills and a different life and taking care of yourself is fucking hard.

at the end of your life there will be no final scoreboard. nobody is going to judge you because you brushed your teeth in the shower. there will be no final count of the number of times you had the same meal five nights in a row. there will be no fanfare or party because you won at being a person - and no one will be disappointed that you never understood the point of using paper towels to dry your hands off after washing them.

yeah, in this world, people will put up a fuss. i've noticed some of the biggest fusses are over what you'll put in/on your body. the fact that i will regularly eat deli meat straight out of the bag makes a lot of people genuinely concerned for me. but here's the thing: sometimes that's the only way i'm getting any protein. my doctor says i am doing fine. i'm sticking to my weird snacks and calling it deconstructed charcuterie.

they'll say they're horrified because you take a shortcut. that's fine. it's just that it looks like a shortcut to them because they're on a different life path. these kinds of things stand out to them as important. that's fine too. but for you? you've got other things that already make you pretty hard working. and these tiny things - well, they're just clutter on your journey.

#before any motherfucker is like <3 #''i know more about this and it IS WRONG to do this THING''#shhhhh #unless ur a doctor and a patient has specifically asked... shut the FUCK up dude #one of the ways my life has changed in the last few years is like #taking coffee for granted #isn't something i can do #can you stand up for the entirety of making a meal? i can't always #and having some pompousass person be like #MICROWAVE THE WATER? FOR TEA? like . yeah actually i've been in prison for it ever since #''it tastes different!!!'' cool. it's not going into yOUR body.#i personally don't ever make hot chocolate with water. only ever oat/soy milk #but i wouldn't be like ... SIR. I WILL NOW JUDGE THEE #it's just like ableism all the way down innit #ableism and classism and #the expectation of the mental load as a form of being ''good''#also. besides the like. pots and [redacted medical information]#im doing GREAT actually #>:) i have visible abs even when not flexing #it's bc god prefers me as a lesbian n has rewarded me lately for presenting more openly

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ratective · 6 months

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mandatory redraw of this in the month of halloween

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uncanny-tranny · 9 months

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At some point, I think people have to contend with the fact that misgendering isn't a completely a universally agreed upon concept in the specific sense that misgendering can be very personal.

What may be misgendering to you will not be to other trans people - even if they have the same gender as you. You may be misgendered if somebody used the wrong label to describe you (e.g., somebody calling you "girl," even if it is slang), but that does not mean that that will apply to everybody.

It's important to recognize this because so often, people will say things like, "you can't use this label/phrase/term for any trans person who is a [gender]! And if any trans person who is a [gender] uses those labels/phrases/terms, they're wrong and bad!" and that is simply too broad a generalization.

It's fine to be uncomfortable with certain things like this. It is fine if you don't want to be misgendered, and indeed, I share in that sentiment. However, that does not mean that your comforts and discomforts apply to all trans people or all trans people who share your gender. There's a difference in that, I think.

#trans #transgender #lgbt #lgbtq #ftm #mtf #nonbinary #dysphoria tw #some other trans men do /not/ feel misgendered by being called/labeled as a lesbian/woman/wife and i do! neither of us are bad for that!#some trans women are misgendered by being called 'straight' if they like men! some trans women are misgendered by being called 'gay'...#...when they are attracted to men and neither of those women are bad people/bad women for their desires and who they are #what you do is listen to individuals and what they feel misgenders them and work with them without judging or being shitty to them #do you have to 'get it'? no! but you don't have to be awful about it either #and if it bothers you /so/ much then do both of you a favour and walk away

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cowboy-caboodles · 3 months

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platonic davey/katherine featuring newsbians!! i can’t sleep and i have so much due tomorrow so ofc i’m staying up drawing instead of going to bed </3 😀

#newsies #livesies #davey jacobs #jack kelly #newsbians #javey newsies #poor les never knowing which annoying couple he’s gonna endure for the evening #i don’t CARE that sarah and katherine exist in different newsie universes. i don’t CARE #sarah jacobs #les jacobs #katherine pulitzer #you ever see a lesbian and a gay man who are best friends #and they look like they kill people for fun #like you just KNOW they’re going to judge you and laugh at you together #yeah i love them #they’re so davey and katherine #they have little gossip seshes every time they hangout 🤭🤭#honk shoo mimimimi

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a-wondering-thought · 2 months

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Homoerotic knife sex

#yep...#thats it #thats the post #if you judge me i'll kill you #im just saying what everyone is thinking #okay i need to stop #but you get the point #sam screams into the void #lesbian #gay #lgbtqia

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redsray · 1 month

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and if you kick all the queers out of gotham who will be your biggest cheerleaders, huh, batfam?

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zipmode · 5 months

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post-head stabbing Romaine called that a tossed salad. anyways have some doodles

#zipmode art #baldurposting #bg3 #the dark urge #karlach #gortash #my ocs #romaine l ettis #i loooove durgetash but romaine is a lesbian so their dynamic is just like. romaine hates him slightly less than everybody else #and I think judging by [points at his entire backstory] gortash would see this situation and be like. this is what friends are right. right #anyways. can you tell this is the first time i've actually drawn gortash

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meganechan05 · 7 months

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POV: KingOhger Otome Game but the Rita Route has 2 Rivals.

Difficulty Levels:

Gira ★★☆☆☆ - very friendly. Just dense and is hinted to have something with Yanma or Jeramie depending on choices.

Yanma ★★☆☆☆ - his bad boy behavior tends to make him verbally lash out when embarrassed. Gira, the dense boi he is, tends to interrupt.

Kaguragi ★★★☆☆ - often quizzed on certain topics. Very manipulative. Suzume is your rival bc he's always worrying about her.

Jeramie ★★★★☆ - Low self-esteem so you gotta befriend him. Mistakes makes him pull away easily. Main rival is his best friend, Gerojim.

Rita ★★★★★ - Often avoided by players due to having 2 rivals and they're dense as f-. Actually ends with friendship (bc dense and supposedly taken)

Himeno ★★★★☆ - High difficulty bc of her selfishness and spending more time with the other Kings. Gotta woo her away from Rita. Also has 2 servants constantly getting in the way.

Racles ★★★★★ - Secret route. Must complete all routes and befriend Kaguragi. Suzume is your main rival. Hard to beat because he's not interested in romance.