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wxrmeaterz · 3 days

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"ur hoarding pronouns"

damn right. language is fake, gender is fake, let me exist

#transgender #nonbinary #pronouns #xenogender #trans rights #trans rights are human rights #neopronouns #neopronouns are valid #xenogenders are valid

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lgbtq-userboxes · 18 days

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residenttransguy · 5 months

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Someone going by neopronouns (even ones you don't like) does not mean that you use they/them pronouns instead!

It means that you use the person's pronouns!!

#lgbtqia #lgbtq #lgbtqia+#lgbtq community #lgbt pride #trans #tranagender #transmasc #trans ftm #nonbinary #xenogender #neopronouns #neopronouns are valid

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lemon-penguinn · 3 months

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I'm nonbinary. People, in general, do not tend to see me as a trans person, even though I identify as one.

Everyone usually thinks of me as a girl. A cis girl who has decided to pass herself off as a nonbinary person, or a trans boy, simply because she thinks it's "trendy". A cis girl who wants to be part of a community because she feels lonely. And that's because, by many people's standards, I just "don't look trans", whatever that means. I guess it's simply because my gender expression is not rigid. It changes.

Deep down, I feel like a stereotype: a teenager with a female body who claims to be a boy but occasionally wears dresses and skirts comfortably. In the eyes of others, perhaps, I am nothing more than a cis girl infiltrating trans spaces. I'll be honest: I've cried over this very situation many times, because, what am I to do about it?

Do I have to change and stick to the gender role that is expected of someone like me? Do I really have to change the way I show myself just because I'm not a girl, but I also don't perceive myself fully as a boy?

I think that's ridiculous.

In the end, saying that "if you are nonbinary you have to be androgynous" is something that perpetuates stereotypes and gender roles. It's like telling a trans girl that, to be a real girl, she has to wear a skirt - it makes no sense. Do all girls only ever wear skirts and dresses? Do all boys only ever wear black, loose tank tops?

Of course they don't.

My expression, my tastes, my clothes, my voice, and the way I act do NOT determine my gender identity at all, just like my private parts. Because I believe that gender is a part of us. Not a part of our body, our clothes or our personality. It's true, though, that our gender identity can influence those other things. I think that's why certain actions or concepts make us dysphoric or euphoric: because our gender influences whether we perceive positively or negatively those things that affect us.

But, until the day most of society can understand that gender isn't a rigid set of rules, nonbinary people will remain generally perceived as no more than "girls who want attention" (if we live in a female body) and "weird boys" (if we live in a male body). We do not exist. Breaking out of binarism is seen as a phase that will end once we grow up. Because, apparently, many people think that being nonbinary is something that doesn't exist in the adult world.

#lgbtq community #queer community #queer #lgbtqia #nonbinary #queer discourse #trans rights #transgender #trans nonbinary #gender nonconforming #genderqueer #genderfluid #enby #neopronouns are valid #genderflux

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the-100-percent · 10 days

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All of our pronouns put together :D

He/She/They/It/Hy/Clown/Glorp/Pink/Xe + any neos

Could other systems do this as well it'd be funny to see how many pronouns there'd be lol

-🐤

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thecorvidforest · 8 months

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look i get the spirit but can y’all please stop referring to all people who use neopronouns & xenogenders as “just kids who want to express themselves”? like yeah some of us are kids but a lot of us are adults, myself included, and i’m getting pretty sick of well-meaning allies accidentally insinuating that our gender identities & expressions are childish. thanks

#corvidforest #especially given the amount of us who are autistic #it very much feels like infantilization and i am fucking tired #neopronouns #neopronoun safe space #neopronouns are valid #xenogenders #xenogender safe space #xenogenders are valid #transgender

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solstice-eclipze · 1 year

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♡ ~ Animationmemenostalgic / Animatememenostalgic

⤷ "Animationmemenostalgic is a xenogender identity that's related to animation memes, tweening, animating, meme music/songs, the animation era, 2018/2019 nostalgia, or generally nostalgia overall. This gender could feel musical, bouncy, animated, nostalgic, euphoric, etc."

Coined (made) by me. Add credits if reposted.

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sweaty-confetti · 9 months

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literally in conservatives’ eyes all trans people are the worst kind of trans people. feminine trans guys who don’t go on T or surgery are actually just cis girls fetishizing gay men and are faking being trans for attention. big hairy trans guys with beards and deep voices are creepy mean predatory guys who Mutilated™️ their bodies. hyperfem trans girls with dresses and feminizing surgeries are fetishizing womanhood and are actually creepy sexual cross dressers. masculine trans girls with 5 o’ clock shadows and body hair are disgusting men who invade lesbian spaces and “don’t even make an effort to pass”. nonbinary afab folks are gross girls trying to appear superior to womanhood and nonbinary amab folks are predatory fetishizers trying to invade Real Trans spaces. neopronoun and xenogender folks are nasty cis people misinterpreting transness and cringe gross weirdos. moral of the story is fuck around with gender and fuck around with bigots, because bigots aren’t gonna like you regardless. trying to make your identity palatable and respectable very rarely works, and when it does, it’s able to be revoked the Moment you do something “weird” or “cringe” or “gross.” you can do whatever you want forever and i love you for it.

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spinnysocks · 2 months

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btw you should create and use any neopronouns u want. use them all. become unstoppable

i've been mulling over whether i should use xe/xer or ze/zim or xe/xim blah blah blah for so long that i'm just gonna create them in all the forms i want tbh

#neopronouns #neopronouns are valid #neoprns #xenogender #trans #nonbinary #genderqueer #queer #lgbtq

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neopronouns-list · 4 months

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May I please have some constellation-related neopronouns?

of course, of course! these might drift slightly into general space-themed, but only slightly, hopefully! (: also i WOULD have made a list entirely out of the names of constellations, but those get long. so if anyone wants specifically constellation names pronouns,, shoot an ask!

they are under the cut ! ↓ change them as you wish o7

constellation/constellation/constellations/constellations/constellationself

con/conste/constelle/constellations/constellationself

stella/stella/stellas/stellas/stellaself

ste/stella/stellas/stellas/stellaself

star/star/stars/stars/starself

sta/star/stars/stars/starself

zodiac/zodiac/zodiacs/zodiacs/zodiacself

zo/zodi/zodiac/zodiacs/zodiacself

zodi/zodia/zodiac/zodiacs/zodiacself

astro/astro/astros/astros/astroself

as/astro/astros/astros/astroself

astral/astral/astrals/astrals/astralself

as/astra/astral/astrals/astralself

cassiopeia/cassiopeia/cassiopeias/cassiopeias/cassiopeiaself

ca/cassio/cassiopeia/cassiopeias/cassiopeiaself

cassio/peia/cassiopeia/cassiopeias/cassiopeiaself

dipper/dipper/dippers/dippers/dipperself

di/dipper/dippers/dippers/dipperself

cosmic/cosmic/cosmics/cosmics/cosmicself

co/cosmi/cosmic/cosmics/cosmicself

cos/cosmic/cosmics/cosmics/cosmicself

space/space/spaces/spaces/spaceself

celestial/celestial/celestials/celestials/celestialself

ce/celes/celestial/celestials/celestialself

cele/celestia/celestial/celestials/celestialself

#-moth #another ask over two years old !#did you know that the word constellation literally means 'stars that gather' or smth like that #co(n)- prefix means together; -stella- is the latin word for star; -tion is the suffix used to form nouns from verbs #ETYMOLOGY WOOOO #constellation is such a latin word (all three parts of it are very very latin based. which makes sense.)#(if a word had a greek prefix and a latin suffix??? id simply die okay)#okay thats enough etymology rambling #neopronouns #neos #pronouns #lgbtqia #neopronouns are valid #neopronouns list #constellation neopronouns #star neopronouns #how to tell im an orv fan: the fact that i was visibly restraining myself from going insane as i was making these

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lgbtq-userboxes · 18 days

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bishopsxenosandneos · 4 months

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Kallamargender is a xenogender relating to Kallamar from Cult of the Lamb. Term coined by me and flag by me

Pronouns:

Crystal/Crystals, Kallamar/Kallamars, Water/Waters, Anchor/Anchors

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spongewormedpants · 8 months

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My first serious post because I'm pissed off and tired <3 "Neopronouns make no sense." Shut up challenge (HARD)!!

Firstly, yes they do! Pronouns are literally like nicknames so you don't have to say a person's name every time you address them. Neopronouns are the SAME exact thing, just replacing the pronoun with the word of another person’s choosing.

Secondly, you don't need to understand how somebody identifies to respect them. All it takes is...

Human Fucking Decency<33

Another thing, I hate when people say that neopronoun-users are a 'joke' to the trans community.

Let people live, man. If somebody feels more comfortable using bug/bugs pronouns, WHO CARES! How somebody else chooses to identify is none of your business! If you don't care to educate yourself, I'm sure many neopronoun-users would agree, don't interact! It's that simple :)))))

#neopronouns #lqbtq #lqbtqia #transgender #trans community #neopronouns are valid #i'm so fucking tired of people spewing bullshit about MY pronouns #get a life fuckwad #leave me alone #go get a job or something

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jaxonblogging · 1 year

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I don’t need to explain or justify to people why I use it/it’s pronouns CONSTANTLY.

They are not insulting or dehumanising to me personally.

They help me express my strange little autistic feelings about myself and gender.

#neopronouns #xenopronouns #xenogender #actually autistic #autistic #autistic feels #autistic culture #autistic problems #being autistic #pronouns #neopronouns are valid #it/its #it/he #intersex

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steakout-05 · 4 months

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(quick clarification: this post is specifically about neurodivergent transmeds refusing to use people's neos out of an apparent disrespect and using their neurodivergence as an excuse to legitimately be mean. feel free to add more stuff onto this in the replies!)

hey guys don't mean to be queer on main but i think people using their neurodivergency as an excuse to misgender people isn't ok actually.

i've seen stories of quite a few people who use the fact that they have ADHD (or some other condition that may cause memory issues) and can't remember things well as an excuse to "forget" someone's neopronouns, even after being asked by that person multiple times to refer to them with those pronouns. this isn't ok on so many levels.

first of all, i think it's incredibly guilt-trippy to make someone feel bad about accidentally being ableist by expressing themselves, when in reality, they haven't done anything wrong at all. using funky and obscure pronouns is not ableist in any way just because some people might have issues remembering them, and i think the take that neopronouns are ableist, especially for that reason, is an incredibly ridiculous and purely situational excuse to be mean.

that's like if someone told you their name, and then you got mad at them for using that name because you struggle to remember it and you demanded them to use a name that's easier and more convenient for you to use, rather than the name that the other person feels comfortable with. that's not an accommodation, that's just being an asshole.

second of all, some neurodivergent people (such as autistic people for example) struggle with change and complex concepts like language and pronouns. it's hard to get used to using neopronouns or someone changing their pronouns sometimes, especially when it happens for the first time because you're so used to it. however. finding change hard is NOT an excuse to misgender someone for your own comfort. someone's deeply personal identity should not be the cost of your own convenience, and refusing to acknowledge and respect that identity by not doing the bare minimum that is using their pronouns is incredibly close-minded and harmful.

third of all, the way someone chooses to express themselves is literally none of your business. someone uses pronouns that are confusing and seem grammatically incorrect to you? none of your business. someone's using "stereotypical" pronouns that "make the queer/autistic community look silly"? not your problem. we're all a little silly.

if you're neurodivergent and you find neopronouns, or any pronouns, difficult to remember or understand, here are some tips you can try instead of being mean:

make a fun little chart of people's names, their pronouns and how to pronounce them (ex. Name | Pronouns | Pronounce)! colour code them, use stickers and drawings, anything that will help you remember which pronouns someone uses. stuff like whiteboards and docs can work well for people who frequently change their pronouns or have a lot of them. making the chart fun, personalised and memorable can help a lot with memory issues for a lot of people.

try practising saying or typing their pronouns, whether that's in the mirror or in group chats. there's some really good pronoun dressing room websites that help illustrate how to use more obscure pronouns in conversation.

feel free to ask people! if you can, ask them what their pronouns are and how to pronounce them. i'm sure they will not be mad and will gladly help you learn :) (though please remember to not out someone and their pronouns if they are in an unsafe place. make sure they feel comfortable first before asking/telling someone about their pronouns because some spaces can be really bigoted and unsafe unfortunately.)

make a character that has neopronouns! making an OC that you get attached to can help you familiarise yourself with the concept and referring to that character frequently with their pronouns!

hopefully this is helpful. if you end up seeing anyone in the neurodivergent community use their neurodivergence and an excuse to misgender someone, please block them and don't start an argument. bigotry will not be tolerated in this community or on my blog.

disclaimer: this post is NOT saying that having memory issues/issues with change makes you a bad person, nor does it make you intentionally ignorant and rude. this post is specifically about people who willfully refuse to respect and use someone's correct pronouns on the basis that they're neurodivergent and find them confusing, and choose to intentionally misgender people for their own comfort/convenience.

edit: also!! i should add that this post isn't saying that nd people who legitimately find neopronouns as a concept difficult to grasp (such as people with learning disabilities) are bad people either! that was something i didn't think of when writing this because this post is more about neurodivergent transmeds/transphobes i've seen in the queer and nd communities specifically, but yeah!! i think accommodations absolutely should be made if a neurodivergent person finds themselves having communication difficulties related to neopronouns because some disabled people actually cannot use them. for extra clarification i have added a disclaimer at the beginning of this post. (thanks to @zolf for pointing this out in the notes)

#neopronouns #neopronouns are valid #neopronouns are cool #do not derail #do not start discourse #neurodivergent #if i see a single one of you be a bigot in my notes i'm gonna steal your eyelids #truscum dni #transmed dni #terfs dni #transphobes dni #remember: if anyone tells you to change your pronouns for their own comfort when you dont want to dont listen to them #in the words of spacedadsupport: tell them ''captain picard said i don't have to listen to you''#i don't usually make posts like this but i felt incredibly compelled to write this #it means a lot to me and i don't see a lot of people talk about this specifically #and as a neurodivergent person myself (autism anxiety and adhd) (the three AAAs)#i feel disappointed that some people in my community and neurotype are being this bigoted for no real reason.#labels and pronouns are NOT for you to dictate and force onto someone else. no questions asked.#labels are descriptive not prescriptive #i might actually get harassed for this #and if that happens i will gladly turn off reblogs and replies for a time and block all the self-admitted bigots #but i just want people to know that if they feel comfortable in harassing a random 17 year old on tumblr #then they should feel incredibly ashamed and disappointed in themselves and what lead them up to that point 🙃#anyway yeah neopronouns are awesome and people who use them are epic!#i will be back on my usual shitposting bullshit tomorrow maybe

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solstice-eclipze · 1 year

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♡ ~ Maxwellspinnic / Maxwellspingender

⤷ "Maxwellspinnic is a neurogender, xenogender identity related towards stimming, maxwell the cat, cats, positive stimulation, one's hyperfixation over maxwell the cat, stimming from maxwell, spinning, music, etc. This gender could feel cat-like, positive, musical, stimulated, euphoric, etc."

Coined (made) by me. Add credits if reposted.

All hate will be deleted. Antis DNI.

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