i don't feel nearly as ashamed or hesitant to talk about my queer tgirl attraction to men as my tguy brothers would feel talking about their attraction to women
obligatory "if you're a trans guy and your attraction to women is het, that's real and okay! your trans experience isn't a monolith and other trans people being different doesn't make you different or wrong"
like, think about it: hardly anyone bats an eye when a tgirl uses grindr or calls herself a faggot, but as soon as a man calls himself a lesbian, everyone gets on his ass. anything for an excuse to shit on lesbians, i guess. it makes me angry that nobody sees this hypocrisy or these ties back to the lesbian separatism that infected the community post-70s. it's not gone, it never went away
this isn't exactly profound news to anyone who gives a shit about lesbian history. just something i find interesting
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amab nonbinary lesbians. one million kissy attack at YOU!!!!
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If you start your debate with "bigender people who identify as both male and female aren't men they're bigender" you do not in fact support multigender people's identities
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Ace(spec)s and aro(specs): hey romance and sex are TWO DIFFERENT things! Romantic and sexual attraction are different! It's extremely harmful to our community/communities to say they are the same. Aces can love without sex/without feeling sexual attraction and aros can have sex without it being a romantic thing/without feeling romantic attraction and that's fine!
Exclusionists online: um it's acephobic to use the split attraction model if you're not aspec btw. Your romantic and sexual orientations have to be the same. I am a good aspec ally.
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solidarity symbol between misunderstood and complex labels.
bi straight, bi gay, bi lesbian, gray asexual.
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Exclusionists will be blatantly bigoted and then turn around and claim that the pan lesbian they sent death threats to is the true danger to the community 💀
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The terms "bi lesbian" and "lesbian man" are older than y'all think but none of you are ready for that conversation yet
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happy international lesbian day to aspec lesbians trans lesbians nonbinary lesbians intersex lesbians mspec lesbians lesboys straight lesbians bigender lesbians he/him lesbians butches femmes studs dykes et al! we are so kewl
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VAMPIRE LUNIAN / MSPEC LESBIAN | VAMPIRE BILES | VAMPIRE OMNILES
[PT: vampire lunian / mspec lesbian, vampire biles, vampiren omni les.]
VAMPIRE POLYLES | VAMPIRE PANLES | VAMPIRE ABROLES
[PT: vampire polyles, vampire panles, vampire abroles.]
— vampire themed mspec lesbian flags! can be used by any mspec lesbian who has any connection to vampires, although these were made with vampirekins, individuals with psychosis, & systems in mind
— based off of this lunian flag, this biles flag, this omniles flag, this polyles flag, this panles flag, & this abroles flag; image ids in alt text
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Hey mspec monos! Why do you identify as mspec mono?
Nothing serious about this poll, I'm just curious (personally I'm abrosexual and on the SAM)
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Made YET another edit of this meme
(Image ID: An edited image featuring three pikachus holding either strop signs or rainbow flags and floating text. Part of this meme has been edited out in black with white text added. The text reads "it's "june" which mean it's Time for a reminder that the original version of this meme is incredibly aphobic and ignores the existence of trans and nonbinary people too. Straight aspecs, straight trans folks, straight intersex folks, straight nonbinary folks and heteroromantic gays/lesbians/mspecs exist as well and are still queer. Queer =/= nonstraight. Happy Pride Month yall!". There is also an arrow and black text which reads "And vice versa!". End ID)
I made a typo in the meme but I can't be assed to fix it lol.
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"how can you be bi and a lesbian that doesn't make any sense" it's called multitasking next question
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𝔐𝔶 𝔱𝔞𝔨𝔢 𝔬𝔫 𝔞𝔫 𝔞𝔲𝔱𝔦𝔰𝔱𝔦𝔠 𝔩𝔢𝔰𝔟𝔦𝔞𝔫 𝔣𝔩𝔞𝔤
My take on an autistic lesbian flag
[ID: two different versions of a rectangular flag with seven horizontal stripes. The left version has a black infinity symbol on it, which is a commonly used symbol for autistic people. The stripes, from top to bottom: dark red, red, pastel yellow, white, pastel yellow, turquoise-ish blue, dark turquoise-ish blue. All the colors, aside from the yellow and white, are dulled. End ID]
I wanted to make an autistic lesbian flag, as I kept coming across flags made by exclusionists (and didn't really connect with the ones that weren't made by exclusionists).
This flag was made to include all autistic lesbians, therefore it is for anybody who identifies as a lesbian for any reason: lesboys, gaybians, mspec lesbians, straightbians, he/him lesbians, etc are allowed in this flag as long as they're autistic. If you're not okay with that, go cry to your exclusionist friends, snowflake :3
Edit: Oh also self diagnosed are allowed to use the flag as well because the validity of your autisticness should not be measured by what an allistic person says on a piece of paper. <3
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'Safequeer' mfers when people are queer in a way they don't like:
[GIF ID: a toy decor skeleton getting absolutely eviscerated in a blue shredder with silver blades. Said skeleton looks like it's thrashing and flailing about as it slowly gets consumed. End ID]
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Reminder that supporting lgbt people means supporting ALL lgbt people. If there's a "but" in your inclusion, you are in fact not supporting the community, you are buying into right wing "no weirdos" propoganda
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