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furiousgoldfish · 8 months

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Do you have any advice for leaving an abusive family? I just turned 20 and I can't stand living here anymore but I don't know where to start on leaving. I don't have any family or friends I can ask for help or stay with. I just got a part time job and I'm hoping to find another, but it's so hard to focus on work when I have to go home and deal with my family.

You're doing well! If you can gather enough money for rent for some time, and you know you won't be homeless if you leave, you'll be able to keep yourself safe and away. I can only imagine how difficult it is to focus, it's especially hell since abusive parents go out of their way to sabotage stability and to trigger their adult children just when they're trying to focus on work. Still, if you manage to keep a job for a while, and save some money, you'll have the financial safety to leave, and once you do, you'll be able to work it out more easily.

My only advice is to not let anyone know where you are, to keep everything secret as much as possible, to not tell them when you're leaving so they can't sabotage you, to temporarily cut off any person who might pressure you into coming back and to trust your instincts and your decisions. You actually have it in you to make the best decisions for your life. You have what it takes to survive, thrive and be stable. You can do this. All it takes it to have the desire to leave, money for some rent, and to secretly find an apartment, possibly shared to keep the rent low. Good luck.

#escaping abuse #stressful times #it's scariest to leave #then things get better #hang in there anon and you can do a lot of planning in this time #like you can pretend you're going on a trip then mysteriously never appear back #that will give you advantage!!!!#keep your money hidden don't tell anyone how much you got #don't let it be anywhere it can be stolen #keep your card information in your head #my card password was actually stolen from my wallet by a family member #they'll sink down to anything once they realize you're ready to go #but you can do it #they can't sabotage you forever

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bigfatbreak · 1 month

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Birds of a Feather previous / next

#my art #feralnette au #birds of a feather #long tags #sorry I went apeshit in the tags #LETS SAY IT ALL TOGETHER NOW #I - M - A - G - OOOOOOOOO #its fun drawing marinette's back to Alya and having her appear stout and unstoppable and totally logical #and then you see her face and she's like two seconds from completely snapping and is keeping it together by a thread #as a note just because mari feels very certainly abt smth doesnt mean she's right. feelings can be valid and also irrational #in the throes of grief she decided it was better to be alone than to lose someone again so she started pulling away #and lila made pulling away very very very easy to do #shes also vaguely aware she's being unfair in pinning this on alya which is why she started spinning the drain on cockmoth again #legitimately all the shit that's happened to her wouldn't have been so catastrophic if he was never in the picture and she knows it #but the bitterness of her bestie choosing a fantastic liar over her at the worst of times stiiiiiings #alya's personal timing was bad but lila really took advantage of the fact that marinette had been acting off and weird #she basically clocked marinette as being unstable from SOMETHING and made up a lie about her #knowing she wouldn't have the strength to defend herself #between her social life going tachy bc of lila and losing fu in a way that felt like personhood death marinette was really put on the spot #and alya doing her thing of busting in there and assuming her bias is correct was a terrible combo #essentially marinette is highly unstable and alya is just realizing that #busting in and giving her a lecture when she's slightly hysterical and definitely delirious from exhaustion is NOT the way #to show her she's self sabotaging #cuz thats just gonna make her double down on self sabotaging. bc marinette will not accept that she is also a CHIIIIILD

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bruciemilf · 1 year

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One of my biggest pet peeves is the justice league being labelled as " The Avengers of DC" and its like. No? The avengers are law enforcement. The Justice League are volunteers

#its like -- captain america is the staple of US military and Superman is a public servant #the one avenger member who has no bounds or legal obligation is tony and its bc hes rich. you could argue that he actually lost #autonomy when shield recruited him because like. protection isn't necessary tied to 'good.' the avengers protect the planet bc sure #its what they believe in and feel like its their duty and yada yada but ultimately they're self serving and most of their #help is accidental. i say most of bc we've seen they abstain from getting involved unless they have a common interest #with dc its like. you have these people in a position of privilege (having superpowers -- which gives them a spot of advantage to ppl who #dont have it) who do the right thing because they WANT TO. and they can stop at any time because nothing stops them.#they COULD say 'yeah you're on your own. we don't really care anymore. duces!' but they Dont.#because through its many flaws dc realizes that goodness isn't only a choice -- its a responsibility #theres probably better ways to say this but. alas #batman #superman #wonder woman #green arrow #aquaman #the justice league #tjl #justice league #dc #dc comics #text #text post

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jennydolfen · 2 years

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"I'm the peaceful solution guy in this group. So why don't you just start f*** talking right the f*** now?" Handsome 3'3 guy can glower at me all day. (Did that, in fact, all Wednesday while I drew this.)

#peaceful solution guy #critical role fanart #critical role #bells hells #orym of the air ashari #digital art #cr orym #procreate art #angry bean is angry #glower is a feat that give you advantage on your intimidation check #he's just a little guy #why do I love this halfling so much #jenny dolfen

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nelkcats · 1 year

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King and Joker

The bats were confused when Joker announced he gained a companion. His partner (or sidekick) is strong and has too many powers but looks sad. They tried to ask him if something was wrong but he remained silent. Joker liked to call him "The King", but he insisted that he was only "Phantom". The clown didn't care and continue with the nickname.

"King Phantom" tends to ignore when civilians are evacuated, feign ignorance when someone tries to escape, and has offered the bats bandages and medicine a couple of times. But when The Joker is present he becomes completely desperate and aggressive, as if he is fighting for something.

On the other hand, Joker got a completely new weapon, it was a green sphere that produced lightning but Phantom winced every time he saw him use it. On one occasion Tim swore he heard him whisper "Ellie".

Danny was scared, Ellie was unstable and anything he did could be fatal. When he arrived in Gotham looking for her missing core he didn't expect to find it in the hands of a clown. The clown realized that he had something to bribe him (although he didn't know how important it was) and began to order him around.

Danny hated it, he held back most of the time because he was fighting humans, not revealing many of his powers. And he would have killed the clown a thousand times if it weren't dangerous for Ellie. Joker would never break away from the core by saying it was "good luck", and would lock it in a ghost-proof cell, which is probably where he found it originally. The halfa just wanted his the girl back.

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puppetmaster13u · 2 months

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Prompt 251

Danny is tired and annoyed. On one hand, his parents took the whole ‘so I might be slightly dead’ pretty well! Which is good! On the other, they decided to send him and his sisters to their uncle while they take care of the Guys in White and refurbish the house to be, well, him safe. Which meant a ridiculously long flight all the way to New Jersey.

A flight he was pretty sure happened to be illegal what with the fact that neither of them were asked for their IDs or anything despite having them with them. Hm. Y’know he’s not going to question it, he’s getting a nap the moment they get to Uncle Harvey’s.

#DCxDP #DPxDC #Prompts #Harvey & Maddie are half-siblings #Two-Face grumbles but honestly also loves his nephew & nieces (wait he thought they only had one niece-)#Look it’s not the first time Jack & Maddie have broken laws and they’re not gonna let GIW hurt their kids #Danny is going to get an autograph from Poison Ivy for Sam #Jazz is going to get an interview from Harley if it’s the last thing they do #Harvey to Two-Face: We can’t get arrested with the kids plz don’t mess with the bats #Give Two-Face a name challenge #Ellie loves her uncles Harvey & Archie #Danny to Jazz: So we’re not going to talk about how our uncle is pretty much a mafia boss right #Jazz: I don’t think you realize what I witnessed before you were born Danny #Jazz: I’m gonna lay low so I can be a brain surgeon & if we can use this to our advantage we will

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canisalbus · 4 months

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sorry im emotonal and going off of the other asks sent about machete and just i need to stress how beautiful it is to me that machete sees himself so undeserving of love and affection and feeling as if vasco's too good for him but despite all that he is so incredibly devoted to vasco and loving towards him (in his own way) but is so incredibly clear to anyone with eyes that just how in love he is with vasco. like it's not done out of a "oh god please never realize that you're too good for me here here let me overdo it with the affection" its done with the "i love you, and will always love you, no matter what happens to us or separates us, and i will give it to you as long as i am able, and if you ever leave, i won't be okay, but will still love you, and want you happy". like he doesn't use his own feelings of being undeserving taint his love or the way he loves for vasco, and it's so, so beautiful

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#;M;#oauhh #that's so sweet I'm in shambles and so glad to hear all of that #sometimes I worry about whether I'm communicating their chemistry correctly #it would be so easy for this sort of relationship to gain suffocating and possessive and overall just abusive tones #and even though you could argue it would be a source for juicy drama I just don't want that #Machete could selfishly exploit Vasco's care and altruism without giving anything in return #or worse let his paranoia and jealousy get the better of him and end up destroying them both because if he can't have Vasco no one can #and Vasco could leverage his influence over Machete to manipulate and use him because out of them two he's the more mentally stable one #and it would be easy to take advantage of Machete's vulnerability obedience and his trust that Vasco would never harm him #but I don't know maybe it's a bit tropey and idealistic but I really just want these dogs to be genuinely good for each other #they have so many things working against them already I don't wish to see them backstab each other as well #they have a bit of a 'us against the world' thing going on which I really like #they're not perfect there's issues they're trying to work on but the will to get through it together is there #and I want to make it seem like they wouldn't hesitate to prioritize the other one's happiness and wellbeing at their own expense #if it came to that #anwered #anonymous

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wooshofficial · 9 months

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I’m so viscerally upset about how youtube sponsorships these days are coming from actively malicious and harmful companies. Just this week I saw a sponsorship from betterhelp (which has a history of selling patient information) and Opera GX (unsure about GX, but Opera has a history of selling info). Last month I saw a sponsor from Temu (don’t fucking get me started on them) from a YouTuber with a audience of mostly teenagers. I understand YouTubers need to make money and part of that is sponsorship based but just maybe there should be some consideration and research put into the company before accepting the wad of cash and telling people to use malicious software or services. Especially betterhelp. Being sponsored by betterhelp is downright cruel.

#woosh quotes themself #rant #idk why this makes me so angry but it does #well actually I know why with betterhelp. it’s because they KNOW their audience is a vulnerable group and they take advantage of that #Anthony Padilla is a big offender of this considering his interviews are sponsored by betterhelp #when he’s talking to marginalized people. and then tells the audience who are most likely similar to the interviewee #to give their info up to a company that is known for selling it to malicious buyers #and not actually helping #its just. if you have any respect for your audience just fucking say no #you make enough money as is. you don’t need more

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figsandphiltatos · 20 days

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okay im still on my rat grinders/kipperlilly redemption arc bullshit tho. like, jace and porter have been evil since freshman year, they targeted those kids, manipulated them and promised them easy leveling.

plus, brennan makes it very clear that the rat grinders only became obsessed with revenge after they were brought back wrong. when the bad kids find jace's texts about not antagonizing them, brennan makes it clear that all those texts came after spring break.

my question is: did the rat grinders know they'd be killed? did they agree to it? ruben, in his puka shell necklace, was scared when he went to the clearing. when he went to his death. they've essentially formed a cult dedicated to their teacher who has heretical goddamn aspirations. how high control is the group? who's the leader among the rat grinders themselves? i still have so many questionssss

#look. the rat grinders evil plan being so incredibly complicated and dramatic has only made me love them more ngl #like you give me??? noted jason todd apologist a came back wrong narrative?? and i am going to go insane about it #this last episode..... ough #like are the rat grinders to some extent looking for revenge because oisin had a connection to kalvaxus?#did oisin notice manipulate kipperlilly's outlook on the situation because she already thought things were unfair #like no no we don't hate them because they killed the friend of my great great great grandma #we hate them because they had an unfair advantage in that fight?#ugh i don't knowwww but specifically ivy and oisin feel like shit stirrers to me at this point #i just. NEED to know their dynamics #it feels like kipperlilly's 'in charge' but oisin and ivy are pulling the strings #rat grinders #fhjy spoilers #fantasy high junior year #kipperlilly copperkettle #oisin hakinvar #ruben hopclap

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rangersbecket · 9 months

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I can't get over Part 4 of Light Bringer being titled Brothers, and how it ultimately boils down to Cassius connecting and contrasting his two brothers on a deeply personal level.

Lysander, a brother lost, Darrow, a brother regained. one kills him for what he perceives to be the greater good, the other wishes nothing more than to have fought and died by his side when they still had that option. they're faced with the same loss, and Lysander moves past it to secure the solution to his problem (Eidmi), while Darrow would trade the solution to his problem (the ships and Moon Lords) for Cassius.

Lysander gave up his brother for the war. Darrow would give up the war for his brother.

if that doesn't declare loud and clear what they each stand for and who they've become, I don't know what does.

#cassius au bellona #darrow of lykos #lysander au lune #light bringer #red rising #light bringer spoilers #cassius is the center of the universe. to me #darrow would give up the war for one corn chip i know but you know what i mean #i mean victory. his advantage. idk you get it!#sorry if this is all nonsense but i was feeling insane so i had to share #one day i'll be normal again but for now light bringer is the book of all time for me

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loadinghellsing · 2 months

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The moments in which you're reminded Alucard is Vlad, and Vlad is a master swordsman...

...and that Anderson's "technique" is one long multibladed 'fuck you' to all of swordsmanship.

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grumpytrans · 2 years

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no matter how old you get, doing something that is so Right for your gender still hits. like today i found a cologne that smells just like me. like wow, my gender sure liked that. +100 HP

#gives you an advantage stat #gender #trans #transgender #nonbinary #nb #queer #genderqueer #lgbt #lgbtq #gender euphoria #gay #positivity #trans positivity

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theb0nesofmymind · 8 months

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I love getting to know people on here but if you want to get heavy emotions involved just for funsies, don’t fucking talk to me.

If we have been talking for awhile and you wanna admit you have feelings for me, just fucking don’t. Odds are you don’t have the means to move close to me and I DEFINITELY don’t have the means to move anywhere.

Even if you do have the means, guess what.. STILL LEAVE ME ALONE! Unless we are talking 24/7 nonstop and calling/video chatting on the phone, you literally only have the idolized version of myself in your head and EVEN THEN you have no idea what it’s like to actually be around me.

I’m not gonna say that its impossible to eventually meet someone on here that I actually want to be with, but if you care about me AT ALL actually fucking get to know me and be ready to fucking commit before roping emotions into our relationship.

Thank you.

#honestly this goes for anyone getting in a fucking relationship on this hellsite #STOP DOING THIS #THERE ARE PEOPLE LIKE ME THAT WILL GIVE THERE ALL EVERYTIME AND YOU ARE TAKING ADVANTAGE OF THEM #YOU ARE LITERALLY GIVING ME BRAIN DAMAGE #rant fucking over #thebonesofmymind

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moeblob · 2 months

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I am really tired of a situation rn.

#fe three houses #felix hugo fraldarius #me using felix on my angy days because he is my angersona? you bet!#anyway if you want to try to get someones money or something bc you hurt your own car banging into mine #can you try to be a bit more timely with it buddy come on you hit me on feb29 !#why am i getting your insurance company calling me today !#also i would like to point out i didnt do it and neither of us were hurt and i filed a claim with my own insurance comp #and also filed a police report bc he didnt even suggest calling the cops to the scene #so like yeah hey man maybe you and your insurance company can move a lil faster or smth #literally everything that happened the day of is - according to my dad - an intimidation tactic #i look like im 15 and he probably thinks he can take advantage of a new driver but ya know! tough luck!#im just really tired and stressed over multiple things not negative so getting this on top of it was like #bro .................... anyway my phone didnt pick up for some reason so i called back and then nothing got resolved #cause the person who actually called me wasnt around to connect the line to from the guy who answered #idk man just its a lot despite my v minimal energy #got a job interview on monday tho ! and then also next week is an eye exam #and you might be thinking isnt that a good thing to get your eyes checked? you are correct but i am horrified #there are two body parts that give me absolute anxiety and eyes are one of them #and i know my eye sight is declining and im just v anxious #its fine im going to be fine i just have to be anxious about it

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esmiara · 9 months

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What do you mean Chuuya's official character song (Darkness My Sorrow) indirectly refers a few times to Dazai and tells he holds the key to the bird cage that is his world. Wha- why is official content always the gayest and gives the most amazing symbolism??

#skk #the answer is fujoshis i guess #they KNOW skk and sskk are an amazing tool to promote bsd #thus they give us the best gay stuff you'd ever see #but i really doubt at times whether or not it is only an advertising tool when there is stuff like that #especially when companies like hoyoverse doesn't take as much advantage of Haikaveh as Bones does with soukoku #i guess you could say haikaveh isn't THE ship of genshin impact so that's why there isn't as much stuff #but come on hoyoverse don't you want to make money??#do like bsd's staff #give us the gays *slipping a bill in their pocket*#(though dazai is bi)#holy skirt why did i ramble so much in the tags

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puppetmaster13u · 9 months

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More art for @phoenixcatch7 Possessed Doll Au Someone gets to meet Black Bat for the first time- though lets be honest Cass probably spooked someone and then went running to Batdad when they started trying to figure out how she got onto the Watchtower and if she's allowed

#possessed puppet au #possessed doll au #batman au #batman #bruce wayne #cassandra cain #black bat #art #dcu #dc #ibispaintx #I had fun making B hunched over so he doesn't accidentally knock his head or ears on something lol #Cass blends in with his cloak and she uses this to her advantage #Lets be honest the robins are probably also there they're just hidden or takin a nap in the chest cavity lol #Look Bruce doesn't mean to look terrifying he really doesn't seeing as the JL are his allies #But Cass is new to the family and she got spooked and he's going to protect her because this is his current baby of the fmaily #same vibes as a big scruffy cat standing over a kitten mrrring angrily at you lol #Mans brought her up to the Watchtower because he needed to update the computer and figured he could give her a tour #sketch #Let's be honest Cass is probably the first of the kids to earn sedative or paralytic spikes lol #“Father when can I have spikes”#“When you stop losing your arms Dick”#“What about me father”#“When you stop trying to sneak explosives Jason”

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